You’ve been looking for true love for over a decade
You’ve been bruised, burned, and broken over and over again seeking your Twin Flame
You’ve got a Twin Flame Runner and Chaser situation on your hands, or
You’re not sure the person you’re dating is your Twin Flame Counterfeit or the real deal.
Or maybe you’re in a Twin Flame Union but something is “off”
Why End Heartbreak Forever?
Well obviously heartache sucks. But it also keeps you spinning in a lower vibrational energy, which slows down your Soul Purpose, and it also lowers the vibration of the planet.
You’re a Planetary Healer and you know it, which is why you’ve got to set yourself free from this trap!
My intention in sharing the video is to help you heal your heart, connect to your mission, and call true love by aligning with your own Twin Flame Love.
Sharing your story and voice is a helpful contribution to our growing tribe of Twin Flame Lovers…
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My goal as a Twin Flame Matchmaker is to support the rise of 144,000 Twin Flames who give birth to the New Earth. In order to do so, I share a video every week.
Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.
Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...
Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.
In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.
The parts of ourselves that we love and hate are mirrored onto our Twin Flame.
Dang it! I thought when we found our Twin Flames we were going to live in a magic bubble and never have to deal with problems again.
In this post I want to underline how important it is to accept ourselves, and how the way I have rejected myself showed up in my Twin Flame relationship. I almost became the Twin Flame Runner that I so despised because I nearly rejected myself. I don’t want this for you!
Self-Rejection Shows up as Those Annoying Things About Your Twin Flame
I used to have body image issues. Still do. Which is why I projected that I needed a Twin Flame to be as hot as a conscious Ashton Kusher.
I thought I had to have a man like that to be happy in life. My Twin Flame, as it turned out, has reddish hair and a very red beard, which I was NOT expecting and it took me time to get used to. I’m picky! He’s not dark and tan like the man I always fantasized about. He gets sunburnt on Sundays at brunch. Before I met him, I was sure I had to have a tan muscle-man in order to feel satisfied.
Hogwash!
Believe me, my Twin Flame has a sexy body. Great arms, broad shoulders I can grab onto and sink my teeth in. But he’s real. He is man and God, but boy is there no escaping that he (like me) is a raw and real human.
I have never felt comfortable with my human body, and my Twin Flame often reflects my discomfort
He’s sexy and yet he’s human. Along with the orange beard, he’s got occasional breakouts on his back (sorry babe, hope I can share!). I’m like, “Babe, it’s time to do a back facial to get rid of that bacne! Boys are so lazy. How can you tolerate bacne?!” and he’s like “Woman, men don’t care about that $hit, leave me alone my back is fine.” Then I attack him with a back brush or yummy salt scrub–and he likes it because it reminds him of being groomed by his mother. We play-fight and it’s fun.
He’s teaching me to chill about my female primping and preening perfectionist tendencies!
What you thought you wanted wasn’t always real. The key pieces that were soul aligned came true:
He’s beautiful inside and out
He’s spiritually awake
He has a heart of gold
Our soul purposes align
We love each other as God/Goddess
Our desire for birthing star children aligns
Is it important that I look like Barbie or that he’ll be my Ken? Nahhhh.
Will Jack look like a GQ model always and forever? Sometimes he does actually, but as we turn gray some day together, I won’t care about the fact that he doesn’t always scrub his back. Plus, I am starting to get more cellulite and I have to love myself there.
What I am most excited about is the way that he makes me feel, and how I get to make him feel. I am an empath, and so is he; so it pays of to bliss each other out. We adore and love each other. We stick each other out in the hard ugly hairy scary moments.
What’s more is that I am so ready to collaborate deeply with our soul purposes in business, with the new earth eco village dreams I have had, and in raising children. What can I say is more sacred than these pieces? I am lucky, and proud that my Twin Flame is a perfect reflection of me and I will continue to do my very best to live myself and of course thus love him too!
Goodness Goddess Gracious! I am so happy you’re reading this blog so you can learn about the DNA codes needing to be upgraded inside of you, me, and our sisters too who are Twin Flame seekers on Earth.
OK, so I had the fattest, craziest, juiciest awakening journey here on a little island called Gili Air, which is right next to Bali, and it’s a gorgeous tropical paradise. My life is now full of tropical flowers, daily snorkeling trips where we visit sea flowers and coral coves and love-making fish that have so much passion it’s off the hook. I’m also eating numiness in large doses – like ripe coconuts fresh off the tree, and the inner treasure-treat of coconut flesh. Plus, the beautiful European men that visit the island are always fun for eye candy and Twin Flame potential material as well…not that I noticed!
