As a Twin Flame Matchmaker and healer, I love using essential oils to help my clients align with and call in their Beloved fast.
Essential oils help us heal our vibrational alignment. It’s important to align with the essence of our soul in order to call in the Twin Flame Mirror, the highest mirror of our soul. Our Signature Soul Song is the essence of our soul’s sound vibration. Our Signature Soul Song is constantly changing, yet it is also constant–just like everything in the universe. We have an essence behind the fluctuations that never changes, and it’s based on love. That is our Twin Flame Essence. Using the magic of essential oils can support this on the metaphysical level.
Additionally, oils help us ground, heal, and nourish our physical bodies through our DNA, our cells, muscles, bones, detoxification and nourishment systems, etc. They are medicines that support our whole.
Here are four categories of Twin Flame essential oils: Twin Flame Grounding Oils, Twin Flame Self Worth Oils, Twin Flame Aphrodisiacs, and Twin Flame Blessings to support you in your Twin Flame attraction and awakening process.
Twin Flame Grounding Oils
These oils will take you from fantasy relationships into deeper states of Twin Flame Love. They will help you bust your Twin Flame Love Blocks (the energies that stop you from calling in a true Twin Flame Union), as well as to align you with your 11 Twin Flame Chakras.
I like to enhance the magic of these with orris root powder and also using my moonstone yoni egg
Twin Flame Blessings
Angelica
Jasmine
Geranium
Ylang Ylang
There are many Twin Flame essential oils that one can use in Twin Flame Anointments. I also highly recommend preparing yourself as a Twin Flame partner with a Twin Flame Facial–a sacred facial ritual in which you cleanse and clear psychic energies away from your face (while also purifying your skin).
Dr Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker and High-Healed Priestess who helps smart single women to call in their Twin Flame in 6 months or less, the sexy spiritual way.
As Twin Flame Matchmakers, it is our job and our pleasure to align the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies through the Sacred Union in Twin Flames.
Jack and I travel to Twin Flame sacred sites around the world to activate and be activated, and to activate these sites themselves.
Here are the top five Twin Flame sacred sites…
One: Ubud, Bali
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With the views of the volcanos, especially Mt. Batur, which is the Earth Portal Chakra or Gaian Chakra of the planet. This anchors us to the deep history and pre-history of Gaia, and corresponds to our deep subconscious. Ubud is part of the famous Eat Pray Love experience, and there are many sacred springs, fairy spottings, temples, and vortexes within and around the town. It’s also a wormhole into the Lemurian Matrix.
That’s why we lead our group retreat “ReTreat Pray Love” in Bali, and also to get the most divine spa treatments to prepare yourself as the Twin Flame Bride (or Groom).
Two: Arenal, Costa Rica
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This place is a vortex. The volcanos will heat up your Twin Flame fire, the lava yoni energy will open your Divine Feminine wombspace, and the sacred spring waters will heal your feminine. This place is full of sensuality, flow, nature, and devic spirits.
This is a place where I realized it was time for me to call in my Beloved. It woke me up and got me aligned and awake. It’s very refreshing and also doesn’t let you hide anything!
Three: Mount Shasta
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Mt. Shasta is one of the only two Cities of Light currently anchored at ground level on Earth. An Ascension Temple has been anchored directly above the Shasta peak. Mt. Shasta is one of numerous sacred sites on Earth that houses a Temple of the Sun. Beneath Mt. Shasta is a Lemurian city.
On Mt. Shasta I purified. It was during a huge fire that I slept 11 hours on Shasta, and I woke up both refreshed and also in a haze, as the smoke sat spiraling around me. It was only a few weeks later that I met my Beloved Jack.
Four: The Tor in Glastonbury, England
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Coming straight from the Heart Chakra… Joseph of Arimathea was the Biblical figure who took Jesus’ body after the crucifixion. According to some legends he was actually Jesus’ uncle, and had visited Britain years before with Jesus in the pursuit of his interests in the tin trade. There was likely a strong Jewish presence in the west of England at that time, many of the tin miners may have been Jewish settlers.
They may have established the first church in England at Glastonbury, and archaeological records show that there may well have been an extremely early Christian church here. Legends say that Joseph buried the Grail at the foot of Glastonbury Tor–a spring of blood gushed forth from the ground. There is a well at the base of the Tor, Chalice Well, and the water that issues from it does indeed have a reddish tinge to it, from the iron content of the water.
Jack and I will be leading a retreat here in 2017 and have been getting a calling due to his Scottish lineage. What’s interesting is that Jack (who connects with Yeshua), has had many visits from a spirit named Joseph that have been very emotionally intense.
