by Dr Amanda Noelle | Jun 24, 2015 | Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Runner and Chaser |
In order to call in your Twin Flame and truly live an abundant life, you have to heal every part of yourself, including your past. You can’t hold on to the anger from a past relationship. You cannot send hate to your ex and send love to your current partner and be in soul-alignment: Oneness doesn’t work that way! If you don’t heal your energetic relationships with exes, you will be holding on to heavy weight energy blocks. This will attract Twin Flame Counterfeits, Twin Flame Runners, Karmic Soulmates, etc, and it’s not pretty! In order to attract your one true Twin Flame you must heal all relationships, even the most painful and hurtful past relationship that you thought you’d moved on from.
It’s time to heal all ex relationships (and even past crushes!)
Exes are like previous seasons who have helped you cultivate your crop. Some are like spring: blooming you into blossom. Others are like winter–giving you a rest and testing your survival. But all the seasons are important to you, as they make you the well-rounded goddess you are!
Above is a photo I recently re-discovered of me and my first long-term relationship. Enrico was the Italian who Shanghaied me, literally to Shanghai China, where we lived for 1.5 years. These were the hardest and most growth-filled years of my 20s, but I don’t regret them. I didn’t speak the language. The weather was harsh in 2 of the four seasons, and the other two were very short. I was constantly on my last few bit of Yuan–so financially broke that I rode a bike in the streets of Shanghai with 1000s of others where I was the only white girl! A sea of black hair, then me. The blond… It was the most painful relationship to let go of in my 20s, but I did it because I new that there was something bigger for me. But it took me a long time to heal from it, and the way I finally healed was through gratitude.
Accept loneliness as part of a Twin Flame path
Loneliness was something I learned to deal with on a deep level–both in China, and in my relationship with Enrico. At age 24, I didn’t know anyone in Shanghai, and my man wasn’t compatible on the spiritual level. I was starting to wake up, and my spiritual gifts and pursuits frightened him. So I went into my own world and opened up alone, and hid my passions from him in our relationship. It was some of the most exciting stuff and I wanted to share it with someone, but I was still new to the shamanic world and didn’t think anyone would relate.
Loneliness gets healed when you realize that you are never alone. I started embracing my loneliness and slowly it became apparent that I wasn’t alone. I became friends with a dear friend of mine from Germany who would give me psychic readings and supported me so much during that time. I also became content with being the only blond on a block of 10,000 people and feeling OK with being different. What a gift, actually!
I tried leaving that relationship many times. But there was a great deal of love and compassion (and co-dependence) for each other, and leaving love is never easy. I tried packing up my bags and coming back to California, but something kept me stuck in Shanghai for what felt like a long time. At least Enrico had a great sense of humor, and taught me a lot about not taking life seriously! There were many good times, between the bad… I got to go visit his family just outside of Venice, Italy a few times and experienced some of the best home cooked food of my life!
The problem is that for many years after the relationship, I didn’t focus on gratitude for my relationship with Enrico. I would subtly bad mouth him in front of people, because I hadn’t fully been in my power in the relationship and hadn’t expressed my feelings when I was in it. I wish I had been able to heal my pain and focus on gratitude sooner; I would have probably not have attracted my Twin Flame Counterfeit, taken so long to meet my Twin Flame, and have gone through so much drama!
Appreciate the spiritual growth
Life has its ups and downs, but you grow so much on a deep spiritual level, even through your pain.
There is no faking it–sometimes it’s just awful! Like the time I finally had the courage to say goodbye to Enrico and leave him in Shanghai, knowing that I would likely never see him again. But I didn’t cry because it felt done, I had cried so much already. I’d been wanting to do it for a long time, it was complete. And then I cried like a baby saying goodbye to our housekeeper Xiao Ping, my ‘big sister’ who had seen me through my loneliness and pain when Enrico was gone at work and I stayed home working hard at my first business (as a personal trainer and wellness coach, and not succeeding). Being in a relationship with the “wrong guy,” a Karmic Soulmate, seems to call in Soul Family–people who are here to teach you and help you grow. Some of the best friends in my life have come through supporting each other around our relationship issues!
Sometimes you gotta leave and it’s hard. You blame yourself. You have to forgive yourself for what you did then. You chose not to stay stuck in your pain. Celebrate your bravery–you got out!
