As a female entrepreneur and High-Healed Priestess, I teach women how to bliss out, let their hair down, and feel sexy in their businesses while making 6-figures, what I call doing BLI$$ness (business + bliss + big buck$).
People are asking me, “Amanda, what is the deal with the heels?” So I thought to answer that question in this blog, and also to explain what high heels do for me as a BLI$$ness owner and HHP (High-Healed Priestess). I have also included a few shots from a recent photo shoot in Florence, Italy to show the transformation that heels can impart.
Before: lacking confidence, shorter, shriveled sense of self-worth, average-looking woman.
Every inch of hard material under a woman’s heels gives her an inch of extra confidence… It’s kinda like inches on a man’s body – (within reason) the longer the better. In fact, women began wearing high heels to be tall like men. Click here for the history of high heels and their invention in Europe. So we walk around on little pedestals to show off that we’re women of leisure, and that we deserve as much respect and power as men do. A woman’s confidence can fluctuate as quickly as her mood and her hormone cycle. A good pair of heels can help correct a confidence level on a day when it’s, well, tipsy…
Every woman secretly wants to be put on a pedestal. Heels provide a platform for self-confidence.
Is this ridiculous? Certainly. Should we question it? Most definitely. There are many reasons not to don heels. Bad backs. Not being able to run away from a rapist when traipsing around shady parts of the downtown at night in your mini dress like your mother taught you not to do (though these heels could definitely come in handy and I bet I could kill someone if I used their sharp point as a weapon as I’ve seen in movies!). Not to mention twisted ankles and monster bunions… All good reasons not to wear heels, right?
Yet I am a HHP and I am not practical all of the time – we priestesses simply cannot resist peculiar customs that make us feel like goddesses, no matter how ridiculous they may be! We can’t let our lady feet lag around in flats all the time…But with bunions, potential back problems, and the risk of toppling over, are high heels worth it, and are they anti-feminist?
Come on lil’ caterpillar…
Honestly, I think that wearing heels on a daily basis would be plain dumb. Do I walk around in high heels often? Nope. I’m actually more frequently caught laying around in them on soft surfaces, nibbling things and doing naughty things…They’re much more comfortable that way. I’m also seen with heels at live business events, but most of the time I am either barefoot or wearing a pear of studded Jimmy Choo/Uggs or sexy slippers with the heels parked nearby. I value my own comfort and safety more than I value looks (except when I am on camera since those images last forever).
BAM! Heels are healing. Like acupuncture: pain now, but good energy for life! I feel like I can butter-FLY in ‘dese!
Is it unfeminist to wear heels? Wah wah! I find that it feels divinely feminine to strut around in heels, actually (just not longer than is painful). Sometimes I get turned on just wearing them around the house, even while Skyping from my virtual office with my clients who have no idea what I’m wearing down yonder. It’s like wearing sexy lingerie to a board meeting: you’re the only one who knows about your secret weapon. Board meetings, that seems so 80s to me as a BLI$$preneur!
The answer to the above question is: Do I care about being feminist anymore? Should we care? Where did that get us? …to be angry man haters? …acting just like men? OK, it got us to some awesome places, but now it’s time to break the rules again and just do as we please and also think about what intuitively feels right.
I love doing BLI$$ness in the most feminine, pleasurable way possible. In fact, I am so stubborn and also scared $h*tless of things that aren’t blissful and easy, that I tend to not get anything done at all unless it’s done in a High-Healed Priestess playful and sexy manner. It’s how I’ve had my success and how I teach my tribe of HHPs to build their 6-figure BLI$$nesses, too.
Just be you. As weird as you may be!
That’s the secret to dressing for success and succsexiness. If you feel better wearing combat boots, by all means do that. I grew up in hippie feminist Berkeley where most moms didn’t wear makeup and all I wanted to do was play with Barbies and dose up on the eyeshadow already. Call me repressed, but this girl wants to be a little girly sometimes, especially when it comes to stepping on the stage…
And isn’t that what we’re doing as BLI$$ness women? Stepping up on the stage, where others can see us, hear our unique messages, and learn from what we have to speak? Heels represent that, the little pedestals we walk on. God bless you if you don’t need heels or hair or makeup to feel confident as a woman on stage. Or if you have flawless skin that doesn’t need concealer, or long legs that don’t need that little boost (and boost of your caboose, which heels do so nicely may I say!).