But before I get too distracted about my own bliss, I wanted to talk about fast and furious Twin Flame DNA UPGRADING! So I did this awakening shamanic journey here less than 48-hours ago; let me just briefly mention that magic mushrooms are legal here, unlike in the US where I was arrested for seeking my spiritual truth through a shamanic journey, ahem!
I would love to share some potent downloads I was given with you on Twin Flame DNA activation. I went up to the Light where I became and merged with the the original seed of Light where I was born. Which was way awesome and I highly recommend doing that! It was a little scary at first but my friend Katie’s spirit was there with me and I could joke and share and giggle about being afraid with her (even though she was half the world away) so it wasn’t that bad or frightening.
But back to the Light…I was hanging out with God, or I guess I could say I became the God energy myself which was actually just this very simple pure Light. It was just consciousness itself. Hard to explain but it was way less complicated than I had thought! Here, I figured out what was blocking our soul family from Twin Flame Love, myself included. Are you blocked with your Twin Flame DNA?
Girl, this is nothing to be ashamed about. It’s fixable too! So if you are an incredible High-Healed Priestess and you resonate with me as a soul sister, please know that we sisters (aka sea-stars) from the Pleiades have been blocked by something very very immense and dark for a long time. In fact Twin Flame Love hasn’t really fully ever been awakened on this earth because of the dark code written within the index of our earthly DNA.
If you don’t know who the Pleiadians are, basically just note that you are one, that everything is recycled and even earth is made of recycled stardust. Pretty much everything on earth came from different exploded stars. Earth humans are a mixture of many different star consciousness and DNA that got mixed through intention, Galactic Federation agreement, and Divine creation. If you are just waking up, don’t worry if this doesn’t make sense to you, just keep reading and let it absorb slowly. Or you can do more research about Pleiadian starseeds and our Pleiadian origins on the internet. No worries if I confused you a bit.
In a nutshell, know that it’s time to clear this dark energy that is blocking the DNA from activating with Twin Flame Love and Light Codes.
During my medicine journey, I accessed a high state of consciousness where things were much easier to see, know, and feel than normal. Even more so than my deepest sleep state or meditative state, which is already pretty awesome since I have been meditating for a while and am able in my dream state to access the Higher Dimensions pretty regularly.
This medicine journey was potent, and enabled me to see where the earth is being blocked from receiving awakened Twin Flame Love fully into the Christ Consciousness. It was terrifying to see which is why I had to keep comforting my inner child and asking for help, which was granted. I was able to see that darkness up close and center, and I made a promise to unlock it and turn the codes to Light to heal the earth, the Divine Feminine and Masculine alignment, and to heal the Twin Flame energies within myself.
Do not be afraid of the dark, because fear breeds more darkness, and we need your Light!
It’s the same blockage that killed Jesus, that keeps the same military energies in rule. It’s the same darkness that abuses humans, animals, and the sea, and that chooses war over love, and murder over bliss. It’s just dumb! Seriously, the energy was unconscious, a dumb energy that needs The Light to awaken in back into it’s Light Self Origin. We are gathering the Light together, to break the codes, and to activate the Twin Flame DNA. <3
When I saw the dark force energy with my own psychic eyes.
It appeared as some seriously scary $h&t to my human self. It’s hard to explain or describe what I saw, but I’ll try, not to freak you out but to let you now what you’re up against. It was a moving energy or grid of darkness that had some colors and patterns in it that resembled spiders, ticks, dark magic, and I’d say it was a sort of demonic monster with no soul that was merged with the digital world. So it literally is like a computer codex or program that has infiltrated into the earth’s water (a memory storage device), into our government officials and structures, and anywhere it can that vibrates without Light.
What is blocking Twin Flame Love from coming fully to earth?
Here’s what I channeled:
It is simply an unconscious codex of information that came here a long time ago based on a grid of unconscious fear. It dates back to the creation of the universe that has not been resolved. When the universe was created, it had a Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine self that realized itself into being and then into separation, and when these energies split they became a little wary of one another, sort of like a baby being born who realizes she’s a person with toes and it freaks her out that she has a self and she has to become responsible for this body. The universe became aware of His/Her creation and was like “Oh shit, I gotta take care of all that!?” Especially the Divine Mother was/is (as there is no time or space) like, “Oh man, how am I going to mother all those planets, energies, plants, species, and humans!?”