You don’t need to punish yourself and stick around playing the Twin Flame Runner game: where time and time again you are heartbroken and hurt by men you think is your Twin Flame, or by crushes who don’t requite your love. I see my female clients doing this all the time. They hurt someone in the past so they subconsciously decide they deserve to be hurt rather than getting what they want.
You deserve a deep relationship, with true Twin Flame Love.
Gratitude is one of the biggest keys to attract your Twin Flame relationship
Here is the most important key to letting go of exes and moving into a Twin Flame vibration. It is to ask yourself: What did I learn from this relationship? Instead of putting your focus on how bad he hurt you, what it was like when you were so in love, how can you get him back…focus on what you learned. Maybe you learned that you want to not be abandoned, that you want your beloveds to stick around. Maybe you learned that you have more healing to do around being abandoned that came from your childhood. Perhaps you can learn to find partners who are on your spiritual level, versus finding fixer uppers and karmic soulmates. Here are the questions to ask in a mini 20-second exercise:
- Why did you attract this person?
- What did your relationship teach you?
- What will you NEVER do again?
- What did you enjoy about this relationship that you wish to carry on in the next?
- What were you grateful for about this relationship?
And here is a powerful affirmation to read over and repeat out loud or in your mind to help you clear past exes and attract your Twin Flame:
I’m grateful for all the seasons of the past – past-lives, past boyfriends, past hurts, and past loves.
Now that you have healed your heart chakra you are ready for your Flame! So now what!? Now that you have healed the past, what will you be grateful for in your next relationship? Your Twin Flame relationship!? Post in the comments below. And if you’re not sure, come join us for the free New Moon Raw Cacao Ceremony this month to help you set intentions and get clear on your Twin Flame intentions!
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Jan 14, 2014 | Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Runner and Chaser |
What if a Twin Flame runner, or a Twin Flame Counterfeit, as I call it, keeps running in and out of your life or just your mind, and it drives you crazy? How can we avoid such intense Twin Flame runner and chaser dynamics, so that we can ground true Twin Flame Love?
You know if you’ve got a Twin Flame Counterfeit/runner if:
- He/she brings up all of your wounding – from your childhood, past lives, and deep unconscious blueprints
- You start to awaken to unconditional love, and then when the person leaves, it feels like it’s gone (but it’s really not! I promise…)
- You have suicidal thoughts after they leave you, and you feel like your soul purpose is to be with them always and NOW (which it’s not, I promise! If it were, you’d be with them…)
- You feel like you’re off your orbit and you’ll never get it back
- You feel like you’re holding the pain of the entire universe inside of you; particularly, the abandonment of the Divine Feminine by the Divine Masculine at the beginning of this universe’s timeline
- Your runner abandoning you triggers you to feel a deep longing to go back to the past, like the future will never be the same, because something terrible has happened, a loss so deep it’s unrepairable
A Twin Flame Counterfeit comes into your life with all of the signs of the true Twin Flame, but there is something not quite right. A trauma occurs, and there is a blending of deep true divine love and an ancient heartache. A Twin Flame runner and chaser dynamic is an emotionally enervating and dysfunctional relationship dynamic that comes out of an unhealed trauma or wound in both partners.
What is Twin Flame Love?
People often misunderstand Twin Flame Love. They think that when they experience it for the first time, that it has to be the source that mattered. That that Joe or Jane was their Twin Flame because it was the first person to help her/him active the Twin Flame frequencies within. This is not the case.
Twin Flame Love energies are within all of us, and most of us have a lot of clearing to do to activate, reclaim, and heal our self-love and Twin Flame Love in order to attract the other half of our soul, our Twin Flame reincarnation.
Twin Flame runners and chasers serve a soul purpose
To end Twin Flame runner pain, we have to understand the purpose for them coming into our lives. We have to own that we are not victims, but we are healing an ancient pain that needs clearing pronto for our soul purpose mission and true Twin Flame to come in.
Often times Twin Flame runners are here simply to awaken your soul’s ancient love briefly, like a match igniting a candle, and then it blows out. But the candle stays lit, despite the fact that they are gone. It can be like a painful birthing process, where a new life is born, but there’s a descension happening in occurrence with your soul’s ascension, simultaneously. There is much soul growth and sometimes it can be exquisitely painful…Hang in there!
Are you ready to see the divine truth?