After: healed, whole, happy in heels hottie with confidence!
I say this: do whatever turns YOU on, and your clients will come. Waiting around to do what’s right or what you “should” do will attract no one or just people who are as repressed and boring as you are being, which is going to burn you out fast in your BLI$$ness.
I love working with fun, funky, sexy, freed women who have been waiting to stomp around not caring what other people think. The magic is when you do that and people still actually want to pay you for your bliss!
“The fact is, sometimes it’s hard to walk in a single women’s shoes. That’s why we need really special ones now and then – to make the walk a little more fun.”
– Carrie Bradshaw, Sex & The City
The moral of the story: high heels make you look hot. You might sprain an ankle, but even Ace bandages look great with heels! Careful walking down those uneven stone staircases!
Come on ladies, just put on whatever the f%&k makes you feel like the sexy BLI$$ness bombshell you are and embrace all those A$$ets and come on and do a little dance with me. I’ve kicked my heels off already, since I like to breakdance and belly dance at the same time and it’s too hard to do in heels. Girl, I love you! Now let’s go have some fun.
“You put high heels on and you change.”
– Manolo Blahnik
Top three tips to wearing high heels like a HHP:
1)Bring a change of flats, here’s a great portable option- foldable shoes with a wrist pouch by Dr. Scholl’s ($12.99) available at most drug stores.
2) Don’t wear really high heels for more than a your feet enjoy, a few minutes at a time perhaps – life is too short to be in pain! Never dance in heels since no one will be looking at your feet anyway, and you won’t fully enjoy the experience.
3) Take as many photos earlier in the evening after you make your grand high-healed entrance. You’ll be forever remembered for those adorable fuck-me-shoes that everyone will see on Facebook for years to come. On top of this, your makeup and hair will be fresh at the beginning of the evening anyways. You’ll pull a Mr. Rogers and switch to the flats. You’ll stay grounded and balanced instead of tipsy (unless you have that new pink cosmo drink). Most people think it’s adorable that you have your little back-ups. Ladies will constantly be asking you where to buy a pair!
Futuristic Fuck-Me’s
Looking into the future with high heels, I see inventions that work with the ever changing foot-fetish needs of the High-Healed Priestess. I pray for the day when someone invents an adjustable high heel so that you can walk comfortably, then click a button at the back of the shoe to elevate yourself 2-5 inches, depending on the height of your date or how much confidence you’re needing that day. Let’s see if I can patent that before some designer nerd gets to it, I’m sure I’ll make a fortune!
Technology…Yuck! As a High-Healed Priestess I will be the first to admit that I can be a bit of a dumb blond in this area. But after disclaiming that, I also get to tell you that I hated having sucky sound in my earlier vids, and I have made some sound improvements on both sound and video quality by using my iphone with some special tricks I share below.
This is how I feel before I get empowered as a BLI$$preneur and handle the technology bits!
1) Buy this lapel mic for the iPhone. The only one I’ve seen so far is the Audio Technica ATR 3350 Lavalier Mic. It works with all iPhones, iPads, and many other cameras. 2) You’ll also need an adapter or the mic won’t actually do anything – I found this out last year the hard way getting all excited when the mic came in the mail, and nothing worked. Oye! So here’s where to buy the iPhone 1/8 inch microphone adapter 3.5 mm.
This tiny battery will turn your microphone ON!
3) Also buy some extra batteries, you’ll need a pack of lr44 batteries and make sure to buy a few because if you pull a dumb blond moment like I’ve done a few times, you’ll leave the mic on all week and come back to find a dead battery and wanna scream!
4) Clip your mic underneath your dress or shirt so you don’t see the cord on the outside. Bras are convenient places to “plug in” but you do want the mic to be unobstructed from your mouth. Having cleavage really helps! I just jam my mic between my girls on the outside of my bra and I’m good to go (as long as I’m wearing a low-cut top).
