Have you every had a Dancegasm?
Dancegasm–yes I said it….It’s almost like an orgasm…but better
I think as good as (or even better than) a fully body orgasm too.
Because it’s like having sex with your entire body with the Higher Dimensions and your Twin Flame.
But Dancegasms aren’t just for fun or child’s play…this is an ancient high priestess practice, a tool for enlightenment, healing, and spiritual channeling!
Dancegasms can also help you rapidly heal your body, mind, and soul and call in your Twin Flame.
Dancegasms have helped me to create absolute miracles in my life and I want this for you too, Darling!
Juicy miracles can happen with a Dancegasm practice, such as:
- Attract your Twin Flame while having a dancegasm (I did it, so can you!)
- Heal your body instantly from chronic pain, like that gnarly toothache I had
- Astral travel out of your body into the Higher Dimensions…wheeee!
- Feel absolutely connected to The Universe
- Release heavy stuck fears and blocks that hold you back from getting what you want
Wanna know how to have a Dancegasm too?
Sure you do.
And love to share my secrets with you so you can call in your man, your money, and your mojo!
Watch the Dancegasm video below.
In this video, I’ll teach you more about the art of Dancegasm so you can call in…
your Twin Flame, better health, sexy booty, and get more confidence than you’ve ever had by shaking that sexy ass!
Watch th before we call in your Twin Flame at the Twin Flame new moon on 11/11 next week!
Simply click here to see the Dancegasm video above.
When you’re done watching the video, be sure to show some comment love so I can know what you think! And join us next Wednesday for the 11/11 Twin Flame activations!
PS: Reminder! Don’t forget to schedule the 11/11 Twin Flame New Moon Ceremony for Wed. at 5pm PST, don’t miss it. Opt-in here to attend!
“Help! I don’t know how to find my Twin Flame!”
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I get this a lot.
I want to be able to say, “Just use the Law of Attraction, and your Twin Flame will come!”
But it’s really not that simple. We can use the Twin Flame Law of Attraction, but we do have to evolve and grow on the spiritual, mental, and emotional levels before calling in our Beloved.
That’s why I highly suggest using this tip before calling in your man or woman, as it’s a powerful tool for self and soul development that will prepare you for the real deal.
Find your Twin Flame fast with Soul Family
Calling in a Twin Flame is quite a journey for many of us–it certainly was for me! I used this very powerful key to call in my Beloved who fits me like a glove, and I discovered it on accident. I have shown my clients how to call in their partner using this tool as well, and it seems to be an important step for those stuck in a dating rut.
There are many ways to call in your Twin Flame, and everyone will walk a slightly different path. However, one real simple way to ‘practice’ calling in your Twin Flame is to call in Soul Family first.
Soul Family connections activate Twin Flame Love
Soul Family are people in your ‘soul group’ with whom you reincarnate (don’t worry if you don’t believe in reincarnation though, just think of them as people you instantly feel connected to). They’re those special people with which you easily resonate.
With Soul Family, you literally resonate at a similar vibrational frequency in many aspects, and it feels really really good.
Soul Family Reunions prepare you for your Twin Flame Union because you learn how to match frequencies, form bonds, work through difficulties, and navigate intimacy.
Soul Family is an alternate form of Twin Flame Love
Here is an example of my Soul Family Reunion success story! My soul sister Chiara and I met in Florence, Italy years ago in 2003, and it felt immediately as if we were old friends. Past life perhaps?
After moving back from Italy, Chiara and I were mostly out of touch for a decade because it was way before Facebook and even email was rather rare in Italy.
Then, two years ago, in 2013, I reunited with Chiara and we had an incredible summer friendship in Greece/Italy, followed by another 2 month visit in Tuscany because we had so much to connect on, catch up on, and create together!
As it happened, I could feel there was lots of soul growth and evolution happening through our connection. I’d been going through a stuck patch for several years regarding my own Twin Flame process (very annoying when you’re a Twin Flame Matchmaker helping others get what they want!).