Twin Flame runners activate divine truth at the same time they illuminate lies and deception. You must master this dear child of God/dess! You are here to master of decoding the illusion of love so that you can step into the deepest truest unconditional, Divine Love. Be not afraid, you and your tiny human self will lick her wounds; you will heal, and you will be closer to the truth and to God/dess than you have ever been. You will become him/her indeed! This is the Twin Flame initiation, and it is not for the faint of heart.
Twin Flame chasers pine after you or you for them because the wound is so painful that you have unearthed, it’s a sacred wound held in the Divine Feminine within the collective. As the Divine Feminine Rising occurs, we must clear clear clear the old abuse and abandonment wounds within. We restore Her within us as we cleanse the pain. There is no love outside of you. You are love. Yet it is normal to want to run and chase after an illusion of love. This is the core mistake of the Twin Flame runner and chaser dynamic.
How do you know the difference between true Twin Flame Love, and a TFC?
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As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, people are always asking me, Amanda, How do I know if someone is my Twin Flame? And I always answer that you know when you know, and I highly recommend not rushing it. If it’s real and eternal and infinite, there’s nothing you could ever do to destroy it or push them away. Unless part of you wants to!
If you’re consulting psychics, oracles, daisies (he loves me, he loves me not…), then you are not yet living in a Twin Flame relationship. An adult Twin Flame relationship takes two whole balanced adult and committed people who are not living in a fantasy land where daisies predict the future. You and your Twin Flame don’t leave it up to the gods to take care of you, you control your destiny and you’re not waiting around for someone to come save you or be saving someone else.
Twin Flames allow each other to find each other and stay together when they’re ready. If you’re struggling and it’s not working and not in the flow, take time apart and heal yourself. Let go. Surrender the relationship. If it’s the real deal, s/he will come back. But you have to learn to let go and let God/dess and release the relationship that you’re clenching your teeth about.
Twin Flame runners are here to awaken the ancient Twin Flame energies and clear past life karma
There may be bleed-throughs from many past lifetimes in which you and your Twin Flame Counterfeit were together and something painful happened that you still need to resolve. Perhaps it was a death, a betrayal, a judgement, or an abandonment, and you are here to complete that karmic soulmate relationship. Or, maybe you were connected to some gift together in a lifetime that needs healing. For instance, maybe you were a healer, a shaman, an high priestess and your Twin Flame energies got compromised when you were burnt at the stake and traumatized. Often times, I find my clients who have very strong karmic pulls towards so-called Twin Flames later on find out that they were madly in love because of a past life intense energy, and not a good one!
My Twin Flame Counterfeit karma tale
My somewhat embarrassing Twin Flame Counterfeit (TFC) story is that I was killed in a past life in New England for being a metaphysical practitioner, and my TFC and I both died together in that lifetime. In this lifetime, we had a similar karmic bleed-through and attracted a horrid situation which involved persecution, financial loss, and a death-like out of body experience which got me arrested and traumatized.
I was madly in love with my TFC and was certain that he was my Twin Flame, and I couldn’t imagine letting him go. It felt like a real death. Three years passed and through much healing and releasing work, I let him go and could finally move on.
But I was stuck in a crazy loop for nearly three years that I couldn’t get out of and was convinced he was the one for me! This is an example of how your so-called Twin Flame may be a TFC that has a deep karmic tie that you are here to clear and bring to the Light. That’s what Twin Flame runners and chases are for!
PS: Watch the Twin Flame Separation video here!
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker helping single spiritual women swiftly attract their Twin Flames. She is the founder of Aphrodite University, the first online Divine Feminine university for High-Healed Priestesses. ![Who Is Jezebel and how Can we Restore the Divine Feminine?]()
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Dec 17, 2013 | Divine Feminine Awakening, Law of Attraction, Twin Flame Signs, Twin Flame Spirituality |
I had an intense dream about Jezebel the other night, it was terrifying. I feel you High-Healed Priestesses out there should know about it so we can clear the type of energy attack that keeps the Divine Feminine within us terrified and not wanting to rise. Let’s clear the dark witchy energy that abuses us, keeps us playing small, and feeling afraid of the dark…
But who is Jezebel? And should we fear her? And how can we use Jezebel’s energy to restore the Divine Feminine and reclaim our power as High-Healed Priestesses (modern-day high priestess healers who are saving the planet while going high-end in their BLI$$nesses)?
