Sacred Alchemy of Love: Law of Attraction and Sacred Sexuality in Divine Partnerships

Sacred Alchemy of Love: Law of Attraction and Sacred Sexuality in Divine Partnerships

by | Mar 19, 2024 | Sacred Sexuality, Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Spirituality | 0 comments

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In this insightful conversation, we explore the powerful interplay of the Law of Attraction and sacred sexuality within divine partnerships.
Discover practical strategies to magnetize your life partner or elevate your existing relationship to a divine union.
Gain profound insights into healing toxic relationships, breaking free from karmic patterns, and removing blocks that may hinder your journey towards lasting love and happiness in intimacy.
Don’t miss this opportunity to unlock the secrets of sacred alchemy and embrace a path of profound connection and personal growth.
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Twin Souls Orgasms

Twin Souls Orgasms

by | Oct 3, 2020 | Pussy Power: Yoni Awakening Tips, Sacred Sexuality, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Priestess Lifestyle, Twin Flame Signs, Twin Flame Spirituality | 0 comments

Twin flames can and often do experience transformational events as during the sexual union, the body and soul are involved making love and desire greatly amplified.

Since twin flames are a mirror of your ownself, both have the same energies. Once they engage in sexual acts, they exhange everything: thoughts, feelings, intentions, love, energy, knowledge, and memories. Once you and your twin flame is ONE, there will be no privacy, you’ll be an open book to your twin.

Every time one of the twins has an orgasm or ejaculates, the other feels its effects within himself or herself. This is something that gets stronger the further they get into their relationship and the more spiritual the person gets.

Get to understand more what are the types of orgasms you can explore and what does it do.

10 Different Types of Orgasms

Keep in mind that there are as many types (infinite types!) of orgasms–as many as there are stars in the sky. 

The Yoniverse is abundant and each orgasm you’ll ever have will hold its own unique signature. However, we’ve compiled a list of the most common ones we hear about and have experienced for your orgasmic inspiration! 

Female Ejaculation

  • Aka squirting, however, technically “real” female ejaculation is the release of a thick and whitish fluid from the female prostate, while “squirting” or “gushing,” is the release of clear fluid from the urinary bladder. Confusingly, but a lot of people use the terms interchangeably so here it can refer to either unless otherwise noted.

Clitoral

  • A clitoral orgasm has a definitive build, a clear climax with pelvic contractions, and then a feeling of descent. It’s similar to a penile orgasm due to the 8,000 nerve endings that congregate there.
  • The biggest mistake of a clitoral orgasm is going straight for it… Have your partner (or you if it’s DIY) play with your breasts, your body, your hair, your labia, and everywhere and don’t just dive into dessert first every time! The problem is that it can be tempting to only focus on the clit, especially if other types of orgasms are more difficult to access.

Vaginal

  • According to a study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. Achieving vaginal orgasm usually requires a woman to have longer penetration sessions without cumming, according to a study in The Journal of Sexual Medicine. If you want to last longer, you can try switching sex positions often i.e. vaginal, clit, breast, etc.
  • Keep in mind that about 75% of all women never reach orgasm from intercourse alone — that is without the extra help of sex toys, hands or tongue. And 10 to 15 percent never climax under any circumstances. Though I’m a believer that almost anyone can shift this if she wants.

G-spot

  • Sexual stimulation of the G-spot leads to swelling of a dense blood vessel network in the urethra area and is connected with the clitoral nerves. That’s why clitoral stimulation will warm up the G-spot too. Female ejaculation or squirting often happens while while stimulating the G-spot

U-spot

  • This kind of female orgasm comes from the stimulation of a small area of sensitive erectile tissue located in a small area between the urethra and the vagina. That’s just above and on either side of the urethral opening. This spot can be stimulated by a toy, finger, tongue, or the tip of the penis in the same way you treat the clitoris.

Breast

  • Breast stimulation and massage can give you a natural lift and implant by up to %25 the pleasurable way! The nipples connect to nerves in the female genitals and many women feel a direct connection with their clitoris when their nipples are stimulated. While not all women can have breast-only Os some can.

Full body orgasm

  • During a full body or essentially other type of orgasm, our brains are also flooded with oxytocin, aka the “bonding hormone,” a chemical that makes you feel connected to your lover and with the Universe. Most women would agree that to have a full body orgasm, we need to feel connected to ourselves, our lover, and to the Creator to then go even deeper.

