Mild, medium, or HOT? Sometimes salsa just isn’t salsa without the spice–just like your soulmate isn’t attractive without the hot physical package! We are human and have a taste for beautiful things. We have evolved from looks oriented creatures: birds, then goats, then gorillas. These animals appreciate beauty and so do we.
Like ducks who choose the pretty mallard feathers, or the she-goats who select the winning mountain goat for his large horns, or the lucky gorilla gal who gets the coveted silverback, we humans can go gaga for good looking guys or gals. In this post, I will talk about how to bag a babe that you actually find attractive–on both physical and spiritual levels! Have I attracted your attention yet?
Attractiveness doesn’t have to be generic
Despite the fact that the soul doesn’t care about physical form, our humanness does. It needs physical beauty and attraction (however you define that) for a healthy soulmate/Twin Flame relationship. Without the spice and attraction, you got yourself a best friend and nothing more. Nothing wrong with a best friend, but don’t kid yourself.
You are probably saying, “Amanda, isn’t it superficial to say that attractive people are better than less attractive people on a soul level?” And I’m saying No, it’s not. Because attractiveness is spiritual. And its not the Hollywood kinda pretty or hot I am talking about, as attractiveness does not have to be generic. True beauty is all in the eye of the beholder. In fact, true attractiveness is simply a spiritual vibration based on high levels of sacred geometry.
The beholder interprets the geometry however he or she “likes” beauty. True spiritual beauty emanates from our physical form and it resonates with the beloved onlooker–on an eyes, ears, nose, and especially an energetic level. This is the alchemy of seeing your Twin Flame’s true beauty–beauty can only be seen by those who understand the secrets of sacred beauty.
Alchemical attractiveness lesson one: Beauty is unique.
Everyone’s attractiveness taste buds are unique, just as everyone looks unique. So there’s someone for you – there’s someone for everyone! A perfect mach on all the levels, beauty included. Throw it out NOW, the old paradigm of everyone wants Brad Pitt. That’s so boring! Stop trying to look act and be the same as the same old boring plastic model. Be you beautiful one. And stop lusting after generic plastic beauty that lacks substance.
Remember those those generically hot guys or bombshell gals that everyone wanted to date or be in high school (and sometimes they manage to stay ladies men or it girls for many years)? Where are they now? Most likely they either abused or ran away from or hopefully came to terms with the superficiality of their so-called physical perfection that got them in the door (or nether-region). A lot of the Hollywood hot people are actually suffocated or suffering with their beauty because no one can see the real them.
Yes beautiful: true beauty is on a much deeper level. We are all here by Divine Design; we are created by our creator with a perfect divine plan. We are gifted with the perfect package. We are all incredibly attractive to our Twin Flame, and vice versa. We are even granted a certain number of soulmates who find us stunning and make us feel our own attractiveness. Sometimes it can be annoying when you’re not attracted back to these people (a soulmate whose lesson/gift is to uplift your beauty confidence)! When I was in Italy I got a ton of cat calls and suitors who complimented me to the point where I stopped doing my own beauty affirmations because being told that I was hot all day long by these stallioni burned the message into my subconscious. Ironically, though their compliments helped me get into “I’m hot” instead of “I’m not” thinking, I only ended up being attracted to three men during my 3-year love affair with Italy. More ironically was that none of these men hit on me until later in our dating. Still, I will always be grateful for coming of age in Italy and hope that more American and Anglo men can learn the art of flattery and compliments from their Latin counterparts.
Ultimately, it’s about having both mutual physical attraction and mutual soul attraction for the right soulmate. Guess where it starts? It starts within…
Use the Law of Attraction!
The Law of Attraction states that “like attracts like.” Therefore, if you want to attract someone that you find attractive, you must first find yourself attractive. Hopefully you like what you see in the mirror! It’s no easy feat in this culture, where we limit the ideas of beauty. Especially for women, right!? I myself suffered from Barbie complex (and I still catch myself in moments sometimes) where I thought unless I looked like the perfect skinny toned perky Californian blondie, I couldn’t be loved or beautiful. It sucks when you live in fear of cellulite, water retention, wrinkles, pimples, and all the other stuff that comes with being woman/human! That’s not pretty. True beauty is confidence. Self-acceptance. Joy. Trust. Good posture. Open-heartedness. A smile is beautiful. In a nutshell, when you are radiant, glowing yourself, your own true Divine frequency out to the Universe, that is beautiful. Then you are a real bite of bait for the right soulmate.
Fall in love with yourself
That’s it. That’s what it takes–become a narcissist! Kidding. That’s so not the right word…Self-adoring, that’s a better fit! You don’t have to be self-absorbed in a selfish or narcissistic way to love yourself. True self-love is the kind where you are so in love with yourself that you see God/Goddess in yourself. Then, you see that God/Goddess and you are one. You feel the oneness of your soul with all souls, with divinity. You look in the mirror and see love and light that comes from your being a child of God/Goddess. And that you are not separate from God/Goddess. This becomes very exciting! Then you realize that all beings are little fractions of God, or more like microcosms of the macrocosm through which you can explore Oneness.
