Maybe you’ve heard of the Twin Flame Theory…Perhaps you have a solid understanding or believe of what a Twin Flame relationship is…
And it could be that you are happily single, but getting closer to understanding what Twin Flames are, or perhaps you’ve entered into a special union and you want to learn more about what your soul has called in…
Or maybe you’re as lost and clueless as I was about Twin Flames several years back, before I became obsessed with Twin Flames, and with finding mine.
This article goes beyond the aspect of defining “What is a Twin Flame?” as I have defied in other articles and Twin Flame videos. In this blog, I attempt to define the concept of Twin Flame Love, and share my viewpoint on how Twin Flame Love enters the Twin Flame Union.
It is my hope that this short post will help you understand, call in, and awaken your Twin Flame Love partnership like I did, so you can have a heart that is fully satiated, and so that you can give back to the planet and live on soul purpose!
So, What Is Twin Flame Love?
Twin Flame Love is a Source Energy that holds an energetic alignment of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine polarities.
Essentially, Twin Flame Love is a type of divine or heart-balanced energy that can be channeled into all areas of life.
It’s where Divine Feminine Love is aligned with Divine Masculine Light.
Or as I put it, FLAME = Feminine Love Aligned with Masculine Energy
See below where I define what is feminine and masculine energy in the section, “Twin Flame Energy and the Yin Yang Theory.”
Let’s Look at Twin Flame Alchemy
Let’s talk about Twin Flame energy and how this aligns with ancient alchemical principles.
In the Emerald Tablet of Hermes Trismegistus, which is a short occult work, it states the well-known phrase: “As above, so below, as within.”
Or, in accuracy, the actual statement was: “That which is Below corresponds to that which is Above, and that which is Above corresponds to that which is Below, to accomplish the miracle of the One Thing.”
This means that the microcosm is oneself, and the macrocosm is the universe… where macrocosm (the Universe) is as the microcosm (the Youniverse) and vice versa. Thus, each lies within the other like a yin-yang symbol with smaller yin-yangs inside.
By understanding one’s self (the Youniverse microcosm) a beloved may understand the macrocosm universe, and understand the other beings inside of it, including one’s Twin Flame.
Thus, if we apply this principle to understand Twin Flame Love, we realize that to align with Twin Flame Love, we must align with the love of the universe, which is composed of two polar energies, which is the Yin and Yang or Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies…
Twin Flame Energy and the Yin Yang Theory
I used to be a student of Traditional Chinese Healing, and in the tradition it is thought that everything in the universe is composed of Divine Feminine (yin) and Divine Masculine (yang) energies that balance out each other through polarity.
Here are the general qualities of yin and yang:
Yin – general qualities are dark, cold, watery, hollow, internal, based on the past, behind, subconscious, intuitive, amorphous, circular, wavy, emotional, flowy. Yin is related to the Earth and to the moon.
Yang – light, hot, fiery, solid, external, future-based, in front, conscious, logical, consistent, square, linear, nonemotional, direct. Yang is related to the sun and stars.
There is no separation of yin and yang, and yin lives within yang, and vice versa. Thus, in a similar sense, you live within your Twin Flame, and your Twin Flame lives within you…
Note that we are all made up of yin and yang, both men and women have Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine qualities in our bodies, minds, and spirits.
The goal is to balance all aspects of ourselves with yin and yang, and balance our 11 Twin Flame Chakras. For instance, in general, many people tend to be imbalanced in their root chakras regarding money, where it tends to be either a masculine forcing it energy, or an overly feminine flowy energy that can become ungrounded.
Side note: As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have found that women healers in general must learn to anchor their divine abundance with solid masculine structures in order to make money and call in their beloved.
Twin Flame Love Signs
I teach my clients that they are ready for their Twin Flame ONLY once they see the entire universe as their beloved. What does that mean?
I know it sound and can be quite frustrating to embrace everyone and everything under the sun with love. But believe me, though not easy, it is possible. The motto for Aphrodite University is “Love Conquers All” which is Amor Vincit Omnia in Latin and goes back to ancient times. It’s,also translated to “Love Heals All,” which I know to be true.
In order to stoke the flames and call in an energy of Twin Flame Love, all it takes is love.