Cervical

  • The cervix is the deep center of the vagina. A cervical orgasm is more along the lines of a “full-body orgasm,” or an expanded orgasm. The build is less linear as in the clitoral O. While there is an increase of pleasure, where you feel it spread all over your body and then explode into waves you feel from your head to your toes.

Mental

  • According to researchers, observing brain chemistry associated with female arousal supports the fact that we can come without being touched at all. This involves a combination of fantasy and breathing to reach orgasm without touch, while others prefer to use pelvic floor exercises and more imaginative romantic scenarios.

Soulgasm

  • Aka astral sex. What we can experience when we’re tapped into our Higher Self, which is what Twin Flame Love is all about. This is where the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine merge into one world. It’s a space of cosmic conception where in a sense your womb and entire body becomes a vessel for the Sacred union of the beloved with God/one love.

Conclusion

Every time the twin souls orgasm and think of each other, the closer to each other they become. The arousal of one is felt in the other. Through passion and sexual arousal the twins call each other. It is like beams of light traveling through the ether to the other person. The more spiritual the twins become, the more they will be able to perceive of each other. They will be able to see each other’s very souls. Twin flame sexual energy never dies, and it grows stronger with time.

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1111 Meaning for Twin Flames & the Spiritual Awakening

1111 Meaning for Twin Flames & the Spiritual Awakening

by | Nov 6, 2018 | Divine Feminine Awakening, Twin Flame Energy Updates, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Spirituality, Uncategorized | 0 comments

Hi Twin Flame Lover!

It’s me again, Dr. Amanda Noelle, the Twin Flame Matchmaker, helping badass spiritual bachelorettes align with their ultimate beloved so they can not only enjoy epic, ecstatic lasting love, or perhaps birth a starchild or two, but also so they can live on soul purpose and assist in the awakening of humanity!!!

First I’m going to share the numerologic meaning behind 1111, and then how 1111 relates to Twin Flames and the spiritual awakening process. At the very end I’ll give you a sneak peek on the energy and astrology update for 11/11/18…

 So, what is the numerologic meaning behind 1111?

And what does it have to do with Twin Flame energy and the spiritual awakening process?

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Before we dive into the training, I wanted to share with you an exciting global event that’s happening on 11/11/18…We’ll be tuning in on live-stream from Bali, the place I married myself on 11/11/11!

Join us live online for a FREE Twin Flame Global Activation on 11-11-18…you’ll receive:  
– A content-rich educational talk about the meaning of the numerology and the impact of the Twin Flame 1111 Codes
– Get a karma clearing on whatever no longer serves you & your Twin Flame Union- Plus you’ll receive a guided meditation to awaken your energy for this shift on 11/11 on an 11 year

-And a potent Twin Flame 11/11 activation channeled by myself Dr. Amanda and my beloved Jack to activate your Twin Flame DNA, awaken your soul purpose, and magnetize your ultimate beloved 

-Plus we’ll gift you some awesome FREE STUFF: tips, meditations, perks, and bonuses from Aphrodite University!

-You’ll also have a few minutes to ask us any questions you have how to call in your Twin Flame fast, at the end!

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Back to the meaning of 1111…

We first need to ask “WTF are numbers?” in the first place!  Otherwise, we’re missing a step…

Pythagoras, the ancient Greek philosopher you’ll remember from high school geometry and and history class while you were distractedly checking out that hot guy or gal from across the room, well Pythagoras knew that numbers hold vibration in this mathematically perfect universe that is built from geometry, law, and Spirit.

Numbers hold a primordial, divine VIBRATION.

They can be used as keys to do good, or to cause harm. They are merely tools, keys—or codes.

Numbers can be used to create “new” codes—vibrations and realities made up of universal life force energy…

Numbers are not mere digits you want to get from some cute girl or guy up in the club!

Numbers are the code of the universe, that can write worlds within worlds–they create sound, light vibration, and color.

In fact, speaking of color, each number corresponds to a color, a sound, a vibration, a chakra in the body, a time in history, a point in your yoni or lingam, as everything corresponds to everything else in this Divine Holographic Universe we call WTF is this place, get me outta here!

