Can My Twin Flame Be a Narcissist?

Can My Twin Flame Be a Narcissist?

Hi lovely!

I dated many narcissistic men and here’s what I have to say if you’re wondering “Can my TF be a narcissist?”Hi lovely!

I dated many narcissistic men and here’s what I have to say if you’re wondering “Can my TF be a narcissist?”  Watch, and comment on the video to let me know what you think!

What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

7 Twin Flame Connection Sabotages (Avoid These to KEEP True Love)

7 Twin Flame Connection Sabotages (Avoid These to KEEP True Love)

7 Twin Flame Connection Sabotages (Avoid These to KEEP True Love)

Are you seeking your ultimate soulmate? So many people are finding the Twin Flame Connection, but many will not be able to keep it. Here are the 7 most common Twin Flame sabotages that keep us in separation and missing out on true love.

Learn to avoid them so you can call in and keep your Twin Soul with greater ease and grounding.

By Dr. Amanda Noelle, the Twin Flame Matchmaker.

What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

7 Signs of a Narcissistic Man

7 Signs of a Narcissistic Man

Despite their seemingly unbreakable armor, narcissistic men are actually very vulnerable underneath it all. They’re just brilliant at hiding their tenderness from women under their layers of manipulation, lies, illusion, unhealthy behaviors, and possibly playing around with your heart.

Have you ever found yourself in a romantic relationship, and you give him everything, and you’re left with nothing and you feel more powerless than ever before? And you still thought he was your ultimate soulmate or Twin Flame? It’s humbling–you feel drained and super confused as to why this happened to you…. He could be a narcissist man. Here are the 7 signs so you can tell for sure…

Here are the 7 Signs of the Narcissist Man

  1. He has no boundaries and doesn’t want you to set any. If you don’t set your boundaries, you will be victimized by narcissists; narcissists energetically cord into your chakras and leech energy like “energy vampires,” and they’ll do the same with emotions, attention, physical space, finances…and pretty much anything! So set your boundaries and put up psychic protection as well.
  1. He feeds off of your insecurity. He tells her she’s wrong, isn’t entitled to having what she wants, and puts her down to keep her small. If a woman is lonely and desperate and longing for love, she’s likely to attract someone is (a)is attracted to her neediness, and (b) is repulsed by her neediness like he was with his mother. The narcissist man feeds off of abuse and her fear of abandonment, as he has inwardly felt manipulated and abandoned by his co-dependent mother since early childhood. So, by finding a woman who is equally insecure, needy, and longing for love, she makes him feel important–but he has to put her into an insecure state to “keep her.” Macho men who put down women are an example of this. Deep down they’re the ones who are most afraid of being abandoned and heartbroken! That’s why it’s our job as women to take responsibility for our insecurity and heal our Divine Feminine Wounds.
  1. He manipulates, takes without giving, and justifies it every time. An over-giver is always going to be his target, as he feels entitled to taking, taking, TAKING….He actually doesn’t feel strong and secure in the world without a woman’s presence, though that’s the last thing he’d admit.  These manipulators often sleep around with women or are into serial monogamy. The narcissist man has unhealed Mother Wounds–as his mother didn’t set healthy boundaries and was either overly attached or detached. The narcissist man feeds off of his over-giving partner who often gives from guilt, hoping that he’ll stay if she is “good enough” to him.
  1. He leads you to believe that he can give you the whole fairytale, but he never really does.  The narcissist man needs his woman to believe that he’ll soon bring her what she wants, and thus attracts women who are often hopeless romantics, fantasizer types, and dreamers. Deep down these women are wounded by the patriarchy and lack self-esteem so they cannot ask for what they truly deserve. When you’re living in a fairytale waiting for prince charming but you don’t feel good enough, you settle for fakes.
  1. He’s not a truth teller, he’s good at lies, and doing what it takes to get his way. He does this because deep down he doesn’t feel good enough to face the truth. He feels that without embellishing a little (or a lot) he’s not good enough. So he builds up a puffed up false ego that he hopes will attract women in awe. If this is you, if you’ve been duped by a liar, you’ll want to ask yourself, “Where do I feel small, and where am I lying to myself?” This type of man is magnetized to women who are naive and innocent, so make the effort to educate yourself about your circumstances, step into your power, and ask for what you’re worth. If this man can’t give it to you, the right one will!
  1. Lack of empathy. He lacks empathy, you’re an empath. You’re feelin’ for two, baby!  Where he can’t feel, you’re there holding the space for the emotional intelligence…but for him! The job of the empath is to feel how she is feeling, and not get stuck in how others are doing. While easier said than done, the empath female must say NO to any behaviors that feel like a violation. When she starts taking herself and her own emotions seriously, she’ll no longer keep attracting narcissists who don’t have the capacity for empathy.
  1. He’s a perfectionist.  Whether or not he’s trying to be perfect himself, he puts pressure on you either verbally or you just feel it, to be the perfect woman. He is controlling and seeks perfection, and projects this onto you.  So maybe your diet to have the perfect body for him, say or do things to impress or become an overachiever at work…If you’re a perfectionist, end this cycle by choosing not to care about external appearances so much; instead go inward and work on the self-love. Then it’s certain that you’ll no longer magnetize this type of man!