Chiara and I would sit at cafes laughing and talking about what our Twin Flames looked like, fantasizing about the cute business men walking in or the hot Greek waiters (who did turn into brief love affairs for both of us!). The energy was playful and I felt like my Soul Sister and I could create anything together.
I felt way less stuck in the Twin Flame department after spending time with Chiara, and I don’t think it was a coincidence that the last time I saw her in person was during the same timeframe in which I met my Beloved.
There is much healing, and magic that happens in Soul Family Partnerships.
To this day, I have Chiara to thank for helping her meet my Twin Flame, Jack. I met Jack for the second time at Ecstatic Dance Oakland the night that I brought Chiara in for a visit! I love both of my Soul Family Members and know that Chiara was an important gateway to my reunion with Jack.
My message to you is to spend time with people who really fill your cup, who melt your heart, and who even push your buttons at times because they help you grow so swiftly!
I am indebted to Chiara especially for the difficult fight we got in at the end of her last visit–it pushed me to grow and face my worst fears. We worked through it together and stepped into a new level of love and surrender. It was not easy.
It wasn’t easy…But neither are Twin Flame relationships!
Have you called in your Soul Family–people who:
- really get you
- who have a similar frequency
- share a similar set of spiritual tools
- are on the same path of growth and soul evolution
- fill your cup fully
- feel like brothers/sisters
- have that instant soul bond ‘recognition’
I hope that you are able to call in your Twin Flame fast by activating some powerful Soul Family relationships. I also hope that you can use these sacred connections to experience the first levels of Twin Flame Love. Twin Flame Love goes way beyond two people; it is an energy inside you and is of God. It is truly everywhere.
How does Twin Flame energy presence itself in your life RIGHT NOW? And how can you call in support from your Soul Family to prepare for your Twin Flame Union?
Twin Flame and Soul Fam Love, Light & Blessings!
Dr. Amanda Noelle,
The Twin Flame Matchmaker
Hello High-Healed Priestess (modern-day shamanic high priestess, maybe in heels, maybe barefoot!). I know that you’re ready to tap into that unlimited wealth consciousness, the goddess of abundance. I know it is time for the Divine Feminine to rise within every aspect of you – your relationships, your business, your life and bliss. And I am sure that you want your goddess of abundance energies to come (and to cum!) easily like a 6 or 7-figure orgasm, right?
The key to attracting 6 & 7-figure BLI$$ (or anything you want)
The key to breaking free to 6-figures or to attracting your Twin Flame ISN’T by using a template, following have-tos, having the perfect hair, or even the perfect product…The Law of Attraction provides some help with manifesting too, but without this key thing, you won’t be able to attract what you want.
Sure, it’s cool if you have an awesome thing going on – a great product, body, brain, whatever thing that the world needs/wants. Yes, you DO have to have something that is genuine, of quality, and that benefits the world by being in service. But that’s NOT enough to take you to reach 6 & 7-figure BLI$$ as a High-Healed Priestess…
Nope. It’s something sacred and ancient that is being held in the memory of Gaia. It’s within you. PU$$Y Power, the Divine Feminine sacred essence that resides within the seat of the soul AND body of every woman in her root and sacral chakras, that connects her deeply and ecstatically with Gaia (Mother Earth)and every other Divine Feminine body on this earth. It enables her to connect with other customers/clients who are healing and activating their PU$$Y Power after thousands of years of having it cut off due to a patriarchal paradigm that was part of the collective consciousness’ soul contract. But it’s over now, and the Divine Feminine is rising. It’s time to awaken this sacred ancient diamond that is alive and active in your womb/yoni and rock the PU$$Y Power out of the ball park!