5) Do a sound check. There’s nothing f%&ing more frusterating than the two mistakes I’ve made: (1) recording the whole video and the sound sounds $hitty, and (2) recording the entire video flawlessly to realize that you forgot to turn the darn mic on!
Where I started: click here to see my YouTube channel and don’t laugh at the poor sound and video quality I had when first starting on my Macbook Pro with no external mic! Also, don’t laugh at the quality of some of the current shots as I am learning how to make good videos and have come to believe that I need to invest in an SLR camera, which is why I purchased this new baby today!
I got the Canon T4i 650D which I am loving – it is the top choice for a budget SLR camera for your YouTube videos, and you’ll see a huge difference in my upcoming YouTube videos in terms of visual quality. Can’t wait to see what you think.
Just because you have a vagina doesn’t mean that you can’t rock new technologies!
Good luck BLI$$ness women (and sexy BLI$$ness men), to your flawless and funky videos!
Deep breath, don’t be afraid. If I could do it, so can you…believe me, I am a big baby when it comes to these types of tech things, but I am getting so much better!
If you have any tips on making videos with better sound quality, feel free to post in the comments below. BLI$$ings!
I believe that BLI$$preneurs are the sexiest species of women on earth
It is time women, time for the Divine Feminine to rise in all aspects of ourselves, espeically in areas where we have shut Her out. And yep, we have shut out the Divine Feminine from so many areas, including:
In our bodies (hence the high rate of hormonal imbalances, high breast and female cancers, etc)
In our schools and universities
In childbirth (hence high rates of C-sections and overuse of drugs in birth)
In medicine in general (overuse of antibiotics, doctors prescribing treatments as if we have too many organs and not enough natural chemicals inside our bodies)
In business (!!!)
In our farming practices
In our finances and banking systems
In marriage and relationships
Oh Goddess (Lakshmi, Aphrodite, Ashtar, Innana, Kuan Yin, and all of your many other faces and names!),we are ready to bring you into our world, all the way down to the lower chakras. Business takes place in the lower chakras, and I say it’s time to bring bliss down from the Heavens and do BLI$$ness Divine Feminine style.
The Divine Feminine has been hiding from being big and beautiful in Her path on Earth in sooo many ways, and it’s time to change this! We women have been hiding from the Divine Feminine within ourselves for so long, in every aspects of ourselves and our lives, especially in relationship to the masculine, in business and with money. Oops! Yet finally, we are waking up. Finally!!! It’s OK to play big, receive our abundance and wear fancy gowns and crowns again and prance around the temple as High Priestesses (or modern day High-Healed Priestesses in heels as I call us!) with our soul sistas.
It’s time to stop playing small ladies, because that’s no fun. Let us live boldy and ruthlessly and BIG with our Divine Feminine energies channeling throughout all aspects of our lives: love, business, spirituality, childbirth, our farming practices, friendship, fashion, the way we dance, do our hair, touch our children, etc., etc…
It’s also time to stop self-abusing our bodies/minds/spirits, and to stop letting ourselves get abused by anything or anyone. Eat more kale. Wear more of your favorite colors. Take more time to walk the beach. Move somewhere you’ve always wished to live and quit that job that’s literally killing you on the inside. That’s all a game, an illusion: everything is US, everything is Oneness. You are a powerful goddess holding Her light, the Light of oneness through the Feminine so woot woot, embody it baby!
I used to wear all black in order to appear thinner which was really funny because I was thin, a size 2. I wanted to be that perfect model-thin girl and I tried to keep up with the rich preppy kids at my college and I was so miserable. After ten years of trying to be like a man, I belly flopped and became super feminine and spiritual and I guess you could call me a hippie healer. Now I’ve come back to center and I am helping the Divine Feminine rise through the structures of the Masculine in business, and I’ve seen how easy and beautiful it is to let business meet your bliss and make BLI$$ness.
It’s time to let go of the old funky stinky patriarchal paradigms and systems and to create our own that feel so delicious and alive in our Feminine bodies.
Finally: It’s Time for the Divine Feminine to Rise in Business!