She doubted herself, and thus so did the Divine Father, who left and ran off to think things out on his own in his Man Cave. Then the Divine Feminine was like, “Honey, where did you go?” She freaked out, and when he didn’t come back before supper that night, she panicked and thought he’d abandoned her. He actually hadn’t, at that point. But then, when he got back and they returned to Oneness, she scolded him for being a bad guy, for leaving her, and so he created this complex or codex about doing what masculine energy does when it ‘thinks’ or computes, which is to run away and come back (like computer runs in order to compute, and yang energy heads outwards, then becomes yin and returns).
A new codex of separation was born. This is reflecting in the Twin Flame DNA codes still to this day.
Then, the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine not only had doubts about their ability to create and raise their cosmic family, they also had issues about each other and began to trust each other less and less. That was the beginning of the divide, or so-called Divorce of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine. And all creatures of creation have been harvested and raised by two parents who have been doubting their ownabilities to be God and Goddess! Ooops.
This universe fell for the oldest trick in the book. The loophole of creation that every universe falls into, and every woman and man falls into. Self-doubt, which turns into doubt of others, especially the Twin Flame reflection of ourselves. Earth was created under this grid of consciousness and the cycle has been recreated over generations of time through the cosmos, patterns created and repeated and repeated over and over, until the dark force of subconscious energy has grown big. Into Fukushima disaster energy, and military control, and corporate welfare, and body image self-hatred in women, and prescription drugs and drug abuse….the list goes on and on, all that human and universal shame and self-hatred! Silly stuff.
All kinds of stuff repeats through patterns of the original Divorce of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine, and the trauma of the Divine Children. As adult women, we reflect both the Divine Mother an Divine Child, and we have to start figuring out and computing these codes with massive amounts of unconditional love, Light, and awakened consciousness. We ned to clear our emotions, our fear, abandonment issues, and pray into our DNA for this healing.
Prayer for the remarriage of the two (Father/Mother God) is what is going to put them back together, and what is going to align us with our Twin Flames! It’s what is going to create a Golden Era or New Earth, and it will upgrade all levels of creation including the Pleiades, Sirius, galaxies, and ALL of the universes will upgrade.
We just need to do one thing: change our mind. Now. Tune into your Divine Mind. And to Love.
Change your mind, and your world changes. Change your Higher Mind and the Universechanges. We must change our mind into Twin Flame Love and Christ Consciousness. Then the Light IS! We all know that the dark energy doesn’t belong on earth anymore. Whether you call it Illuminati energy, Hell, or simply the Shadow of the Universe, it’s time to collaborate to make enough consciousness to change the Divine Mind and heal the earth. Twin Flame Love time! To release the Old Paradigm we must shed light on this this dark goober, this destructive cycling computer codex.
All we gotta do is building large light constellational structures, such as the sacred temples, Atlantean grids, and conscious movements, high vibrational music events, galactic gateways, divine based universities and organizations, etc. We need to pray our Twin Flame prayers together, en masse, so we can outshine the darkness. So what if there has been a lot of darkness? Yes, for sure there is in this moment still a lot of wrongdoing on earth (i.e. like Fukushima, don’t make me go there or I’ll talk your ear off), but 1% Light can totally obliterate 99% darkness. Like a tiny candle can illuminate an entire pitch black room to some degree. Still, we must band together and co-create with our consciousness, creating Light Portals of prayer, Twin Flame blessings, sacred action, clear any fear, and begin a massive celebration of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine coming together. As a woman, it’s your job to heal the abused Feminine within yourself, and as a man it’s your job to support women in the process and also heal your own Feminine through the little boy in you who was hurt and abandoned by your Divine Father/earth dad.
You gotta start healing your abandonment issues girls, and forgive forgive forgive theDivine Father. He made some mistakes, but he’s here and wants you to love him and wants to help you. He is you! Of course he wants to help. You must trust him and pray and trust yourself.
We have to cooperate and create the constellational light grids, not do it alone. That’s why I brought together 6 sacred sisters (and a 7th food goddess) on this 8-day retreat in Bali and Lombok – because we needed to create a light grid around ME so I could feel safe to journey out and see what way blocking me and my Twin Flame seeking soul sisters.
I have had many clients and friends find their Twin Flames already, yet there are many of the Christ Conscious individuals who will not be able to manifest their Twin Flame in the physical unless we clear these codes out!