Women, let me know what you felt hearing this list… Have you dated a narcissist? And why do you think you attracted this?  What are you doing now to boost your self-worth to prevent these patterns from happening again? I would love to know in the comments below.

Elephants are a sign of the Divine Feminine, and while the Divine Feminine is awakening rapidly, we’re running out of time. We need to remain calm and steady, but we can’t keep waiting.

We have to let go of our perfectionist ways and take action. We must love ourselves first, feed the Feminine, and heal our wounds.  This is a top priority. We also have to say NO to men who mistreat us, and nurture the little boys and also set healthy boundaries with them so they gain a sense of self.

One of my favorite things to do is donate a percentage of my income to saving the elephants. Click the link below in the description box to donate to the David Sheldrick Wildlife Trust and help an orphaned baby elephant rehabilitate. Your contribution is not only a cause for African Wildlife but a cause for healing the Divine Feminine Wounds.

Thank you so much, beloved…

Stay tuned and subscribe to my channel, as I will be releasing a few more videos this week about narcissist patterns in men, and after that I’ll be posting about healing the Divine Feminine Wounds, something I discovered I’m deeply passionate about as well.

Thanks for dropping in sister, give a “like” if you want to support my channel, and I look forward to seeing you next time!

Namaste, Dr. Amanda Noelle

The Twin Flame Matchmaker

PS: Donate to the David Sheldrick Wildlife here to save the elephants here.

What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

The 7 Signs To Tell If You Have a Twin Flame

The 7 Signs To Tell If You Have a Twin Flame

Here are the seven signs to tell if you have Twin Flame.

Sign No. 1: Something Has Always Been Missing

From birth you felt a really strong calling. You felt like something was missing, and you wanted to find it. You didn’t necessarily know what it was, but you just felt this like “ugh” feeling–this feeling–a strong desire.

Sign No. 2: Obsession

You have been obsessed with Twin Flames. You’re Googling, you’re checking out all the blogs, you maybe have been read books on Twin Flames, or perhaps you’ve hired a Twin Flame expert or coach. You are so into finding your beloved that you can’t get enough info about Twin Flames and aligning with yours!

Sign No. 3: Intense Relationships

You have been in many or at least a couple of really intense relationships. And you are soaking up all the knowledge and learning about Twin Flames from this experience.  Whether the person you love is your Twin Flame or not, you are in love with learning… You love deep.

Sign No. 4: You’re a Love Machine

You are just a loving person. You care a great deal.  You are PASSIONATE, and even though you may have highs and lows you’re a very loving tender being. You love the planet; this makes you a natural humanitarian and planetary healer.

Sign No. 5: You’re Here to Build the New Earth

You have a huge soul purpose and you want to build the New Earth. You know you’re not here to just have a cute little picket fence kinda nice life with your family. Instead, you’ve woken up to seeing a higher vision–you really wish share your purpose and gifts to heal the world.

