by Dr Amanda Noelle | Oct 14, 2016 | False Twin Flame, Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Runner and Chaser, Twin Flame Signs |
Some of you have asked, the question, “What if my Twin Flame is married?”
This can be a touchy topic that can bring up a fair amount of inner (and possibly outer!) turmoil.
While I have never been caught in this frustrating scenario myself, hundreds of my Twin Flame fans and clients have told me that they think they know who their Twin Flame is, and yet he/she’s already married to someone else.
I can relate though…Just a few years back, I myself was constantly getting attached to men who were emotionally unavailable, married to their work, or who were committed to other women or playing the field. There wasn’t enough room for me, and it was frustrating! I was longing for the depth of the Twin Flame Union, but something always blocked me…
Additionally, as a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I’ve seen many Twin Flame seekers commit on a soul level to someone who is not committed to them 100%, so they then miss out on the chance to meet someone who is available.
The worse thing that happens–an unfortunately this is very common–is that sometimes the person waits on their potential Twin Flame for years, only to find out it was not their true Twin Flame!
On the other hand, maybe the person you’re in love with is your true Twin… It’s a tricky situation when you experience a deep knowing that someone is your Beloved, and yet you haven’t mastered the alignment of creating a fully committed and healthy Twin Flame Union.
If you are attracted to a potential Twin Flame, and you have already identified the Twin Flame Signs with this person, you are probably assuming that this person is your Twin Flame.
But what happens if you find out later that this person wasn’t a Twin Flame? What if they were a Twin Flame Counterfeit, aka False Twin Flame–wouldn’t you want to have known this from the start?
I am here to help you not waste your precious time on Twin Flame Counterfeits.
If you’re feeling a deep connection to someone who you believe to be your Twin Flame, watch my video, “What if my Twin Flame is married?“ to help you handle this harrowing situation.
Watch this video to:
- Learn why you’ve manifested this difficult type of soul contract, and what you can do about it
- Find out how to handle this frustrating scenario in a positive, healing way
- Discover the #1 question you should be asking yourself that you’re probably not
So what do you do if you’ve gotten Twin Flame entangled with someone who is married and not planning to leave? Just watch this video, “What if my Twin Flame is married?” to find out here:
Sometimes these situations can be long and drawn out, and very painful. Do not judge, blame, or shame yourself. Instead, look at the patterns coming up and get the support it takes to heal them. A Twin Flame Union takes work, support, and often an outside witness to support your growth.
If you have been stuck and spinning your wheels waiting for Twin Flame Love, you may be stuck.
Don’t waste any more precious time, as you deserve Twin Flame Love! Support is here for you and you don’t have to wait any longer!!!
In our Twin Flame Attraction Programs, my Beloved Jack and I help resolve these issues out quickly so Beloveds can themselves of old Twin Flame Love Blocks.
If you are thinking “My Twin Flame is already married,” take a deep breath–the love is always within you and cannot be separated from you.
The path of the Twin Flame is not an easy one, and there are many ‘tests’ that appear in various lifetimes. You must stay strong, clear out love addictions, and call in the healing support you’re here to receive, which always starts and ends within you.
XO,
Amanda
The Twin Flame Matchmaker
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Oct 10, 2016 | Twin Flame Love |
Are you perfectionist? A self-saboteur? A woman who is tip-toeing around her true power?
You are not alone sister…I am noticing a theme in the women in my life, my own life included.
We are way too fucking hard on ourselves.
It’s time to stop.
For in order to call in your Twin Flame, you have to fall in love with yourself.
You can’t be beating up on yourself all the time, as that pushes him away and calls in Twin Flame Counterfeits and runners who (conveniently) reflect our self-hatred.
The problem is that most women are so hung up by perfectionist thought-programs that they can’t let their Divine Feminine energy rise!
Instead of focusing on their pleasure (which DOES call in Twin Flame Love), they obsess about their skin/hair/nails/bikini line, bank account, Facebook profile, job success, and oh so many other things!
But focusing on our pain repels Twin Flame Love.
If you want love, you’ll gotta drop the perfectionist thing.
But first, why do we women constantly obsess over shit that doesn’t truly matter, and we let the things that DO matter pass us by–like pleasure and love?
I’ll tell you….Wanna know the #1 reason why women hate themselves?!