Truly, the Universe is all about relationship between numbers and patterns.

The base numbers of creation are:

0 and 1.

You and the Universe alike are made up of two tiny numbers, and you are bonded through the One and the Zero Point!

Ones, and zeros folks, that’s the simple ingredient list in this recipe called life, love, light, and the Universe!

OK.The 1s represent the Sacred Masculine (Yang), and the 0s represent the void, the Sacred Feminine (Yin) in the Chinese tradition.

Everything is made up of yin and yang, dark and light, ones, and zeros. We are all One.

To understand the power and meaning of the number sequence 1111, we first have to understand how Creation works.

In the beginning there was nothing. Zilch. Nada…ZERO!

From zero, we get nothing but a big black vortex, a hole, a giant yoni in the galaxy…We can call this, The Yoniverse (for those of you who don’t know, a yoni means Feminine Temple, womb or “Pussy” (which is NOT a bad word at all, the etymology dates back to Ancient Egypt where Puss came from Pasht, or Basset the feline spirit guide of the Great Mother, Isis.

And then, out of nothingness womb, something was born. For there must be something for there to be no-thing! The Universe births itself from itself. Energy cannot be created nor destroyed, remember?

Therefore, the Holy Hole, that Holy Grail, or Holy No-thingness of ZERO birthed the concept of some-thingness. It was then that we went from zero to one, and Sacred Feminine to Masculine. And the circle came to be the line.

The masculine phallus, or lingam.

Thus, from the Sacred Feminine Yoniverse there had to be the Sacred Masculine Universe, and they came from each other, and come into each other, like the symbol of the serpent eating itself or birthing itself from its own tail/yoni/lingam.

The entire Universe that ever can will and did exist, and all at once, in every combination has existed through this sequence of 1s and 0s. There truly is nothing we have not already experienced in the combination of infinite codes.

When we see 11:11 over and over it means a few things.

One, is that you’re waking up. Smelling the spiritual coffee so to speak.

Two is that you’re in alignment…with something.  Not necessarily your ultimate Twin Flame. But it is a sign to pay attention to saying “you’re on the right path.”

Three, it means “Pay attention to your thought.” One of the meanings of 11:11 is that the Universe is communicating with your thoughts, which are in alignment. This sequence can mean that your thoughts will manifest almost instantly in your physical reality.

Four, 11:11 (as well as 1:11) is a message from your angels. Your angels are sending you love and guidance, and are reminding you to pay attention to your thoughts

So make sure that you are focusing on the things that you want, and not the things that you don’t want.

And five it means that there is a masculine energy aligning with your feminine energy. A yin-yang, Twin Flame balance.

For behind each one is a zero. The 11s can’t align without zeros at the base. Remember, the Universe is represented by the infinite arrangement of codings of 1s and 0s.

The Zeros represent Feminine Love, or wisdom.

The 1s represent Masculine Light (or consciousness/knowledge). The Sacred Union between zeros and 1s brings an alignment of the 1s in 1111. Light is the Sacred Geometry master, coder, or architect aligning the mathematics. But the Feminine Love is like the glue that brings it all together, and this is felt or emoted, not intellectualized.

So the light cannot do it alone, no matter how much he thinks he can.

Behind every great Master is a great Priestess; similarly, behind every great One is a great Zero, which is why we must balance Masculine Though with Feminine Heart and surrender to the Union once we have found our balance.

Now, more specifically, how does 1111 relate to Twin Flames?

Well, some believe that the Temple of the Twin Flames was originally known by the name the Temple of Solomon.

The Temple of Solomon means Temple of Sun and Moon, representing the Masculine Light (sun/Christ Consciousness) and Feminine Love (moon/Mother Womb) coming together to birth a Christed Child (awakened human).

The Template of Solomon was built in the shape of the human body.

Like Da Vinci’s Vitruvian Man, the Temple of Solomon serves as a map comprised of specific codes, perfectly measured proportions known as sacred geometry, and was packed with occult symbolism. This was all devised to help humanity awaken, to build a better brain, and to bring the Twin Flames together.