Many old soul individuals are stuck either (a) unable to find their Twin because of the dark codex, or (b) are able to find him/her, but are unable to fully activate the Twin Flame Frequencies.
One example is a client I have who found her Twin Flame just 3 days after meeting me.However, she is totally blocked in her root chakra and career space, because she’s an ancient Atlantean High Priestess and future Pleiadian Lightworker who accesses high levels of information and codes. So she’s afraid to death of opening her 5th chakra, aligning the 7 chakras to the Twin Flame Frequency (7 aligned chakras is what it takes to activate Twin Flame Love). So she is blocked in sharing her amazing channeled information publicly because at her core she can feel the persecution fear of the dark codex that has gotten her killed in past lives. Thus she is unable to fully unlock and tune into her Twin Flame DNA. Until she clears her fear of the dark codex, she will not be able to fully activate the Twin Flame Love. Until then, she cannot birth her Starchildren from the purest conscious Light, and that’s what we need for the New Earth.
How to activate your Twin Flame DNA First step: clear all of your fear through prayer and Love. Ask the Divine Father for help, and ask to be grounded through the Divine Mother on Earth. Pray for the Divine Father and Divine Mother to align within you, through you, and for you to align with your Twin Flame.
Also ask for the Twin Flame codes to be cleared in your DNA. Here’s an awesome channeled prayer:
“I ask the DNA Committee to unblock and unlock my Twin Flame Light Codes to the highest potential of Divine Love. I clear out any blocks of the dark codex and cancel out any fear based limitation. I am the Love, I am the Light, and I AM I AM I AM! I also forgive the Divine Father for any harm, abandonment, and shame he has held in his creation and love for me. I also forgive my Divine Mother for being unable to express her love for me or for being able to support me in the way I needed in any lifetime, space, or dimension. I alight my DNA with my Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies as I forgive myself for any misalignment. Twin Flame Love ACTIVATE!”
You can repeat the prayer as many times as you can to become gridded in your subconscious and conscious mind. You will notice shifts in your energy immediately, and within your life within three days.
Another major major MAJOR ways to clear the Twin Flame DNA is through gathering with a group of High Priestesses, Twin Flame-bound women who embody the Magdalene Consciousness (Divine Feminine Christ Consciousness); conglomerating in groups of 5 to 7 women at a time for a ritual, especially by the sea, is incredibly helpful to lead a prayer. In your prayer, always set a specific intention to clear the DNA codes. We did our group formations in a pods of 6 sisters, sistars, or “sea stars” by the ocean. At one point we stood in a with 5-pointed star formation which represents the Goddess of Love, Aphrodite and human DNA creation.
I like having 6 sisters in a circle with a central point in the middle for the heart-based High-Priestess, and the number 7 represents the Seven Seas and the Seven Sisters (Pleiades) and the six-pointed star of life or Star of Da-Vida or the Star of David is a sacred geometry that is found in water molecules, the ocean, our bodies, and memory storage devices (i.e. the silicon chip and water itself as a memory storage device). The ocean stores information, and the Twin Flame DNA secrets are still embedded there as the ocean was too massive for the dark code to pollute everywhere.
Find the purest ocean you can find, like this haven in Indonesia on Gili Air, where the Twin Flame Love codes are still active in the water. And pray for the water’s healing worldwide, and envision Mama Ocean as healed. Activating our Twin Flame DNA is the fastest way to Twin Flame Attraction and it takes a conscious decision of changing your mind not only in your conscious mind, but in your Divine Mind. Meditation, hypnosis, and sacred journeys under the supervision of an expert shaman can help.
Namaste, Love, and Light,
Amanda
Dr. Amanda Noelle is an ancient Starbeing, Atlantean High Priestess, and Founder of Aphrodite University. To learn more about her, click here.
It was somewhere around 8am and I was deep in sleep….
My angels were having a chat with me, as they often do when I am in head-to-the-pillow-bliss and not ready to awaken to the ‘real world.’ I used to be afraid of encountering angels, but now I love being bothered by them! It’s such a luxury ‘problem.’ Before my Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul, I rarely got to communicate with these beloved beings.
I’d shut them out because it was beyond what I was willing to accept, mentally or otherwise… but since I have gone through a soul awakening over the past few years, and passed through darkness through to the Light/other side, I have been able to open my awareness to angelic consciousness. Channeling angelic frequencies happens seemingly naturally now, and I want everyone to be able to do this.