Jezebel represents a dark side of the Divine Feminine, but she has a sacred purpose in rebirthing the Light. According to truthunity.net, the metaphysical meaning of Jezebel is:
Jezebel, jez’-e-bel (Heb.)—intact; untouched; untouchable; unproductive; noncohabiting; without husband; chaste; virgin; adulterous; base; unexalted; licentious.
Jezebel was the daughter of Ethbaal, King of the Sidonians. In Biblical Hebrew Jezebel’s name means ‘there is no nobility’. Originally, her name meant ‘The Prince Baal exists.’ Baal was a weather god worshipped in the Syro-Palestinians.
Jezebel is an evil woman in the Bible (Revelation 2:20), but as with all evil, evil doesn’t really exist. It’s just where there is empty darkness, like a void, a canvass for the Light. Darkness is just the other side of the coin of Light, Light being the awakened other half. For each yin side (darkness) needs her yang (lightness) counterpart.
Everything starts in the darkness, and ends in light, and then returns again, only to complete the cycle. Eternally. All dark energies, entities, and human beings become awakened to Light, eventually. Darkness always becomes seeded with Light, because eve darkness loves the Light, as it loves itself (and the darkness is the Light).
Everything is simply a cycle and a play within polarity! And it can be really fun to witness, which is why we’re all here in the Third Dimension where things are slow and we live by experiencing polarity. Yet the Light always triumphs over Darkness in the the end (or in the bigger picture, since really there is no end). All we have to do is become conscious of what is there. Consciousness breeds and breathes Light. So whether there is darkness or Light in your life, become conscious of it; it will become Light, inevitably.
Darling, don’t be freaked out of the dark, darkness is simply here to hold your Light so you can illuminate it! It’s just a fun divine game we came up with in the collective consciousness. In our collective divine minds. So play, laugh, cry, giggle, you have nothing to lose!
Only the Light is real, and it’s eternal. There is no death in this game.
According to Wikipedia, Jezebel became associated with false prophets. In some interpretations, her dressing in finery and putting on makeup before her death led to the association of use of cosmetics with “painted women” or prostitutes.
We all have the Madonna and the whore in us, so let’s get over this limiting archetype and make friends with all sides of ourselves, including our dark sides. That takes courage and confronting our inner Jezebels, our own shadows, with love.
Behind the darkness is always the truth and beauty.
My crazy Jezebel exorcism dream
Wanna hear my crazy dream? I helped to exorcise Jezebel the other night on the astral plane while in sacred circle with a band of my High-Healed Priestess sisters. In my sleep, several of us High Priestess Professors at Aphrodite University were in a circle discussing how to raise the Divine Feminine. Suddenly, one of the women of the circle stood up, and spoke harshly about me; she tried to cast me out as if I were a heretic or demon. Half of the group stayed with me, and another half of the women became competitive, jealous, angry, and hurtful towards me. Classic cat-fight energy! Mrow! This is Jezebel: competitive, catty, fear-based, traumatizing, and deceiving. And yet she serves a Divine purpose…
The Girl Exorcist:
I knew I only had a moment before this ‘woman’ would talk people out of my visions, of Aphrodite University, and of rebuilding the goddess temples with me. So I stood up to her, and I told everyone in the group to look in her eyes. She had these strange blue eyes, they were glassy, and opaque. I told everyone in the group to shine love and stare into her eyes. Suddenly, this woman’s spirit was revealed – Jezebel – and she wasn’t of human origin. She had a emptiness to her, slightly reptilian, but she was more of a vibration of lack and emptiness – a hole without a soul. Behind her eyes were dark pits where love had never been laid. Jezebel cannot receive love, and she feeds off of our energy when we are not housed at love. Where our bodies, minds, and spirits aren’t flowing with loving energies. She’s not evil, she’s just a shadow of ourselves.
How to exorcise a demon
To exorcise her, I had to stand in my power and in my Divine Love. I started calling in the Christ Force energy in the form of golden light. I had to stay steady, even though I was trembling. When I went into fear, dark pins of pain shot into my root chakra and saw the image of sharp witch fingernails become inserted into my yoni (not so nice!). When I brought in more golden light, I awoke with a wave of powerful Divine Love; the pain cleared and I knew Jezebel returned to her origin of pure Divine Feminine love and beauty.
To exorcise an entity, you must come from Divine Love, or Christ Force energy. You have to overcome the fear and not surrender yourself to pain, fear, and punishment. Falling for that is falling for the oldest trick in the book. You have to avoid low-self esteem and fear, and step into self-love and unconditional Divine Love. How? By feelin’ it and choosing it!