It simply takes connecting to Love, which means allowing your limited Youniverse to connect with the limitless Source Creator.
Where most of us get stopped up is that we feel not good enough to receive love, we feel not good enough…
Most of us feel “not God enough” for our Twin Flames!
This needs to change. We awakened beings, holders of the Flame must awaken to Divine Love and not hold ourselves and our soul missions back by the oldest story in the book that tells us there’s an angry God looking over us, and that if we make one wrong move we’ll be sent to Hell. We won’t!
The Universe is made up of one thing that is divided into the polarity of Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine. As a High-Healed Priestess (healer in heels) I would say that the most common mistake that stops people from calling in and nurturing their Twin Flame Sacred Union is the lack of integration between their feminine and masculine qualities.
That’s where I got stuck, and what slowed/stopped me for years from getting what I wanted. Until I hired a mentor who helped me with my love blocks, and a business coach who helped me get out of wealth blocks, I simply could not manifest my Twin Flame because I was so out of energetic alignment!
It’s not easy to get through those splits in our soul, places where our Sacred Feminine has gone underground due to thousands of years of patriarchal rule. The healing work can be challenging, lonely, and I know what it’s like to go through a Dark Night of the Soul.
However, there is support, and I would be happy to support you as a woman who has gone through it all and overcome most of it, and will continue healing every step of the way.
I would also love to hear your story, your questions, and your Twin Flame Love signs!
In my research–literary, anthropological, and psychic, I have discovered one other important piece about Twin Flames that I want to share just before Valentine’s Day…
My theory is that we humans have not one mind, but three minds, and that all three must be awakened in order to call in our Twin Flame…
Additionally, we cannot call in our Twin Flame with just the masculine mind in our head!
Here are the three minds to master:
First, we have the Divine Masculine mind, which is our logical brain…
You know about this mind, so I won’t tell you about it too much.
Just take an axe and cut open your skull and you’ll know what I’m talking about. Just kidding! Don’t do that, I love you too much…
This mind is the one based on logic, linear thinking, algorithms and alphabets, science based on Newtonian Physics.
I call this Divine Masculine logical mind the “Upper Brain” or “Upper Mind,” as not to confuse it with the other two minds…
The Divine Feminine Mind
The second mind is the Divine Feminine “Lower Brain,” located at our Sacral Chakra; the yoni (or the lingam if you’re a man). The Lower Brain represents the Earth, intuition, being connected to nature, and it’s a mirror of the Upper Mind (remember “As above so below?”).
In women we have what I call “pussy power” (or PU$$Y Power for fun!), which is the wombspace–where life on earth is created.
Unfortunately because Divine Masculine logic has ruled the human consciousness within the patriarchy for thousands of years, women have been severed from our Lower Minds, and our PU$$Y Power has been traumatized and/or suppressed.
We have overly emphasized numbers, facts, conscious thought, and logic, and have under acknowledged the subconscious mind. Bruce Lipton, PhD, states that:
“Most people don’t even acknowledge that their subconscious mind is at play, when the fact is that the subconscious mind is a million times more powerful than the conscious mind and that we operate 95 to 99 percent of our lives from subconscious programs.”
In fact, the yoni and the rectum (in both sexes) is connected at the cervix by the pelvic nerve to the base of the brain at the spinal cord, and this makes the third mind.
The third mind is the Twin Flame Brain. This is the holistic system that makes up the connection between the Upper Mind and Lower Mind via various nerves and the spine itself. This is what the Egyptian mystery schools called the djed, and it is the channel for Twin Flame Kundalini.
At the very center of the djed (Upper and Lower Mind connection channel), is the heart chakra, and this center is what I call the Twin Flame Brain.
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To activate the Twin Flame Brain (Heart Chakra) we need to heal all of our 11 Twin Flame Chakras.
To do so, we need strong healers and leaders who are willing to heal themselves fully.
That’s why I am calling Twin Flame women who are ready to enlighten their Twin Flame Brain and awaken their hearts.
To do so, they must first connect and heal themselves within their Earth Chakras (Lower Chakras–Gaian Chakra, Root Chakra, Sacral Chakra, and Solar Plexus Chakra). They must heal out all sexual traumas, poverty and slavery beliefs and blocks, and limiting beliefs about their power.
