Twin Flames Are Our Mirrors
The parts of ourselves that we love and hate are mirrored onto our Twin Flame.
Dang it! I thought when we found our Twin Flames we were going to live in a magic bubble and never have to deal with problems again.
In this post I want to underline how important it is to accept ourselves, and how the way I have rejected myself showed up in my Twin Flame relationship. I almost became the Twin Flame Runner that I so despised because I nearly rejected myself. I don’t want this for you!
Self-Rejection Shows up as Those Annoying Things About Your Twin Flame
I used to have body image issues. Still do. Which is why I projected that I needed a Twin Flame to be as hot as a conscious Ashton Kusher.
I thought I had to have a man like that to be happy in life. My Twin Flame, as it turned out, has reddish hair and a very red beard, which I was NOT expecting and it took me time to get used to. I’m picky! He’s not dark and tan like the man I always fantasized about. He gets sunburnt on Sundays at brunch. Before I met him, I was sure I had to have a tan muscle-man in order to feel satisfied.
Believe me, my Twin Flame has a sexy body. Great arms, broad shoulders I can grab onto and sink my teeth in. But he’s real. He is man and God, but boy is there no escaping that he (like me) is a raw and real human.
I have never felt comfortable with my human body, and my Twin Flame often reflects my discomfort
He’s sexy and yet he’s human. Along with the orange beard, he’s got occasional breakouts on his back (sorry babe, hope I can share!). I’m like, “Babe, it’s time to do a back facial to get rid of that bacne! Boys are so lazy. How can you tolerate bacne?!” and he’s like “Woman, men don’t care about that $hit, leave me alone my back is fine.” Then I attack him with a back brush or yummy salt scrub–and he likes it because it reminds him of being groomed by his mother. We play-fight and it’s fun.
He’s teaching me to chill about my female primping and preening perfectionist tendencies!
What you thought you wanted wasn’t always real. The key pieces that were soul aligned came true:
- He’s beautiful inside and out
- He’s spiritually awake
- He has a heart of gold
- Our soul purposes align
- We love each other as God/Goddess
- Our desire for birthing star children aligns
Is it important that I look like Barbie or that he’ll be my Ken? Nahhhh.
Will Jack look like a GQ model always and forever? Sometimes he does actually, but as we turn gray some day together, I won’t care about the fact that he doesn’t always scrub his back. Plus, I am starting to get more cellulite and I have to love myself there.
What I am most excited about is the way that he makes me feel, and how I get to make him feel. I am an empath, and so is he; so it pays of to bliss each other out. We adore and love each other. We stick each other out in the hard ugly hairy scary moments.
What’s more is that I am so ready to collaborate deeply with our soul purposes in business, with the new earth eco village dreams I have had, and in raising children. What can I say is more sacred than these pieces? I am lucky, and proud that my Twin Flame is a perfect reflection of me and I will continue to do my very best to live myself and of course thus love him too!
You keep turning your eyes towards the clock (or more likely cell phone) when it’s 11:11 yet again, just as you were thinking of your Twin Flame or a special crush….
Coincidence, or is it really a sign?
What is 11:11 about, and why is 1111 a Twin Flame number?
I know I see 11s all the time, and it’s an a wonderful feeling to synchronize with the spiritual alignment.
But what is the whole 11/11 phenomenon–is it real, or just spiritual rubbish?
Read on to find out…!
Twin Flame 1111 History
Twin Flames and Twin Flame seekers around the world became aware of the 11/11 phenomenon en masse in the years preceding the The 2012 Shift.
There was a rise in consciousness around Twin Flames at this point. Many Beloveds began seeking any signs, information, and energy they could get their heads and hearts on regarding Twin Flame Love.
Many spiritual new age seekers were awaiting the great moment of 11/11/11 at 11:11:11. Some said it was a number representing Oneness, while others thought it was a time for a massive Twin Flame shift and awakening.
Some said that the numbers are only a symbol of Twin Flame Love, while others thought it was nothing but total mashugana!
I believe that 11/11 is one of the many sacred signs of Twin Flame Love, yet it isn’t a means to Twin Flame Love.
Obviously, it keeps coming back every day at 11:11 am/pm, and we are quite likely to see it show up every few days, especially if you’re like me and you have to constantly clock watch!
So let’s not get obsessed, jump into crazy bandwagons, and let’s keep our feet on the ground.
Yet, the 1111 phenomenon is pretty interesting…
11 11 Numerology Symbology
The number eleven is commonly thought represent the two lovers coming together as the sole-soul energy of Twin Flame Love.
It is a symbol of duality (separation of the two one-digits), and of Oneness (eleven as a single number), aligned in harmony.
