No Twin Flame psychic can tell you the truth about your Twin Flame, unless she is reflecting the truth of your own Inner Knowing.
You hold the key to your Inner Truth.
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have never given women readings like “He’s totally your Twin Flame! I see a future with you two.” I have seen potential outcomes but I always put it like “I can see this possibly happening, but proceed with caution.” When I was newer to the intuitive reading world, I made all the mistakes that other healers make at first: we take what is metaphysically showing up on our radar and say it is the absolute truth. But no one can know, only the person who is creating their reality.
Twin Flame practitioners must learn to empower their clients to help them find their own answers
I have learned to never disempower my clients, to instead focus on healing their past pain and getting them clear on their pleasure and creating a pathway to their dream lives. It’s not about being a future reader, as the future depends on how clear, blissful, and strong you are.
I have attracted many young women followers to me (probably because I have a magical little child) and I have to coach them to be empowered and to trust THEMSELVES as a guru.
Some of ‘the best’ psychics told me that I was not a fit for my Twin Flame Jack. They said he wasn’t my Twin Flame because he was too young or too this, too that; there was someone else they saw for me. Other psychics said he was the one, and there were many pre-encounter predictions including my own readings on myself. Needless to say, it was very confusing when we first met because I had been expecting massive love at first sight Twin Flame Recognition. But of course since my heart was so bruised and guarded because I’d been heartbroken by my Twin Flame Counterfeit Mark, I had a wall up and wasn’t ready to decide right away with anyone.
Twin Flame Recognition: How Do You Tell If Someone Is Your Twin Flame or Not?
In the end, I chose Jack as my truth. I witnessed him as my truest Twin Flame because he is my biggest expression of bliss, fun, play, joy, heart, future, and Twin Flame Love. And for so many more reasons that I will continue to share with you.
Though it took me time to decide if he was the real deal (and I suggest that you take your time as well, because the 3D world can play tricks on you and I have seen SO many clients say “I know he’s my Twin Flame” and it fizzles, and that was me once). After facing so many of our fears and questions together, I felt destiny was in the cards. I even felt it in my body (specifically in my yoni, which I will talk about later).
After nine months of dating Jack, I finally surrendered to our love. I let go and fell in love fully, trusting this man was not going to run or hurt me, and I allowed to build trust in our future
Who cared if several psychics said yes, and several were telling me no!
The answer to “Is he my Twin Flame?” is always within. When you start seeking answers that are outside yourself, you will create chaos and confusion.
A good Twin Flame Matchmaker can support you in neutrality. She’ll guide you to your YES, point out where you’re settling for less, help you discern True Love from love addiction, and help prevent you from running from love because you’re afraid.
I have done it all, and I am so grateful I have had some great mentors, therapists, coaches, and friends who have guided me along the way. But at the end, I made my choice and I am forever grateful for ME.
The parts of ourselves that we love and hate are mirrored onto our Twin Flame.
Dang it! I thought when we found our Twin Flames we were going to live in a magic bubble and never have to deal with problems again.
In this post I want to underline how important it is to accept ourselves, and how the way I have rejected myself showed up in my Twin Flame relationship. I almost became the Twin Flame Runner that I so despised because I nearly rejected myself. I don’t want this for you!
Self-Rejection Shows up as Those Annoying Things About Your Twin Flame
I used to have body image issues. Still do. Which is why I projected that I needed a Twin Flame to be as hot as a conscious Ashton Kusher.
I thought I had to have a man like that to be happy in life. My Twin Flame, as it turned out, has reddish hair and a very red beard, which I was NOT expecting and it took me time to get used to. I’m picky! He’s not dark and tan like the man I always fantasized about. He gets sunburnt on Sundays at brunch. Before I met him, I was sure I had to have a tan muscle-man in order to feel satisfied.
Believe me, my Twin Flame has a sexy body. Great arms, broad shoulders I can grab onto and sink my teeth in. But he’s real. He is man and God, but boy is there no escaping that he (like me) is a raw and real human.