Sign No. 6: You Are a Healer With a Purpose

You feel that you have been a healer in many lifetimes, and possibly have been persecuted, maybe even burned at the stake. You are an intuitive with a high level metaphysical skills set that goes beyond the physical world; you’ve woken up to this at least recently, if not as a child. Many of us wake up in different times in our lifetime but you have at least recently been feeling like you wish to share your healing gifts with the world and that you cannot just work nine to five in a soul-suckinng job. Your soul purpose drives you.

Sign No. 7: You Work Hard to Love Yourself

You are willing to do whatever it takes to heal all of you, all of your chakras, and you know that self-love is the only answer. You know that in order to manifest your Twin Flame (ultimate and holy union), you must heal and love thyself. You are so dedicated on your own healing journey that you are willing to do what it takes and receive the help to give you the fastest breakthroughs. You are aware that healing yourself isn’t not only  for you or to attract your own beloved, it’s also for your family, your community, or for the clients/fans who follow you. You’re here to awaken and activate the planet by shifting consciousness, vibration, and taking action.. You can even become obsessed with learning new modalities of healing the planet and sometimes it keeps you up at night. You dream about shifting the planet, because you’re here to create the Ascension for humanity.  You are constantly researching new methods, looking into self-development courses and maybe you’ve hired a ton of experts or healers to improve yourself.

These seven signs will help you determine that you are a Twin Flame, and whether you have a Twin Flame on this earth.

However, many believe that not everyone has a Twin Flame incarnate on the planet…

Are you one of them? Learn more here and let me know… 

If you are a female on a Twin Flame Path, upgrade your love luck by signing up for your complimentary Twin Flame Ignition Kit here.

XO… lots of love!

Dr. Amanda Noelle, Mystical Matchmaker & Love Code Hacker

What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

My Response to The Truth about Twin Flames

My Response to The Truth about Twin Flames

My Response to The Truth about Twin Flames

Greetings Beloved!

The video I’m responding to is linked below and the creator is a wonderful Pleiadian Lightworker and I commend her light and her truth, yet I need to add some missing keys to this picture.

I share my views in this video unedited and from the heart, because I don’t want anyone to be following false Twin Flame Signs or be waiting for someone who is a Twin Flame Counterfeit. True Twin Flame Love awaits you, make it happen now!

You can watch the video I am responding to The Truth About Twin Flames, here.

Wishing you all the love, joy, and light with your ultimate beloved!

XO, Dr. Amanda Noelle

Twin Flame Matchmaker and Founder of Aphrodite University

What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

Why Heartbreak Hurts So Bad It Breaks a Woman

Why Heartbreak Hurts So Bad It Breaks a Woman

Girlfriend, did you know that getting heartbroken can be so harrowing and hard that some scientists say it feels as bad as severe physical pain?

⇒ Watch Why Heartbreak Breaks a Woman here:

Twin Flame Heart Chakra Pain | From Heartbreak to Healed

Greetings Twin Flame Lover, Hi, I’m Dr Amanda Noelle the Twin Flame Matchmaker….

Has your heart been splattered, like TOTALLY shattered!? There is nothing worse than letting a past heartbreak haunt your life, and negatively impacting your dating game.

A traumatized heart chakra can not only sabotage a woman’s love life, it can infect her health, wealth, and all areas of life as well.

But the good news is that you can always heal the past, and a healed heart chakra is what magnetizes love in all of its divine forms!

So let me ask you the following.

Does your heart desire one or more of the following:

  • Your Twin Flame or sacred union with your ultimate beloved?
  • Deep, nourishing Soul Family connections?
  • Your fully expressed soul purpose, one that contributes to the greater good of our planet?
  • More abundance and financial prosperity?
  • A blissful business (what I call a “bli$$ness”) or work you love?
  • And perhaps most of all: a deep connection to your Divine Creator?

My darling friend, you deserve an abundance of love in all of these avenues…

And guess what: You can have it all.

All it takes is an upgraded, healed, and whole heart chakra. No more bullet holes!