The Isis codes in the PU$$Y Power
There are 2 dollar signs in PU$$Y Power. And this spells Isis. ISIS=Isis=$$. Isis is the Divine Feminine symbol of Ancient Egypt, Sacred Sexuality, and the Divine Mother Goddess is encoded within the double dollar sign $$ = ISIS, as are the two pillars of light representing the two spines of the two Twin Flame Lovers, and the ‘S’ is the kundalini that runs up the spine by activating the PU$$Y Power in the female by her beloved. To learn more about Kundalini from my blog What Is Kundalini Awakening? click HERE.
PU$$Y Power is an untapped market and there is a HUGE need in the marketplace.
Your clients are hungry for the activation that you can give them, and you must activate it within yourself. Connecting to Gaia and activating your PU$$Y Power was how I broke free to 6-figure BLI$$ after being in 4-figure agony for all my 20s!
Right now, the Divine Feminine in every woman needs to be healed, and in every man too. When you heal your PU$$Y Power, you become a mentor for other PU$$ies (women, chalice holders) out there. Your clients will be intuitively and magnetically attracted to you because you will have the codex stored within your womb/yoni and woman that can clear and heal her. It’s all very juicy and exciting!
Check out this video to help you womanifest like crazy!
If you are ready to womanifest Divine Feminine style using the Law of Attraction, watch this video! Grab a pen and paper to take notes. You will learn how to:
- Receive whatever you want, in money, career, love, etc
- Stop settling for less! Become a queen of womanifestation
- Get the Universe working for you, not working against you
- Clear old ugly limiting patterns that limit your heart’s desires and abundance
Blessings and namaste,
Dr. Amanda Noelle is the Founder of Aphrodite University, the premier Divine Feminine-based university helping High-Healed Priestesses turn their bliss into 6 & 7-figure BLI$$nesses that heal the world.
This year, I’ve been reclaiming my passion for writing again, despite the fact that I have a slight learning disability that makes it really easy to make typos, get distracted, and become incredibly self-critical.
I used to struggle with low self-esteem, feeling stupid, not good enough, and it petrified me from sharing my voice through writing. When I did write, it was like pulling teeth, and I had to edit my work like a million times. It was no walk in the park.
It didn’t help that I am now writing about esoteric ‘woo woo’ topics (part of the job as a Twin Flame Matchmaker) that often brings up a lot of my insecurities (like Will they think I’m crazy?!)
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker with a successful private practice, writing has been a key way to access new clients while expressing my heart and soul with the world.
Yet just a few years ago I was blocked in my writing, in my career, in my finances, and in my power. I drove myself so crazy with my blocks, that I nearly wanted to leave the planet because I knew how far away I was from living my talents, dreams, and soul-purpose.
Wahooo….I broke free!
This year’s writing breakthrough helped me heal myself, and my writing has really made an impact on my BLI$$ness (business + bliss + big buck$) which recently hit 6-figures. I am still in shock after making 4-figures all through my 20s! The key secrets to my writing and BLI$$ness success is speaking from my heart, not caring what people think, and being in service while loving myself as a High-Healed Priestess. Bet you didn’t see that coming, did ya?
Writing was love-hate for me before this year. I hated deadlines, feared critics, and knew that I’d be making loads of ‘mistakes,’ typos, and grammatical errors. Unless I hired a professional editor (which cramps my style and just didn’t appeal), I knew I’d be baring my ass out to the world, which was just embarrassing! Yet I was called to spread Light, share my message, and teach others that they too could be Lightworkers changing the world without having to be perfect. Oh, and get paid in the process!
Me writing in my ‘office with a view’ in Crete, Greece
I just love getting paid to write while helping people, like I used to do in my early 20s when I was an expat nutrition and fitness writer in Shanghai (which never made me much money, but it was a start and I was less self-conscious because there was so little competition there as most writers wrote in Chinese!).
Though I am not yet technically a ‘paid writer’ directly through articles or books, I am paying myself with the income I gain from clients who find me via search engines using words like “twin flame soulmate” and “goddess of abundance!” So my writing dreams have come alive again in the most unexpected way!