There are many potential soulmates out there for you to test out
Some are zany, insane, sexy, scary, goofy, interesting, boring, annoying, beautiful, and highly unattractive reflections of God/Goddess. Your job: to love everything and everyone in an unconditionally loving and compassionate way while discerning what is best for you as a human. It is not wrong to be attracted to certain types and not others. It is not wrong if you grew up around a certain type of person and feel comfortable marrying only that type of person. Never date (in the long term, one date is OK!) or marry someone you’re not attracted to. I do suggest trying to date outside of your race, class, spirituality, social group etc., so that you can understand Oneness through diversity. You will learn a lot as you seek out your Twin Flame. Moreover, it is possible that your Twin Flame is not a part of your inner circle/race etc. Many Twin Flames have reported to be living in different parts of the globe yet attract each other through divine guidance (plus online connecting or crossing during travels). They seem to often know that despite the differences of culture/race etc., there is an instant feeling Twin Flame recognition that is quite strong.
Your soul knows what you need, and your human self will be guided and follow the path perfectly to the perfect mate. It’s OK to kiss a few frogs on the journey too, but do keep in mind that you must be happy, blissful, satisfied! It all starts with gratitude for where you’re at, which is what I discussed in my article Harnessing Gratitude to Harness your Twin Flame!
Fall in love with the mirror to attract an attractive partner
Self-Love & Beauty Mirror Ritual:
Look in the mirror and repeat the following prayer/affirmation:
“I am beautiful. I love the soul that I see appearing in the mirror. The soul in the mirror loves me back. She (or he) is me. I love the home–the temple body of my soul. My body, skin, face, hair and every nuance of me is perfect. By Divine Design, I am pure and perfect love. I love myself. I am attractive. I am sexy. I am beauty. I am joy coming into human incarnation. My lashes are luscious. My skin is soft. Every corner, curve, wrinkle and nerve of me is placed perfectly so that I can attract the right person/people into my life. My body serves me for my highest purpose and I love her. My body is pretty sexy! My curves are gorgeous. My imperfections are totally perfect. I love the things I complain about, and I complain about them less and less. I love me, for all of me! Thank God/dess for the body I have, and the soul mates with which I share my body are damn lucky!”
In my YouTube video, What the Heck Is a Twin Flame? I define a Twin Flame as the other half of your soul incarnate. It’s living breathing you in the carnage (physical human form) of another. Same soul, different meat-suit.
According to Greek mythology, we were all once attached to our Twin Flame. If we had a male or female other half attached directly to us. But our powers were too strong, we became so godlike that Zeus got jealous and had humans sliced in half. ‘Til this day, we’re still suffering looking for our Divine Match, according to this metaphorical (I think!?) legend. In another blog article, What Is a Twin Flame? Twin Flame Q & A by A Twin Flame Expert, I talked about the difference between a Twin Flame Love and a soulmate love.
A soulmate in essence is a soul who comes in to teach you a lesson (and vice versa) and it can be romantic or not. If a Twin Flame being the other half of your soul can be a very exciting concept for those of us new to waking up, or those of us who have been awake but not yet totally aligned in relationship. Twin Flame seeking then becomes a very beautiful path of self-discovery then.
Not many people have known about our ability to attract a Twin Flame up until recently.
Many spiritual schools taught that a Twin Flame is something not worth seeking or of importance; some schools teach that it’s outright impossible for most. But it’s 2016, and the matrix energetics are realigning. New perspectives are allowing us to seek the answers within, and often times the answers say “I don’t choose to believe that,” and it is so. We are what we think. Beliefs shift reality. Once indoctrinated to believe we simply couldn’t have what we wanted, now we can indoctrinate ourselves with whatever we choose.
In 2012, we became our own doctors. Our own teachers, masters, gurus, shrinks, and lovers. That doesn’t mean that we can’t get external guidance and motivation along the way and that all external mentors are ineffective. Contrarily, teachers are simply mirrors of ourselves showing us what we believe or deep down know inside of us. When we have false teachings show up, it’s ourselves giving ourselves a test with a trick question on it. Do you (a) Write it off that you can’t have your Twin Flame because someone told you or it hasn’t happened, (b) Believe in Twin Flames but choose that it’s not likely for you, (c) Stay openminded and open-hearted to the idea as you deeply seek deep self-soul love, or (d) Decide that you definitely have to have a Twin Flame or else (you’ll die perhaps!?)? The best answer I suggest is (c). Why not give love a try, with the parachute on your back being the deepest sense of self-love and self care?
