Work Magic to Manifest Your Twin Flame Fairytale

Work Magic to Manifest Your Twin Flame Fairytale

 

 

 

 

 


twin flame story nce upon a time there was a magical little girl who was tricked by an evil toad into believing that she wasn’t Divinely perfect. He told her that there was something innately wrong with her, and that no one could ever truly love her, least of all her One True Love. Even though the evil toad’s words hurt the little girl to the core, she swallowed her tears and persevered through life, knowing that someday she would heal and find her True Love. The girl grew up to be a beautiful-hearted woman, a gifted healer, and a lover of all things Divine. Though she faced many trials and travails, the dream of attracting her one true Twin Flame motivated her through her healing evolution.  She kept her Light shining bright, mended the hurt Inner Child, and realized that it was all a lie — Silly toad! In fact, one day she realized that she was actually a true High Priestess and that she was ready for her Priest. 

The Twin Flame Love frequencies are here, and woman, that girl is YOU!!! 

Check out the video version of this blog!: Work MAGIC to Manifest Your Twin Flame Fairytale!

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All of us grew up believing in fairytales.

twin flame ascensionWhether it was Snow White, Sleeping Beauty, Cinderella, The Little Mermaid, Beauty and the Beast, or Anastasia, these tales helped us live in fantasy to escape from our own pain and abandonment as children. Yet they have stuck with us in our adulthood, and these tales are only distorted reflections of our hopes and dreams. In order to realize the true fairytale, we must deprogram the distortion and clarify our realest version of Happily Ever After.  In this blog, I help you do just that if you so wish!

Deprogramming Cinderella Syndrome

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Someday My Prince Will Come…Sure, that’s true, but not if you sit back on your laurels in your silly watchtower being trapped by your evil stepmother or queen (the false feminine, as opposed to the Divine Feminine upholding Divine Truth). Someday was a great idea, until someday came along and brought us lots of pain and heartache when we tried to squeeze a Happily Ever After out of the wrong mate, potential partner, or crush obsession. Ouch. Heartbroken and disappointed a few times over, yet that’s what it takes to learn the lesson. That no matter how hard we try, no man, person, place, or thing can heal us until we are willing to do the “dirty work” within ourselves. It is Lightwork actually, even when it seemed dirty and painful at the time, the results are so bright little Cinderella birdies will wanna flutter all around.

twin flame attractionThrough fairytales, we learned the main distorted message: a damsel in distress can be saved from all evil, entrapment, and from being neglected and abandoned, simply by attracting a handsome prince!  In a nutshell, fairytales, though romantic and love-inspiring, teach a distorted message and false promises that can create a lot of heartache and relationship disfunction. Or even divorce… That is not so romantic! To inspire True Love, we must re-write fairytales in a way that empowers us–girls and women–especially the Inner Child.  Ultimately, our fairytales must emphasize the harmonization of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine within.  The balance between independence and inter-dependence will triumph over disfunctional co-dependence forevermore.

Healing Cinderella Syndrome

Yes loves, it is time to transition out of Cinderella Syndrome, from Damsel in Distress into Twin Flame Love! These relationships will truly be Awakened ones, and hold full potential for true Happily Ever After. In truth, we Cinderellas out there have to “save” ourselves first.  Being self-saved Power Priestesses makes us very eligible and attractive to the right sexy-souled partner.  That way he or she doesn’t have to take care of us like a wounded daughter or little girl. Further, no one else, I repeate no one, can actually save us when we are up our damsel high towers when we are too stubborn to save ourselves first. To save ourselves, all it takes is a conscioussness.  “I save myself consciousness” instantly dissolves “Save me consciousness”–you will attract an entirely different species of mate. So go do it and enjoy!

high priestess dressAgain, to access Twin Flame Love, or any type of love, we must first realize it within ourselves.  This can seem like no easy feat, especially when we have grown up in a world where our Inner Child was scarred, scared, and felt separated from the Sacred.  However, that was then and this is now; the healed and whole Inner Child can now align with the Inner High Priestess to attract her Divine Partner.  This is the new paradigm of 2012.

Awakening Divine Love within ourselves requires us to first observe and undo the love-limits that have scarred us and blocked us from receiving external love just like the deep moat of water and thorny brambles surrounding a castle preventing Mr. Right from traipsing in. I’ve included an easy meditation below called “Healing Your Inner Child Fairytale Meditation” that is designed to quickly clear out subconscious blocks that limit love.

The Truth about Happily Ever After

True Happily Ever After does not mean being lazy, easy, or loving without compromise. Relationships takework, just like a magical garden takes energy for it to grow. Like a relationship, you must water and plant and weed. You must decide which new fruits and plants you want to harvest; there are a lot of decisions and actions to take. You must remain commited, excited, and focused on the joy of the prizes that arrive daily.  You must be able to cut your losses of the tomatoes that rot on the vine. Further, in the Garden of Love, you may prick yourself on the rose bush on occassion; even when her blossoms are so lovely it still hurts! We are all human, and we must learn from eartlhy lessons.  

 Healing Your Inner Child Fairytale Meditation:

Sit in a safe space and get into a grounded meditation mode.  Relax, sit back, and enjoy the ride. Candles, incense, chakras spinned, and three ohms if you so please! 

how do i find my twin flameImagine yourself as the most spiffy and fantastical fairy-magic castle in your own fairytale.  The castle is YOU, and it also represents the home, hearth, womb, shelter, mother, Feminine, Divine Mother, etc.  See a giant moat around it, and a scratchy overgrowth of thorny brambles that block out the love of your Divine Partner.
Ouch!  Ewwe!