The Temple of Solomon, or the ethereal version which we call the Temple of the Twin Flames is a gateway to Higher Consciousness and spiritual mastery that aligns your Feminine and Masculine in union, so that Heaven and Earth may become one…

The Twin Flame mysteries were embedded into the temple and used as keys, codes, and templates built into the Temple of Solomon in Jerusalem, which was passed down from earlier mystery schools from Atlantis through Northern Africa and Asia Minor using the Sun, Moon, and Flame Worship.

These secrets then got passed onto the masons of the time who studied and built the architecture and performed initiations within mystery schools. The masons were both temple builders and alchemists, philosophers, and High Priestesses and High Priests who kept their secrets to protect the knowledge, but some kept the secrets to build their wealth.

Unfortunately, greed always leads to wars, haves and have-nots, and we I believe that many so called powerful modern day Freemasons have learned how to use ancient occult tools for good, but some have gotten lost in evil which played out into the Patriarchal era which cut off the head of the High Priestess and shut down the 3rd eye in the majority of the populace, calling it a sin. This was enforced in all religions across the globe, creating a flock of sheep, in all but the elite.

But at the center of your head lies the jewel–the pineal gland. It is ready to be activated and the 1111 codes can help with this as well.

The pineal gland is a key player in aligning with, attracting, and keeping your Twin Flame Union.

We all have different abilities to access our 3rd eye vision at the pineal gland–an open gland allows us to see the truth from the Divine Perspective… Each Twin has 1 gland, and together these create two eyes of our Twin Soul Body.

In order to open the eyes to the God’s Eye level, each twin must individually work on herself, and then come together. This individual work includes keeping the temple body in alignment – calm enough, clean enough, balanced enough, and the chakras/energy clear, as well as the mind in a state of balance and gratitude. Perhaps even joy and excitement! We must also bring alignment into all aspects of our lives, representing each chakra.

So many spiritual people have misaligned and abused root chakras, and many powerful wealthy people have weak upper chakras. True Twins do the work to become powerful in all 11 Twin Flame Chakras. The 7 chakras of the body, the Earth Star or Gain Chakra Below, and the 4 Transpersonal Chakras above the body. THat adds up to 12, but 0-11 is 12 chakras! These are all mapped out in the Kabbalah Tree of Life, in the Temple of the Twin Flames

We use the acronym FLAME: feminine love aligned with masculine energy! Where the pink love combines with blue light (energy) to create the Violet Flame.

Archangel Zadkiel calls the Violet Flame the flame of joy that flows with the Holy Spirit as it awakens humanity and frees every particle of energy that it touches. We’ll be doing an 1111 Twin Flame Activation at the ceremony that utilizes the Violet Flame, so stay tuned for that.

Twin Flame energy as symbolized as the 1111 Codes is the type of energy that can heal world wars, nuclear disaster, and dark control forces. Not because 1111 is all light. It’s because it is the BALANCE of light and love, with dark and fear. 1111 is a number of alchemy, courage, triumph, and also surrender.

Remember, These Twin Pillars are part of the Kabbalah Tree of Life–the pillar of the feminine is called the pillar of mercy and the pillar of severity. They share an central third pillar – the Pillar of Balance, representing the Twin Flame Union, and a balanced left and right brain.

A vedic text  Taittiriya Upanishad Says “Where the skull divides there lies the Gate of God.”  Imagine swimming in the central main chapel, the chapel of the flames where there is water and fire together.

It is in the central chapel that we can bridge our 2 physical DNA strands… That is, the stands science can see that is not the Higher-Dimensional based DNA. The higher dimensional DNA If you count  0-11, you get 12.

Thus, the number 11 becomes a symbol of the 12 strands which align with the 12 chakras. I call this the 11 Chakras and 11 strands of DNA. They also correspond to the 11 balls on the Kabbalah’s Tree of Life (Sephiroth) and the 12 tarot cards.

We’re so excited to see you at the global Twin Flame DNA activating event that’s happening on 11/11/18…An 11 year!

Register now to join us live on 11/11 where you’ll:  

– Learn more about the meaning of the numerology and the impact of the Twin Flames ’11 /11 Codes

– Participate in a karma clearing ritual on whatever no longer serves you & your Twin Flame Union

– Get a guided meditation to awaken your energy for this shift on 11/11

And my beloved Jack and I will  do a Twin Flame 11/11 channeling aimed to activate your Twin Flame DNA, awaken your soul purpose, and magnetize your ultimate beloved! Truly it’s meant to align you with whatever your heart desires, so start dreaming up your Twin-intentions!