Five: Crete, Greece
Apart from it’s beauty, blue ocean water, and delicious food, Crete had other hidden treasures to be found. I experienced Crete on the astral level, and what I experienced was the death of a civilization. Twin Flames relate to this, as we often feel lost at sea, like we have no home. We are all looking for a home, and that is always within, and Twin Flames have to go within to find it. In Crete you will feel the remains of the dead who were wiped out along the North Coast due to the tsunami that happened there.
I cried my heart out on Crete, and I also connected to soul family there. I met a lover there who helped heal my sexuality as well as my heart. I felt joy return. I felt home in a foreign land, even when I had no home of my own. It is no wonder my Twin Flame looks a lot like Gianhs, the man I dated and love still, but now as a friend!
If you are looking for your perfect Twin Flame sacred site for marriage, self-marriage, Twin Flame Activation, or just exploration, I highly recommend tuning in within. That’s where all your answers are! If you need support, we’d love to hear from you.
Dr. Amanda Noelle is the Twin Flame Matchmaker, helping thousands of women worldwide to awaken their Sacred Feminine energy, and quickly attract their Twin Flame (ultimate soulmate). Learn more about her upcoming Twin Flame attraction retreat in Bali here.
This yummy drink is a true love spell. Raw cacao is a harmonizer–it balances your Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine aspects (yin/yang, dark/light). It’s rich chocolatey flavor reminds us of our own complexity and how all of our contradicting flavors go so well together!
This Twin Flame Attraction raw cacao elixir will help you stay awake, stay focused on your Twin Flame Life goals, and get really embodied so you can be fully present to your Beloved! The chia seeds and brain octane are super food healthy fats that nurture the brain. Raw cacao is the ultimate of Twin Flame medicines.
2 tablespoons coconut cream (ideally fresh, but canned works too)
One drop wild orange essential oil
6 ounces pure springwater
Sprinkle of nutmeg
Sprinkle of cardamom
Love and bliss
Mix all ingredients together in a power blender. Sprinkle some extra nutmeg on top. State a blessing such as, “I am worthy of being loved, and I drink in my own love!” or “As I drink this elixir, I nourish myself with the deepest Twin Flame Love.”
The journey to Twin Flame Love isn’t always easy, but you can add in bits of bliss. It took me almost two decades to call in my Twin Flame Union, and I feel so blessed every day. However, I couldn’t have done it alone.
That’s why I highly recommend surrounding yourself with support–a tribe, a sisterhood, a healing community who sees and believes in your Twin Flame Love.
Join us for a complementary online Twin Flame Attraction raw cacao new moon ceremony, an experience of sisterhood and magic. We can’t wait to support you and see you call in your Beloved and MOONifest your heart’s desires with us:
Your false Twin Flame is a actually gift. While I know that a Twin Flame Counterfeit (as I call it) can bring up some of your biggest $h%t, he or she can also catalyze some of your biggest SHIFTS.
Your Twin Flame Counterfeit is a mere reflection of you. Or more accurately, he or she is a mirror reflection of you–helping you mirror those tricky blindspots so you can see where you must absolutely love yourself.
There are no mistakes within the Twin Flame Mirror, the mirror of love that reflects back to you how close you are to deep self-love.
I have helped hundreds of my clients to call in their Twin Flames, and almost every single one of them has gone through some sort of a harrowing situation with a false Twin Flame. It almost seems like a Twin Flame Attraction initiation rite!
Your Twin Flame is simply a mirror of your own self-love. So you may want to ask yourself, why did I attract this false Twin Flame?
I know it is not easy, it can be excruciatingly painful, humiliating, and very confusing. But you didn’t sign up for a life of easy and boring, at least not on the soul level!
Every fairytale has it’s goblins and evil queens. These energies get stuck to our Twin Flame mirrors and cause us to attract distortions of who we truly are.
The key to attracting your true Twin Flame vs a false Twin Flame or a Karmic Soulmate is that you must clear out all the Twin Flame Love Blocks that stop you from fully embracing yourself with the deepest Divine Love.
Divine Love is the glue that brings you and your Twin Flame so close to the mirror that you merge with your divine mirror.
You become one with your Twin Flame when you become one with your two inner halves.
To reunite with our Twin Flame, we are required to merge our polar halves of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine. The Divine Feminine corresponds to emotions, emotional intelligence, ocean waves of energy that arrive with unpredictability, chaos, improvisation, and flow. The Divine Masculine corresponds to the mind, intellect, linear energy, predictability, organization, structure, and planning.
The Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine are truly reflections of each other and cannot exist without each other. They are meant to be separate as much as they are meant to merge. There truly is no separation, only the illusion of separation.
Twin Flames are not really halves of the same soul at all–they’re much more than this. They are two full expressions of love expressed in the mirror. They are Twin Flame mirrors of the whole soul. They reflect the Divine Union of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine counterparts. They reflect each other (not necessarily expressed as a male and female, as Twins can certainly be same-sex) in their same and polar-opposite aspects.