Then, see a thick, heavy drawbridge that attaches to a mighty golden Divine Door to your own Divine Heart of this castle of you. Ahhh… Now acknowledge that the brambles have served you for these many years to protect you from perceived dangers. But also know that you no longer need them, for they were keeping both good and evil out, and blocking you from fully receiving as a High Priestess.  Ask your guides to come into the scene now and allow the drawbridge to come down, allowing the door to your Divine Heart to gently open. Then feel the guides’ wisdom and protection watching over you and the door so that your castle is safe, protected, yet welcome to the right Beloved and loved ones who need to pass over the moat.  Know now that there is no reason to attract thieves or Twin Flame counterfeits who attempt to steal hearts for you are protected, you are loved, you are love, and you are the Sacred Goddess Temple of De-Light.

There will always be joy, there will always be pain, surrender, and loss in creation, growth, and magic sometimes, in the Divine Garden on Earth, and through the Twin Flame Unions here. But on the whole, Happily Ever After can be had, as long as we align with 

high healed priestessGod/Goddess and Divine Love that begins within.  I bless you and praise you for being the brave little girl who is awakening fully to her Divine Feminine light as we speak!

Namaste,

Dr Amanda Noelle

Dr. Amanda Noelle, The Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps women swiftly attract their Twin Flame and create 6-figure BLI$$nesses as healers.

How to Attract an Attractive Soulmate: Flaming HOT Twin Flame Attraction

How to Attract an Attractive Soulmate: Flaming HOT Twin Flame Attraction

Mild, medium, or HOT? Sometimes salsa just isn’t salsa without the spice–just like your soulmate isn’t attractive without the hot physical package!  We are human and have a taste for beautiful things.  We have evolved from looks oriented creatures: birds, then goats, then gorillas. These animals appreciate beauty and so do we.

twin flame loversLike ducks who choose the pretty mallard feathers, or the she-goats who select the winning mountain goat for his large horns, or the lucky gorilla gal who gets the coveted silverback, we humans can go gaga for good looking guys or gals. In this post, I will talk about how to bag a babe that you actually find attractive–on both physical and spiritual levels! Have I attracted your attention yet?

Attractiveness doesn’t have to be generic

Despite the fact that the soul doesn’t care about physical form, our humanness does. It needs physical beauty and attraction (however you define that) for a healthy soulmate/Twin Flame relationship. Without the spice and attraction, you got yourself a best friend and nothing more.  Nothing wrong with a best friend, but don’t kid yourself.

how do i find my twin flameYou are probably saying, “Amanda, isn’t it superficial to say that attractive people are better than less attractive people on a soul level?” And I’m saying No, it’s not. Because attractiveness is spiritual.  And its not the Hollywood kinda pretty or hot I am talking about, as attractiveness does not have to be generic. True beauty is all in the eye of the beholder. In fact, true attractiveness is simply a spiritual vibration based on high levels of sacred geometry.

The beholder interprets the geometry however he or she “likes” beauty.  True spiritual beauty emanates from our physical form and it resonates with the beloved onlooker–on an eyes, ears, nose, and especially an energetic level. This is the alchemy of seeing your Twin Flame’s true beauty–beauty can only be seen by those who understand the secrets of sacred beauty.

Alchemical attractiveness lesson one: Beauty is unique.

Everyone’s attractiveness taste buds are unique, just as everyone looks unique. So there’s someone for you – there’s someone for everyone!  A perfect mach on all the levels, beauty included.  Throw it out NOW, the old paradigm of everyone wants Brad Pitt. That’s so boring!  Stop trying to look act and be the same as the same old boring plastic model. Be you beautiful one. And stop lusting after generic plastic beauty that lacks substance.

Remember those those generically hot guys or bombshell gals that everyone wanted to date or be in high school (and sometimes they manage to stay ladies men or it girls for many years)? Where are they now?  Most likely they either abused or ran away from or hopefully came to terms with the superficiality of their so-called physical perfection that got them in the door (or nether-region).  A lot of the Hollywood hot people are actually suffocated or suffering with their beauty because no one can see the real them.

twin flameYes beautiful: true beauty is on a much deeper level.  We are all here by Divine Design; we are created by our creator with a perfect divine plan.  We are gifted with the perfect package.  We are all incredibly attractive to our Twin Flame, and vice versa.  We are even granted a certain number of soulmates who find us stunning and make us feel our own attractiveness.  Sometimes it can be annoying when you’re not attracted back to these people (a soulmate whose lesson/gift is to uplift your beauty confidence)! When I was in Italy I got a ton of cat calls and suitors who complimented me to the point where I stopped doing my own beauty affirmations because being told that I was hot all day long by these stallioni burned the message into my subconscious. Ironically, though their compliments helped me get into “I’m hot” instead of “I’m not” thinking, I only ended up being attracted to three men during my 3-year love affair with Italy. More ironically was that none of these men hit on me until later in our dating. Still, I will always be grateful for coming of age in Italy and hope that more American and Anglo men can learn the art of flattery and compliments from their Latin counterparts.

