You’ve been looking for true love for over a decade
You’ve been bruised, burned, and broken over and over again seeking your Twin Flame
You’ve got a Twin Flame Runner and Chaser situation on your hands, or
You’re not sure the person you’re dating is your Twin Flame Counterfeit or the real deal.
Or maybe you’re in a Twin Flame Union but something is “off”
Why End Heartbreak Forever?
Well obviously heartache sucks. But it also keeps you spinning in a lower vibrational energy, which slows down your Soul Purpose, and it also lowers the vibration of the planet.
You’re a Planetary Healer and you know it, which is why you’ve got to set yourself free from this trap!
My intention in sharing the video is to help you heal your heart, connect to your mission, and call true love by aligning with your own Twin Flame Love.
Sharing your story and voice is a helpful contribution to our growing tribe of Twin Flame Lovers…
Please leave your comments here letting me know what you think and if you have questions! I do my best to respond to each one.
My goal as a Twin Flame Matchmaker is to support the rise of 144,000 Twin Flames who give birth to the New Earth. In order to do so, I share a video every week.
Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.
Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...
Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.
In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.
Soulmates, Twin Flames, and Karmic Relationships. What's the Difference?
Have you ever wondered if there’s really a difference between a “Twin Flame,” a “soulmate,” or a “Karmic Soulmate?”
I know I have… And with all the varying opinions out there, it can be super confusing…
How do we make sense of all this conscious relationship jargon?!
The term “Twin Flame” has been a trending buzz word, and there’s a deluge of content coming out on the web, in books, and in the world. Yet the Twin Flame concept is not new age, and stems back before Adam and Eve, for it is based on quantum physics and polarity, what the Eastern mystics called yin and yang.
Today there is a lot of confusion around the difference between Twin Flames, soulmates, and Karmic Soulmates. I have been amidst the confusion, and I believe we’re all waking up in this dream together.
The video above is aimed to help you get clarity on the terms, and to inspire your Twin Flame awakening…
Experiencing Twin Flame Love is like tasting the nectar of the god/goddess.
However, just because you are having a Twin Flame Love awakening experience with someone, it does NOT mean that he or she is your Twin Flame. This person might just be your “Twinspiration,” or someone who is calling this energy out of you. This can be a Karmic Soulmate or other type of soulmate (a friend even!).
Love knows no limits.
While it can be useful to know the difference between different types of soulmate categories, I urge you to ask deeper and more important questions as well, such as “What does true love feel like?” or “What does Twin Flame Love mean to me?”
There are some that believe you must understand the Twin Flame Theory in order to obtain your ultimate soulmate. However, others believe that love is love, no matter what you call it.
Interestingly, I once interviewed a former client, who stated the importance of using the term Twin Flame vs. soulmate. She said that she almost immediately called in her Twin Flame once she started using the term “Twin Flame” instead of “soulmate.” They moved in quickly, got married, and have a daughter.
Isn’t it time you called in your Twin Flame?
I’m hosting an upcoming webinar to support you in calling in true love once and for all.
Announcing… “Bring in Your Beloved Now: Avoid the 3 Tragic Mistakes That Keep Smart Women Single, Lonely, and Heartbroken.”
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What Is Feminine Energy?
Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy
Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.
Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...
Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.
In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.
Some of you have asked, the question, “What if my Twin Flame is married?”
This can be a touchy topic that can bring up a fair amount of inner (and possibly outer!) turmoil.
While I have never been caught in this frustrating scenario myself, hundreds of my Twin Flame fans and clients have told me that they think they know who their Twin Flame is, and yet he/she’s already married to someone else.
I can relate though…Just a few years back, I myself was constantly getting attached to men who were emotionally unavailable, married to their work, or who were committed to other women or playing the field. There wasn’t enough room for me, and it was frustrating! I was longing for the depth of the Twin Flame Union, but something always blocked me…
Additionally, as a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I’ve seen many Twin Flame seekers commit on a soul level to someone who is not committed to them 100%, so they then miss out on the chance to meet someone who is available.
The worse thing that happens–an unfortunately this is very common–is that sometimes the person waits on their potential Twin Flame for years, only to find out it was not their true Twin Flame!
On the other hand, maybe the person you’re in love with is your true Twin… It’s a tricky situation when you experience a deep knowing that someone is your Beloved, and yet you haven’t mastered the alignment of creating a fully committed and healthy Twin Flame Union.