How do I know if my partner is my Twin Flame? First, ask yourself, do you even really want a Twin Flame? Here is what is required of being in a Twin Flame relationship:
Deep soul evolution, being on an Ascension path
Self-awareness at all times, on all levels
Being conscious from a Higher Self perspective
Being grounded in the earth plane and facing your insecurities
Going through a Dark Night of the Soul, if needed, to get to the Higher Self aspect
Healing your root chakra and learning to make friends with money, survival, and wealth consciousness
Being willing to surrender everything you currently “know” as love
Being willing to leave a bad marriage or even a pretty decent one that is not your Twin Flame relationship
To learn and know the difference between karmic soulmate love and Twin Flame Love vibrations
Letting go of the way things look
Being willing to fall in love with someone who might not fit into the box of traditional relationships
Being open to your Twin Flame being on another side of the globe or of a different culture
Tons of clearing, healing cleaning, de-cluttering of your aura, home, finances, and all aspects of your life so they align with the truth
Finally, and most importantly: deep unconditional self-soul love and gratitude
Darn! That’s a long list, I know you’re saying. It is. Yet think about all the soul growth you’ve already done in your life and even over the past few years. That’s a long list too.
Even if you have just a few things on the list above, you’re already getting Twin Flame set if you so desire. Now back to the question, how do you know if you’re in a Twin Flame relationship? Simply study yourself and how you are showing up in your current relationship.
Twin Flame Examination Starts at the Self.
First focus on YOU, and not the relationship (an external Twin Flame Mirror of you)…
Staring at you allows you to empower yourself and go to the source of the Twin Flame relationship, since you’re the only one you’ll be with 24-hours a day for the rest of your life! And you are the one who decides if someone is your Twin Flame. I have been told by several men that they were likely my Twin Flame and with pressure and persuasion behind it for not so Light reasons…it seems “Hey baby, I think you’re my Twin Flame” could be the latest New Age pickup line!
Does my heart feel so open wide that I love all things?
Do I have a huge dose of unconditional self-love?
Do I have a huge doses of unconditional love for every being on the planet?
True Twin Flame Litmus Testing to Be Released Next Fall!
Joking:) So you wanna take a litmus test to know if your guy/gal is the Twin Flame for you?! Pee into this panel and I’ll send it off to the lab and tell ya:) Kidding! While they haven’t come out with a Twin Flame fool proof test, you can try this one to get some good ideas:
Have I “come out of the closet” as a healer, indigo, crystal child, rainbow, etc, or do I hide myself and my talents to “play it safe” in front of my partner?
T or F? In a way, I know I could leave this person, because we are so entirely at one that on some level it doesn’t matter if we’re together or apart. I have faced my fears of disappointing him or her and my own fears of abandonment.
Am I staying with this person for the sake of the children, appearances, or out of insecurity?
Do I find this person attractive on most all levels?
Has your partner ever abused you verbally, physically, or psychically?
Is your relationship of service to the planet in a way that serves people outside of the relationship/family? (This can count even if it’s through deep love energetically releasing to the world).
Is there one single thing that doesn’t fit that keeps eating away at you or the relationship that you can’t let go for over more than a year? Sorry, I hate to break it to you, but this sounds like a deal-breaker…
Have you not unlocked some really old childhood fears and behaviors and family programs that are inhibiting your current relationship to a great degree? (this is not a total sign s/he isn’t the one, but it’s a good sign that as you heal, your energy will greatly shift making you more TF eligible).
Does your partner fully love you and support you and accept you?
Does your partner reject your ideas frequently, or not understand who you are on the deepest level?
Do you and your partner not know a lot about each others Higher Self energies?
Would you give your life for this person? If so, that’s not a good sign! You have to always put yourself first:) That was a trick question BTW!
Truly the best way to know if someone is your Twin Flame is to know yourself. Don’t forget that you are your greatest resource at all moments, and you are the Godchild/Goddesschild of the One. Feel free to check out my video How Do I Know if Someone is My Twin Flame?
Dr Amanda Noelle, the Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps match High-Healed Priestesses with their Twin Flames at light speed while helping them build 6-figure purpose-based BLI$$nesses.
It was somewhere around 8am and I was deep in sleep….
My angels were having a chat with me, as they often do when I am in head-to-the-pillow-bliss and not ready to awaken to the ‘real world.’ I used to be afraid of encountering angels, but now I love being bothered by them! It’s such a luxury ‘problem.’ Before my Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul, I rarely got to communicate with these beloved beings.
I’d shut them out because it was beyond what I was willing to accept, mentally or otherwise… but since I have gone through a soul awakening over the past few years, and passed through darkness through to the Light/other side, I have been able to open my awareness to angelic consciousness. Channeling angelic frequencies happens seemingly naturally now, and I want everyone to be able to do this.