Then, they must heal their heart breaks, past and present.
The Sacral Chakra is of utmost importance for women especially, for it holds all of the other chakras. For instance, when we are pregnant we hold a child who has all of its chakras inside of us. We hold the power to heal the Universe inside of us. But how can we do so if we are holding the trauma of the Divine Feminine?
That’s why in order to reclaim our Twin Flame energies, women must “birth” our Twin Flames from a healed Lower Mind, and with orgasm. I call this Manifest With Orgasm, which I teach at Aphrodite University.
The first step to Manifest With Orgasm is to clear out your Sacral Chakra and activate the PU$$Y Power. Unfortunately, most women are holding onto heavy blocks here and need extra support and activation help from a High Priestess. Yet most High Priestesses have yet to clear out this area within themselves and cannot activate their disciples. That’s why it’s so important to hire and receive the right help from a Twin Flame Activated High Priestess with a healed wombspace.
Many of the High Priestesses out their are either (a) in abusive relationships with men/the masculine, and (b) are carrying poverty blueprints and slavery codes that express their earthly abundance. This is due to the fact that most of the High Priestesses have been burnt at the stake or deemed crazy due to the patriarchal belief systems.
How to Call in Your Twin Flame From the Twin Flame Brain
Twin Flame Women are truly priestesses of the light who are here to birth the New Earth by calling in their Twin Flame counterparts. By birthing new life and new energy on earth (such as a new business, project, organization, or other legacy)
To do so, we must fully awaken our Upper and Lower Minds, and unite them at the heart. Twin Flames are fueled by our Soul Purpose mission.
Twin Flame Men are also here to serve, and to become part of Twin Flame Unions. They’re here to keep the logic in balance with the Divine Feminine creation. Men are hereto awaken to their Higher Dimensional gifts as High Priests, healers of the Light, and are here to serve the Divine Feminine. If you are a Twin Flame Man, I know you’re here to embody the Divine Masculine like a god, and become one as a Knight in Shining Amour!
I see so many of my Twin Flame women clients becoming a part of a Twin Flame Power Couple, where the couple provides a deep soul gift to the world based on their soul essence, what I call their Signature Soul Song. Twin Flames always share a Soul Purpose based on their Signature Soul Song, and it is this purpose that calls them together.
I’d love to teach you more about the Twin Flame Brain and Twin Flame Attraction, which is why I’d like to invite you to my upcoming Twin Flame Valentine’s Day wetbinar (a complimentary juicy training) coming soon.
Does it ever feel like everyone around you eventually leaves you?
Do you sometimes wonder if anyone will ever want you for you?
I’m not just talking about your Twin Flame…I’m talking about real love enfolding you, and never leaving you.
I have spent many years of my life single, longing for deeper connections, and downright lonely.
Sometimes I’ve been invited to fun parties with Soul Family and friends, and yet still felt alone in my world.
Other years I was just plain alone.
Social gatherings can even stimulate thoughts like:
“Am I loveable?”
“Why aren’t they connecting with me?”
“Will anyone ever want me/get me/marry me?”
And sometimes we don’t get invited to the parties or asked out on dates by anyone of quality, or at times even anyone.
Beloved, do you struggle with the following abandonment issues?
Feeling sad that your truest love lied to you, cheated on you, or left you down in a ditch (what a effing b*tch!)…or it just didn’t work out and you miss them
Fearing that friends will eventually leave you or lose their loyalty
Thank God your family loves you…or do they even really know you?
Finding yourself wondering if relationships are real at all, or just based on neediness
Until not that long ago, I often found myself being abadnoned or betrayed–often by the people I loved and trusted most. I called in Twin Flame Runner energy and Twin Flame Counterfeits.
I’ve decided that fear of abandonment is a normal human experience–especially for women.
The Sacred Wound of the Divine Feminine is fear of abandonment by her Divine Masculine Counterpart.
I want to help you help feel more connected to others than ever, so you can say goodbye to the loneliness of heartbreak forever.
#1 Tip to Heal Abandonment: Go dig into the pain.
Dig into your abandonment fears.
Face them.
Stay in alone tonight, and close all the shades. Turn off your distractions, and feel the pain arise.