Why did you attract your Twin Flame Counterfeit–that false Twin Flame who is keeping you up at night crying yourself to sleep? You did it for the lessons of love. Deep divine love never leaves you or abandoned you, but you have in some small or perhaps not-so-small way, abandoned yourself. The golden opportunity of pain from a false Twin Flame is to heal this spot, the area that has perhaps long been abandoned. By lovers, parents, ancestors, and by your soul in many lifetimes.
Maybe you didn’t read the signs of the false Twin Flame and so you hit a massive Dark Night of the Soul. Yet such experiences allow us to reclaim parts of ourselves. By looking in the Twin Flame mirror at yourself when you are in the heartache or pain, you are allowed to fully focus on you. On picking yourself up. On loving the inner child. While this time may be tender, you are actually not heartbroken: you are heart broken OPEN!
Without this crevice in your heart, the light couldn’t shine through.
It is the role of the false Twin Flame to bring up your greatest fears around Twin Flame Separation. By cracking open your heart, you feel the deep separation of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine within your soul. You feel the deep separation of your Divine Self (I AM Self) and your human self. You feel this mirroring through many aspects of your life. It brings up the separation you feel from your community. The separation you felt as a child from certain family members. It brings up traumas and pains that may seem unrelated to the Twin Flame topic.
Truly, everything in our worlds relates to us, as we are the center of our own universe. You are the beautiful central axis of your Youniverse, despite what we are taught to believe. If you are not at the core of you, who is?
Unfortunately, so many people–women especially–are taught to deny themselves of a self. This has become a generational pattern that creates mental imbalances, mental illnesses, physical ailments, genetic diseases, and spiritual disconnects.
Without finding the self first, you will not find your Twin Flame.
We each have a self. We each need a self. We have been gifted this self from God/the Universe, and when we deny it and try to replace it with the love of another: a lover, a family member, a church member, a leader, a guru etc., we cannot experience the truest joy and divine bliss.
You are at the center of the atom. You are the neutron, with your arms being the Divine Feminine (electron) and the Divine masculine (proton). Your heart is that neutron, that neutral energy, and at the center of the heart lies the self. You cannot take the self away from the self, but you can deny it and forget it. But your self is alway there.
By falling in love with your self, you bring the gift to the world of an awakened one. You become the Beloved who can heal the planet starting at her own heart.
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, it’s my role to help single conscious women call in their Twin Flame in 6 months or less.
My beloved Jack and I often help our clients manifest true love even in the first month of working with us without online dating!
We have a very high success rate (approximately 90%) in helping women find love the easy way because we teach them how to matchmake themselves using their Higher Self.
I’d love to share our top 3 dating secrets with you so you can call in your beloved fast with what I call ‘divine dating.’ This sacred approach to dating and Twin Flame Attraction removes the need for online dating, unless you like dating via the web of course.
Before we get started with these 3 secrets , I want to underline that Jack and I spend most of our efforts helping our clients clear out their Twin Flame Love Blocks–the old patterns that hold them back from manifesting their ultimate partner.
Truly, we are simply looking at ourselves in the Twin Flame Mirror: when we heal ourselves, we can quickly call in the love we desire. Thus, before using these tips, I highly suggest working with an expert or participating in a program that will quickly help you identify and bust your Twin Flame Love Blocks so you don’t attract a Twin Flame Counterfeits–a false Twin Flame who run and never give you the love you deserve.
OK, here we go, these are the three secrets to Divine Dating. Note that I list these in ascending order, so the most important secret is at the bottom.
Secret #1: Date Selfishly
This secret doesn’t sound very divine or heart-centered, but it actually is. In reality, when we come from a place of trying to please and appease others, we don’t do justice to us. You are your biggest responsibility and asset. When you put yourself last or even second, it tells the Universe that you don’t regard yourself as the most important center of your YOUniverse. Without honoring your desires, no one can truly hold the space for you either. No one can really fully connect with you when you aren’t connected to you.
Dating selfishly shows the other person you have a self–which is a total turn on to the enlightened guy or gal! You’ll attract your equal–someone else who is rocking his or her soul purpose and who has a strong sense of self. Then, and only then, you can become a Twin Flame Power Couple.
Start by stepping into your desires with a desires journal. Start writing down your biggest dreams and desires regularly if you don’t do this already. It will send a message to the Universe that you are ready for what your heart desires so you can call it in. There are some helpful ways to write Twin Flame affirmations in this blog here.
Secret # 2: Treat Each Date As Your Husband/Wife
I know this may sound odd, but if you can treat the entire world as your Twin Flame, you begin to embody a Twin Flame frequency…
Most singles tend to make chit chat, try to act like they’ve got all their stuff together, and show their best self in front of a first date… But they don’t go deep and they miss the window of golden opportunity to really get to know someone.