I highly recommend a Power Pet during sleep. Having my chi-beagle Hazel, my shamanic spirit guide dog by my side when I sleep, I feel much safer to surrender during sleep. I highly recommend the power of animal healing guides when working with angelic consciousness.
Perhaps when we are no longer afraid of the angelic consciousness, and have learned that ‘they’ are simply a part of us, representing our highest awareness, we can integrate them into one strain of consciousness.
Here’s what my Twin Flame angels began to tell me…
In order to help more souls, you (Amanda) must teach others how to use the powers of the Divine Feminine to clear out pockets of darkness. Using the Divine Feminine will transmute the gray densities into light, into bliss, into fuel to spark a further rising of the Divine Feminine consciousness.
Archangel Haniel will be the angel to assist in the great portal opening of the Divine Feminine
For they say that it is Haniel who carries the Light of Aphrodite, the Divine Feminine, Innana, Ashtarte, Lakshmi, Venus, her many names. The sensual High Priestess, goddess of love. This hot pink ray of light will melt and transmute all grief, depression, anxiety, and stuck energies. The stagnancies that have been upon your planet for thousands of years will rise to the surface just life sea foam.
They say: there are those who run away from the many faces and facets of the Divine Feminine. But the fact is, they are running away from themselves, from the parts of themselves that resonate within the Feminine Frequencies. For the dark fears the light and the light fears the dark, it is all just a game of polarity. The Angels want you to know that you are not lost in these times of transition in the Golden Era, you are loved.
Most of all, the angels teach that we are love itself, here to rediscover itself through human form! Did you know that youare love, love that was once forgotten, and it re-membered itself through the re-membering over and over again through various incarnations, in-memberations into your thick-skinned membrane? Yesss! You are indeed covered in a membrane of human form, but within you are soul, a soul of pure love and Divine memory. Informatics of Divine form. The Feminine form. and the Masculine form. Holy, pure, real, re-membered entire universes reside within you. It is time for you to wake up, and realize that each of you are aboard on Her Royal Vessel, the Divine Feminine ship of Gaia floating on her orbit in space. Be carried upon her, ride swiftly upon Her salty waters, and rise up like the sea foam, as has done our Beloved Aphrodite.
Connect with the sea, and you will see, the sweet and salty memories of Her, and of your true origin reside within…
Remember, the word memory comes from Ancient Hebrew. Mem Ohr – memory: where Mem meant “water” and Ohr “light/spirit.” The 432 hz sound is carried in harmonized water. Salt, wave like motions, and the 432 hz tuning fork heals the water, and this crystalized water can heal your body and align you with Twin Flame Love.
Memory is simply a way of explaining that information is stored within the 70-percent surface of Gaia. We dear ones are made of water, are of the ocean, so truly the memories lie within. Thanks for joining me Twin Flame Lover, I’ll see you soon.
Namaste,
Dr. Amanda Noelle, The Twin Flame Matchmaker, swiftly soulmates High-Priestesses with their Twin Flames and Starchildren.
Times are a-changing! In the past, we saw higher levels of world politics, education, wealth, and health industries being dominated by men. Now, the planet is about to get dominated by…
Since the 1960s, planetary shifts gave way to a rise of feminism and feminine power. We’ve seen high numbers of women on top. But the problem is, many women on top have sacrificed their true Divine Feminine nature in order to step into the spotlight. And, they’re walking alone without a true balance of Divine Love feeding their hearts.
It’s critical to heal the planet with a balance of Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies.
So hold onto your hats – we’re in for an exciting new paradigm ride! Post 2012 Shift, we are witnessing the rise of Twin Flame Power Couples stepping into leadership.
We are seeing these love leaders who come together through Divine Union as Twin Flame Power Couples.
But what exactly classifies a Twin Flame Power Couple? In this blog, I will identify the 11 signs of a Twin Flame Power Couple. There are many more than 11, but 11 is a Twin Flame number, so we’ll start there. While each Twin Flame Union is unique, there are certain themes I see over and over again.
Here are the 11 Signs of a Twin Flame Power Couple:
You are not defined by your ego or led by greed, control, or seeing power
You are here to heal the planet and serve with the Light
You two are on a soul purpose mission together
Your Twin Flame Union is a container for intimacy, yet it also holds your soul purpose
You want to birth a Twin Flame Legacy – either biological children, or something to impact the greater good of the planet
You are motivated by bliss and love, not punishment or fear
You are ready to accelerate your spiritual growth, at light speed
You are committed to non-violent communication and ahimsa – treating others through Oneness and non-violence
You are both committed to self-evolution in order to evolve your relationship, the planet, and Oneness
You are connected on a Higher Self level, not just through your daily life
You are willing to die for the cause – your passions and love are that strong
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have witnessed hundreds of my clients attract their Divine Partner at light speed.