Let’s be honest…We all need money to survive and thrive as living breathing goddesses. And we women are indeed reflections of the Great Goddess herself. So let’s stop treating ourselves as peasants, slave girls, rejects, settling for less, believing that we’re “not good enough” or even “not God enough,” for we are God/godess created in her/his/Oneness’ reflection. Business is simply an exchange of goods or services for money, and money is a form of Divine Love brought through an agreed value-exchange. BLI$$ness, as I call it, is the Divine Feminine way of doing business.
The Divine Feminine is rising on Gaia, and She has been rising slowly but surely for the past 5,000 years since the Her fall in Egypt way back when! We are all awakening, remembering, and reclaiming the Divine Feminine and restoring the sacred connection with her Masculine counterpart, the Divine Masculine. Like the ocean rising worldwide, her Feminine wisdom is returning and restoring the memory of the Ancient Sacred ways of the Goddess. I totally get the vivid image of Aphrodite riding the clam as I write this! Here’s a fun artwork my friend/client/graphic artist Cora Flora created for me:
We women have been controlled by limiting thoughts, The Illuminati (the shadow of our collective consciousness), and we have given up our power through the financial systems, through patriarchal marriages, and by being afraid of money and business. We convince ourselves that business isn’t spiritual and that money is the root of all evil in many lifetimes.
We take vows of poverty and swear that we are more holy because we sever the Divine Feminine from our financial lives. What a hoax! What a mistake! Money is a form of Divine Feminine spiritual love. Love coming through a physical masculine form. It’s kinda sexy just talking about this! The tantra of money fascinates me.
Financial systems are meant to reflect the highest potential and sharing and Love of humankind. And guess what? We aren’t meant to run from this potential. We are meant to connect with the great exchange of money and love. As we do this we will:
Eradicate all forms of slavery and enslavement, sex trafficking etc
Free ourselves into abundance and financial wealth
Step into limitless prosperity
Quit our day jobs that don’t serve our highest potential
Allow us to be honored with coins of Gold as Goddesses
Make love to our money, and live in Holy MatriMoney
Donate massively to charities
Rebuild the Goddess Temples, which are friggin expensive and beautiful!
That’s all I have to say for now. What a fun article to write. My BLI$$ness is done for the day. Lovin’ you!
So looking forward to the launch of DrAmandaNoelle.com next week. Can’t wait to share it with you luscious ladies!
There is an ancient secret power that resides deep inside every woman. I am unlocking this BIG time right now, and I wanted to remind you that you have it too…
I call this feline-like Feminine power “Pussy Power,” and I often spell it with two dollar signs, “PU$$Y Power!”
This eternal Sacred Feminine energy is the stuff of life, of passion, purpose, and pleasure, and when tapped into can attract all things your heart desires; this includes attracting your high-paying soulmate clients in your bli$$ness, business opportunities, speaking gigs, cash flowing, etc.
What is PU$$Y Power? It is a primal life-force of erotic power that is generated in the female body. It’s not only related to sexual energy, it’s related to anything having to do with creation from the etheric world into the physical world that we live in, from Heaven to Earth.
PU$$Y Power is a priceless life-force that can help you attract anything you want: from a romantic partner, to more money, a living situation, anything your heart or your favorite body part desires!
Anatomically, PU$$Y Power is generated from the G-spot and the other 6 Yoni Gates: clit, cervix, labia, mouth of the womb, center of the womb, and the “conception area,” as well as all over the body, the other reproductive areas, the brain, and even the entire aura and chakras.
PU$$Y Power is moved through the chakras and Kundalini pathways.
It is energetically an attractive (magnetic) energy, as well as a nurturing one.
Imagine a bee flying toward the nectar of the flower. The flower is exuding her nectar, the physical substance, but the energy behind this sweet perfume is the Pu$$y Power.
In it’s rawest essence, PU$$Y Power is the same as the Female side of your Twin Flame Love, taking form in the female reproductive area, holding the purest form of Divine Feminine essence of your soul.
Getover your Pussy Power Phobias
We are all at least a little afraid of pussy, of our Pussy Power, and that in other women.