Ultimately, it’s about having both mutual physical attraction and mutual soul attraction for the right soulmate. Guess where it starts? It starts within…

Use the Law of Attraction!

twin flame theoryThe Law of Attraction states that “like attracts like.” Therefore, if you want to attract someone that you find attractive, you must first find yourself attractive. Hopefully you like what you see in the mirror!  It’s no easy feat in this culture, where we limit the ideas of beauty.  Especially for women, right!? I myself suffered from Barbie complex (and I still catch myself in moments sometimes) where I thought unless I looked like the perfect skinny toned perky Californian blondie, I couldn’t be loved or beautiful.  It sucks when you live in fear of cellulite, water retention, wrinkles, pimples, and all the other stuff that comes with being woman/human! That’s not pretty. True beauty is confidence. Self-acceptance. Joy. Trust. Good posture.  Open-heartedness. A smile is beautiful.  In a nutshell, when you are radiant, glowing yourself, your own true Divine frequency out to the Universe, that is beautiful. Then you are a real bite of bait for the right soulmate.

Fall in love with yourself

That’s it. That’s what it takes–become a narcissist!  Kidding. That’s so not the right word…Self-adoring, that’s a better fit! You don’t have to be self-absorbed in a selfish or narcissistic way to love yourself.  True self-love is the kind where you are so in love with yourself that you see God/Goddess in yourself.  Then, you see that God/Goddess and you are one. You feel the oneness of your soul with all souls, with divinity.  You look in the mirror and see love and light that comes from your being a child of God/Goddess. And that you are not separate from God/Goddess.  This becomes very exciting! Then you realize that all beings are little fractions of God, or more like microcosms of the macrocosm through which you can explore Oneness.

There are many potential soulmates out there for you to test out

Some are zany, insane, sexy, scary, goofy, interesting, boring, annoying, beautiful, and highly unattractive reflections of God/Goddess.  Your job: to love everything and everyone in an unconditionally loving and twin flame attraction compassionate way while discerning what is best for you as a human.  It is not wrong to be attracted to certain types and not others.  It is not wrong if you grew up around a certain type of person and feel comfortable marrying only that type of person.  Never date (in the long term, one date is OK!) or marry someone you’re not attracted to.  I do suggest trying to date outside of your race, class, spirituality, social group etc., so that you can understand Oneness through diversity.  You will learn a lot as you seek out your Twin Flame.  Moreover, it is possible that your Twin Flame is not a part of your inner circle/race etc. Many Twin Flames have reported to be living in different parts of the globe yet attract each other through divine guidance (plus online connecting or crossing during travels). They seem to often know that despite the differences of culture/race etc., there is an instant feeling Twin Flame recognition that is quite strong.

Your soul knows what you need, and your human self will be guided and follow the path perfectly to the perfect mate.  It’s OK to kiss a few frogs on the journey too, but do keep in mind that you must be happy, blissful, satisfied!  It all starts with gratitude for where you’re at, which is what I discussed in my article Harnessing Gratitude to Harness  your Twin Flame!

Fall in love with the mirror to attract an attractive partner

Self-Love & Beauty Mirror Ritual:

Twin Flame Love

Look in the mirror and repeat the following prayer/affirmation:

“I am beautiful. I love the soul that I see appearing in the mirror. The soul in the mirror loves me back. She (or he) is me.  I love the home–the temple body of my soul.  My body, skin, face, hair and every nuance of me is perfect.  By Divine Design, I am pure and perfect love. I love myself. I am attractive. I am sexy. I am beauty. I am joy coming into human incarnation.  My lashes are luscious. My skin is soft. Every corner, curve, wrinkle and nerve of me is placed perfectly so that I can attract the right person/people into my life.  My body serves me for my highest purpose and I love her.  My body is pretty sexy! My curves are gorgeous.  My imperfections are totally perfect. I love the things I complain about, and I complain about them less and less.  I love me, for all of me! Thank God/dess for the body I have, and the soul mates with which I share my body are damn lucky!”

AMEN

 

How to Pick a New Paradigm Niche for Your Conscious Small Business

How to Pick a New Paradigm Niche for Your Conscious Small Business

I have discovered the coolest and weirdest business niche ever! It’s something that I would have never thought of, because it doesn’t exist yet (to my knowledge) and it’s even hard to explain. But it’s working, it’s what’s been bringing me clients and growing my near 6-figure BLI$$ness this year, and I believe I’ve discovered the Holy Grail secret to picking a niche for your spiritual business!

Everyone knows that without a niche, it usually takes years longer to fill your healing practice or small business. But most people I see starting off in their businesses, especially spiritual healers, have a really really tough time picking a niche without feeling like they’re wiping out a part of their soul. Luckily for me, I started off in my work as the Twin Flame Matchmaker, because I’d done Law of Attraction matchmaking for free so many times. As a spiritual matchmaker, I teach women how to clarify what they want in a romantic relationship, and to immediately attract it using psychic tools, the Law of Attraction, magic, and what I call PU$$Y Power. The work that I do has helped hundreds of women fall in love with themselves and attract their Twin Flames, and a few little Starchildren have even been born because of it! Check out the video here to see one of my true Twin Flame matchmaking stories that might melt your heart:

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My matchmaking BLI$$ness pretty much skyrocketed from the start, and overnight I became a successful business owner. Being a kick-ass matchmaker, I was surprised that I somehow naturally attracted a new wave of female clients who needed coaching on their businesses too, as part of a preparation phase for their Twin Flame relationship.

twin flame priestessWhat I learned more recently is that my “matchmaking magic” works for anything, and particularly works well for BLI$$preneurs who are seeking their “soulmate clients.” And that there is a niche for women who need both soulmate clients and their Twin Flame, and that these two answers I provide are really connected to the same core piece of resurrecting the Divine Feminine, connecting to your PU$$Y Power so that you can attract anything you want.