I have never felt comfortable with my human body, and my Twin Flame often reflects my discomfort
He’s sexy and yet he’s human. Along with the orange beard, he’s got occasional breakouts on his back (sorry babe, hope I can share!). I’m like, “Babe, it’s time to do a back facial to get rid of that bacne! Boys are so lazy. How can you tolerate bacne?!” and he’s like “Woman, men don’t care about that $hit, leave me alone my back is fine.” Then I attack him with a back brush or yummy salt scrub–and he likes it because it reminds him of being groomed by his mother. We play-fight and it’s fun.
He’s teaching me to chill about my female primping and preening perfectionist tendencies!
What you thought you wanted wasn’t always real. The key pieces that were soul aligned came true:
He’s beautiful inside and out
He’s spiritually awake
He has a heart of gold
Our soul purposes align
We love each other as God/Goddess
Our desire for birthing star children aligns
Is it important that I look like Barbie or that he’ll be my Ken? Nahhhh.
Will Jack look like a GQ model always and forever? Sometimes he does actually, but as we turn gray some day together, I won’t care about the fact that he doesn’t always scrub his back. Plus, I am starting to get more cellulite and I have to love myself there.
What I am most excited about is the way that he makes me feel, and how I get to make him feel. I am an empath, and so is he; so it pays of to bliss each other out. We adore and love each other. We stick each other out in the hard ugly hairy scary moments.
What’s more is that I am so ready to collaborate deeply with our soul purposes in business, with the new earth eco village dreams I have had, and in raising children. What can I say is more sacred than these pieces? I am lucky, and proud that my Twin Flame is a perfect reflection of me and I will continue to do my very best to live myself and of course thus love him too!
Have you been desiring more love in your life? Do you want to release the fear, and replace it with pure Divine infinite love? Are you ready to let go of Twin Flame fakes and release Twin Flame runner issues?
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I say this with love and compassion. But I also say it with some mama bear passion with my sacred Hell NO!
I have the right to say this, to express my opinion. Especially after watching thousandsof women come to me in tears because their supposed “Twin Flame” has run. I heard the same flipping the story over and over again, like a broken record! It makes you think that there’s probably something wrong with our society, not something wrong with these Twin Flame Runners and Chasers.
Women are constantly blaming themselves for making their Twin Flames run (sometimes without much explanation or even compassion) and she is left to pick up the pieces. In the process, she blames herself, and is often absolutely still sure that this man is her twin.
Here is what I have to say to this scenario: Fuck Twin fLame Runners!
A true man has balls… And he holds the moon for you! I had one of those Lame Flames that would blow out if I breathed too strong. I call him a Twin Flame Counterfeit, the TFC. It taste good, but it’s about as healthy for you as KFC. Killing Friendly Chickens.
For a really long time I believed that the other half of my soul just needed to wake up and that he would possibly come back someday. Just like they tell you in the fairytales… The handsome prince comes back to kiss the sleeping beauty. Though prince charming was distant, focused on his own goals and life without caring about me, I stuck around energetically anyways. Asleep at the wheel for thousands of years waiting for my prince.
Because society told me that this was Twin Flame Love, and I also think I was under some sort of witchy she spell, to be honest.
And so I stayed around for five fucking years holding my breath hoping that Prince Charming would somehow wake up and come back and make me feel loved again, as I had felt the moment we met.
While I send this flame of my past lots of love, I realize that it was a total counterfeit flame that was not serving my light for the long-term. Instead, it was sort of a shadow flame, a dark flame that stoked my passion for love and light. But it was not the love and light itself!
We have to lovingly forgive ourselves for being such freaking idiots in counterfeit love! How did I actually believe that someone who could abandon me in the middle of my deepest opening, activating my ancient wounds, and not stick around and hold me with unconditional love could be my Twin Flame?
I don’t know about you, but the other half of my soul would never abandon me. That’s not my style! I can safely say that the other half of my soul would never leave me high and dry during the most dramatic moment of my life. He would come towards me to resolve the situation the best he could, even if it was messy. My twin flame would never run, at least not for more than a few moments. And that’s how he would treat his children, his family, and his tribe.
My Twin Flame counterpart is a king who loves you and his people and who never leaves you or his people.
That’s why my current partner Jack and I are loving each other up so much. We’re very committed people – to the New Earth, and to Twin Flame Love…and so we don’t abandon. We don’t shut down our emotions and run. We communicate, we look into each others eyes, we work things out. Even when it’s dramatic and traumatic and scary.