We suffer so much because we got it from our mamas!
Here me out.
I’m not trying to blame your mom… I just want to bring to light the circumstances and energies that need your healing.
Here’s the thing: your mom suffered greatly before you came aronud, because she wasn’t encouraged to shine, particularly in her lower chakras, and particularly in her yoni and around her Sacred Sexuality.
Because for generations, women have have been shamed for being women, and for being sexual beings!
We’ve been lost in the whole Madonna-Whore Complex, where we got trapped between mis-fit paradigms.
So, your mom raised you without a solid foundation in her sacral chakra. She did not know her sexual strength and beauty.
On top of this, she coudln’t even talk about her sexual shame and the horrible things that happened to her as a girl and woman!
Unfortunately you were raised by a woman who felt ashamed of her womanhood and her own sexuality; thus she coudn’t mother you properly like a Divine Mother would.
Likely, your mother could not:
- Encourage your beauty
- Support your Sacred Sexuality
- Set healthy boundaries with men, and teach you to do so with the masculine
- Set healthy boundaries with women, and teach you to do so with the feminine
- Role model to you how GOOD it is to be a goddess!
- Teach you how to express your Sacred Feminine pleasure in a safe, and healthy way
Our moms, they did their best.
Now it is YOUR time to do your best, and do much better.
Twin Flame Affirmation for Mother Healing:
“Thank you Mom, you did your best. I love you. I forgive you. It’s not your fault. It’s only as much your fault for my defects you granted me as a child as it is my fault that I hold deffects from my present.”
Aho!
When we blame and shame our mothers – either consciously or subconsciously – we end up shooting ourselves in the foot. For on a certain level we ARE our mothers. We hold her within us, in our DNA.
So by healing yourself, your Sacred Sexuality, and by ending perfectionism, you heal your mother and every generation in your lineage, past/present/future.
I want you to feel fully proud of who you are, and that’s why I am whipping up healing rituals that cancel the mother wounds and open up the Sacred Mother Womb.
So is my friend Anaiya Sophia, which is why we talk about creating safe sacred rituals to heal shame and sexuality and nurture the Divine Feminine in our video “Womb Wisdom Temple Awakening,” which you can check out here.
XO, Dr Amanda
PS: Pretty please do post in the comments on the video what you are healing in your womb wisdom! 🙂
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Sep 22, 2016 | Law of Attraction, Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Spirituality |
Even the most magical women get hit by dark energy sometimes… This can blocks us from attracting what we want: our abundance, our soul purpose, and our Twin Flame.
Beloved, does this sound like you?:
– Is a destructive energy blocking you from your Beloved?
– Do you keep attracting energy vampires left and right?
– Are you having trouble sleeping, focusing, or feeling grounded and safe?
– Is your life being sabotaged for no apparent reason?
– Does something just feel off?
This blog is for you if you’re ready to clear your aura for good and get a sparkly clear love life, sans demons and darkness, to get down to your true essence so you can attract a divinely aligned Twin Flame Love.
I actually recently hit my own struggles with darkness and it was quite a journey returning the crown back on my Crown Chakra. It happens to all High-Healed Priestesses!
My Twin Flame Jack and I just spent the summer between Europe and the East Coast. We stayed in a few spooky old farmouses and castles in France, Vermont, and Upstate New York…places that felt, well, a little HAUNTED! Here’s a pic of me in front of the super spooky haunted barn.
Since returning to San Diego a few days ago, I have been noticing an upper limit to my magic….Something just felt off.
Even all four of our websites went down with malware, even after we’d invested hundreds of dollars in getting them clean! It’s as if the demons are saying they wanted to destroy everything in their path….
But I decided that I am DONE with darkness, and I am ready to spread my light fully!
Would you like to release the darkness too, to tap into your peak priestess performance?
Great! It’s time! By claiming your energy field and building a radiant shield of protection (divine light), you are making room for your Twin Flame to come in.
Your Twin Flame will only be attracted to your soul when he/she an actually recognize your soul, which means your auric field needs to be squeaky clean. No energy blocks or old cobwebs sister!
Here are some juicy goddess tools I have used over the years that really work to spruce up the ol’ energy field. They’ll help you call in your Twin Flame and virtually anything your gorgeous soul desires.
But first…Note that there are many ways to clear an aura.