I myself moved in with my Twin Flame within a week! We fell in love at first sight and felt an instant sense of Twin Flame soul recognition.
You can watch the video about our reunion here:
Twin Flame Recognition: How Do You Tell If Someone Is Your Twin Flame or Not?
The Divine Feminine has risen and it’s an exciting time on the planet for women and for planetary healers in general. The rise of the Divine Masculine is catching up with us ladies, and conscious men are on the rise!
Things are happening quickly. Men are reassessing their old roles and are becoming more conscious in their hearts, and are asking their partners and wives to join them in the power seat. This is true for Bill and Hillary Clinton in the 2016 election. This is the first time in history where a single couple have both run for president, which is groundbreaking in Twin Flame history!
Men and women are making new waves and are stepping into conscious relationships, Twin Flame Unions, and spiritually-based relationships.
This is a very exciting time for love. Venus energies (the Goddess of Love and the planet of love) is merging with our Earth Consciousness. Our hearts are merging with the lower chakras.
Twin Flame Power Couples operate from the higher, more spiritual chakras, rather than just the lower three chakras (the root chakra, the sacral chakra, and the solar chakra) relating to survival, sex, and power.
Twin Flame Power Couples are aligning their sexual energies via the Twin Flame Kundalini pathways that link through the 11 Twin Flame Chakras. They come together through all seven chakras of the body, the Gaian Chakra, and the three Transpersonal Chakras. These couples are most linked at the heart.
The Twin Flame Union has been relatively rare in its physical form on the planet until recently, humans are still “getting the hang” of Twin Flame Love.
Twin Flame Love is an ancient, timeless, sacred, and raw energy to return to the mainstream systems. Indeed it is needed, and it is time.
Aho.
Dr. Amanda Noelle is the Twin Flame Matchmaker helping women attract their Twin Flames at light speed.
Did you know that the basic life-sustaining element water can help you attract your Twin Flame?
Water is the most juicy form of healing medicine for creating magic, miracles, and attracting your heart’s desires through the Law of Attraction. Before, (and also during) working with water to attract your Twin Flame, start with a Twin Flame meditation of your choice.
Water helps you amplify the Twin Flame Law of Attraction where what you put out in your heart-mind out into the universe, attracts what you desire. As above, so below! As within your consciousness, as within the consciousness within the water, which turns to materialized wishes come true. Why else have we been throwing coins into fountains for centuries, have we used holy water, and in every religion/spiritual tradition water is used in sacred ceremonies and for shamanic healing? Twin Flame Love healing ahoy!
Here are some helpful healing things to know about water:
Water is the most cleansing element, both energetically and physically, for the human body (smoke and mud are great too, and you’ll find those in native spa rituals, but not as much as water)
Water holds language, sound, light, and energy like a library or memory card with the 432 hz frequency
A 432 hz tuning fork sound healing can create resonance for a Twin Flame Reunion
Water healing can activate the DNA to hold a Twin Flame frequency
Water holds ancient sacred mem ohr – Ancient Hebrew for ‘water spirit’ or records within the sacred geometry of a water crystal, which is the same as a silicon computer chip that stores memory
You can download your prayers into the water to amplify your prayers
Water itself is an angel, and Sulis is a water Goddess you can pray to
Praying by a lake or pond or even the ocean is incredibly powerful
Water nurtures the body, especially warm water; it can relax and expand the muscles and capillaries which promotes blood flow and energy flow which raises the vibration of the energy field
Regular baths promote happiness and alleviate depression (add aromatherapy, salts, herbs, clay, and flower petals!)
Adding salt to water and/or using a 432 hz tuning fork crystalizes the water to the sacred geometry where yin-meets-yang (the Star of David), where the H2O is aligned like a honey-comb liquid lattice
Every culture uses water for sacred rituals, from the pagan wishing well, to a Muslim hammam to a Christian baptism, to the mikvah in Judaism…there are endless ways to use water in prayer, clearing, and blessings – go ahead, create your own Law of Attraction and Twin Flame attraction rituals!
I’m 34, single, and loving it. As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I love helping my single female clients meet their beloveds through healing, magic, and the Law of Attraction.
My life is a single woman’s fairytale. I have been working, living, and traveling with my hot pink Macbook Pro Retina-lover from several locations worldwide over the past few months: glitzy LA, ancient Crete, sexy Italy, relaxing Costa Rica, homey Berkeley, and again sexy Italy! It’s been CRAZY FUN, and sometimes I feel like I AM CRAZY too, like a high-end bag lady with so many ideas, passions, and fashions to bring with me to create new styles. Somehow, I am making it work, and it’s magical.
Me in my office with a view in Crete, Greece
Yet with a clicking biological clock and knowing that my egg-time is limited, sometimes it’s hard to fully feel free in these precious single years.