What Are Soulmate Clients?

Soulmate Clients Are in Your Soul-Family Tree

Soulmate Clients Are in Your Soul-Family Tree

Soulmate clients are people in your soul family that you have a soul contract with to teach, heal, and love them in exchange for Love Buck$! All of my clients are soulmate clients, and it makes working feel like bliss and not business. Soul-targeting your soulmate clients is a much faster way that doing traditional marketing, branding, and niching.

My soulmate clients need both Twin Flame attraction, and  support as High-Healed Priestesses entrepreneurs. That’s why I keep inevitably teaching about both topics: Twin Flame matchmaking and soulmate client matchmaking for

divine feminine love6-figure BLI$$nesses (business + bliss + big bucks), which seems random from a business perspective! Like a niche created by someone who did one too many pink Jello shots.

Yet I’ve discovered that for us women healers, these two topics go hand-in-hand: you can’t master Twin Flame attraction until you master soulmate client attraction, and vice versa. Because when we make our income off of healing energy exchanges with our soul family, it makes us whole, healed, sexy, empowered, abundant, wealthy, and blissful. This prepares us for our Twin Flames.Twin Flame Love

What’s interesting is that my soul purpose within soulmate client matchmaking has to do with matching female healers with their female clients. 99% of the time my clients want to work primarily with women clients, like I do.  So, in a way, I am weaving a web of women, soul sisters from around the world, who are part of a grand soul family.

Plus we are also Twin Flame ambassadors. Thus, through our BLI$$ness networks, we’ll be exchanging money from one Twin Flame High Priestess to the next, and creating a sort of “New Girls Network” (a spoof on the Old Boys Network) and new Divine Feminine based economy, which is really exciting for me! It’s time for Mama Gaia to have powerful women who deeply love and care for her to take charge. No more of this funny violence, greed, corruption, pollution, evil stuff! The High-Healed Priestesses are taking our power back and building a Heaven on Earth paradigm.

Looks like I am going to have to tweak my brand AGAIN to include the BLI$$ness stuff back, as it’s showing up in my coaching no matter how much I try not to (because you’re “supposed to pick just one niche” in business. Blah!). Well, I have just one niche now: it combines two seemingly different things that I feel need to be married together: Twin Flame matchmaking and soulmate client matchmaking, and I love it!

Once we learn to receive like a goddesses, manifest magic like a High Priestesses, and take action like queens, we can create ANYTHING we want in our life. It’s the path of the High-Healed Priestess.

Dr. Amanda Noelle, The Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps stellar spiritual BLI$$preneurs create successful 6-figure healing BLI$$nesses that align them for swift Twin Flame attraction. 

Dr Amanda Noelle

Why it’s Your Spiritual Job to Make an ASS out of Yourself on YouTube

Why it’s Your Spiritual Job to Make an ASS out of Yourself on YouTube

It’s been two years since I made my first YouTube video. It was a “train wreck video.”

Did you know that I sucked at making videos? And I bet some people say that I still suck at making YouTube videos, that I’m constantly making an ass of myself.  But I’d much rather make an ASS of myself than sit around waiting for the world to fix itself, while I keep my mouth shut.

Though I’m no Jenna Marbles, I have hit almost 180,000 views on my YouTube channel, and I have gotten lots of feedback of how I’ve helped women get over self-esteem issues, meet their Twin Flames, or made their life a little sweeter. Even though I still get negative criticism sometimes, like thumbs downs or lame comments, I don’t ever let that stop me from speakin’ my truth. It’s been two years since I made my first YouTube video, which was in a way a train wreck; but I am still alive, and I even may have saved a few lives by sharing my work! The train-wreck video I made had this comment:

“This meditation has helped me so much, Thank you! My life has improved 50% and I’ve been doing this for maybe a month, So thank you!!!!”

Another woman who follows all of my videos attributes meeting her Twin Flame to the tips I share in my videos. So many times I have spoken with women for the first time, who follow my blogs, vlogs, and social media posts, and they tell me, “That X thing you said has changed my life!” Usually I can hardly remember saying what I said, but how cool and flattering that my rambling love can inspire someone to heal herself!

Big money can come through YouTube

I have met lots of clients through my YouTube channel. If you are a a BLI$$preneur, a woman entrepreneur and healer, do you wanna know how to make money on YouTube? It’s not through advertisements or anything sleazy. It’s really simple: in offering useful content, while letting my light shine, people test drive me, and if they like me, they buy.  So often I have had women hire me after watching me for a few months on YouTube. They start getting results, and want to get them faster getting the one-on-one time. So I think of my videos as partial charity, partial marketing. And it’s so much fun! Especially when you let it…

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I was verbally abused a fair bit as a little girl, which taught me to “be good,” and keep quiet. Yet this is exactly what I want to scream about, what I want to stop, so that the Goddess of Love can reign again. So I have started to speak up, and I won’t shut up, ever! Owning our “Sacred No” is the only way to rebuild the Divine Feminine structures in society, which we are doing one vlog post at a time. I’m not talking about being a bitch or anything, but just speak your truth with lots of love and don’t let the forces of darkness intimidate you. They’re just shadows anyway…

As a Light Worker, you can’t keep your mouth shut any longer either. Which is why you are getting called to quit your job, reinvent your life, live without shame, and open a 6 or 7-figure healing business (or BLI$$ness as I call it, business + bliss + BIG buck$!).