When we heal our relationship with other High Priestesses, we clear out the shadow side of Jezebel.
To end subconscious hatred between women, and to step into 6-figure BLI$$ as High-Healed Priestesses, we need to stare down the Jezebels within each of us, with the deepest unconditional love of Mary Magdalene. We must take off our armor and put on our amour for each other ladies, and we’ll have a ball doing so!
I believe that Jezebel is one shade or one face of Mary Magdalene, bride of Christ. She has gained a bad reputation, but I think she is here to remind us that all sides of the Feminine need to be respected, seen, healed, and integrated. Jezebel is part of the Divine Feminine whole and we cannot leave her medicine out. She challenges us to remember our divinity; she tells us to forget our divine origins. And she has even forgotten herself and needs to be reminded of her own glory! She cannot corrupt you, unless you choose it my dear. Release the voice of her shadowy reflection, and it too will begin to sing the song of the most pure loving siren, of the Magdalene!
How to be safe from the darkness
To escape the darkness and any good dark night of the soul, you must not run. Stay, and look it head on with piercing eyes of Light and Love.
Be fierce in your love, let your Divine Love Flame burn. Whatever you do, do not surrender to fear. Always return to Divine Love as quickly as possible, and it will save you from any form of Darkness. Feel it burning inside you, let it explode in your heart. Honor the Shakinah in every woman, and when you see the false Feminine who states lies, who creates competition, limitation, jealousy, and who tries to possess your spirit, do not run. No, stare her down with love, look her in the eyes, and she will either join you in the Divine Feminine Rise, or she will leave you alone. Her darkness cannot survive in your Light. You are more magnificent and powerful beyond belief, my Little Shakinah sister.
Lots of love and Light,
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker helping single spiritual women attract their soul purpose, soulmate clients, and Twin Flame soulmates in no time! She is also the founder of Aphrodite University, the first Divine Feminine-based metaphysical university on the planet helping hippie chicks go high-end as 6 & 7-figure hip n’ chic healers.
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Nov 8, 2013 | Sacred Sexuality, Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Priestess Lifestyle, Twin Flame Signs, Twin Flame Spirituality |
“I think I’ve met my Twin Flame.”
I hear this everyday. So, you’ve heard the term, and vaguely you know what it means… And certainly somewhere inside you, you know that you’ve always wanted to meet yours, and with deep longing and passion! You feel your soul’s destiny: to be with the love of all loves of your life… Your Twin Flame.
But what exactly is a Twin Flame?
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by Dr Amanda Noelle | Nov 6, 2013 | Sacred Sexuality, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Priestess Lifestyle, Twin Flame Signs |
Applying Twin Flame Law of Attraction to attract your Twin Flame or soulmate is great, but you can’t do it using Twin Flame affirmations, visualization and energy work alone. Mr. or Ms. Right won’t show up up on your doorstep unless you put in a little effort in the ‘real world’ too. Here are four sizzling hot tips to help you meet your Twin Flame fast by playing big, bold, and fearlessly in your Twin Flame dating world!
Tip Number One: Just get the F$%k out There!
I know you might not want to face it, but you’ve gotta start taking action and get moving, shaking, and dating if you haven’t been lately. The molecules should be dancing and spinning at an ‘I am dating and ready!’ frequency in order for your Twin Flame to arrive in your world. We High-Healed Priestesses can often get lazy when it comes to dating because we get stuck in the spiritual world and often hide there. We make vision boards, write our Twin Flame affirmations, and never get around to actually dating…
Who cares if you’re pretty, popular, or perfect? You deserve love now because you are a Divine creation of the Creator!
Take bold little steps every day. For instance, when you’re in line at the grocery store and like someone, casually chat with him/her. Or even ask him out! Flirt with people by asking them where they got their clothes. Men often like really dumb questions, so don’t get hung up on the words. A simple smile often will do to get things started.
One of my favorite pick up lines that really works is saying this word with a smile: “Hi!”
My friend Rhea needed to snag her crush before he walked out of the door on the night we did her Twin Flame activation ritual (we were in a pub and it seemed as if her crush was going to leave soon). I told her to run up to him fast and talk to him, and suggested she ask him something random. So she asked him if he was from Texas. He said No, he was from Sweden! Flattered by her bravery, it was love at first sight, they moved in together within a few weeks, and it made one of my favorite Twin Flame success stories success stories!