I love helping smart conscious women heal and reveal the hurts in their hearts, and turn them back into Twin Flame Love.

And I can SO relate! I myself suffered from chronic broken-heart pain for several decades… That’s why healing the heart is now my #1 soul purpose and one of my strongest soul medicines!

Being heartbroken can be just as bad as Japanese water torture… 

Why? Because the anterior cingulate cortex, an area of your brain that lights up when you’re physically in pain, is the exact same area that lights up when you suffer from heartbreak.

Research from Purdue University, Macquarie University, and the University of New South Wales found that people experience emotional pain as worse or even stronger than physical pain!

Heartbreak isn’t to be glossed over… If you’ve been through one, it serves you to deal with it and heal it now. The energy can manifest as breast lumps, cysts, cancer, and heart disease. For both men and women, cardiovascular disease is the leading cause of death.

While men can just as easily go through heartbreak and suffer, I have witnessed from my own experience and that of my clients that women often struggle with this area more than men do. According to Harvard University Heart attacks strike men at younger ages than women. But survival rates are worse in women.

I believe that heart, lung, and breast issues are a reflection of the 4th chakra blocks caused by heartbreak that are rampant in our society.

On top of this, women are programmed to energetically take on pain from men. We do this instinctively with our children, absorbing grief into our heart chakra area. In Chinese medicine the organ associated with the emotion grief is the lungs. I see this as a gray energy in the 4th chakra of so many of my clients.  This energy needs to be cleared in order for your Twin Flame to discover, feel, and help you fully heal your heart.

***Learn more about how my Twin Flame Game Changing training, “From Heartbreak to Heart BREAKTHROUGH!” can help you cut through the heart chakra fog by clicking here. ***

But it gets even gloomier.

Unfortunately, if you’ve been through a bad heartbreak, you’re at high risk for another one… Research from Brown University has shown that if you experience a breakup, the likeliness of a second breakup increases by 75%!

According to Erica Slotter, a psychology Ph.D. candidate at Northwestern University:

“We know that relationships change the way we think about ourselves. When a relationship ends, that sense of self ends.”

Heartbreaks can only stop when we do the work it takes to prevent them from happening again.

So sister, if you’re doing things to distract yourself from the heart pain, hoping it will go away in time, I am here to remind you to jump on the healing bus so you can return your heart to a 4th chakra aligned vibration.

I am here to help you to STOP attracting unnecessary heartbreaks, and start attracting an abundance of fulfilling relationships in all areas of your life that reflect your beauty, bliss, and love.

But I get how painful and tricky it can be.

My name Amanda literally means “Beloved,” and I have fought to learn how to be loved! I used to be a love addict, getting heartbroken all the time by all the wrong people…

Not just by men either! Even friendships would suddenly blow up in my face--I’ve been stood up in every way imaginable.

Before I dealt with my heart chakra abandonment issues, I even got stood up by money BIG TIME. I stagnated at a 4-figure salary for around a decade.

Deep down, my heart was encoded with “I am unlovable” and “I am not good enough,” which I too commonly see within my clients and fans.

Still, my heartbreak syndrome was intense, isolating, embarrassing, and I was starting to feel hopeless.

Why did love deceive me so often, when all I wanted to do was love and be loved?!

That’s why I devoted myself to cracking the code to true love.

My angels and guides started sharing Aphrodite’s magic with me… Higher councils taught me how to clear the heart chakra, open up the feminine gateways, and download the Money Codes of Isis…

I was also taught how to awaken my sacred sexuality, and that my Sacred Chalice is meant to be a Divine portal of Twin Flame Love.


How do you know when love is real?

It hurts when we invest our love in all the wrong places.

There’s nothing worse than being disappointed by those we love, and whom we think love us back…

These types of heartbreaks can also break our love bank accounts.

But is there some type of litmus test we can take to tell if someone is real love vs a Twin Flame Counterfeit?

The reason I have been successful in calling in my Twin Flame, someone I love and adore who feel the same way about me (most of the time), is that I learned to get smart with my heart.

I am so happy to say that, today I have the MOST AMAZING TWIN FLAME UNION, a partner who honors, adores, and even worships the goddess in me.