I highly recommend a Power Pet during sleep. Having my chi-beagle Hazel, my shamanic spirit guide dog by my side when I sleep, I feel much safer to surrender during sleep. I highly recommend the power of animal healing guides when working with angelic consciousness.
Perhaps when we are no longer afraid of the angelic consciousness, and have learned that ‘they’ are simply a part of us, representing our highest awareness, we can integrate them into one strain of consciousness.
Here’s what my Twin Flame angels began to tell me…
In order to help more souls, you (Amanda) must teach others how to use the powers of the Divine Feminine to clear out pockets of darkness. Using the Divine Feminine will transmute the gray densities into light, into bliss, into fuel to spark a further rising of the Divine Feminine consciousness.
Archangel Haniel will be the angel to assist in the great portal opening of the Divine Feminine
For they say that it is Haniel who carries the Light of Aphrodite, the Divine Feminine, Innana, Ashtarte, Lakshmi, Venus, her many names. The sensual High Priestess, goddess of love. This hot pink ray of light will melt and transmute all grief, depression, anxiety, and stuck energies. The stagnancies that have been upon your planet for thousands of years will rise to the surface just life sea foam.
They say: there are those who run away from the many faces and facets of the Divine Feminine. But the fact is, they are running away from themselves, from the parts of themselves that resonate within the Feminine Frequencies. For the dark fears the light and the light fears the dark, it is all just a game of polarity. The Angels want you to know that you are not lost in these times of transition in the Golden Era, you are loved.
Most of all, the angels teach that we are love itself, here to rediscover itself through human form! Did you know that youare love, love that was once forgotten, and it re-membered itself through the re-membering over and over again through various incarnations, in-memberations into your thick-skinned membrane? Yesss! You are indeed covered in a membrane of human form, but within you are soul, a soul of pure love and Divine memory. Informatics of Divine form. The Feminine form. and the Masculine form. Holy, pure, real, re-membered entire universes reside within you. It is time for you to wake up, and realize that each of you are aboard on Her Royal Vessel, the Divine Feminine ship of Gaia floating on her orbit in space. Be carried upon her, ride swiftly upon Her salty waters, and rise up like the sea foam, as has done our Beloved Aphrodite.
Connect with the sea, and you will see, the sweet and salty memories of Her, and of your true origin reside within…
Remember, the word memory comes from Ancient Hebrew. Mem Ohr – memory: where Mem meant “water” and Ohr “light/spirit.” The 432 hz sound is carried in harmonized water. Salt, wave like motions, and the 432 hz tuning fork heals the water, and this crystalized water can heal your body and align you with Twin Flame Love.
Memory is simply a way of explaining that information is stored within the 70-percent surface of Gaia. We dear ones are made of water, are of the ocean, so truly the memories lie within. Thanks for joining me Twin Flame Lover, I’ll see you soon.
Namaste,
Dr. Amanda Noelle, The Twin Flame Matchmaker, swiftly soulmates High-Priestesses with their Twin Flames and Starchildren.
I’m 34, single, and loving it. As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I love helping my single female clients meet their beloveds through healing, magic, and the Law of Attraction.
My life is a single woman’s fairytale. I have been working, living, and traveling with my hot pink Macbook Pro Retina-lover from several locations worldwide over the past few months: glitzy LA, ancient Crete, sexy Italy, relaxing Costa Rica, homey Berkeley, and again sexy Italy! It’s been CRAZY FUN, and sometimes I feel like I AM CRAZY too, like a high-end bag lady with so many ideas, passions, and fashions to bring with me to create new styles. Somehow, I am making it work, and it’s magical.
Me in my office with a view in Crete, Greece
Yet with a clicking biological clock and knowing that my egg-time is limited, sometimes it’s hard to fully feel free in these precious single years.
Are you fearing the future?
Fears about the future can be scary. Fears about making a career for myself used to rule my life in my 20s; it paralyzed me and blocked me from living in my financial power. Luckily, around my 30th birthday, I had a breakthrough. I went through a Dark Night of the Soul that forced me to step into my financial power. I now have a successful dream business that enables me to live in both spiritual and traveler’s bliss. So no longer do I let my fears rule me; I let them come up, but then I let them pass. So of course part of me entertains the fear that my eggs will dry up before I meet Mr. Right, with all this distracting juicy fun and adventure, but the bigger part of me is much smarter than that…
Posing at Positano, Italy
Trust your life journey
I KNOW that I am going to be a mom. I get Starchildren visits in my dreams and meditations. I encourage you to allow yourself to dive into your deepest passions and trust that this time is a sacred single gal’s time that will prepare you as the Divine Twin Flame Bride.