What do you have to lose? Be bold and playful. Ask him/her to ask you out. Joke and use physical touch to get his attention, even just a little pat on the back or graze of your hand on his. Men love being lightly showered with touch and attention, as do women!
Approach your fears online if it calls you
Ain’t no shame in going cyber-lovin’! Go Twin Flame online dating if you haven’t tried it lately and you feel open to it. A lot of women resist online dating, but a whopping one third of U.S. married couples met online! This third may not be you just because you decide to hit up the internet for a few dates. If you totally don’t resonate with online dating, just go onto one of the websites and “shop” for men as an exercise, women always get a giggle from this at least, and it puts us in a dating energy. You may browse OK Cupid and not even have to go on an actual date there to meet your soulmate, but the cyber dating energy can be good. It’ll help you get out there, out of your head, possibly out of your house, and back in the dating pool again if it’s been a while. I’ve heard of some women signing up on spiritual dating sites and then randomly meeting their spiritual partner offline a few days later because they put the energy out there!
Resistance to Success: Online Dating Success Story
My client Jenna hadn’t been on a date in over 6 years. Though she was an amazing goddess–smart, bright, successful, beautiful, and loved to travel, she’d hit a bad heartbreak and then a rut. Before that, she’d dated a slew of bad boyz who didn’t honor the amazingness that she is. She was so super resistant to going online dating, but I told her to get over it and just try it out. So, we worked together on getting her on *a date* to get her back into “dating shape.” So she posted her profile on OKcupid.com, and within a week she’d dated two really great guys! Her skin glowed, her confidence started coming back, and she felt sexy again. Guess what happened? Within only a few short weeks, she met handsome Seth, her awesome soulmate/Twin Flame partner and they lived pretty darn happily ever after, and have two gorgeous Starchildren.
Moral of the story: get online asap, even using Facebook as your safe playground. Especially if you haven’t tried online dating, or if you have been dateless for more than a year. Try out a new site if you have been glued to the same one and haven’t been getting results. Start taking action, it’ll get the energy moving.
Various clients and friends of mine who have been through a dating dry spell will initially get online as a tool to get the juices flowing. Then, with boosted confidence, they’ll randomly meet a guy at the coffee shop, or notice someone at work and end up dating offline, thinking “Why haven’t I met him before!?” Boys attract more boys through the Law of Male Competition. Everyone wants a queen bee. Moral of the story: online dating breeds more dating! Get out there and try it out.
Bottom line: be bold and do things you don’t normally do.
You don’t have to go online, it’s just an option. What’s more important is to just get out there and spread your love! So also do things just for you that knock your socks off, that are outside of the box. Take a salsa class, or cooking lesson, or hit up a comedy club with a new friend. Try a vegetarian meetup or start your own one. Get out of your boring daily/weekly rhythm to bring in fresh romance energy. Maybe even get far far away… Take a Twin Flame pilgrimage to that country you’ve always wanted to see! It doesn’t hurt to travel to meet your Twin Flame. Dress a little sexier if you’re normally in sweats… Do something that gets you out of the house even on a chilly day. Girl, just take your pick, make your move, and dive into bliss!
It’s also important to nourish yourself within and take time for yourself of course, and here’s a bath I recommend for Twin Flame Love: Twin Flame Love Spell Bath Recipe.
Tip Two: Don’t Worry About Getting Rejected
Although it goes against our natural instincts, getting rejected is the best medicine to attract your Twin Flame. It means that you’re able to love yourself most of all when it appears that God (or in this case, some man or human specimen) doesn’t love and adore you back.
Who cares if he doesn’t like you back?! Go find someone who will! In truth, you are God’s lovechild, and there’s no reason not to be loved… However, you do have to realize the somewhat harsh fact that you simply won’t be loved in that soulmate way by all beings because that’s just how it works – and it would be really complicated. Would you want three million karmic soulmates knocking on your door? I think not! It’s funny how obsessed we become about not being rejected, when truly the main goal should be to get accepted by our one true perfect match.
Finally, I work with many women who have suffered from body image/self-esteem issues, like I have myself. We beat ourselves up for not being perfect and convince ourselves that we have to change in order to get an attractive guy to love us. Don’t fall for it! It was all a misinterpretation from a shampoo ad campaign you watched in the 80s. Real men want real women; humans like honest and real organic beauty more than sliced and diced makeup perfection. Despite what the cosmetic sales people or plastic surgeons may tell you (it’s probably for their children’s college tuition, so don’t take it personally).