Are you fearing the future?
Fears about the future can be scary. Fears about making a career for myself used to rule my life in my 20s; it paralyzed me and blocked me from living in my financial power. Luckily, around my 30th birthday, I had a breakthrough. I went through a Dark Night of the Soul that forced me to step into my financial power. I now have a successful dream business that enables me to live in both spiritual and traveler’s bliss. So no longer do I let my fears rule me; I let them come up, but then I let them pass. So of course part of me entertains the fear that my eggs will dry up before I meet Mr. Right, with all this distracting juicy fun and adventure, but the bigger part of me is much smarter than that…
Posing at Positano, Italy
Trust your life journey
I KNOW that I am going to be a mom. I get Starchildren visits in my dreams and meditations. I encourage you to allow yourself to dive into your deepest passions and trust that this time is a sacred single gal’s time that will prepare you as the Divine Twin Flame Bride.
I know I am going to find my Twin Flame soulmate some day, and birth everything that I always wanted to create. As a fairytale-believing child, I have always believed in magic and I’m starting to live it; but it’s realer and better and without the crazy co-dependence and lies!
I do believe that everything happens in perfect timing; it’s just that, for me, right now isn’t the timing for kids, for kids are forever. Right now on the planet, there is a huge shift, the rise of the Divine Feminine, that we have been waiting for for over 5,000 years, and I personally am savoring it! Same with the Twin Flame energies that have risen – when we step into them, there will be no going back.
I prefer to birth my single-girl life dreams before my Twin Flame Reunion, like creating Twin Flame couples, traveling, meeting soul family, and enjoy my independence for just a little longer.
That’s just me. That’s just my bliss…For now!
If you are a single woman who is finding herself, healing herself, and exploring her deepest passions, I salute you. Someday when we are changing diapers and waking up to the same partner for the rest of our lives, we will say, “Thank God I lived that crazy gypsy magical life when I was single so I could set the standard at bliss, adventure, and magic!” I truly believe that we’ll all be able to maintain this sense of magic, freedom, and fun within a marriage and parenthood and now is the time to prepare and figure it out!
Will it be too late to get pregnant?
The fact is, you can probably get pregnant in your late 30s and early 40s, as the research is starting to come out. Your bio clock probably isn’t ticking as fast as you think. According to one fertility study, of 770 European women who were having sex at least twice a week, 82 percent of the 35-to-39-year-old women conceived within a year, compared with 86 percent of 27-to-34-year-olds. If you’re a 30-something diva who doesn’t have a full craving to “settle down” yet, then I say settle up, and your Twin Flame and Starchildren will arrive that way. If you eat well, exercise, and live happily, and talk to your baby-spirits, you will likely be able to naturally conceive your little Starchild in your late 30s or early 40s, and be a great mom!
Namaste,
Dr. Amanda Noelle is the Twin Flame Matchmaker, helping stellar spiritual 30-40 something single women meet and marry their Twin Flames so they can have stellar families.
Kundalini (Sanskrit कुण्डलिनी) is the electrical wavelike energy that runs up the base of the spine. It is represented as a sleeping serpent/snake or goddess who awaits to be awakened. This form of feminine shakti, or “corporeal energy” is usually awakened during a deep meditation, an enlightenment experience, the soul’s desire to know God/dess, and/or through sexual bliss.
I often have kundalini signs in the form of snakes coming into my life.
One of the best ways to describe kundalini is the Twin Flame energy: Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine snakes that ride up and down the androgynous (neutral) pathway of the spine.
The Kundalini Energy Pathways
Kundalini energy rises up the spine in snakelike or wavelike motions centered around the spine-axis.
These yin-yang energies drop from Father Sky and rise from Mother Earth, and meet within us in the spine and chakra centers, traveling through electro and biomagnetic fields within our spine and spinal fluid.
Kundalini energy has been represented in cultures around the world in ancient art, from Ancient Greece, Turkey, Mayan Civilizations, India, Egypt, Afghanistan, and beyond. The clues have also been hidden and preserved within Masonic Temples and even in the Christian art.
What Is Kundalini Awakening or Kundalini Rising?
All of us have kundalini energy dormant within us. However, not everyone has awakened kundalini. When we consciously or unconsciously choose to awaken our kundalini energies, an ancient gateway opens that connects us on Earth and to the Cosmos. This Stargate gives us direct access to our Higher Self and to higher spiritual information.
This awakening is called Kundalini Awakening or Kundalini Rising. It can be felt in slight or even dramatic energetic releases or pulsations, as well as in the form of a major spiritual awakening or life crisis. When you have a Kundalini Awakening, it means that it is time for your personality to awaken to the ancient sacred records and memories contained in your soul. There is a need for your human self and your Higher Self to be integrated. Attempting to shut it down a kundalini awakening can create harm to the body and soul.