If you are attracted to a potential Twin Flame, and you have already identified the Twin Flame Signs with this person, you are probably assuming that this person is your Twin Flame.
But what happens if you find out later that this person wasn’t a Twin Flame? What if they were a Twin Flame Counterfeit, aka False Twin Flame–wouldn’t you want to have known this from the start?
If you’re feeling a deep connection to someone who you believe to be your Twin Flame, watch my video, “What if my Twin Flame is married?“ to help you handle this harrowing situation.
Watch this video to:
Learn why you’ve manifested this difficult type of soul contract, and what you can do about it
Find out how to handle this frustrating scenario in a positive, healing way
Discover the #1 question you should be asking yourself that you’re probably not
So what do you do if you’ve gotten Twin Flame entangled with someone who is married and not planning to leave? Just watch this video, “What if my Twin Flame is married?” to find out here:
What If My Twin Flame Is Married?
Sometimes these situations can be long and drawn out, and very painful. Do not judge, blame, or shame yourself. Instead, look at the patterns coming up and get the support it takes to heal them. A Twin Flame Union takes work, support, and often an outside witness to support your growth. If you have been stuck and spinning your wheels waiting for Twin Flame Love, you may be stuck.
Don’t waste any more precious time, as you deserve Twin Flame Love! Support is here for you and you don’t have to wait any longer!!!
In our Twin Flame Attraction Programs, my Beloved Jack and I help resolve these issues out quickly so Beloveds can themselves of old Twin Flame Love Blocks.
If you are thinking “My Twin Flame is already married,” take a deep breath–the love is always within you and cannot be separated from you.
The path of the Twin Flame is not an easy one, and there are many ‘tests’ that appear in various lifetimes. You must stay strong, clear out love addictions, and call in the healing support you’re here to receive, which always starts and ends within you.
Your false Twin Flame is a actually gift. While I know that a Twin Flame Counterfeit (as I call it) can bring up some of your biggest $h%t, he or she can also catalyze some of your biggest SHIFTS.
Your Twin Flame Counterfeit is a mere reflection of you. Or more accurately, he or she is a mirror reflection of you–helping you mirror those tricky blindspots so you can see where you must absolutely love yourself.
There are no mistakes within the Twin Flame Mirror, the mirror of love that reflects back to you how close you are to deep self-love.
I have helped hundreds of my clients to call in their Twin Flames, and almost every single one of them has gone through some sort of a harrowing situation with a false Twin Flame. It almost seems like a Twin Flame Attraction initiation rite!
Your Twin Flame is simply a mirror of your own self-love. So you may want to ask yourself, why did I attract this false Twin Flame?
I know it is not easy, it can be excruciatingly painful, humiliating, and very confusing. But you didn’t sign up for a life of easy and boring, at least not on the soul level!
Every fairytale has it’s goblins and evil queens. These energies get stuck to our Twin Flame mirrors and cause us to attract distortions of who we truly are.
The key to attracting your true Twin Flame vs a false Twin Flame or a Karmic Soulmate is that you must clear out all the Twin Flame Love Blocks that stop you from fully embracing yourself with the deepest Divine Love.
Divine Love is the glue that brings you and your Twin Flame so close to the mirror that you merge with your divine mirror.
You become one with your Twin Flame when you become one with your two inner halves.
To reunite with our Twin Flame, we are required to merge our polar halves of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine. The Divine Feminine corresponds to emotions, emotional intelligence, ocean waves of energy that arrive with unpredictability, chaos, improvisation, and flow. The Divine Masculine corresponds to the mind, intellect, linear energy, predictability, organization, structure, and planning.
The Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine are truly reflections of each other and cannot exist without each other. They are meant to be separate as much as they are meant to merge. There truly is no separation, only the illusion of separation.
Twin Flames are not really halves of the same soul at all–they’re much more than this. They are two full expressions of love expressed in the mirror. They are Twin Flame mirrors of the whole soul. They reflect the Divine Union of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine counterparts. They reflect each other (not necessarily expressed as a male and female, as Twins can certainly be same-sex) in their same and polar-opposite aspects.