 

On the 11/11 gathering, you can ask us any questions you have how to call in your Twin Flame fast–so start thinking up some good questions 🙂

Reserve your spot now!

Here is the astrology happening on 11/11 2018:

The Sun in Scorpio is sextile Pluto in Capricorn. This lends to dramatic long-term personal changes that involve commitment and focus can be a start of a positive path of development. This is a good time to conceive a new business project, love commitment, or perhaps even a baby!

11/11 is an opportunity to find what you really want from life and go for it with heart, 100%. Utilize your inherent strengths and delegate the rest to those here to support you, perhaps even your other half.

Then I will see you on 11/11!

Namaste, Namast-GO

7 Twin Flame Connection Sabotages (Avoid These to KEEP True Love)

7 Twin Flame Connection Sabotages (Avoid These to KEEP True Love)

by | May 15, 2018 | False Twin Flame, Twin Flame Runner and Chaser, Twin Flame Spirituality | 0 comments

7 Twin Flame Connection Sabotages (Avoid These to KEEP True Love)

Are you seeking your ultimate soulmate? So many people are finding the Twin Flame Connection, but many will not be able to keep it. Here are the 7 most common Twin Flame sabotages that keep us in separation and missing out on true love.

Learn to avoid them so you can call in and keep your Twin Soul with greater ease and grounding.

By Dr. Amanda Noelle, the Twin Flame Matchmaker.

What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets

3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets

by | Mar 28, 2018 | Law of Attraction, Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Signs, Twin Flame Spirituality

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Hi there Twin Flame Lover,

It’s Dr Amanda Noelle, here the Twin Flame Matchmaker, and today I am going to share with  you my 3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets for Light Speed Twin Soul Attraction.

Don’t you hate playing the waiting game while you’re in the dating game? Days, months, or even decades pass  you by and you find yourself single and disconnected from true love?

Maybe you’ve tried every online dating site or app under the sun, but all you’ve attracted are sagas, sad stories, and several heartbreaks…

Or, maybe you’ve gone the other way because you know about the Law of Attraction, where thoughts create things, so you’ve decided to give up searching, and start meditating on what you want, so you fly off to Bali to explore your bliss, journal about your envisioned life partner, hoping that Prince or Princess Charming might literally fall in your lap…

But then all that happened in Bali was a few sexy lap dances at the Yoga Barn during an Ecstatic Dance, and you flew back home empty-handed and empty-lapped too!

SIGH!

Perhaps lately, you’ve come to the conclusion that neither of these approaches work! It’s NOT about having the perfect dating strategy or algorithms; nor is it just about using esoteric spiritual concepts while floating on a cloud of your own shaky slowly awakening consciousness.

Yes, let’s admit, none of us here are enlightened masters yet, and if you say you are you probably know that you have a way to go to reach Nirvana and align it with a partner who doesn’t freak out and run away from your blinding light.

We’re all just kindergarteners on Earth when it comes to love. Maybe some of us are 3rd graders or 6th graders, but al of us are healing our broken hearts scarred by millennia of heartbreaks, and heart shut down, that has kept the Twin Flames apart.

I know you are probably a very wise and loving person if you’re here on a Twin Flame path, doing your best to reunite with your “other half” but if you’re still single or stuck in the Twin Flame Runner Phase, you probably don’t have a solid idea around what actually will pull in your Twin Flame fast.

And I know you don’t have forever, don’t want to wait years to caress and co-create with your True Love, and that you simply cannot afford another artery-rupturing heartbreak! That’s why these 3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets are arriving you at perfect timing. You deserve them, and you deserve your Twin Flame, a mirror to your soul.

Yet I also know there’s a lot of misinformation out there on the internet, and it’s hard to tell what approach to take when it comes to attracting a divine partner, or what is just for the sell.

You need information that is tried and true, easy enough to apply, and that gets real results.

What you don’t need is just another theory taught by someone who either (a) never broke a nail (or heart) seeking their Twin Flame because they were born with golden karma that makes it look SO easy, or (b) those who are teaching and preaching but who are just as single as the clients they’re attempting to help find their mate.