Abandonment is not the sacred act of a Twin Flame, it’s not an act of true love. Abandonment is a sin, as sin simply means “to go without.” I never want to “Twin Flame sin” again, to go without my own self-love–to leave and abandon myself by hanging around waiting for some guy to come back. Staying stuck in the pain for thousands of life times while truelove could have been right there at my fingertips. Waiting for someone to come back who has abandon you is the worst thing for the inner child and for children. It touches upon the great father wound that has scarred each of us on the deepest level. In order to heal those heart tissues, we must commit to finding those who do not abandon. And to work on our abandonment issues ourselves.
We, especially women, need to be brave enough to ask for partners who stay.
Who work on the issues. And stop calling those runners our true Twin Flame. Find true sustainable flame he love. That’s 1 million times better than a sexy ungrounded affair that leads to years of pain and wounds… Twin Flame runners will drop the ball on you almost every time. But Twin Flame Stayers will love you and show up to do the work.
Dancing is an ancient sacred ritual all humans have done through the ages to heal, celebrate, purify, and co-create. One of the little known things about dance is that it can be a secret Law of Attraction weapon, particularly in the area of attracting financial abundance, or ‘AbunDance.’ In this blog, I will teach you how to hula/hoolah in the moolah so that you can live in 6-figure BLI$$ and beyond.
In shamanism and metaphysics, everything is energy. Dance has a powerful capacity to move invisible energy through the chakras, auric fields, and across the planet, to bring out healing and awakened consciousness. The energy grids can get stuck in fear, and dance transmutes blocks through with waves, bouncing, and shimmying, and bliss itself. Every time I feel stuck and go dance, it’s like an instant mood makeover, and you get a better body too!
Some of us make money at day jobs without our hearts in it.
Others of us have become life coaches or spiritual teachers in ways that are more masculine and don’t fully let in our Divine Feminine spiritual gifts.
A large amount of us healers are stuck in a poverty or peasantry vibration, which is just sad to see!
We High-Healed Priestesses – high priestess healers (perhaps in high heels) are meant to go high-end in life: in business, finances, friendship, home, and with Twin Flame Love. At Aphrodite University, I help hippie chick healers, lightworkers, women with powerful healing gifts, and woo woo women to create high-end 6 and 7 figure businesses that heal the world. Here is one of the tips that I share with my Aphrodite University students (SeaStars) to help them quickly call in the big bucks through the Law of Attraction.
THREE HIGH PRIESTESS TIPS TO CALL IN YOUR ABUNDANCE!
So let’s get connected with the Divine Golden vibration, rebuild the Goddess Temples, and create our modern day Atlantis. It’s really easy to do, we’ve just got to dance it in!
Speaking from personal experience, I went from making $5,000/year in 2009 to making $15,000 in a month in 2013 because I allowed my AbunDance to flow into my body, mind, spirit, and piggy bank. Oink!
AbunDance Secret #1: Connect with your PU$$Y Power on the dance floor.
PU$$Y Power is the Divine Feminine life force sitting between your legs that births all abundance and life, and it can birth your purse power as well. It activates our spiritual flow on earth, through our sacred sexuality so that the energy moves the the beat of our own divine creation. To learn more about PU$$Y Power, click here. Dancing, and many conscious body movement exercises, activates PU$$Y Power by getting your bliss down in your body and into your root chakra. Dancing also can open up kundalini, the snake like energies that ride up and down the spine, like the pattern of the dollar sign.
AbunDance Secret #2: Join a dance community
Dancing in community is one of the things that has saved my life, allowed me to heal, and gotten me to where I am at in my bli$$ness. I prefer dancing in a tribe where people gather old school and dance barefoot, with no rules or regs. There are many Ecstatic Dance venues around the country where you get to dance in a container of conscious people who love to dance, and it’s super blissful!
At Ecstatic Dance, there is usually limited or no talking, no shoes, and a free flow. I do a psychic grounding warmup, meditate for a bit connecting to my PU$$Y Power, and find the dance slowly moving through my body at first, and at its own pace it melts me open and turns into a DanceGasm! A full body orgasmic dance experience where I feel both completely embodied, and also out of my body in bliss. I get lots of psychic visions, downloads, and my aura becomes squeaky clean at the end.