Why did you attract your Twin Flame Counterfeit–that false Twin Flame who is keeping you up at night crying yourself to sleep? You did it for the lessons of love. Deep divine love never leaves you or abandoned you, but you have in some small or perhaps not-so-small way, abandoned yourself. The golden opportunity of pain from a false Twin Flame is to heal this spot, the area that has perhaps long been abandoned. By lovers, parents, ancestors, and by your soul in many lifetimes.
Maybe you didn’t read the signs of the false Twin Flame and so you hit a massive Dark Night of the Soul. Yet such experiences allow us to reclaim parts of ourselves. By looking in the Twin Flame mirror at yourself when you are in the heartache or pain, you are allowed to fully focus on you. On picking yourself up. On loving the inner child. While this time may be tender, you are actually not heartbroken: you are heart broken OPEN!
Without this crevice in your heart, the light couldn’t shine through.
It is the role of the false Twin Flame to bring up your greatest fears around Twin Flame Separation. By cracking open your heart, you feel the deep separation of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine within your soul. You feel the deep separation of your Divine Self (I AM Self) and your human self. You feel this mirroring through many aspects of your life. It brings up the separation you feel from your community. The separation you felt as a child from certain family members. It brings up traumas and pains that may seem unrelated to the Twin Flame topic.
Truly, everything in our worlds relates to us, as we are the center of our own universe. You are the beautiful central axis of your Youniverse, despite what we are taught to believe. If you are not at the core of you, who is?
Unfortunately, so many people–women especially–are taught to deny themselves of a self. This has become a generational pattern that creates mental imbalances, mental illnesses, physical ailments, genetic diseases, and spiritual disconnects.
Without finding the self first, you will not find your Twin Flame.
We each have a self. We each need a self. We have been gifted this self from God/the Universe, and when we deny it and try to replace it with the love of another: a lover, a family member, a church member, a leader, a guru etc., we cannot experience the truest joy and divine bliss.
You are at the center of the atom. You are the neutron, with your arms being the Divine Feminine (electron) and the Divine masculine (proton). Your heart is that neutron, that neutral energy, and at the center of the heart lies the self. You cannot take the self away from the self, but you can deny it and forget it. But your self is alway there.
By falling in love with your self, you bring the gift to the world of an awakened one. You become the Beloved who can heal the planet starting at her own heart.
So, you met the most amazing love stud, or potential partner, and you’re smitten. You are sure he’s your Twin Flame Beloved because everything is so magical and synchronistic. You’ve never experienced a love like this. Things progress and you feel so in love, you’re jumping for joy and it truly feels like he/she must be the one, your one true Twin Flame.
Then, wham, something sneaky happens and it pulls your world apart, and it pulls you two apart…but mainly, it pulls YOU apart! Maybe it turns out that he’s not ready, he can’t commit, he’s got another relationship or has a wife and kids he won’t leave. You feel stuck, like you’re struggling to stay afloat, because you’ve never loved like this before – it makes you feel like you are going crazy!
At some point, he’s no longer in the picture. Something is keeping you two apart… What is this crazy cosmic fate? Do you still have a chance, will he come back? Perhaps this could be a test from the universe? Like, he really could be your Twin and this is just some obstacle to overcome…
You likely already know that Twin Flames are simply a representation or reflection of ourselves, of own self-love. So, perhaps you can heal or fix something within yourself so he’ll come running back. Right?
So, you ask, “Is he my Twin Flame, or just my Twin Flame Counterfeit?”
I hope to help you. I know it’s not an easy journey, and I have been there before. The Twin Flame Counterfeit is a type of karmic soulmate (you can read my blog What is a Karmic Soulmate? here) who is here to wake you up and plop you into your Twin Flame Awakening.
Being able to know if the love between you and someone you deeply are attracted to and care about is real is obviously an important question to ask. If you’re asking How Do I Know if Someone is My Twin Flame , you can click on the link to read that post to prep and support you for the information contained in this blog.
Unfortunately, there is no litmus test to know whether or not someone is your Twin Flame, and boy do I wish there were! I joke that it would be nice if there were a pee-in-a-cup lab test to tell if he was or was not your Twin Flame. It would save us lots of time, pain, and suffering, and wouldn’t that be nice! I could also patent that product and make a lot of money, because we’ve all gone through this at one time or another. So many women come to me over and over again with the same problem and if the solution were so simple I’d be a multi-multi millionaire!