Now I don’t want to shame anyone or finger point–I myself was a little hopeless in my love search 5 years ago and I still made a killer matchmaker, for what I lacked in ability to apply my advice to my own life, I was able to support giving service to others….

I also know that there are people here on the planet who have it easy when it comes to finding a Twin Flame or soulmate, they were just born lucky, or it’s not their karma or dharma (soul purpose) to untangle shitty Twin Flame codes of ancestral entanglement. These people didn’t have to work on themselves for years or decades getting stuck in what I call “Shitty Love Codes” – where the karma is as thick as molasses and you keep spinning your wheels the harder you try!

I have to admit I am envious of these types of people, and I honestly think I will choose an easier Twin Flame path my next lifetime. But at least I have good karma now to serve myself and my Twin Flame clients and friends who are equally blocked in the love department!

So this is Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #1: Release Envy of Other Twin Flame Couples and Teachers, and replace it with Love and Gratitude.

So I had to learn to laugh at my Twin Flame envy problem, and learn to send love to those happy cover issue couples, and not point fingers at anyone who meets their Twin Flame on like the 3rd try (gosh DARN them, I think mine was the 3,000th attempt!) as finger pointing never helps, especially because through the Twin Flame Mirror finger pointing means that you’re just pointing that pretty little pointer at yourself! And we don’t want to do that either, because basically it sets us up for failure, envy, and single-DOOM!

This brings up Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #2: It’s Shame-Shedding.

What are you ashamed most ashamed of?

How is pushing your Twin Flame away from you protecting you from facing your shame?

What experience in your past remains unhealed that is keeping you stuck playing the stuck-in-shame single-game?

I was a High-Healed Priestess wobbling through MOUNDS of shame; for years I went to weddings a lonely single girl pretending that I was cool with it, but I was truly ashamed of my insecurities that were keeping me single. I watched all of my childhood, high school, and college friends ride off into their fairytale on a white horse into the sunset while I stewed in my single shame and some slight rage about it to boot!

YES, I had serious shame issues, especially in my 20s, because I was so stuck in the un-mastery of Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #1 – I was so envious and compared myself to everyone else, which beat my ego down to the point where I was a mockery of myself.

I went from being an A-playing Ivy League overachiever sorority girl with guys asking her out on dates, and a sexy body,, and at least a sense of FAKE confidence, to being lost, broke, full of candida/fatigue, and I was heartbroken to the point that I was making on average 5,000 dollars a year and dating men with whom I had absolutely NO future. It was sad, and I was so ashamed!

Was I a victim of this? Or was I creating my own reality based on unresolved shame…

It turns out that I had experienced several things during my childhood, wounds and traumas that left me feeling safe, scared, and scared in the world and I concluded I was on some level a shame to be seen and just a shame period!

Developmental Psychologist Bruce Lipton says that 95% of our thoughts are tucked away in our subconscious mind.

So in my subconscious shame state, I decided to do what every spiritual girl with any self-respect does: I found a way to sabotage myself and my shot at finding my Twin Flame for over a decade.

I found really advanced ways of hiding and bypassing my shame from the world.

I used advanced techniques like, “I’m spiritual so I don’t care about anything ego related, money, dating etc” and I went counter-culture alternative and cut myself off from society and immersed myself in the alternative Burning Man and yoga, and tantra and ecstatic dance communities that I didn’t have to face myself anymore and the eyes of my competitors.

Shame is never the way to get your ultimate true love, or get anything you want, at least not in the long term.

Sure, shame is a sure fire impetus to get you out there and dating–since no one wants to be that old maid or perpetually single gal who feels like she has an infectious disease that might rubs off on society.

But instead of shame we must create deep compassion to call in a life long partnership, a lasting marriage, or a Twin Flame Union. When we convert our shame (a negative energy) into self-acceptance and compassion (a positive energy) we neutralize the energy that repels a Twin Flame into one that attracts a Twin Flame.

It’s not about hiding your shame, it’s about showing up in your shame and loving yourself. Even laughing at yourself!

Can you go on dates and see the hilariousness of it all? You want to be in a sacred union more than anything, you try so hard at it, and it’s the one thing that you have absolutely sucked at? When you can love this and laugh at this, I guarantee you the energy will lighten up and you’ll get closer to your Beloved.