What Does Kundalini Rising Feel Like?
Kundalini energy can feel similar to subtle chi energy experienced during a tai chi session, acupuncture treatment, or reiki healing. Or, it can be much more intense and can feel like a full-body orgasm where you have to let go and let God! To me, kundalini energy feels like a combination of a pulsation and a wave, of light, electricity, and water.
I feel it most often while dancing and lovemaking, but a good meditation session can be just as blissful. I also recommend meditating while self-pleasuring, which I call “masturtation” – imagine the snakelike energy flowing up and down the spine while connecting to the earth and sky. Allow the sexual pleasure from your yoni to conjoin with the electrical pulsations so that human (earthly) pleasures connects with celestial star pleasures. This is a symbol of the Twin Flame Union as well.
Signs of Kundalini Rising
No two people have the exact same kundalini rising symptoms. Here are some of the most common spiritual signs of kundalini rising, as shared on www.kundalinicare.com:
Feeling different, not fitting in
A deep dissatisfaction or a yearning for inner development
Inner sensations of light, sound, current, or heat
A heightened inner or outer awareness; increased sensitivity
Feelings of energy flowing or vibrating within
Special abilities, capacities, and talents
Non-ordinary phenomena
Altered states
Spontaneous bodily movements or breathing patterns
Emotional fluctuations
Psychological issues coming forward
Atypical sensations or sensitivities
An interest in spiritual growth or in metaphysics or the esoteric
Compassion and a desire to help others
Asense that something non-ordinary, transformative, or holy is happening within
Personal development, and optimally, spiritual transformation and realization
Kundalini Syndrome
‘Kundalini syndrome‘ is used to describe the physical and psychological symptoms manifested through blocked kundalini. I’ve known many clients and friends who experience kundalini energies rising up their spines during sex, meditation, dance, and in everyday activities. Kundalini awakenings can be pleasant and orgasmic, subtle or slight, or they can be overwhelming and tumultuous. I have also witnessed many who consciously or unconsciously attempt to suppress the awakening process because it terrifies them; or, at least a part of them doesn’t feel ready. Blocking kundalini flow that wants to rise is not a good bet. This can lead to migraines, back pain, chronic candida, anxiety, depression, other health and mental health issues, and root chakra issues, such as poverty issues and survival fears.
It can be a strange experience at first, to feel electrical pulsations riding up your spine and emitting out of your body. If you don’t know what they are, or how to maneuver them, kundalini energy can feel unfamiliar and even scary. I had a friend who had her first major kundalini experience while sitting on the toilet, and it freaked her out. She didn’t know what it was and shouted for it to stop. The energy stopped and she shut it down. Interestingly, this friend also suffered from a chronic case of migraines, chronic pain, candida, and other health issues.
Kundalini is nothing to be afraid of, but I recommend if you’re feeling overwhelmed to get professional support from a healer you trust. Start going slow, especially if you’re feeling uncomfortable. Always be extra careful when experimenting with kundalni while using plant medicine or practicing tantra.
When I had a kundalini awakening experience in my early twenties, I was subconsciously fighting it and became so sick I could hardly walk.
I had chronic migraines, sinusitis, and fatigue that no doctor could heal. I dove into my spiritual path and used herbs, nutrition, and acupuncture to heal myself. It wasn’t until years later that I put together that what I was having was a kundalini awakening experience!
Twin Flame Kundalini
As within all of creation, there is the left pillar, representing the Divine Feminine, the right pillar, representing the Divine Masculine, and the spine – the Zero Point, where the two snakes become one in holy union (Divine Oneness). Activated kundalini flow allows a deep soul-healing, can clear away pain and blockages, and emotes the frequency of Twin Flame Love.
Each human has these two “serpents” within them – a male and a female serpent; when activated and harmonized, the two snakes dance together up the spine and create a unique soul-song in the spine that opens up various parts of the brain and creates a hyper-conscious awareness. It can contribute to increased psychic abilities and an awareness of the Higher Self that makes Twin Flame attraction easy.
Literally, this psychic consciousness allows us to work consciously with the Law of Attraction so you know exactly when and where to meet your other soul half. Twin Flame Kundalini is the merging of the four serpents: the male snake of the female partner merges with the female snake of the male partner, and vice versa (and in same-sex couples it’s the same).
The Twin Flame sexual union marries together the two soul-halves and through this ancient snake dance; the Twin Flame pair bridges the gap of separation of self from other, heaven from earth. The wound of separation can then be healed, and the Twin Flame partners move forward in the world with a new perspective and divine connection. When the two serpents merge, a new dimension or doorway opens.
This is why during lovemaking, I have had surreal cosmic experiences where I have passed through the Stargates and have co-existed in the two worlds. I have seen my partner shape-shift into various celestial forms, and have watched cosmic light grids appear throughout his physical body. Further, these experiences have allowed my psychic and channeling gifts to become activated. The experience is fantastically healing.