You’re a Divine Feminine Revolutionary, it’s your job to be yourself. It’s a full-time job. Start dressing outside of the box if you like, dancing outside the box, and breaking the rules.  Because it’s time – the Divine Feminine is rising and doesn’t stand for abuse or suppression any longer. She’s not following what the old scary n’ dark patriarchal systems that told her how to be/act/dress/fuck/speak anymore. It simply wasn’t fun!

YouTube videos are the new music videos, the new Vogue, the new Seventeen Magazine

Pre Internet, we the people didn’t have a voice. Major advertising companies dominated the scene and told you how much to weight, how to act, what to look like, and what to shop for. I totally figured out how to act/look/be when I was 11 years old and read my first Teen Magazine. Thank goodness I successfully figured out how to have an eating disorder and hate myself, or maybe those teenage boys wouldn’t have liked me so much!

YouTube is where we create new culture. It’s where we vaginas get to take back the Feminine Sacred PU$$Y Power, and where we can speak (relatively) freely without anyone to stop us! So why do we stop ourselves?  Stop stopping yourselves, OK? Make your YouTube videos, speak from your heart, and let the Divine Feminine rise.

Let’s all grab our vagina-balls (ovaries or whatever), grab a pink drink, and raise it to the Divine Feminine revolution!

Fear and the inner critic

This is a note about choosing self-love over fear of criticism of others and the inner critic. And I have had huge inner critic my entire life, so I should know!  As a recovering A-student and perfectionist, it has taken me years to get over caring what others think about me.  This blockage stopped me from letting my light shine, has impeded my healing gifts, and gave me writer’s block (or writer’s fear, since I wrote constantly in my diary where it was “safe”).
Two years ago, I finally took a huge step and got over my inner perfectionist enough to start sharing my voice with the world, via simple YouTube videos. I had had a dream earlier in the year where my guides told me: “Just start doing your work, you will learn along the way, and there is NO TIME FOR PRACTICE or procrastination.” The words were loud and clear. So finally, I jumped in and went for it.
Doing the videos was an exciting first step, and I feel so lucky to express my love with the world. I was also proud of this milestone, because for the first time in public, I was honoring the love more than fear.  I love how easy the videos flowed, and though they weren’t perfect, I could get them out quickly and there were actual viewers!  On my third day, I published my fourth meditation video, Goddess Meditation: Spiritually Healing Body Image & Self-Esteem: 
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The content came to me late at night that I channeled from my Higher Self, and I knew that the message was true and powerful, because I could feel it in my body.  I did not take the time to edit the video to the degree I wanted, as I read off the skript that had flowed through me, so you could see my eyes moving.  But So what? I thought, people will close their eyes in the meditation and I had something to say! There was a sense of joy and freedom this decision to Just Do It, even though my inner perfectionist was like “It’s not good enough.” But I chose to listen to my Higher Guidance, and emphasize being of service to others rather than trying to be perfect all the time!   So I delightedly posted my video, and within a day, it had the most hits of all four of the videos I’d posted! I knew it was choppy, but people seemed to be watching the video and feeling into its energy.

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The Critic – Turn Abuse Into Motivation!

Then, to my shock, an old friend whom I’ll simply refer to as “The Critic,” with whom I hadn’t spoken for almost a year, posted a comment next to my video, saying that he’d “Send me a private feedback message”… Uh oh!  I knew he had a big inner critic himself, so I wasn’t looking forward to reading this.  I knew he was going to mirror my own fears of verbal abuse and reprimand.  I knew it was going to hit my scars of when I was a child and was verbally abused and shamed in front of my first grade classroom by this big mean teacher who had long hair and a beard and who happened to look like a lion. I was only five years old, the other kids a year older.  It was really friggin’ scary! The teacher had no patience for my slight learning disability, tendency toward distraction, and my imaginative mind that wouldn’t stick to his plan.  So when he screamed at me, I shut down, and it took many years of healing to recover my confidence.

I checked my in-box to find that  The Critic had messaged me several things he didn’t like about the video, without anything kind or encouraging. His energy felt so familiar and I realized it was a lot like my lion-looking teacher. Feeling punched in the gut, but feeling defensive like a proud mama, I wrote back to share my thoughts, compassionately standing up for myself.

I hoped for a drop of compassion. To my shock, the next response was from The Critic was that my video was a “train-wreck,” and that he was embarrassed for me!

For your entertainment, I have included our conversation:

September 7, 2011 at 8:42pm

The Critic: “Some feedback on the meditation video: It feels really weird watching your eyes read the text. The prompt cards could be much closer to the lens, and you could rehearse, so that you are not so dependent on them. Also, your sitting/lying position up against the wall, looks awkward (tense neck and mouth). The sounds of rain in the background are nice, but need acknowledgement from you to be felt as part of the video.” [Hey–did I ask you?]

Amanda Noelle: “Dear One, I would like you to re-read your comment and pretend that you are me, from my eyes… How do you feel when you hear from someone for the first time in over a year and they say three constructive criticisms without a single word of encouragement or expression of love? Does it feel supportive alone or also hurtful? I wanted to express how one can make videos without being perfect, to just jump and go for it. I will of course at some point go professional and make improvements, but my Angelic guidance through a profound dream I had said “Don’t wait, express your teachings, there is no time for practice anymore.” I am following this, and letting people see my life. Perhaps a feedback I can give you, if I may, is that you ask for feedback first to see if it’s wanted. Then, give some warm encouragement or say one or two nice things to balance things out. When you do this for others, you will be doing this for yourself. For every part of you that feels numb to my pain, is a part that is very, very sensitive. As we all are One. Love and light, Amanda.”