OMGoddess, say, “I have a pussy, and she has Pu$$ Power! Hear her roar!”
In the ancient priestess temples, young girls were educated by the other women on how pussies worked, and there was a sacred reverence for pussy, not all this shame!
Why don’t they teach you this sh*t in sex-ed? They really should have had a tantric sex-ed class, right!? Twin Flame Tantra 101…
So now that you know what Pussy Power is, how can you relinquish the fears instilled in you from birth around your PU$$Y Power? Oh, and a hundred past lives too!?
Yes, all women have been programed to fear our Divine birthright as women. We are afraid of the Divine Feminine Herself, which is why religious leaders of the Patriarchal religions have been particularly fearful of women discovering their own Pussy Power.
But I won’t go there because I could rant and rave about that for a lifetime.
Here are six secrets to healing and rediscovering your Pu$$y Power:
1) Pu$$yFirmations instead of writing down assfirmations (affirmations, typo, sorry), write down pussyfirmations – things that remind you of how wonderful having PU$$Y Power is.
Here are my top three today: “My pussy is powerful and attracts whatever she needs and repels whatever she doesn’t” “I have a million dollar PU$$Y!” “My PU$$Y Power attracts 5 clients to me this week” “My PU$$Y Power attracts my most magical love stud this month!”
2) Rose quartz insemination So we all know that crystals are powerful healing agents. The science behind crystals is fascinating, and you can research more about this on your own. The molecular structure of silica in crystals brings forth a symmetrical “sacred geometrical” chain lattice.
It basically creates and even flow of energy that is healing and balancing. It’s like a reboot to your system. Rose quartz is a great example – it balances the loving frequencies in a very feminine way, and if you are sensitive and open, you can feel it. It’s known as the heart-chakra stone, and it’s energy is very healing. Place this master healing stone inside your vagayjay. Yeah, in your vag.
Seriously girls, it’s an ancient secret that you won’t find in your Cosmopolitan magazine, but it’s been passed down through the lineage of the High-Healed Priestesses and I pass it to you. Insert the smooth rose-quartz stone (obviously no sharp edges in your honeypot!) after you have cleansed, charged and blessed the stone.
3) Look at your vagina regularly We are all healing from generations of fear of Pu$$y Power. God forbid your mother or grandmother or X female relative or friend was raped.
Unfortunately, many of us are healing from energetic or actual sexual abuse and shame. So we often fear the beauty of what lies between our legs, because there are too many traumas and old wounds to look. But do it woman, get that mirror, get spread-eagle, and stare her in the eye.
She is beautiful! See her soul, her radiance, and say: “I love you, it’s nice to see you again, I honor your power.” And advanced level Pu$$y Powerettes: ask your pussy to respond, and you can even have a conversation with the “soul of your pussy.” The question would be, do you have an ass-soul? Hmmm, I don’t know if I’d wanna meet him in a dark alley! Lol 🙂
4) Look at other pu$$ies! What?! But how do I look at other pussies if I am not bi/lesbian? It’s easy…
There’s a little creepy fella I met the other day called Google. Just put the words “pink pussy” into Google, and hit enter. Then hit images for Google Images. You’ll see all kinds of pussies of all shapes and sizes.
You can put other key words next to pussies to get an ethnic mix of pussies. Any type of pussy you can imagine is on the web. Wow, thank you for sharing your innermost flower and Pu$$y Power with us!
Although most porn industry models have been struggling from sexual abuse, I would say that many of them are like regular old lightworkers like you or I but who are healing out those lower chakras by expressing their PU$$Y Power openly.
When you see their images, send them love and light and wish them healing as they heal your sexual shyness and shame. I know that staring at women’s naked bodies on the internet has been very healing for me, as I had a lot of PU$$Y Power shame and it wasn’t pretty.
It was only when I could see the variety of other women’s bodies, that I could see how perfect and pretty my pussy was, and it makes it a hell of a lot more fun with my Beloved in bed.
You’ll want to to look at real pussies too, which is why at my Pussy Power Powwows, I gather women together to face their shame and awaken into their Pussy Power with yoni gazing together!