I believe that 11/11/11 was indeed an important milestone for some significant energetic shifts on earth, and that it brought the Twin Flame consciousness to the masses.
11/11/11 was the start of a new Twin Flame paradigm, where Twin Flame relationships are replacing Karmic Soulmate relationships, so that that more Twin Flame Unions can occur naturally within the collective.
It is no coincidence also that number eleven looks like an equals sign sideways: 11 = equal!
Eleven represents two lovers as equal whole ones (beings) who come together as two individual beings converged as a singular unit.
11/11 represents two individual souls, or ‘flames’ coming together to create a Holy Twin Flame Union.
As eleven is a single number made of two separate digits, it mirrors the two strands of DNA.
Twin Flame experts assert that in order to attract your Twin Flame, you must upgrade your DNA strands to a ‘Twin Flame Vibration‘ where your DNA is healed and activated with deep self-love and Divine Love (and thus Twin Flame Love).
For a Twin Flame DNA upgrade article I wrote, click here.
The 11/11 also represents the two lines of Twin Flame Kundalini that run up the spine: together, the two polarized counterparts create a strong whole, the yin and yang energies together creating the fusion it takes to create new universes. Indeed, in the case of 11, Aristotle’s famous quote is true:
“The whole is greater than the sum of its parts” -Aristotle
11 represents the parallel universe or flow of energy through which Twin Flame energies coincide. The Twin Flame couples share the same direction on one level, and on another level they are “apart” or separate energies. It’s two sides of the same coin. That is why when you feel like you’re a fiercely independent woman with her own ideas, you are able to harmonize with your fiercely independent Twin Flame and still think and live and breathe for yourselves, but together in a unit. Not 24-7, but for whatever timeframe and rhythm that works for you as a team.
The 11 also is represented by the kundalini energy pathways that run up the spine. The energy runs like a snake – back and forth – but there is also a parallel gridline of magnetics that attracts the energy to move back and forth. The kundalini is both a line and a circular energy, hence creating a wave. The feminine spiral/circle meets the masculine line to create the serpent energy that runs along the spine. For more about kundalini 11 11 energy, do the Kundalini Twin Flame Meditation here.
The 11:11 is a representation of two worlds coming together: of the Higher Self and the Human Self; the Heaven and the Earth. Twin Flames share the same Higher Self, and thus the Human Self is represented as two separate blood lines of the same Light Line (Divine Whole, God/dess). On the human level, Twin Flames are separate – like the parallel lines within the 11. And yet they make one whole number, with two separate digits. As Heaven, and Earth together may seem like two separate worlds, they are yet one. And they are paralleled, “As above, so below.” So 11:11, or 11/11 are a number holding energy that represents a timeless place, or a placeless time where two worlds (or all worlds) meet.
Careful though darlings, just because you’re seeing 11s everywhere, it does not mean that that man or woman is your Twin Flame. The Twin Flame Counterfeit can bring in 11:11s too because it is Twin Flame energy that attracts the 11s, not your Twin Flame. However, using the number 11 or 11/11 etc to harness Twin Flame energy to attract your Twin Flame is a great tool! Just don’t let the signs of the Twin Flame with those 11s make you decide that he is the one… Wait a bit and see and feel and if he/she sticks around for a yummy Twin Flame Union, then congrats! If not, keep moving forward and take that 11:11 energy with you.
Why Notice Synchronicities?
Slight side note, today I looked my number of Facebook photos and I saw a number representing alignment: 234. Then, next to it, I saw oddly enough, another number representing alignment 2,345. I took a screenshot to share it with you:
I didn’t put it together that it was almost 11/11, and that I’d be concentrating on Twin Flame Numbers!
The true purpose behind the 11/11 symbolism is to align your soul with your Twin Flame Frequencies.
To do so, I suggest that you activate each of your 7 chakras in the body, plus your Gaian Chakra (the earth chakra a bit below your root chakra) as well as the 3 Cosmic Chakras sitting above your crown chakra.
These 11 chakras are meant to be aligned within yourself so that you can call in your Beloved. (Some say we have 12 chakras, others say 7 chakras, while many say there are an infinite number of chakras. I believe that there are an infinite number of energy centers, and as a Twin Flame Matchmaker I focus on the 11 Twin Flame Chakras explained here).
In essence, let the joy of the synchronicity take you by surprise, but never let it be a sign that someone is your Twin Flame. My Twin Flame Counterfeit called me at 11:11am to say our last goodbye call to break my heart, and my TRUE Twin Flame calls me all the time, at all hours of the day. So don’t let the sign spook you, woo you, or stop you from believing that someone is your Twin Flame, because only you (and not the clock) knows the truth!
Happy 11/11s everyone! Enjoy the Twin Flame vibes.
Love and blessings!