The Critic: “Ok. Most people would not risk the truth. I could have asked first if you wanted the feedback, but why would you put yourself out there, if you didn’t. Sorry to hurt you. It was not my intention.”

Amanda Noelle “I put my gift out there not for feedback, but for feeding goddesses who want to heal self-esteem. Why would anyone assume that I wanted feedback about my gift? If someone dances, do you go up to them and show them how you think their steps should go? It may be your truth, but it’s not The Truth Absolute. Don’t worry, I am not hurt. It was just not something I wanted. And needed to say that to you. Peace, Amanda”

The CriticAmanda, the video was a train-wreck, and I was embarrassed for you. Rather than just ignore you/it, I took the time to write you a private message, in the hope that you might be open to the feedback. But now I understand that you feel it is your Gift to female humanity. Good luck with it. Sorry for my bluntness. Next time I will ignore it.” “Also, the dancing metaphor is a good one, except that in this case, you are not a dancer, you are the dance TEACHER, so of course I would speak to them afterwards, and hope that they would be open to feedback. Sending you love, even if you don’t trust me.” Twin Flame Love

Hold Your Sacred Feminine Powers

So, it wasn’t the most graceful conversation.  But I am for the first time, trying to hold my ground, to nourish the creative feminine juices.  And yes, I sent The Critic love too, and said so in my last message to him. But I also said that I thought he was rude and couldn’t image why he needed to say my gift was a train-wreck (gee, harsh!).  I have since unfriended him on FB, and I rarely do that!  But I do so in love and honoring of myself and my own boundaries.

I know now that negative feedback is part of the job. In putting yourself out there, not everyone is going to be pleased. Not even all parts of myself! We just gotta let it go, and let flow.  When I have time, as I had planned, if I have motivation, I will edit the video unless there is something else that inspires me more. Yet this was a precious test. This was a test of self-love for me… Am I going to hate myself when someone (and mind you, The Critic graduated from NYU’s film school) doesn’t like my stuff? Should I stop speaking?  Shoud I edit my every move as it comes?  Should I be afraid that people will be embarrassed for me as I express my essence in a way that isn’t perfectly graceful?  Should I stop what I’m doing and risk slowing down the flow of my own essence and ignore my intuition that says Just Do It?  No! No no no no noooo!

I’m STILL going to make my “train-wreck videos” if that’s what it takes, and I hope you will too. I’m willing to do anything to be on my soul-purposed mission. Thanks to The Critic, I now go for it with even MORE inspiration to serve others who struggle with their inner critic. Hopefully someday I will “master” the art of video-making, perhaps with the help of a crew of professionals.  That’s a dream of mine for sure. Until then, I am happy that I continue to attract viewers who are in love my energy, and don’t mind the raw, sexy, scrappy style, who aren’t afraid to see the perfection of imperfection. They take what I have to offer, and accept me for me.

I want this for all of us. I hope you see me look like a Goddess Goober, full of love! Thank you for letting me share. Blessings on creating a world where we get to have full expressive creativity without fear of being unloved, ashamed, or energetically/verbally abused.  Where we are whole, healed, and One. It’s so exciting that together we are creating new icons, or “nu icons” where we are no longer shaped by the media, advertising agencies, money-hungry agencies that don’t care if our teenage girls are anorexic, or if we all hate ourselves.

This week I am super proud of my sexy soul sister who always has the ability to rock and shock even me. Shayna Gordon took the dare this week that I challenged her to, which was to share a YouTube video on her expertise of sacred sexuality. Check it out here. Also feel free to leave a link of one of your first YouTube videos in the comments section below, if you so dare!

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Dr Amanda Noelle

 

 

Dr. Amanda Noelle, The Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps stellar spiritual BLI$$ness women attract their Twin Flames at light speed.

 

How to Attract an Attractive Soulmate: Flaming HOT Twin Flame Attraction

Twin Flame Love Warrior

“Your love is like a poison to the demons that slither across the Earth.”

When you are a Twin Flame Matchmaker, you must create sacred shamanic space for your Twin Flame work. Sometimes in creating these spaces, you hit a snakelike energy that wants to interrupt your ritual, wants it not to happen. It’s as if a viper is telling you that you’re not welcome to spread and ignite the Twin Flame Light. Twin Flame Love

Yes. There are times where I get hunted for spreading Twin Flame Love across the planet. But as a huntress who has learned a lot about working with dark and Light, I know that the fastest way to cleanse out this dark force-funky is through love and, ironically, with Kundalini blasts.

To learn more about Twin Flame Kundalini CLICK HERE.

We must must unlock the loving Twin Flame energies that rise up our spines; we must then direct this love towards the darkness to transmute it to Light. Being full of endless divine love, we become like a venomous snake to these snakes. As you too are a Goddess of Love incarnate. It’s our job to rise the Love and to never surrender! No matter how scary it seems or even how silly we look!

This week, I am clearing an ancient astral space that corresponds to Twin Flame Energies and to the Divine Mother on Earth, Also known as the Magdalene, Maria, Mare, Mar (ocean), Atlantis, Aphrodite, Ashtarte, Innana, Kuan Yin, Venus, Earth Tribes, Native Nations, and Shakinah. I must be a Warrior of the Light, and be steady with my Love 946738-bigthumbnail.
You are part of a group of ancient High Priestesses Light Workers who are no longer willing to live a lie, who are called to Twin Flame Reunion and ultimately to awaken to your Divine Self. Your soul calls out to wake up, to shake it up, to writhe, and to create the Golden Era.