Wallowing in it, and breathing in your loneliness is the greatest gift you can give yourself at this time…
Because if we don’t face our isolation, we’d be running from our issues!
No one will love you if you don’t feel your pain and love yourself in it.
When a woman runs from her abaonment issues, guess what will happen to her?
Abandonment comes to hunt her down.
Her sadness, her pain, her abandonment stuff will only grow louder and louder in all of her relationships.
Maybe this has already happened to you?
Have you ever found yourself in a partnership or social group where you were running from your loneliness together?
The bonds of sex, intimacy, and conversations served as a noise to distract you from your pain.
Perhaps if we just listened to our lone internal howling wolf crying her song of loneliness, we’d actually be able to shut the f*ck up and actually connect with each other…
Loneliness is deep medicine…
To be honest, I have struggled with dark feelings of isolation, loneliness, and “I don’t belong” since…well as long as I can remember.
I was born a different type of soul with a specific vibrational field and purpose. My different rhythm made me feel like an outsider.
As a child, my loneliness kept me feeling like i didn’t belong on the group, or on the planet at all. Most of high school and college I spent pretending to fit in but I felt alien there too…
I slept with my first boyfriend hoping sex and intimacy would bandage my pain, but when he left and the bandage was ripped off, I was ripped in two!
I think my biggest problem during my younger years wasn’t my actual loneliness—it was my fear that if anyone found out that I was lonely, I’d be seen as a freak.
So, I pretended to fit in as the overachiever blond volleyball player. I wanted to be well-liked and popular, and while I had my moments, I felt like I would die if anyone found out my big bad secret…
I Love My Loneliness (and alone time)!
Claiming this piece and allowing myself to face my shadow within loneliness and isolation is how I met Jack and how to call in your Twin Flame.
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What Is Feminine Energy?
Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy
Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.
Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...
Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.
In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.
If you are ready to call in your Beloved fast this year, but you’ve been blocked by the following beliefs:
-That you’re too much for a man -You don’t deserve love -You’re not self-confident enough, or you’re not enough -Men only leave or abandon you, or like you for your looks/ASSets -That your Twin Flame doesn’t exist (a hidden form of self-esteem sabotage)
Then use spa to cleanse away your ‘sins’ (your Silly Internal Naysaying Sounds) blocking you from calling in your Twin Flame Beloved…
I love cleansing away women’s deepest darkest hairy scary demons (HSDs) so they can love and be loved.
As the Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have helped hundreds of women in over 30 countries around the world to call in their Beloved fast…
My fastest results have come using sacred rituals. When I meet my clients in-person we do shamanic beauty rituals using loving and safe touch; it sets a new template for self-love and the way they want to be loved.
The spa implements a loving touch of the Divine Mother, and we blend this with goal-setting, karma clearing, past life regression therapy, and counseling.
Did you know that pampering, facials, and spa treatments have been used around the world to prepare women as brides? For instance, in Indonesia, flowering plants, rice, herbs, and coconuts are used in abundance within a bathing wedding ritual called ‘lulur.’ I bring my clients to Bali every year so they can experience this deeply cleansing and nourishing ritual complete with a body scrub, body mask, flower bath, and massage.
Right now I am returning to my work as a licensed esthetician (I haven’t practiced in almost 5 years!).
During my in person Twin Flame Attraction VIP days and group retreats, I will be activating women as Twin Flame Brides before they meet their Beloved using spirituality…I mean SPArituality!
As a holistic esthetician and High-Healed Priestess, I have seen my Twin Flame Facials help women manifest their men at LIGHTSPEED! There is something about blending shamanism, touch, beauty, and coaching all into one healing art.
We women love touch women in a safe, sacred, sensual way. It can create a new template of how you want to be treated.
Are you ready to live, luxuriate, and be loved by your Beloved?
…I thought so!
Women who are juicy and glowing and radiate attract The One.
Take action by living the most love-filled life of your dreams. Take optimal self-care. Receive love. Hire help where you’re stuck. Pamper yourself like crazy.
You deserve it. Your desires are meant to be met in the deepest, most God-aligned way.
Be the one who acts from LOVE, and not the one running from love because she is coming from fear.