While I know it’s hard not to get swept up in the story, “Well everyone else seems to be getting happily hitched,” or “Why does she have her Twin Flame and all I have is heartbreakers!”  But that will only lay you down into a spiral of shame and you’ll come from fear, envy, and competition and your lovers will thus be fearful, envious, and competitive and that’s NOT sexy! Change the thought patterns to: “Thank you Universe for showing me these happy Twin Flame Couples!” They are showing you what you desire, and also parts of what you may not desire so you can manifest accordingly.

This brings up Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #3 Heal your ancestral stories

Is your Twin Flame not coming into your reality because you have Shitty Love Codes stuck in your DNA?

Where are your parents, family members and ancestors happy or unhappy in their relationships?

Epic genetics are real. genes and DNA can be manipulated by a person’s beliefs. Examples….

Signs that you have epigenetics funking up your Twin Flame Attraction process is:

  1. No matter what you do you’re still stuck
  2. You know of ancestors who never got into a healthy relationship
  3. Everyone in your family is worried about your dating habits and  you can’t figure out why you’re so effed up! That’s when it skips a generation usually

Do you have epigenetic glitches in your Twin Flame DNA?

This may take some digging around either asking family members, doing genealogical research to fully understand how your genes and DNA have be thrown off track by your ancestors’ negative experiences and beliefs.

Oftentimes, children of Holocaust survivors have terrible nightmares where they are being chased, persecuted, tortured or killed, as if they were re-living the Second World War. Some even suffer from debilitating anxiety and depression disorders that block their ability to cope with stress. This can even prevent them from functioning at work and within society. These individuals exemplify how humans can absorb repressed emotions and energy such as those experienced during their ancestors’ Holocaust trauma. We can and do inherit the unconscious minds of our parents and ancestors, yet we can also un-inherit by becoming conscious of the patterns and finding solutions to heal them back into healthy “codes” in the DNA.

What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

Healing and Embracing the Shadow Masculine

Healing and Embracing the Shadow Masculine

by | Apr 26, 2017 | Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Spirituality | 0 comments


What is the Shadow Masculine, and why is it important to heal it?

How can we heal our Shadow Masculine–in both ourselves and our partnerships?

In this article, I share a list of the top 25 attributes of the Shadow Masculine and offer a brief sacred sexuality exercise to awaken and heal the Shadow Masculine in yourself, and within your Sacred Union.

What is the Shadow Masculine?

Everything in the universe exists within polarity. Love is balanced by fear, light is the polar opposite of dark, black and white, up and down, fire and water, male and female. It all brings balance.

Dr. Bruce Lipton says that 95% of our thoughts are housed in our subconscious mind. The Shadow Masculine is the powerful aspect of the Divine Masculine expressed in its “negative,” or subconscious duality.

Underneath the surface of all of us lies a sneaky beast…

We can only harness the positive attributes when we allow for the polarized negative, or “Shadow” aspects. Therefore, in order to embrace love, we must face fear. In order to fully step into our feminine power, we must also step into our masculine power. Yin balances yang, baby.

In this modern word, we have tried suppressing the Shadow Masculine, making men into boys, and women into men. It’s not working! The divorce rate while dropping is still near 50%, and less and less people are even going there…

In order to find harmony in the New Paradigm–in your life, business, and relationships–it is crucial for both men and women to align with their Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine aspects before entering into Sacred Union.

Therefore, it’s time to awaken the beast of the Shadow Masculine within YOU and your beloved!

Here is a list of the top 25 attributes of the Shadow Masculine:

  1. Fear of surrendering to the feminine
  2. Rigidity
  3. Controlling tendencies
  4. Hatred (of self, other, an organization, of God/dess)
  5. Entitlement issues (especially when insecurities arise)
  6. Narcissism
  7. Anger
  8. Jealousy
  9. Insecurity
  10. Competition (coming from separation)
  11. Greed
  12. Taking what he wants without consent
  13. Not listening to the feminine
  14. Judgment
  15. Harshness–in language, touch, energy, etc
  16. Mistrust and abuse of the feminine
  17. Suppressing emotions/not expressing vulnerability
  18. Neglecting the inner child/children
  19. Underlying codependence issues with women
  20. Denying the value of the feminine while taking advantage of her
  21. Suppressed sexuality and sensuality/sexual shame
  22. Inability to receive pleasure or abundance
  23. Fear of abandonment, but not willing to admit it (even to self)
  24. Tantrums/outbursts of rage
  25. Acting out from the inner child while doing everything he can to look like a powerful leader

Do you have any of the Shadow Masculine patterns? Check off which ones you have from the list above, and no judgement! You can alchemically transform these qualities into gold if you are determined, but you first must be honest with yourself.