Here are four useful principles to help you get and keep your aura clean:
- You’ll want to clean your aura regularly, as a practice, and also clear your home and office, and wherever else you spend your time regularly.
- Also, dark energy must be cleared out with love and light, not fear, panic, or paranoia. Love and compassion are the the holiest of sanitizers, like a psychic version of Purell!
- I also suggest having a huge sense of humor, and laughing at the darkness and silly demons (maybe even cackle to loosen things up!).
- Practice makes perfect, and over time you’ll realize how sensitive you are to unclean energy, and you’ll get better at keeping things pristine.
Tips to Cleanse Your Aura
Feather dust! Take a feather–I like wild turkey feathers or ostrich feathers—and ‘dust’ your aura from head to toe, down the arms, down through the feet, and throw all the negative energy into an invisible drain that returns it to the center of the earth.
Light Shower
Turn on the shower of white light, or the violet flame (a cleansing ray), use a rose hue, or anything thing will do! Imagine light pouring down from the heavens and cleansing the parts of you that feel triggered or stuck.
Golden Egg of Protection
This energy field filters out negative energy trying to get in. Sometimes I see women 
attempting to call in their Twin Flame, but because they aren’t protecting their auras, they’ll keep calling in dark energy which keeps the Karmic Soulmates, Twin Flame Counterfeits, and lower vibrations coming in…
To use this tool, the Golden Egg of Protection, place a bubble–something that looks like a golden egg–around you, about 12-18 inches outside of your body. This sits just at the edge of your aura. Make sure if you have a tendency to have big aura to tuck in your aura so it fits inside this bubble so you’re not up in everyone else’s energy fields! This will help untangle you from other people’s drama and help you claim your own power so you can really step into self-love.
Additionally, you may place any symbols of protection you like in the Golden Egg of Protection, like Egyptian ankhs, Mary Magdalene roses, pagan crosses, merkaba, etc at the edge of the egg and watch energy bounce right off.
Goddess Cleansing Bathing Rituals
Clear things up with the holy sacrament of water! Water be used in ritual to bless our body that is made of water, and our soul that vibrates at the merkaba structure that is held within water.
Use Himalayan or Dead Sea salt to neutrailze negatively charged energy in your aura. Or take a dip in the ocean! The negative ions will balance you out.
Boost your bathing rituals by saying a prayer asking your angels and guides to remove negative and toxic energy. I like to add epsom salts, essential oils, and herbs. Most essential oils have some cleansing properties, though I really like peppermint, lavender, frankincense, and rosemary for cleansing.
It’s crucial to clear your aura of energy from exes, past lovers, your parents and ancestors, and doing an intentional ceremony to help clear out your past from these energies and spirits will be of use. Otherwise, you may get caught in a Twin Flame Runner and Chaser loop, where you try to pull in your partner, but there are past energy blocks impeding him or her from coming in.
Design your own cleansing bathing ritual and use the energy from the fire before and after your bath with smudging.
Smudging
I normally smudge daily, and I wish I’d done this during my travels!
I was once told by a psychic that it is scientifically impossible for ghosts (spirits without bodies) to reside in homes that have been smudged. Dunno if it’s true, but I’ll take that! I like the way that smudging feels–so purifying! You can use palo santo, cedar, sweet grass, or frankincense as well.
Smudging with sage or other plants clears out negative energy in your aura and in area you’re in. Take an abalone shell and place a handful of loose white sage inside and light them. Or use a smudge bundle and light the leaves.
Allow the sage to smoulder and wave this smoke using a feather or fan into your aura or area of the room with stagnant energy.
Pass the smudge across your heart and hold it there for a few moments stating “I clear unhealed heartbreaks from my past and I now step into a Twin Flame frequency at my heart
Don’t forget to smudge the bottoms of your feet to get grounded, and your crown chakra, and also smudge closets, bookshelves (all that mental energy!), and corners extra well. Enjoy the difference after a good smoke down!
These tools are each super powerful in their own right, and you can use them at your own pleasure, leisure, and way.
I’d love to hear back from you about what you have used to cleanse, or what you’ve struggled with in the aura clearing process.
Simply post in the comments below and share your thoughts, and I’ll do my best to reply!
XO, Amanda
PS: Tell me what color your aura is, and I’ll bonus you a kiss!