How to make money off your blog (a few tips):
There is no one right way to make blogs pay off. I know my way has been fast and effective, and it doesn’t include making money directly from the blog, but comes from people finding me through my blog. Blogs can make you good money if you know how to convert readers into paying clients or customers. I highly recommend selling high-end services or products if you’re brand-spakingin’ new in your biz. I would have starved to death if I started selling products at $5-50/pop. I see most spiritual people writing blogs and doing services by donation (e-begging) and it makes me so sad to see those PayPal icons when I know they could be helping people while making good money from their high-end services or products.
Selling is also a big piece of the picture, but I will talk about that in other blogs. Mainly I wanted to reiterate how beneficial it has been for me to gain readers via the blog, gain their trust, and then convert them into paying clients whom I love! These Soulmate Clients burst my heart open with joy, and they feel like they know me before even meeting me because of my blogs (and YouTube/social media posts as well). My clients almost always tell me they hire me because they appreciate my rawness, my weirdness, and my unique flavor. It’s almost as if they can recognize that we are soul family before even meeting me, simply by reading my blog or viewing my YouTube channel. And what a marketing time-saver, instead of marketing to individuals over and over – blogs make you money while speaking to a vast number of peeps! Love the spiritual leverage.
Selling through your spiritual blog is really awesome!
Luckily, I have a magical gift in selling to my Soulmate Clients (soul family members who receive your soul-purpose based services in exchange for financial currency). I am super psyched to be teaching my students at Aphrodite University how to use my Seductive Selling tips to their Soulmate Clients who visit their sites! Because I have converted my blog readers, Facebook followers, and YouTube viewers into paying clients, my 6-figure BLI$$ness has taken me to magical and exotic travel destinations this year, which has unleashed a creative beast in me. I highly recommend trying to make money as a spiritual healer, teacher, writer, Lightworker – your bliss saves your own life as it saves the world!
My perfectionism got converted into my pleasurerrectionism!
What’s more, is that I’ve learned to accept my typos as ‘quirks’ and have really let go of perfectionism! This yielded way more readers, better blogs (if you ask me), and wayyyyyy more pleasure on my part. Because of this, I have successfully been able to write a blog a week (and sometimes several per day because I get so excited!). Blog writers’ block GONE….Cheers to having overcome a diagnosed learning ‘BLI$$ability,’ healing shame about the way I learn and express myself. Anyone can do this, because if I can do it, so can you sister!
My writing adventures have taken me and come with me abroad this year. I have made several blog entries on my pink Macbook Pro Retina from San Francisco, Greece, Italy, Costa Rica, and Los Angeles. My favorite writing local was a remote spot on Crete overlooking the ocean, where I got to access internet via my iPhone’s SIM card. Oh, it was from an ancient cave, a house built right into the cave wall! The views of the ocean, olive groves, and mountains were stunning, and I believe my creativity cracked open on Crete this year (as well as my inner cretan who just doesn’t care what others think about me!).
I highly recommend visiting Crete to rekindle your ties to Ancient Atlantis, if you feel connected and called. Everyone I know who has gone there has come back with the souvenir of more creativity, an Atlantean activation, and a Higher Self soul-alignment. I highly recommend traveling with your writing to wherever your heart and Higher Self guides you, you won’t regret it.
To me, writing has become an indulgence that happens to help some people (or at least that’s what they’re telling me), that helps me express the real me, that gets my ideas and thoughts solidified. Oh, and expressing my inner love and putting it out there into cyberspace brings me a great deal of joy. Finally, the BLI$$ buck$ that naturally seems to be following are a hoot too!
It’s time for you too, baby…
It’s so cool that I’ve used my ‘imperfect brain’ to build a 6-figure BLI$$ness I love! I never would have imagined that my fun goofy side that loves to roll with the punches, channel Pleiadian Light, and be as wild and woo woo and as weird as I want to be could be appreciated, paid, and professional all at the same time! Check out my blog to help you bust blog perfectionism here.