And ladies…Yes, even women may have many of them!

Men, if you have many or all of these, deep breath. You probably have a lot of suppressed feminine energy and pleasure that is ready to come out and find you!

Why is the Shadow Masculine so important?

Do you have any of these patterns?

For millennia, we have been living in a patriarchal paradigm that has excluded women from seats of power in religions, politics, business and the list goes on.

We have veered out of balanced and all of us have been suffering. Both men and women feel disconnected from the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine.

This shows up as wealth, health, relationship, and life imbalances.

Fortunately, we have reached the 2012 Shift and the Divine Feminine is rising in women and men around the world. An alignment is being made…. We are meant to harness the Shadow and merge it with the Light.

However, there is still a great deal of subconscious Shadow remaining in the collective that needs to be revealed, allowed, and healed.  The problem is that most of us are living in shame, and our egos are doing whatever it takes to hide our own Shadows!

Yet both men and women must embrace their Shadow Masculine and Shadow Feminine so we can awaken and align with our Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine. This is the only way to the New Earth, and to the New Paradigm Relationships.

I believe that we must craft new Divine Masculine structures that work for us, not against us, especially in areas of relationships/marriage, business, soul purpose, and building the new wealth codes.

We must also learn to harness our Divine Feminine energies and skills in spirituality, channeling, teaching, relating, and bring these gifts into the masculine structures.

It all starts by doing the work on ourselves, and taking the alignment found within and applying it to all areas of their lives. This is where the collective healing begins…

But how? Time to awaken your Dark Masculine Side!

All of us benefit from becoming conscious of and harnessing our Shadow Masculine aspects. Only then can we put them to good use.

One of the fastest ways to heal and explore the Shadow Masculine is through Sacred Sexuality practices. This is where we can discover what’s going on in our subconscious minds; the body and sexual energy fields are where hidden thoughts are stored after all.

Our turn-ons never lie, but our heads often do!

Shadow Masculine Exploration Exercise:

Here’s an example of healing the Masculine Shadow through Sacred Sexuality work.

Create a sacred container with candles, incense, and anoint each other. Connect how you like to connect–yab yum, kissing, caressing, eye gazing.

Then, when you’re warmed up, take turns allowing each partner to role-play with the Shadow Masculine energy.

One partner takes on the Dark Masculine role…You or they may choose to dance, tease, talk, or touch. Maybe rough…simply allow what flows through. Warning: do have a safe word if you go rough, and a conversation beforehand about boundaries and desires.

You may even play a dark “dom,” role, where your partner plays the sub…

Have fun and explore it! Then do the following:

  1. Notice: What comes up for you in playing your role?
  2. Ask: Which of the following 25 attributes did you express?
  3. Ask: How did your partner receive it? (Let them express openly)
  4. Discuss how you were both turned on, and how this is showing up (or not yet) in your life?
  5. Ask: What do you want more of?

Then switch roles! And repeat the exercise.

Summary:

There is an art to harnessing the Shadow, and the opportunity is not only to find pleasure, but to also bring up the subconscious in both partners.

It is very likely that you may find trauma and shame, which is why it’s important to set a solid container, to do Sacred Sexuality work with the right mentor, and to have a loving community to support you through the process. We are all waking up together!

We are each stepping up and stepping into the New Relationship Paradigms and into the New Earth.

We’re creating a world where bliss and bli$$ness is the norm. This renaissance requires a deep inner seeking and also many conscious conversations within our communities of new thought leaders.

It takes a village of sexy priestesses and priests who are willing to go there, to unleash the beast and grow together.

Please comment below where you are learning the most about your Shadow Masculine, or where it’s showing up in your partnership/bli$$ness.

I look forward to growing together!

XO,

Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker; she helps single spiritual smarties get soulmated to their Twin Flames. Check out her services here.

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Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.