AbunDance Secret #3: Listen to EDM
I love listening to EDM, electronic dance music, to galactivate my energy fields. I walk, run, dance, and chillax to EDM on a daily basis, and it feels like home to this starseed!
Here is a great list of the top 25 EDM producers, you really can’t go wrong. I like listening to Pandora (I am an addict) though some prefer Spotify. I choose Pandora because it feels like a friend who knows me, and there are so many great artists that I have discovered through the random love of Pandy. Mmmmm!
So get those dance pants on, or take it all off, dance around the house, on the dance floor, try a new class, and definitely try out Ecstatic Dance. It will change your life! Post your comments about why you love dance below. And hula for moolah!
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have found that there are so many women and men who get stuck in gloom and doom when it comes to attracting their soulmate or Twin Flame, and they stay stuck and single when they don’t have to! We are more powerful than we know, as we are reflections of our Creator (whatever you call this powerful force), so we can create what our heart desires!
This article will help you manifest your Twin Flame as fast as humanly possible, because I know when you want it you want it now…or yesterday! But trust me, Twin Flame manifestation can be ridiculously fast if you tune into the Field of Universal Creation and surrender to the forces that be! I have helped clients, fans, and friends manifest their Twin Flames in as little has a few days, and in one instance, within a few hours! It’s a pretty magical energy to witness and to see physicalized, especially when I get invited to the wedding and get to sip champagne smugly thinking about how great a matchmaker I am 🙂 I just love love and am proud to be a holder of the Aphrodite Touch!
What not to do? Get stuck in a pit of despair
Don’t despair if you’re feeling single and stuck today, as you really can’t predict what is going to happen tomorrow (or you can if you stay positive and make it happen!). Sometimes even the most desperate and despairing women come to me with only one last tiny shred of hope, and I get them to surrender to their ultimate Divine Love, a well within them, and we bust some blockages and POOF! It’s truly delightful to watch them U-turn around into their heart’s desires and manifest that magical partner they’ve been waiting for for…forever!
This article, How to Manifest Your Twin Flame Quickly will help you immensely if:
You have been working on yourself for a long time to be the best you can be, and feel that you’re truly ready to attract your beloved
You’re healthy, on an emotional, physical, financial, and spiritual level
Meeting and marrying your Twin Flame has been a huge calling for a long time, and it’s frustrating not to have him/her yet!
You are fully devoted to self-improvement and spiritual growth, and your Twin Flame will be a partner who supports you to grow further and faster
You have a big heart, and it’s overflowing – your love needs somewhere to go!
You have a huge soul purpose and you want your Twin Flame to join you for the ride to enjoy co-creating your most magnificent life to make this world a better place
You’re willing to throw your skepticism out the window for just a moment and will just shut up and listen to what this Twin Flame Matchmaker has to say!
Alright darling, let’s get down to BLI$$ness, and share the top secrets to helping you ring in the Twin Flame partner and fast. Disclaimer: some of these tips aren’t for the weak, so buckle up and hunker down and be strong… whatever you do, don’t give up on love! Now let’s get your Twin Flame groove on.
Tip #1: Get Happy Being YOU as a Single Gal or Guy
You complete yourself. Your Twin Flame partner will be able to smell you from a mile away, as we’re all energetically sensitive beings and we have fantastic instincts. The question to ask is: Would you want to be with you? If you’re unhappy in your life, he or she is going to sense that gloom, and it’s not going to be a turn on. Men are attracted to happy and fulfilled goddesses flowing with nectar, just like bees are attracted to the sweet perfumed nectar of a flower.
To avoid: the Single Woman’s Vicious Cycle
What I see commonly in my clients is what I call the ‘Single Woman’s Vicious Cycle’ where you start getting lonely, and loneliness breeds depression, gloom, and hopelessness. Then you start dating the wrong people, lowering the bar and feeling desperate, feeling sorry for yourself, and doing silly things like staying in on Friday night with Ben and Jerry’s instead of following your heart’s deepest desires! You might even gain a a few pounds in the process and use that as an excuse not to be dating at the moment. Girl, you gotta get off the couch, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and do whatever you can to get happy and excited, there is a great guy or gal waiting out there and s/he’s reserved for YOU!