I say YES to loving and living your dream and writing it all out like a giant ongoing love letter to the world. I say go now, no matter how low your self-esteem is, how imperfect you are, or how stupid you believe you are. I say, the weirder, the better. The world has been suffering of boredom for centuries and it’s making us all sick in the head!
You can achieve your dreams, your bliss, your abundance…Because you are a holy friggin’ awesome child of God/dess and the world needs your love and wisdom and woo woo magic! That’s all the recipe takes. Now go bliss, bless, and blog your heart out to the world in 2014.
Lots of BLI$$ings and good blog fortune.
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker and Founder of Aphrodite University.
Isn’t it time you started loving your breasts? Breasts frame the heart-chakra and are the symbol of Divine Feminine nurturing, giving, and receiving of pleasure.
Boobs: you only get two of them in each lifetime.
Might as well love the pair you got. They are sacred life-giving, nurturing, and soft. Here are the three top tips to turn breast-shame into breast love and enlightenment so that your heart chakra and your breasts can realign at the Divine Feminine Love Twin Flame frequencies.
Goddesses, you have been brainwashed by a patriarchal fear-mongering media that thrived on your self-hatred, but you are free now to love yourself and to forgive. The breasts hold onto memory, emotion, and toxins, but once cleared are free and happy girls! These are three tips to help you fall in love with your terrific tatas once again:
1) The breast massage ever!
Massage your breasts with this or another loving elixir:
1 tablespoon coconut oil 3 drops each: rose, grapefruit, frankincense, and cypress
Massage benefits you by:
-celebrating your body brings your breasts joy
-moving lymph and toxins reduces cancer risk
-tissues will become stimulated to produce collagen, making your girls perkier, longer
-your breasts will be fuller and firmer, so it’s a light natural breast-lift over time
You can watch this breast massage wellness video for instruction on how to massage your lovely lady lumps:
2) Talk to your tatas!
I know it sounds strange, but talking to your breasts will give you answers. Ask your tatas questions, and they will respond. If you have had body image issues, ask your breasts what that’s about, and how they can assist you. Ask them what they need. Dialoguing with your body will bring you profound answers that no doctor can tell you!
3) Celebrate your boobs through breast voyeurism.
Look at (and maybe even feel?) other women’s breasts in a celebratory way. Look at yours too, and toast to them with a cup of red wine, or better yet, green tea, which is a cancer-reducer.
Women can get arrested for going topless. It must mean that women’s breasts are a threat to society, right? Are they really that dangerous if they gave us life early on? So bad that they should be kept indoors and covered up besides in the changing room and in front of our husbands? Oh boy, if only women made the laws, we’d have International Titty Day at least twice a year (one for each boob!). Every woman loves to look at other women’s breasts, it’s a little known fact because no one talks about it. But the bottom line is that everyone loves breasts, they’re awesome! Newsflash, breasts aren’t evil, they’re amazing!
Perhaps if we rewrote the laws and started celebrating the way we looked, we wouldn’t be tempted to chop open our nipples, pack in silly-cone or other materials to fake it like we’re Barbie Dolls?
Start complimenting yourself and other women’s breasts of people you know will ‘get it.’ My childhood friend Tasha and I used to play dress up and I was embarrassed because I didn’t have boobs yet. 20 years later, we had a moment of body image confession and tears, and she told me that I had fabulous breasts. I swear that I have healed my breast shame since then, and have stopped fantasizing about getting implants or a breast lift. Yes, body image issues affected me too, especially as a teen. I hated the way my girls looked, and I have struggled with body dysmorphic disorder. People think it’s funny because I have ‘normal breasts’ and they are 32Ds, but I still have my moment where I want to trade them in for perkier perfect Barbie Boobs too! I still have the American brainwashed girl inside who read too many 17 Magazines once upon a time.