5) Hit up that twat with a 432 hz tuning fork There is a little tool called a 432 hz tuning fork that is very cleansing of the water in your body, and water holds onto memory and trauma.
To heal out sexual fear, shame, abuse, and stuckness in the lower chakras, banging a 432 hz tuning fork and placing it spread-eagle next to your lovely leg-connector (your crotch area), you can heal out tremendous amounts of fear, grief, anger, etc., and this is important work since you have a big mission and job to do on this planet! No more stuck blocked lower chakras ladies, you are too precious for that. Unblock ’em, get moving, and be brave and bold with that PU$$Y Power!
6) Pleasure. Pleasure pleasure pleasure! Get it girl, pleasure yourself. You can use your hands, a dildo, someone else’s hands or other body parts, even a penis will do… Kidding! Penises are sacred and that was a bad joke.
Penises connected to a quality loving man will of course more than do! Thank you men for your magic love-wand-appendages.
My point was, you gotta bring bliss and love and passion into your pussy to activate your Pu$$y Power. A stale and stuck yoni (female part in Sanskrit) holds no water, no nourishment, and this ain’t good! Get grounded into your Pussy Power through pleasure.
Now how’s that for some PU$$Y Power 101!? Good luck girls, go to it, get your power on, and enjoy every molecule and every moment. It’s all part of the soul-purposed mission you have as a high-end healer and as a High-Healed Priestess. You’ll be attracting good stuff left and right, clients, money, opportunities, ease, and bliss, so that you can live your life like it’s one big vacation.
Your bliss and Divine Feminine magnificence is the secret ingredient to magnifying your Twin Flame as a High-Healed Priestess.
Kick of your high heels my sexy sister-friend, and sink your sumptuous body into this skin-softening bliss bath brew that will allow you to vibe high to attract your next date, soulmate, or even your Twin Flame!
It is said that Aphrodite, the goddess of love, sexuality, sensuality, and beauty, took her Aphrodite Bath upon Cyprus every spring to re-virginize herself, cleansing out old lovers and energies that no longer served her. This way, she was able to receive the bliss and gifts of each lover, and transmute and release energies that were not in her highest good. Then, when she was ready and energetically re-virginized, she could bring forth a new high vibrational relationship.
Twin Flame Bath Ritual to Attract Love | Spell to Awaken Soulmate Sex Magic | Dr. Amanda Noelle
I bless you in your Sacred Sexuality purification and bliss with this yummy bath blend. I channeled the ingredients and instructions for this bath from Goddess Aphrodite herself!
Twingredients:
432 Hz tuning fork
11 Rose petals or 11 roses from organic roses (the store bought roses usually are covered in pesticides so be careful)
11 Drops pure rose essential oil
11 Drops rose geranium essential oil
11 Drops rosemary essential oil
Base oil, like warmed coconut, sweet almond, sunflower, or apricot kernel oil
11 Sprigs fresh-picked rosemary tied in a bundle
11 Ounces Himalayan salt
11 Ounces sea salt
Rose quartz and amethyst
A carton of coconut, goat, or organic cow’s milk (optional)
Twinstructions
Add the essential oils into the base oil, and then pour this into the bath tub.
Add remaining ingredients to the tub.
Drop yourself into the bath slowly.
Chime your 432 hz tuning fork and place it on the inside edge of the tub.
Light a pink, lavender, or white candle.
Say your soulmate attraction prayer.
Repeat affirmations: “I attract my soulmate in no time,” or “I attract my Beloved,” etc.
Aphrodisiac Twin Flame BLI$$ings!
XO, Amanda
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker and founder of Aphrodite University. She helps stellar spiritual women swiftly attract their Twin Flames for a lasting Sacred Union.
What Is Feminine Energy?
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Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.
Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...
Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.
In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.
many reasons not to don heels. Bad backs. Not being able to run away from a rapist when traipsing around shady parts of the downtown at night in your mini dress like your mother taught you not to do (though these heels could definitely come in handy and I bet I could kill someone if I used their sharp point as a weapon as I’ve seen in movies!). Not to mention twisted ankles and monster bunions… All good reasons not to wear heels, right?
2) Rose quartz insemination