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Aug 15, 2016 | Sacred Sexuality, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Travel |
Bisou from the ‘City of Love!’
I’m writing this lil’ love note from a swanky cafe Paris. It has these purple velvet damask chairs and great coffee…
Paris turns me on, so I’m inspired to teach you how to attract your Twin Flame using your inner goddess pleasure!
Fittingly, this cafe has a bronze fertility goddess statue. She’s raising a flame up to the heavens, a Twin Flame sign perhaps…
The name Paris comes from its connections to Isis, the Egyptian Goddess of Love. It was formerly called ‘Lutitia of Parisii,’ named after the Isis-worshipping Parisii tribe of Celtic Gauls who came here around 250 BC.
Did you know that Paris was built on the foundation of the Goddess of Love?
The Parisii settled, built their Temple of Isis, and brought their secret rites and mystery school teachings of the Middle Eastern goddess.
Paris: Pleasure Capital
Indeed, Paris may very well be the capital of what I call ‘PU$$Y Power‘…
Isis, the Egyptian Goddess of Love, is linked to the same goddess energy of Venus, Aphrodite, Ashtar, Innana, Lakshmi, Kuan Yin, and Mary Magdalene.
Isis and her Twin Flame Osiris gave birth to their daughter, Bast. Bast was the goddess of cats, passion, the moon, the rising sun, of enlightenment, sisterhood, sexuality, pleasure, fertility, bounty, arts, and battler of serpents.
Bast was also called Pasht or Pasch, among other names.
Pasht is said to be the ancient origin of the word ‘pussy’ and of ‘passion’ too!
To call in your Twin Flame, we women must embrace our inner womb wisdom–aka your PU$$Y Power.
PU$$Y Power resides within each of us. All women are born with it, though it is meant to be awakened or ‘initiated’ when we go from being the virgin (Divine Daughter), to being the maiden (Twin Flame Bride).
Unfortunately, most of us received no initiation rite to awaken our PU$$Y Power. Or even worse, some of us underwent negative sexual experiences that harmed our sacred womb wisdom.
Our job then is to clear the womb and to positively reawaken the PU$$Y Power and align it with pleasure…
The reason I spell pussy ‘PU$$Y’ this way is because you can see ‘Isis’ within the word, as well as the dollar signs which also represent the Twin Flame Kundalini energy. ISIS=$$, representing the kundalini that runs up and down the two sides of the spine, like infinite dollar signs.
Plus, PU$$Y Power is priceless… When it’s activated, we can attract anything with it with our very own pleasure!
To clear your womb wisdom wounds and awaken to your highest levels of PU$$Y Power, the medicine is stepping into your pleasure.
But many women have problems embracing their pleasure because pleasure brings up past traumas, unresolved heartbreaks, and pain.
That’s why I work with my clients to clear these issues out while they raise their sensuality and Twin Flame frequencies.
Parisian PU$$Y Power Pleasure Tip One of the secrets I teach my Twin Flame ladies is to actually create a life full of sensual and spiritual pleasures.
This way, each of your ”11 Twin Flame Chakras‘ are fully spinning at their own tune, singing the song of your Signature Soul Song.
From the street music, to the tempting sweets, to the perfumeries, to the bounty of art/beauty, which of course includes the Parisian men–all of your senses are piqued with pleasure in Paris!!!
The city tempts your senses in a way no other city can…It’s raw. Sexy. Delicious.
Imagine yourself in Paris (or other exotic city that ignites your Twin Flame Love). What kinds of pleasures would turn on your senses?
But you don’t need a ticket here now! Perhaps you can simply integrate a few of these French-inspired pleasures into your life even immediately…
FRENCHUALITY – Stimulate Your Senses French Way Goddess Style!:
– TASTE: could you cook up a French or other exotic meal using that recipe you’ve been meaning to try? Eat it tonight by candlelight with a glass of red wine to enhance the Parisian vibes!
– SIGHT: perhaps you could buy yourself some fresh cut flowers to remind yourself that you are BEAUTIFUL. I have been smelling tons of lillies here in churches and BNBs; they smell and look amazing!
– SMELL: I’ve picked up a ton of essential oils in France, like lavender, juniper, grapefruit, and frankincense. Place a few drops on the bottom of your feet or in a foot bath to ascend in heaven like Mary Magdalen (since she was a queen of holy foot anointments!).