Noticing that every woman is beautiful, unique, asymmetrical, different than you in many ways. We have been told to shut up and put our shirts on, and cover up our amazing mammary glands – our Mama Mary glands of the Divine Mother. What’s up with this? I am sure Jesus would have loved to see his mother and his lovely lady Mary Magdalene’s sacred bosom displayed on temple/church walls worldwide. Don’t you?
Let’s release the Playboy Bunny pressure to be perky double DDs…It’s impossible to be that without the help of a surgeon and that’s a lot of money, risky, and even has killed some women in the process or gotten many sick from infection and silicone poisoning. What if we did plastic surgery on the culture instead and went back to au-natural breasts with a new mindset of celebrating the Divine Feminine?
Lots of love and light.
Good boob job ladies!
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker and founder of Aphrodite University, helping High-Healed Priestesses step into their power so they can create new paradigms of love and light!
Getting your high-paying soulmate clients to sign up for your high-end coaching programs is just like getting your Twin Flame to sign up for the relationship with you. It comes from divine love and using the Law of Attraction, and it starts by being able to attract and recognize your soul family members. Twin Flame energy is reflected in every aspect of your life, not just through your Beloved. The quicker you harness it, the more Twin Flame Activation you’ll receive in all aspects of your life. Here’s a Twin Flame Hypnosis Meditation to help you attract your Twin Flame and ‘soulmate clients’ so that you can start brining your soul-family members into your energy field:
I just enrolled another beautiful soulmate client today for my new VIP 9-month program, and my heart is pouring with joy! I think I’m in love <3. I love how attracting and enrolling clients is becoming an easy, pleasurable process. And even asking for the $$ wasn’t bad! In the past, it wasn’t so… I used to get knots in my tummy when I had to give free consultations and make sales calls. Yick! I just wanted it to be easy and not have to worry about money. I thought business meant busy-ness-in-pain! My inner perfectionist led me. I was always totally freaked about whether or not they’d like me, and I was desperate to receive the money because I had never had much. When I was making the sale, I felt like an awkward dork waiting for someone to ask me to prom, trying to hint at things or even asking and getting rejected. Thank God it’s not like that anymore, as I have figured out something I call ‘Seductive Selling!’
I have mastered getting my clients ‘turned on’ and begging for more. It’s magnetic instead of involving me chasing down clients energetically. Instead of me leaning towards them and bending over backwards, they are honoring my High Priestessesness. They love investing with me because it’s the best way to pamper themselves and honor the Goddess Within :). Seductive Selling is about getting your clients to know, see, feel, and vibe in your value. You get them juicy and excited about the potential for change that you can bring into their lives. It comes from a place of you being just a few steps ahead of them, of bringing this into your own life first, and by helping them traverse the gap. I also love teaching my own clients how to attract their ‘Soulmate Clients’ by getting clear on their soul-purposes, creating an ‘Aphrodisiac Marketing‘ strategy, tuning into their ‘Erotic Brand Equity’ and turning it into Holy MatriMoney! How? Through ‘Secuctive Selling,’ you get your future client excited by the power of your work and your soul-family connection. It’s almost the same as Twin Flame or soulmate love, or is in a sense a certain form of it.
Free client consultations are like speed dating.
During the free consultation, also known as a free strategy session or discovery session, your clients will be in a vibration of Divine Yes, and selling becomes like an easy seduction of someone who is meant to fall in love with you. These sessions are like 30-minutes or so speed dates to see if it’s a soulmate match. The more highly refined your marketing is with your soul-purpose message, the better potential clients you’ll attract to your strategy sessions. It’s all great practice for the Twin Flame, and it’s such a pleasurable way of doing BLI$$ness 🙂
The bottom line:
To harness Twin Flame Love, we have to tune into our soul purposes and learn how to attract our soul family. This takes finding our inner soul light. We must know on a soular and cellular level what our desires are, what our soul-purpose is, and become ecstatic about our lives. You must bubble up with emotion of how you’re going to change people’s lives and impact the world before it happens.