Let me clarify that I am not saying that you have to be happy with being single forever; I am just saying that a happy girl will attract more happiness and at the divinely perfect moment, a happy partnership. So do whatever it takes to be happy: join activities, social groups, exciting organizations that get your energy running fast. Choose to stay positive! Get your life moving in the fast lane….Work that body and get a good sweat on with daily workouts with a few breaks a week. Listen to music that pumps you up – you know, those sexy songs that make you wanna go look in the mirror and dance and check yourself out. You gotta start to feel like the bell of the ball in your own universe, and this will make the others’ heads turn and hearts beat in your rhythm.
To manifest your Twin Flame, really dive deep into celebrating life! It’s short anyways, and the sooner you get into the positive vibration, you will bring in a partner who reflects this love for life! Do you want to attract someone who is stuck and lonely? So don’t be stuck and lonely, get out there, have fun doing whatever weird hobbies suit you and be in a bliss vibration. You might not attract a partner at your 80s night girls night, but you will be covered in rainbow bliss vibes that he’ll pick up on the next day in the cafe.
You will always attract the perfect reflection of you or what you need to work on – why not magnetize a happy reflection!
TAKE ACTION: BLI$$ HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT
To get happy and excited, I really recommend becoming a manifestations collaging nerd. Go gather magazines and play music that gets you juicy and ready to birth your dream. Then start collaging the relationship and life that you’re ready to be leading, and feel yourself manifesting it into 3D as you put together your creation down. Think of it as a BLI$$ness plan for your love life! Vivid pictures will implant subconscious messages in your mind. Don’t worry if this sounds abstract or weird, I have lots of clients who question the assignment but swear by it afterward when what they’ve collaged shows up in their life.
Tip # 2 Declutter Your Past
The past is what holds our icky relationship limitation stuff. You gotta take out the trash! Though the past serves us as a teacher, teaching us what we want and what we don’t, the past is also where I see people holding onto old blockages that slow down the Twin Flame manifestation. Remember that there is nothing but the now, and you want to get a high vibrating happy life now! It’s time to create a new canvas by letting go of old childhood pain, things that represent awkward times in your life, sad times, and past relationships. Keep the gems of these experiences, but let go of anything that does not serve you now.
Decluttering time! Why keep around all those old FB pics of exes, or the scarf from the Amalfi Coast he gifted you on your birthday (I know it’s cute but get rid of it already!) when it just reminds you of the sad breakup afterward? Go and release anything that represents struggle, relationship strife, or any old attachment to someone that will compete or inhibit your Twin Flame relationship from coming in. Think of everything…you might even want to let go of that expired last name from your ex husband!
Go through all aspects of your life: declutter each of the rooms in your home, let go of anything not working for you in your current friendships, reevaluate your career, upgrade your lingerie collection, and go through all your clothes. Release anything that’s not an 7 out of 10 or more in your life! Let go of anything that doesn’t fit you like a glove for the absolutely joyful and magnificent Twin Flame relationship you’re calling in. It’s time to create your life your way, a portal of bliss. Lots of women prepare for their Twin Flames by becoming man-pleasers, but they only end up in men who expect them to do one thing: please them! Design a life of pleasure surrounding you that pleases you first, and you will have a very happy man like a bee buzzing around your flower in BLI$$!
Tip #3 Radical Self-Acceptance
I know that this tip seems like it’s going to contradict the ones above, but that’s the beauty of radical self-acceptance! You are perfect the way you are! This one is such a fun paradox. The reality is, when you meet and marry your Twin Flame, you will be married to each others’ imperfections for life (we hope!) and this means that you’re going to have to learn how to accept yourself first. Sure it’s nice to try to be a happy superhuman all the time, and it’s a fun game to see how much you can grow and become a super goddess. Yet you are simply a human! And we get things like bad breath, bad credit, and bad kinky thoughts. So what!? So does every other living breathing thing, and the sooner we accept this, the sooner we can move forward and celebrate.
Which of the three tips is the most important? I’d say the latter…What do you think? Please post your comments below and let me know what other tips you have to share.