Are you ready for deep love reflected back through the Ultimate Divine Mirror?

Click the link here to check out my heart-healing course to help you transform your broken heart into a bustling “bank account of love”…

Women hire my help because they are tired of suffering from the intense, harrowing, perhaps even ancient heart breaks.

They let me help them clear out the endless pain, devastation, and sense of hopelessness so they can move on into Twin Flame Love.

The heartbreaks have been inside them for lifetimes, through ancestral lineage held through the epigenetics, and perhaps even heartbreaks from ancient past lives, such as times in Greece, floods in Atlantis, and dark histories in Egypt.

Usually when women are holding onto energy from past lives and ancestry, these heartbreaks are deep, and can corrupt the energy field. They create a disruption of the Law of Attraction, making it hard to attract what your heart truly desires and deserves. Meaning that if she’s attempting to attract money or her beloved, or anything that truly matters, it’s going to call in the wrong thing until the wounds are released or healed.

If you have weird stuck heartbreak patterns, they’ll repel true love coming to you in the form of: dating, relationships, money, your soul purpose, or truly anything that matters… Don’t delay

Click the link here for “From Heartbreak to Heart BREAKTHROUGH trainings!” to create lasting relationships with the right partner that you can grow and nurture for life, or at least for years.

How do you know if your love is the right investment?  

You simply feel it in your heart!

****My extensive home learning program gives you all the tools you need to heal and align your heart chakra so that you can magnetize your Soulmate Clients and Twin Flame beloved.

This exclusive program has been years in the making and this course is available for you right now. Click Subscribe right now and receive a special 77% discount for $33!

Check it out at https://dramandanoelle.com/heartbreakthrough

It turns out that a healed heart attracts quality love. An unhealed heartbreak calls in distortion and disappointment, misleading our soul to believe that we’re unworthy of love, one of life’s biggest potential lies.

You are worthy of love, and you can become the lover of all loves, and attract a Twin Flame Mirror. You can heal your heart, but it takes work. If you have experienced slight or even sever heartbreak in your past, it’s time to free your soul and heal yourself so you can call in all the love you want.

A Radiant Heart Always Calls in More Love

Remember, your happy and vibrant green, pink, and gold-colored heart chakra energy is what calls in yummy, whole, and nurturing love relationships. And if you’re an entrepreneur it’s what calls in raving Soulmate Clients, fans, friends, and opportunities… For you lovers out there, it’s the #1 place you’ll need to unblock in order to call in your Twin Flame.

Don’t be ashamed if you have been single and struggling, and if you have  been magnetizing partners who manipulate, mislead, or misalign with your brilliance.  Do not settle for less! Your love life can explode once you realign a heart chakra that’s been broken or shut off. A clogged heart only attracts persecution, those who mistrust us, and those with cold-hearted love. I know you don’t want that!

A woman’s broken heart blueprint can quickly be shifted, but it takes some work.

When you shift your heart break, when it comes to finding love, it’s always easy to tell if it’s the real deal or not!

If you don’t know how to read the difference between a real soul connection and just plain karma, and it’s hard to run your bli$$ness and life with pleasure, try out the home study program for just $33 for a limited time only.

Twin Flame Love resides in all things. It’s the harmonized love between the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine aspects.

We all have wounding which is why we need our mentors and teachers for support, and I got you girl!

You deserve the REAL DEAL.

It can be tricky to rewire your heart/brain/pussy on your own, which is why I am honored to offer my support to you.

While I know this or any program won’t instantly or totally fix your love life, or business, or soul sister connections, it will absolutely help you tune into your own unique heart chakra vibration of TRUE Twin Flame Love to create miracles...

By learning the signs of healthy love, you can call in a tribe of like-hearted, kindred spirits who do want to support you. Love you. And deeply connect…

Thanks for healing your gorgeous heart and soul.

I look forward to seeing you soon!

Namaste, Amanda

PS: A woman may quite possibly die of a broken heart, so don’t delay on the healing process…find out what you can do to heal your heart here.

What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.