Your desire to spread your own ecstasy will blast your Law of Attraction skills through the roof. This goes for the TF and for your 6-figure BLI$$ness…Lots of love and Light,
Dr. Amanda Noelle, the Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps align women with their Twin Flame, their soul purpose, and their 6-figure BLI$$ so that they can heal the world and be in service to the Goddess.
Mild, medium, or HOT? Sometimes salsa just isn’t salsa without the spice–just like your soulmate isn’t attractive without the hot physical package! We are human and have a taste for beautiful things. We have evolved from looks oriented creatures: birds, then goats, then gorillas. These animals appreciate beauty and so do we.
Like ducks who choose the pretty mallard feathers, or the she-goats who select the winning mountain goat for his large horns, or the lucky gorilla gal who gets the coveted silverback, we humans can go gaga for good looking guys or gals. In this post, I will talk about how to bag a babe that you actually find attractive–on both physical and spiritual levels! Have I attracted your attention yet?
Attractiveness doesn’t have to be generic
Despite the fact that the soul doesn’t care about physical form, our humanness does. It needs physical beauty and attraction (however you define that) for a healthy soulmate/Twin Flame relationship. Without the spice and attraction, you got yourself a best friend and nothing more. Nothing wrong with a best friend, but don’t kid yourself.
You are probably saying, “Amanda, isn’t it superficial to say that attractive people are better than less attractive people on a soul level?” And I’m saying No, it’s not. Because attractiveness is spiritual. And its not the Hollywood kinda pretty or hot I am talking about, as attractiveness does not have to be generic. True beauty is all in the eye of the beholder. In fact, true attractiveness is simply a spiritual vibration based on high levels of sacred geometry.
The beholder interprets the geometry however he or she “likes” beauty. True spiritual beauty emanates from our physical form and it resonates with the beloved onlooker–on an eyes, ears, nose, and especially an energetic level. This is the alchemy of seeing your Twin Flame’s true beauty–beauty can only be seen by those who understand the secrets of sacred beauty.
Alchemical attractiveness lesson one: Beauty is unique.
Everyone’s attractiveness taste buds are unique, just as everyone looks unique. So there’s someone for you – there’s someone for everyone! A perfect mach on all the levels, beauty included. Throw it out NOW, the old paradigm of everyone wants Brad Pitt. That’s so boring! Stop trying to look act and be the same as the same old boring plastic model. Be you beautiful one. And stop lusting after generic plastic beauty that lacks substance.
Remember those those generically hot guys or bombshell gals that everyone wanted to date or be in high school (and sometimes they manage to stay ladies men or it girls for many years)? Where are they now? Most likely they either abused or ran away from or hopefully came to terms with the superficiality of their so-called physical perfection that got them in the door (or nether-region). A lot of the Hollywood hot people are actually suffocated or suffering with their beauty because no one can see the real them.
Yes beautiful: true beauty is on a much deeper level. We are all here by Divine Design; we are created by our creator with a perfect divine plan. We are gifted with the perfect package. We are all incredibly attractive to our Twin Flame, and vice versa. We are even granted a certain number of soulmates who find us stunning and make us feel our own attractiveness. Sometimes it can be annoying when you’re not attracted back to these people (a soulmate whose lesson/gift is to uplift your beauty confidence)! When I was in Italy I got a ton of cat calls and suitors who complimented me to the point where I stopped doing my own beauty affirmations because being told that I was hot all day long by these stallioni burned the message into my subconscious. Ironically, though their compliments helped me get into “I’m hot” instead of “I’m not” thinking, I only ended up being attracted to three men during my 3-year love affair with Italy. More ironically was that none of these men hit on me until later in our dating. Still, I will always be grateful for coming of age in Italy and hope that more American and Anglo men can learn the art of flattery and compliments from their Latin counterparts.