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He (or she) is your Twin Flame if:
1) He’s still in the picture and you’ve seen each other’s glory and you’ve seen each other’s $h*t!
2) You’re willing to let him go, even if he is amazing, if he doesn’t treat you like the goddess you truly are with his full available presence
3) Your inner child is healed and has cleared emotional and health imbalances, abandonment wounds, and abuse traumas
4) You can surrender to the moment, and being apart doesn’t make you crazy, it feels like a lightness even though you may miss him
5) All (or at least most) of your love addictions are cleared and resolved
6) The love between you both is balanced, where both partners love each other equally, perhaps in different ways
7) Both partners are emotionally available, with the man and woman available to express fears, joys, sadness, etc
8) Both parties are on an Ascension Path and are focused on self-discovery, soul evolution, spiritual connection, and service
9) Neither partner is involved in a marriage or past relationship that is unresolved, which would leak sexual energy from the Twin Flame counterpart
10) Both members are energetically clear and take care of their own healing in body, mind and spirit. This may look different for each member (one may be a raw vegan and the other a meat eating body builder!) but both people have brought a lot of light into their bodies
11) Your partner aligns you to be in service, step further into self-love, self-empowerment, and the Sacred Union supports your growth
1) Constant mulling over in your mind, “Is he my Twin Flame?” – that’s a sure sign that you’re not ready yet for Twin Flame Love. Work on clearing your self-doubt in the 3rd chakra.
2) Constant checking in with psychics and energy healers to make him want you back or being hopeful he’ll want you back if he has gone away
3) VERY likely he’s a TFC if he’s involved with another woman and hasn’t showed up for the relationship fully
4) Emotional unavailability on his part
5) Emotional over-availability on your part
6) Feeling insecure or unsafe around your partner but proceeding anyway
7) Jumping in quickly into the relationship without feeling safe within your self, your sacred sexuality, your finances, and your own power
8) Jumping into the relationship to avoid taking action and power over your own life
9) Using the relationship as a distraction that focuses your attention away from your career, spiritual mission, and being of service
10) You feel like your whole world would be turned upside-down if he decides to leave you/doesn’t come back
11) You don’t fully love yourself unless he loves you back (conditional self-love vs. unconditional self-love)
11 Signs of the False Twin Flame (Wolf in Sheeps Clothing!)
If reading or watching the above was intense, take a deep breath, it’s all good!
It’s better to face the energy within yourself first, work on it, heal it, and step into Twin Flame Love from self-love.
Do this sooner than later and I promise you won’t regret it… The longer one waits to prolong the self-healing, the harder it gets to attract and keep their Twin Flame.
Know that everything can be healed. You have the strength within, and you can seek the support you need. You are always divine and lovable, even if one specific human you thought might be your Twin Flame might not be there for you….
Don’t beat yourself up, love yourself up and true love will find you!
Easier said than done, right? I know I beat myself up when I went through my own Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul with my Twin Flame Counterpart, so I know it’s not easy!
However, deep healing came through unconditional self-love and learning to be compassionate. Now I am with my incredible sacred counterpart, and I am insured that if he were to ever leave (as in life there are no guarantees!), I would be alright because I am a powerful self-healer!
Take action clearing your Twin Flame Love Blocks… each of us has certain karmas and possibly past life experiences to clear and heal. There’s a reason for everything…When you heal yourself, the world heals, and so does your Twin Flame.
Many blessings Beloved, love and compassion on your journey! Please download your free Twin Flame Ignition Kit here if you want to begin the healing journey…
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker helping single stellar women birth their soul purposes so they can attract their Twin Flames and Starchildren!
P.S. I know you’re fed up with the confusion and heartbreaks with Twin Flame Counterfeits. It’s time to rise your inner priestess power! To support you, we’ve created a complimentary Twin Flame Ignition Kit to help you magnetize your Twin Flame who’s a match on all levels. Download it now.
The worse thing that happens–an unfortunately this is very common–is that sometimes the person waits on their potential Twin Flame for years, only to find out it was not their true Twin Flame!
So, you met the most amazing love stud, or potential partner, and you’re smitten. You are sure he’s your Twin Flame Beloved because everything is so magical and synchronistic. You’ve never experienced a love like this. Things progress and you feel so in love, you’re jumping for joy and it truly feels like he/she must be the one, your one true Twin Flame.