I know I am going to find my Twin Flame soulmate some day, and birth everything that I always wanted to create. As a fairytale-believing child, I have always believed in magic and I’m starting to live it; but it’s realer and better and without the crazy co-dependence and lies!
I do believe that everything happens in perfect timing; it’s just that, for me, right now isn’t the timing for kids, for kids are forever. Right now on the planet, there is a huge shift, the rise of the Divine Feminine, that we have been waiting for for over 5,000 years, and I personally am savoring it! Same with the Twin Flame energies that have risen – when we step into them, there will be no going back.
I prefer to birth my single-girl life dreams before my Twin Flame Reunion, like creating Twin Flame couples, traveling, meeting soul family, and enjoy my independence for just a little longer.
That’s just me. That’s just my bliss…For now!
If you are a single woman who is finding herself, healing herself, and exploring her deepest passions, I salute you. Someday when we are changing diapers and waking up to the same partner for the rest of our lives, we will say, “Thank God I lived that crazy gypsy magical life when I was single so I could set the standard at bliss, adventure, and magic!” I truly believe that we’ll all be able to maintain this sense of magic, freedom, and fun within a marriage and parenthood and now is the time to prepare and figure it out!
Will it be too late to get pregnant?
The fact is, you can probably get pregnant in your late 30s and early 40s, as the research is starting to come out. Your bio clock probably isn’t ticking as fast as you think. According to one fertility study, of 770 European women who were having sex at least twice a week, 82 percent of the 35-to-39-year-old women conceived within a year, compared with 86 percent of 27-to-34-year-olds. If you’re a 30-something diva who doesn’t have a full craving to “settle down” yet, then I say settle up, and your Twin Flame and Starchildren will arrive that way. If you eat well, exercise, and live happily, and talk to your baby-spirits, you will likely be able to naturally conceive your little Starchild in your late 30s or early 40s, and be a great mom!
Namaste,
Dr. Amanda Noelle is the Twin Flame Matchmaker, helping stellar spiritual 30-40 something single women meet and marry their Twin Flames so they can have stellar families.
He’s kind, healthy, hot, spiritual, self-employed, good with kids, open to having children, likes to travel, loves intimacy, even knows some tantra, he eats a plant-based diet, donates to charity, is in touch with the Feminine… The list goes on. And on. And on… Is this you?
Ha ha ha, I know we Twin Flame seeking women are some of the pickiest creatures on earth. Not a bad thing though, as long as we find a balance and realize that everyone – even us – has flaws. The likelihood of anyone completely fitting our list down to the last detail is pretty low. However, the Twin Flame List can help with the attraction process.
Write down everything you want in your Twin Flame relationship. That’s step one.
But let’s be honest: sometimes getting the whole package feels impossible. And so I see so many of my clients, fans, and friends manifesting men who are missing some key items from the list. Yet using the Law of Attraction in combination with a little elbow grease, you can go after and get nearly the whole list. Or something even better!
Why is it that we can get so blocked by our own stories, resistances, and self-esteem issues, especially when it comes to attraction the “who package” in a relationship? The classic case I see as a Twin Flame Matchmaker in women who are new to working with the Law of Attraction to manifest a Twin Flame is that they will pick a man who is only half or part of what is on their desires list. Are you vegetarian and you meet amazing men, except for that one tiny detail: you can’t see yourself marrying a carnivore, and they are meat-lovin’ men? Or perhaps you are a spiritual woman, super into healing, energy work, consciousness, yoga, green juice, etc and everything is perfect, except for the fact that he totally doesn’t accept or nurture your spiritual path?