I cannot serve this next wave of High Priestesses until this snake energy is cleared. So, I ask for your prayers and love this week as I go to “war” with love and Kundalini as my only weapons. I invite you to pray for your Twin Flame this week, and to feel the Light of the Divine Mother growing ever stronger in your heart.

UnknownFor those of you who are at an advanced level of Kundalini Awakening, please send your orgasmic light (if you feel called and safe) to transmute these serpents of limitation. And bring forth more Golden Light and love to Gaia.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart!

Dr Amanda Noelle

 

 

Dr. Amanda Noelle, Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps stellar spiritual women attract their Twin Flames at light speed so they can carry out large soul purposes and birth Starchildren.

 

Signs of the Twin Flame Counterfeit: 11 Signs He or She Is a Fake

Signs of the Twin Flame Counterfeit: 11 Signs He or She Is a Fake

So, you met the most amazing love stud, or potential partner, and you’re smitten. You are sure he’s your Twin Flame Beloved because everything is so magical and synchronistic.  You’ve never experienced a love like this.  Things progress and you feel so in love, you’re jumping for joy and it truly feels like he/she must be the one, your one true Twin Flame.

Then, wham, something sneaky happens and it pulls your world apart, and it pulls you two apart…but mainly, it pulls YOU apart!  Maybe it turns out that he’s not ready, he can’t commit, he’s got another relationship or has a wife and kids he won’t leave.  You feel stuck, like you’re struggling to stay afloat, because you’ve never loved like this before – it makes you feel like you are going crazy!

At some point, he’s no longer in the picture.  Something is keeping you two apart… What is this crazy cosmic fate? Do you still have a chance, will he come back? Perhaps this could be a test from the universe? Like, he really could be your Twin and this is just some obstacle to overcome…

You likely already know that Twin Flames are simply a representation or reflection of ourselves, of own self-love. So, perhaps you can heal or fix something within yourself so he’ll come running back. Right?

So, you ask, “Is he my Twin Flame, or  just my Twin Flame Counterfeit?”

I hope to help you. I know it’s not an easy journey, and I have been there before. The Twin Flame Counterfeit is a type of karmic soulmate (you can read my blog What is a Karmic Soulmate? here) who is here to wake you up and plop you into your Twin Flame Awakening.

how do i find my soulmateBeing able to know if the love between you and someone you deeply are attracted to and care about is real is obviously an important question to ask.  If you’re asking How Do I Know if Someone is My Twin Flame , you can click on the link to read that post to prep and support you for the information contained in this blog.

Unfortunately, there is no litmus test to know whether or not someone is your Twin Flame, and boy do I wish there were! I joke that it would be nice if there were a pee-in-a-cup lab test to tell if he was or was not your Twin Flame.  It would save us lots of time, pain, and suffering, and wouldn’t that be nice! I could also patent that product and make a lot of money, because we’ve all gone through this at one time or another. So many women come to me over and over again with the same problem and if the solution were so simple I’d be a multi-multi millionaire!

As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I commonly get asked “Is he my Twin Flame, or  just my Twin Flame Counterfeit?” so I’ll attempt to respond with this with a checklist below!

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He (or she) is your Twin Flame if:

1) He’s still in the picture and you’ve seen each other’s glory and you’ve seen each other’s $h*t!

2) You’re willing to let him go, even if he is amazing, if he doesn’t treat you like the goddess you truly are with his full available presence

3) Your inner child is healed and has cleared emotional and health imbalances, abandonment wounds, and abuse traumas

4) You can surrender to the moment, and being apart doesn’t make you crazy, it feels like a lightness even though you may miss him

5) All (or at least most) of your love addictions are cleared and resolved

6) The love between you both is balanced, where both partners love each other equally, perhaps in different ways

7) Both partners are emotionally available, with the man and woman available to express fears, joys, sadness, etc

8) Both parties are on an Ascension Path and are focused on self-discovery, soul evolution, spiritual connection, and service

9) Neither partner is involved in a marriage or past relationship that is unresolved, which would leak sexual energy from the Twin Flame counterpart

10) Both members are energetically clear and take care of their own healing in body, mind and spirit. This may look different for each member (one may be a raw vegan and the other a meat eating body builder!) but both people have brought a lot of light into their bodies

11) Your partner aligns you to be in service, step further into self-love, self-empowerment, and the Sacred Union supports your growth

Signs of the Twin Flame Counterfeit:

1) Constant mulling over in your mind, “Is he my Twin Flame?” – that’s a sure sign that you’re not ready yet for Twin Flame Love. Work on clearing your self-doubt in the 3rd chakra.

2) Constant checking in with psychics and energy healers to make him want you back or being hopeful he’ll want you back if he has gone away

3) VERY likely he’s a TFC if he’s involved with another woman and hasn’t showed up for the relationship fully

4) Emotional unavailability on his part

5) Emotional over-availability on your part

6) Feeling insecure or unsafe around your partner but proceeding anyway

7) Jumping in quickly into the relationship without feeling safe within your self, your sacred sexuality, your finances, and your own power

8) Jumping into the relationship to avoid taking action and power over your own life

9) Using the relationship as a distraction that focuses your attention away from your career, spiritual mission, and being of service

10) You feel like your whole world would be turned upside-down if he decides to leave you/doesn’t come back

11) You don’t fully love yourself unless he loves you back (conditional self-love vs. unconditional self-love)

11 Signs of the False Twin Flame (Wolf in Sheeps Clothing!)

karmic soulmatesIf reading or watching the above was intense, take a deep breath, it’s all good!