Kundalini Pre Twin Flame Union
Within Twin Flames, kundalini usually awakens either in both or one of the Twins prior to the Twin Flame Union. The energy of kundalini is more powerful than any human energy, and to harness it, it helps to practice a kundalini meditation several times per week. To stimulate a kundalini activation, you can place a piece of Serpentine or Aurora Quartz at the root chakra and at the crown, to draw the kundalini up the spine. Red jasper can also be used at the root chakra as well.
Many Twin Flame Kundalini blessings!
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Like ducks who choose the pretty mallard feathers, or the she-goats who select the winning mountain goat for his large horns, or the lucky gorilla gal who gets the coveted silverback, we humans can go gaga for good looking guys or gals. In this post, I will talk about how to bag a babe that you actually find attractive–on both physical and spiritual levels! Have I attracted your attention yet?
You are probably saying, “Amanda, isn’t it superficial to say that attractive people are better than less attractive people on a soul level?” And I’m saying No, it’s not. Because attractiveness is spiritual. And its not the Hollywood kinda pretty or hot I am talking about, as attractiveness does not have to be generic. True beauty is all in the eye of the beholder. In fact, true attractiveness is simply a spiritual vibration based on high levels of sacred geometry.
Everyone’s attractiveness taste buds are unique, just as everyone looks unique. So there’s someone for you – there’s someone for everyone! A perfect mach on all the levels, beauty included. Throw it out NOW, the old paradigm of everyone wants Brad Pitt. That’s so boring! Stop trying to look act and be the same as the same old boring plastic model. Be you beautiful one. And stop lusting after generic plastic beauty that lacks substance.
Yes beautiful: true beauty is on a much deeper level. We are all here by Divine Design; we are created by our creator with a perfect divine plan. We are gifted with the perfect package. We are all incredibly attractive to our Twin Flame, and vice versa. We are even granted a certain number of soulmates who find us stunning and make us feel our own attractiveness. Sometimes it can be annoying when you’re not attracted back to these people (a soulmate whose lesson/gift is to uplift your beauty confidence)! When I was in Italy I got a ton of cat calls and suitors who complimented me to the point where I stopped doing my own beauty affirmations because being told that I was hot all day long by these stallioni burned the message into my subconscious. Ironically, though their compliments helped me get into “I’m hot” instead of “I’m not” thinking, I only ended up being attracted to three men during my 3-year love affair with Italy. More ironically was that none of these men hit on me until later in our dating. Still, I will always be grateful for coming of age in Italy and hope that more American and Anglo men can learn the art of flattery and compliments from their Latin counterparts.
The Law of Attraction states that “like attracts like.” Therefore, if you want to attract someone that you find attractive, you must first find yourself attractive. Hopefully you like what you see in the mirror! It’s no easy feat in this culture, where we limit the ideas of beauty. Especially for women, right!? I myself suffered from Barbie complex (and I still catch myself in moments sometimes) where I thought unless I looked like the perfect skinny toned perky Californian blondie, I couldn’t be loved or beautiful. It sucks when you live in fear of cellulite, water retention, wrinkles, pimples, and all the other stuff that comes with being woman/human! That’s not pretty. True beauty is confidence. Self-acceptance. Joy. Trust. Good posture. Open-heartedness. A smile is beautiful. In a nutshell, when you are radiant, glowing yourself, your own true Divine frequency out to the Universe, that is beautiful. Then you are a real bite of bait for the right soulmate.
compassionate way while discerning what is best for you as a human. It is not wrong to be attracted to certain types and not others. It is not wrong if you grew up around a certain type of person and feel comfortable marrying only that type of person. Never date (in the long term, one date is OK!) or marry someone you’re not attracted to. I do suggest trying to date outside of your race, class, spirituality, social group etc., so that you can understand Oneness through diversity. You will learn a lot as you seek out your Twin Flame. Moreover, it is possible that your Twin Flame is not a part of your inner circle/race etc. Many Twin Flames have reported to be living in different parts of the globe yet attract each other through divine guidance (plus online connecting or crossing during travels). They seem to often know that despite the differences of culture/race etc., there is an instant feeling Twin Flame recognition that is quite strong.
It was somewhere around 8am and I was deep in sleep….
For they say that it is Haniel who carries the Light of Aphrodite, the Divine Feminine, Innana, Ashtarte, Lakshmi, Venus, her many names. The sensual High Priestess, goddess of love. This hot pink ray of light will melt and transmute all grief, depression, anxiety, and stuck energies. The stagnancies that have been upon your planet for thousands of years will rise to the surface just life sea foam.
Within Twin Flames, kundalini usually awakens either in both or one of the Twins prior to the