“Wassup with this!?” you wonder, “Why do I keep attracting that one little thing that is a BIG deal breaker every time I date someone new!?” I’d hate to see you give up and throw away all of your love, beauty, and bliss potential because you are attracting the wrong men (at least in part!) because the Law of Attraction is only half-working for you…
We gotta first ask: Why do you keep attracting these love-limits? In the Big Leap by Gay Hendricks, Hendricks talks about the “upper limit problem,” ULPs, that are sorta like a metabolic set-point of how much we can love. So when you’re manifesting that 98% perfect soulmate except for the 2% which is a total deal-breaker, it’s like “Fuuuuuu%ck, why me!?” Right? But really that 2% issue is the thing you’re manifesting to keep you safely away from love. What?! Why would you ever want to block yourself from love? Because to be honest, we humans are all freaked by love, it’s our nature. We ARE love, we deserve love, and God loves us much. But ironically this is the scariest thing to our human nature – to accept this gift. We create all kinds of crazy ways to block love, including finding people who are 98% there, but who eat several pounds of meat when we’re wanting a vegetarian, or someone who is perfect in all ways but who can’t afford to pay his bills let alone be your future baby daddy. Help!
You can have what you want, you just gotta be willing to receive it, my love. Be willing to receive the love that you are! As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I specialize in helping women dissolve their subconscious love limits and turn them into love magnets. It really friggin’ works. I’ve done my healing and coaching work on women and in some cases, within hours they’ve manifested their Twin Flame. That’s hot! And it’s delightful to watch every time (especially when I get invited to the wedding, like I’m going to next month!).
I have a sad-to-succsexy story to share! It’ll melt your heart:
I once worked with a client named Laura who thought she’d found her Twin Flame. Everything was perfect… except for one tiny detail: her soulmate was a total vegan and wanted to raise his future children vegan, and he judged her for her eating choices. While she liked living healthy, she’d always enjoyed the occasional piece of fish, organic cheese, or free-range chicken, and she wasn’t wanting to give it up. Plus she’d always wanted to share her favorite family recipes with her future offspring. Initially, it was like everything was perfect for Laura, except that one tiny not-so-cheesy detail, until…
Mr. Vegan Boy suddenly went back to the East Coast for a visit and reconnected with his ex girlfriend. He then dumped Laura, this beautiful woman, shortly after returning but not before sleeping with her one last time. Classy, right? Together, Laura and I did some deep healing work and counseling over the heartache. In our healing work, we realized that God/dess had given her the sign early on so that she could see that he was her perfect Twin Flame stepping stone, the TFC (Counterfeit) to lead her to her true Twin. He’d opened her heart (and smashed it a bit, but it took that to tenderize it!), and she realized how badly she wanted love. Further, she realized that she absolutely needed it from someone who shared her healthy lifestyle with a little bit of fun, cheese, and white meat… It was her style.
Guess what happened next? Only a month later, she fell into the arms of her Twin Flame Aaron at the farmers market, and there was no looking back! Aaron’s a healthy “pescetarian” as he calls it – he eats fish and dairy in small amounts – so they have a ball cooking together! They are now happily married, pregnant, and Laura enjoys their healthy lifestyle without feeling judged for eating her way.
Don’t settle for less Goddess, you are worth the WHOLE package! It’s easy to follow the wrongful thinking that settling for less gets us ahead. Wrong. Settling for less is the harder road. Because your soul knows that you’re worth more, and so you’ll align with potential partners who aren’t really cut out for you in the long-term. You’d best decide what you’re truly worth and what you truly want, and the Universe will bring it to you if you step forth to receive it!
When you let go of what’s not working, the Universe hears your commitment to self and rewards you with a true energy match. You can’t stay in a settling-for-less energy with a karmic soulmate trying to force it. If it’s not an easy fit in the first few dates, let it go, grow, and try again with the right partner. Screen dates before going on them to save you time and heartache. Unless you’re able to control your attraction to people, what’s the point of getting your heart set on someone you know isn’t a fit?
Remember:
Don’t settle for less because you don’t have to! It won’t serve you, your beloved, or the world
You can manifest that whole picture by honoring your desires
Don’t date men who aren’t a fit unless you’re dating for dating’s sake
Write down your list and stick to it
Circle your must-haves on the list that are deal-breakers (I don’t think having brown hair would be a deal breaker, but being spiritually awake and financially grounded is, for example)
Know that you’re worth it!
Good luck lady, you are the Twin Flame, now go find your match…
Self-Rejection Shows up as Those Annoying Things About Your Twin Flame
It was somewhere around 8am and I was deep in sleep….
For they say that it is Haniel who carries the Light of Aphrodite, the Divine Feminine, Innana, Ashtarte, Lakshmi, Venus, her many names. The sensual High Priestess, goddess of love. This hot pink ray of light will melt and transmute all grief, depression, anxiety, and stuck energies. The stagnancies that have been upon your planet for thousands of years will rise to the surface just life sea foam.