Ultimately, it’s about having both mutual physical attraction and mutual soul attraction for the right soulmate. Guess where it starts? It starts within…
Use the Law of Attraction!
The Law of Attraction states that “like attracts like.” Therefore, if you want to attract someone that you find attractive, you must first find yourself attractive. Hopefully you like what you see in the mirror! It’s no easy feat in this culture, where we limit the ideas of beauty. Especially for women, right!? I myself suffered from Barbie complex (and I still catch myself in moments sometimes) where I thought unless I looked like the perfect skinny toned perky Californian blondie, I couldn’t be loved or beautiful. It sucks when you live in fear of cellulite, water retention, wrinkles, pimples, and all the other stuff that comes with being woman/human! That’s not pretty. True beauty is confidence. Self-acceptance. Joy. Trust. Good posture. Open-heartedness. A smile is beautiful. In a nutshell, when you are radiant, glowing yourself, your own true Divine frequency out to the Universe, that is beautiful. Then you are a real bite of bait for the right soulmate.
Fall in love with yourself
That’s it. That’s what it takes–become a narcissist! Kidding. That’s so not the right word…Self-adoring, that’s a better fit! You don’t have to be self-absorbed in a selfish or narcissistic way to love yourself. True self-love is the kind where you are so in love with yourself that you see God/Goddess in yourself. Then, you see that God/Goddess and you are one. You feel the oneness of your soul with all souls, with divinity. You look in the mirror and see love and light that comes from your being a child of God/Goddess. And that you are not separate from God/Goddess. This becomes very exciting! Then you realize that all beings are little fractions of God, or more like microcosms of the macrocosm through which you can explore Oneness.
There are many potential soulmates out there for you to test out
Some are zany, insane, sexy, scary, goofy, interesting, boring, annoying, beautiful, and highly unattractive reflections of God/Goddess. Your job: to love everything and everyone in an unconditionally loving and compassionate way while discerning what is best for you as a human. It is not wrong to be attracted to certain types and not others. It is not wrong if you grew up around a certain type of person and feel comfortable marrying only that type of person. Never date (in the long term, one date is OK!) or marry someone you’re not attracted to. I do suggest trying to date outside of your race, class, spirituality, social group etc., so that you can understand Oneness through diversity. You will learn a lot as you seek out your Twin Flame. Moreover, it is possible that your Twin Flame is not a part of your inner circle/race etc. Many Twin Flames have reported to be living in different parts of the globe yet attract each other through divine guidance (plus online connecting or crossing during travels). They seem to often know that despite the differences of culture/race etc., there is an instant feeling Twin Flame recognition that is quite strong.
Your soul knows what you need, and your human self will be guided and follow the path perfectly to the perfect mate. It’s OK to kiss a few frogs on the journey too, but do keep in mind that you must be happy, blissful, satisfied! It all starts with gratitude for where you’re at, which is what I discussed in my article Harnessing Gratitude to Harness your Twin Flame!
Fall in love with the mirror to attract an attractive partner
Self-Love & Beauty Mirror Ritual:
Look in the mirror and repeat the following prayer/affirmation:
“I am beautiful. I love the soul that I see appearing in the mirror. The soul in the mirror loves me back. She (or he) is me. I love the home–the temple body of my soul. My body, skin, face, hair and every nuance of me is perfect. By Divine Design, I am pure and perfect love. I love myself. I am attractive. I am sexy. I am beauty. I am joy coming into human incarnation. My lashes are luscious. My skin is soft. Every corner, curve, wrinkle and nerve of me is placed perfectly so that I can attract the right person/people into my life. My body serves me for my highest purpose and I love her. My body is pretty sexy! My curves are gorgeous. My imperfections are totally perfect. I love the things I complain about, and I complain about them less and less. I love me, for all of me! Thank God/dess for the body I have, and the soul mates with which I share my body are damn lucky!”