Your angels love you and want the world for you. Simply take it and by saying YES!
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I get this a lot. I want to be able to say, “Just use the Law of Attraction, and your Twin Flame will come!”
But it’s really not that simple. We can use the Twin Flame Law of Attraction, but we do have to evolve and grow on the spiritual, mental, and emotional levels before calling in our Beloved.
That’s why I highly suggest using this tip before calling in your man or woman, as it’s a powerful tool for self and soul development that will prepare you for the real deal.
Find your Twin Flame fast with Soul Family
Calling in a Twin Flame is quite a journey for many of us–it certainly was for me! I used this very powerful key to call in my Beloved who fits me like a glove, and I discovered it on accident. I have shown my clients how to call in their partner using this tool as well, and it seems to be an important step for those stuck in a dating rut.
There are many ways to call in your Twin Flame, and everyone will walk a slightly different path. However, one real simple way to ‘practice’ calling in your Twin Flame is to call in Soul Family first.
Soul Family connections activate Twin Flame Love
Soul Family are people in your ‘soul group’ with whom you reincarnate (don’t worry if you don’t believe in reincarnation though, just think of them as people you instantly feel connected to). They’re those special people with which you easily resonate.
With Soul Family, you literally resonate at a similar vibrational frequency in many aspects, and it feels really really good.
Soul Family Reunions prepare you for your Twin Flame Union because you learn how to match frequencies, form bonds, work through difficulties, and navigate intimacy.
Soul Family is an alternate form of Twin Flame Love
Here is an example of my Soul Family Reunion success story! My soul sister Chiara and I met in Florence, Italy years ago in 2003, and it felt immediately as if we were old friends. Past life perhaps?
After moving back from Italy, Chiara and I were mostly out of touch for a decade because it was way before Facebook and even email was rather rare in Italy.
Then, two years ago, in 2013, I reunited with Chiara and we had an incredible summer friendship in Greece/Italy, followed by another 2 month visit in Tuscany because we had so much to connect on, catch up on, and create together!
As it happened, I could feel there was lots of soul growth and evolution happening through our connection. I’d been going through a stuck patch for several years regarding my own Twin Flame process (very annoying when you’re a Twin Flame Matchmaker helping others get what they want!).
Chiara and I would sit at cafes laughing and talking about what our Twin Flames looked like, fantasizing about the cute business men walking in or the hot Greek waiters (who did turn into brief love affairs for both of us!). The energy was playful and I felt like my Soul Sister and I could create anything together.
I felt way less stuck in the Twin Flame department after spending time with Chiara, and I don’t think it was a coincidence that the last time I saw her in person was during the same timeframe in which I met my Beloved.
There is much healing, and magic that happens in Soul Family Partnerships.
To this day, I have Chiara to thank for helping her meet my Twin Flame, Jack. I met Jack for the second time at Ecstatic Dance Oakland the night that I brought Chiara in for a visit! I love both of my Soul Family Members and know that Chiara was an important gateway to my reunion with Jack.
My message to you is to spend time with people who really fill your cup, who melt your heart, and who even push your buttons at times because they help you grow so swiftly!
I am indebted to Chiara especially for the difficult fight we got in at the end of her last visit–it pushed me to grow and face my worst fears. We worked through it together and stepped into a new level of love and surrender. It was not easy.
It wasn’t easy…But neither are Twin Flame relationships!
Have you called in your Soul Family–people who:
really get you
who have a similar frequency
share a similar set of spiritual tools
are on the same path of growth and soul evolution
fill your cup fully
feel like brothers/sisters
have that instant soul bond ‘recognition’
I hope that you are able to call in your Twin Flame fast by activating some powerful Soul Family relationships. I also hope that you can use these sacred connections to experience the first levels of Twin Flame Love. Twin Flame Love goes way beyond two people; it is an energy inside you and is of God. It is truly everywhere.
How does Twin Flame energy presence itself in your life RIGHT NOW? And how can you call in support from your Soul Family to prepare for your Twin Flame Union?
Maybe you’ve heard of the Twin Flame Theory…Perhaps you have a solid understanding or believe of what a Twin Flame relationship is…
So, What Is Twin Flame Love?
Twin Flame Energy and the Yin Yang Theory