– TOUCH: Are you up for a lavendar-rosemary sea salted bath tonight? It’ll feel like the French Riviera…Add some fresh springs of the herb into boiling water to make a bath-tea, or just add a few drops of the essential oils into a base like olive oil.
– SOUND: Try a French music mix. I like Pandora Radio’s ‘French Cafè’ station!
Here’s me embracing my PU$$Y Power at a Parisian metro station (it’s just a billboard!).
I believe that living in pleasure is what takes to create a and sustain a Twin Flame relationship. I also feel that women are the wisdomkeepers of the family and of the Sacred Union.
We hold that wombspace for the relationship to thrive, don’t we? That’s why we must start out by pleasing ourselves first.
Having an ongoing sensual practice is so vital. Whether you learn my Manifest With Orgasm (MWO) practice, or use some other daily pleasure practice, keep the pleasure flowing!
Lastly, the odd thing is that we’re programmed to undervalue pleasure, and to over-value looking like we’re living in pleasure when we’re not!
To create what I call your Twin Flame Life with your divine partner, you’ll have to become the queen of all of your 11 Twin Flame Chakras spinning at pleasure.
That’s why it’s important to invest in your pleasure: create time, funds, and fun for pleasure. Life is short, and the rewards of pleasure are SWEET!
One of my clients came on a Twin Flame Attraction retreat with me and stepped into her pleasure by activating her wombspace. She began dancing, singing, and even just laying in bed to follow her bliss. A few weeks later, POOF! An amazing man she’d previously known surfaced, and they’re now blissfully married.
Priestess pleasure is NOT just fluff stuff! It’s powerful medicine–something that you want to consistenly keep high in your life. It is the juice that will call in your Twin Flame, and keep your energy high.
Without pleasure, I would not be in alignment with my Beloved, and we wouldn’t be living our life so blissfully.
It starts at you, it starts at pleasure, and it takes commitment and consistency.
What are three things you’re committed to doing to keep your PU$$Y Power and pleasure high this week!?
Post in the comments area below and keep me posted!
XO, Dr Amanda Noelle
The Twin Flame Matchmaker
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by Dr Amanda Noelle | Jul 8, 2016 | Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Spirituality |
Photo Credit: We Heart It
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker and healer, I love using essential oils to help my clients align with and call in their Beloved fast.
Essential oils help us heal our vibrational alignment. It’s important to align with the essence of our soul in order to call in the Twin Flame Mirror, the highest mirror of our soul. Our Signature Soul Song is the essence of our soul’s sound vibration. Our Signature Soul Song is constantly changing, yet it is also constant–just like everything in the universe. We have an essence behind the fluctuations that never changes, and it’s based on love. That is our Twin Flame Essence. Using the magic of essential oils can support this on the metaphysical level.
Additionally, oils help us ground, heal, and nourish our physical bodies through our DNA, our cells, muscles, bones, detoxification and nourishment systems, etc. They are medicines that support our whole.
Here are four categories of Twin Flame essential oils: Twin Flame Grounding Oils, Twin Flame Self Worth Oils, Twin Flame Aphrodisiacs, and Twin Flame Blessings to support you in your Twin Flame attraction and awakening process.
Twin Flame Grounding Oils
These oils will take you from fantasy relationships into deeper states of Twin Flame Love. They will help you bust your Twin Flame Love Blocks (the energies that stop you from calling in a true Twin Flame Union), as well as to align you with your 11 Twin Flame Chakras.
- Basil
- Cyprus
- Rosemary
- Pine
- Frankincense
Photo Credit: We Heart It
Twin Flame Self-Worth
- Anise
- Fennel
- Lemongrass
- Ylang Ylang
- Jasmine
Twin Flame Aphrodisiac
Twin Flame Blessings
- Angelica
- Jasmine
- Geranium
- Ylang Ylang
There are many Twin Flame essential oils that one can use in Twin Flame Anointments. I also highly recommend preparing yourself as a Twin Flame partner with a Twin Flame Facial–a sacred facial ritual in which you cleanse and clear psychic energies away from your face (while also purifying your skin).
Dr Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker and High-Healed Priestess who helps smart single women to call in their Twin Flame in 6 months or less, the sexy spiritual way.