It’s better to face the energy within yourself first, work on it, heal it, and step into Twin Flame Love from self-love.

Do this sooner than later and I promise you won’t regret it…  The longer one waits to prolong the self-healing, the harder it gets to attract and keep their Twin Flame.

Know that everything can be healed. You have the strength within, and you can seek the support you need. You are always divine and lovable, even if one specific human you thought might be your Twin Flame might not be there for you….

Don’t beat yourself up, love yourself up and true love will find you!

Easier said than done, right? I know I beat myself up when I went through my own Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul with my Twin Flame Counterpart, so I know it’s not easy!

However, deep healing came through unconditional self-love and learning to be compassionate. Now I am with my incredible sacred counterpart, and I am insured that if he were to ever leave (as in life there are no guarantees!), I would be alright because I am a powerful self-healer!

Take action clearing your Twin Flame Love Blocks… each of us has certain karmas and possibly past life experiences to clear and heal.  There’s a reason for everything…When you heal yourself, the world heals, and so does your Twin Flame.

Many blessings Beloved, love and compassion on your journey! Please download your free Twin Flame Ignition Kit here if you want to begin the healing journey…

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Dr Amanda Noelle

 

 

Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker helping single stellar women birth their soul purposes so they can attract their Twin Flames and Starchildren!

 

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The 30-Something Single Woman’s Dilemma

The 30-Something Single Woman’s Dilemma

I’m 34, single, and loving it. As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I love helping my single female clients meet their beloveds through healing, magic, and the Law of Attraction.

Anima Gemelle My life is a single woman’s fairytale. I have been working, living, and traveling with my hot pink Macbook Pro Retina-lover from several locations worldwide over the past few months: glitzy LA, ancient Crete, sexy Italy, relaxing Costa Rica, homey Berkeley, and again sexy Italy! It’s been CRAZY FUN, and sometimes I feel like I AM CRAZY too, like a high-end bag lady with so many ideas, passions, and fashions to bring with me to create new styles. Somehow, I am making it work, and it’s magical.

Me in my office with a view in Crete, Greece

Me in my office with a view in Crete, Greece

Yet with a clicking biological clock and knowing that my egg-time is limited, sometimes it’s hard to fully feel free in these precious single years.

Are you fearing the future?

Fears about the future can be scary. Fears about making a career for myself used to rule my life in my 20s; it paralyzed me and blocked me from living in my financial power. Luckily, around my 30th birthday, I had a breakthrough. I went through a Dark Night of the Soul that forced me to step into my financial power. I now have a successful dream business that enables me to live in both spiritual and traveler’s bliss. So no longer do I let my fears rule me; I let them come up, but then I let them pass. So of course part of me entertains the fear that my eggs will dry up before I meet Mr. Right, with all this distracting juicy fun and adventure, but the bigger part of me is much smarter than that…

Posing at Positano, Italy

Posing at Positano, Italy

Trust your life journey

I KNOW that I am going to be a mom. I get Starchildren visits in my dreams and meditations. I encourage you to allow yourself to dive into your deepest passions and trust that this time is a sacred single gal’s time that will prepare you as the Divine Twin Flame Bride.

I know I am going to find my Twin Flame soulmate some day, and birth everything that I always wanted to create. As a fairytale-believing child, I have always believed in magic and I’m starting to live it; but it’s realer and better and without the crazy co-dependence and lies!

I do believe that everything happens in perfect timing; it’s just that, for me, right now isn’t the timing for kids, for kids are forever. Right now on the planet, there is a huge shift, the rise of the Divine Feminine, that we have been waiting for for over 5,000 years, and I personally am savoring it! Same with the Twin Flame energies that have risen – when we step into them, there will be no going back.

I prefer to birth my single-girl life dreams before my Twin Flame Reunion, like creating Twin Flame couples, traveling, meeting soul family, and enjoy my independence for just a little longer.

That’s just me. That’s just my bliss…For now!

If you are a single woman who is finding herself, healing herself, and exploring her deepest passions, I salute you. Someday when we are changing diapers and waking up to the same partner for the rest of our lives, we will say, “Thank God I lived that soulmate attraction coachcrazy gypsy magical life when I was single so I could set the standard at bliss, adventure, and magic!” I truly believe that we’ll all be able to maintain this sense of magic, freedom, and fun within a marriage and parenthood and now is the time to prepare and figure it out!

Will it be too late to get pregnant?

The fact is, you can probably get pregnant in your late 30s and early 40s, as the research is starting to come out. Your bio clock probably isn’t ticking as fast as you think. According to one fertility study, of 770 European women who were having sex at least twice a week, 82 percent of the 35-to-39-year-old women conceived within a year, compared with 86 percent of 27-to-34-year-olds. If you’re a 30-something diva who doesn’t have a full craving to “settle down” yet, then I say settle up, and your Twin Flame and Starchildren will arrive that way. If you eat well, exercise, and live happily, and talk to your baby-spirits, you will likely be able to naturally conceive your little Starchild in your late 30s or early 40s, and be a great mom!

Namaste,

Dr Amanda Noelle

 

 

Dr. Amanda Noelle is the Twin Flame Matchmaker, helping stellar spiritual 30-40 something single women meet and marry their Twin Flames so they can have stellar families.