Don’t waste your time. Go on a date and pretend that you are meeting a Divine King or Queen. Open your heart and speak to this person with the fullest respect, gentle listening presence, and hold them with love.
What I truly mean here is: treat the men/women you date as sacred beings. Know that you were divinely guided to connected with each other, by no mistake.
Treat them how you want to be treated as a goddess, knowing that this person was meant to go on a date with you, goddess! Hold that space for them, and soon the space will be held for you.
Basically, this one is the Golden Rule of Divine Dating… Treat others as you want to be treated, and hope that one of them will treat you as well as you’ve been treating them!
The good karma will come around fast.
I know it isn’t always easy to put yourself out there with a stranger and treat them with love at first glance. But this is what we Twin Flame Lovers must do.
“You are ready for your Twin Flame when you can love the entire Universe as your Twin Flame.” -Anonymous
It’s not easy…Trust me, I have gone out with many men on many bad dates, so I can imagine what you’re thinking of my advice right now! But give it a chance with unattached love.
I am not saying to mistreat yourself, to endanger yourself, or to break your sacred boundaries. Nope! In fact, I teach my clients how to own their ‘Sacred No’ so they can express love and say no to anyone while remaining in integrity…it’s what you do to honor and respect your Twin Flame because they are merely a reflection of you (to respect them it starts at you).
When I was dating, I started practicing treating each date as if he were my Twin Flame. I treated each man with the most respect, loving attention and care, and I communicated my thoughts openly.
I am a very open and loving spirit, but I was conditioned to hold it back because it’s not ‘normal’ to speak your thoughts so openly, especially on a first date. Maybe you feel the same way? You notice yourself meeting new people and hiding parts of yourself?
That’s natural. I mean why should we share who we really are and treat new people like they are divine reflections of us? Often they were uncomfortable with it anyways…
I pissed a few men off because I spoke my heart, and what I shared wasn’t always something they wanted to hear, like “I feel like you want to kiss me right now, and I am honored by that, but I am not feeling an urge to be kissed by you.” Sometimes disappointing people in a loving way towards you is the best way to treat them as your Twin Flame.
Which leads us to secret # 3…
Secret # 3: Know That That it Is all Happening for a Divine Purpose
We think about dating as a have-to and a headache. We dread dating most of the time, especially these days where Tinder and all the online apps make it so convenient, yet such a hassle!
Most of us think of going on dates as this treacherous duty we have to fulfill and that God/Universe is not looking out for us. We think of it as random, haphazard, and that if we date duds we’re just unlucky.
I have dated many duds, but I look back and each dud dude was a divine gift. Wow! If only I’d seen it then…
I was dating mismatches because they were mirroring the way I was receiving and perceiving myself. Then I started sending love to the duds and consciously letting them go, and at the same time I let go parts of myself that weren’t allowing me to shine and believe that I could have the perfect match.
It was then that I met my perfect Twin Flame, my fiancé Jack.
What if you were to think about dating as a divinely matched healing experience, where whatever and whomever you manifested is part of the reality you are creating?
Truly, every little nuance of a date is created for you, by you, to learn and grow. To see old patterns and release them.
This takes you from victim to victor, where you can really start creating your Twin Flame Life using the Law of Attraction. Then you can start seeing the miracles, the lessons, the gifts in each moment. Even the not-so-pretty moments.
Sure, you’re dating with the intention to meet and marry your Twin Flame. But you have to let go of expectations and surrender to the moment. You will call in your beloved, but it may take a few more dates, lessons, and adventures. Keep healing yourself, keep working with your mentors and getting the help you need to identify and bust your Twin Flame Love Blocks so you don’t repeat unhealthy programs and patterns.
Then, you will be on a date with your Twin Flame soon, and this will all be history 🙂
Each day is a sacred dance, as the earth rotates around its axis we learn and grow a little bit more towards the light. Maybe your date next Tuesday won’t be the one, but it will be the one for that date, that day, that hour…Bring him or her your fullest presence, for you are a gift. And whenever you share it, you shine light and give something back to the planet.
Dr Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker and High-Healed Priestess who helps smart single women to call in their Twin Flame in 6 months or less, the sexy spiritual way.
The journey to Twin Flame Love isn’t always easy, but you can add in bits of bliss. It took me almost two decades to call in my Twin Flame Union, and I feel so blessed every day. However, I couldn’t have done it alone.
Secret #1: Date Selfishly
I know this may sound odd, but if you can treat the entire world as your Twin Flame, you begin to embody a Twin Flame frequency…
Secret # 3: Know That That it Is all Happening for a Divine Purpose