Just a little beauty accenting and color highlights for fun and play is OK. Don’t go overboard. Allow your own true beauty to shine through to attract your Twin Flame with your authentic self. If he rejects you because you have a zit or some larger pores or a cellulite butt like I have, move on; that’s not true love! Your Twin Flame will love all of you and find you absolutely sexy.
Tip Three: Activate Your PU$$Y Power
What!? What’s PU$$Y Power? Click here to get a fuller definition. PU$$Y Power is the Divine Feminine fertile almost feline-like energy that can attract anything to through an ancient magic secrets. It is based in your womb and yoni (vagina) area, and it’s also known as the Holy Grail, Sangraal, and is the essence of Divine Feminine creation. To activate your PU$$Y Power, you have to connect with the Divine Feminine aspect of your root chakra and sacral chakra. You have to fall in love with your sacred sexuality, your body, and love your yoni (pussy!). Watching this video will help activate your precious PU$$Y:
Tip Four: Be yourself
As tempting as it is to play the “perfect girl” to win love by someone who thinks you’re the cat’s PJs and best actress in town, pretending to be someone you’re not is going to get old real fast. Real fast.
Start the date/relationship by just being yourself. This will pay off BIG! Let your true colors fly. It doesn’t mean that you cannot impress your potential mate, or even shine a bit from the start, but do so with authenticity. Show some imperfections. While wearing the perfect outfit on the first date can be fun, are you able to dress it down after dinner with some walking shoes and a windbreaker to go on that beach hike? I hope so, because no one wants to be his Royal Prince Charming’s b*tch. No darling, you are a queen and queen bees get to set their own rules!
It’s so darn simple: it’s super important to find your soulmate from a place of passion and taking inspired action. It’s all about playing BIG in the outer game, while nurturing your inner game too.
Go go go, girl, you go this one. Here’s to your implementation of these three hot tips to help you meet your divine match by playing a big outer game. Go have a great week and treat yourself with great care while getting out there in a BIG way! Thanks for reading, see you on the flip side, and please post your comments below and share with your social groups.
In Love,
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker to stellar spiritual women who feel called to birthing big life-purposes and possibly a Starchild or two.
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by Dr Amanda Noelle | Nov 6, 2013 | Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Runner and Chaser, Twin Flame Signs, Uncategorized |
A karmic soulmate is a person who shares some sort of karmic attachment, energetic tie, or psychic agreement with you. It may be based on a past life, where you have energetics bleeding through from past lives that need to be resolved in this lifetime. Romantic karmic soulmate encounters can be very intense: very pleasurable, but often very disastrous, and can be confused with a Twin Flame relationship. They indeed often go from hot steamy romance and connection, to heartache and disappointment.
There are all kinds of karmic relationships, and some are romantic and others are Platonic (non-erotic love). There is usually an intensity common to karmic soulmate relationships, regardless of their romantic or Platonic nature. It can be a good feeling of intensity or love, or an unpleasant one. Here are the top five signs of the karmic soulmate, so that you don’t find yourself deep down the karmic soulmate rabbit hole.
1) He or she feels unusually familiar from the start
2) There is a strong attraction from the start, and perhaps even a confusing one that can be both push-pull, or even a repulsion type of attraction
3) There are huge lessons to be learned with the karmic soulmate
4) You have had a past life or multiple past lives together
5) There are non-romantic elements to the karmic soulmate lessons, such as business, sexuality lessons, finances, self-worth, beauty, etc.
How do you tell if someone is your Twin Flame, or just a karmic soulmate? Not all karmic soulmates are romantic agreements. “Soulmates” are simply people Spirit attracts to you to teach you a lesson to help your soul evolution. This can be a business soulmate, parent, child, friend, etc. Romantic karmic soulmates often hold an intensity brought through from past lives that can bring up a lot of childhood pain, abuse, neglect, fear, abandonment issues. There certainly can often be heartbreak associated with romantic karmic soulmates! The grief brought in by a karmic soulmate is not meant to be punishment or retribution; it’s meant to be healed and cleared. It is helpful to get healing and professional
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support if you meet a karmic soulmate or Twin Flame Counterfeit if there is deep heartbreak. Twin Flame Runner and Twin Flame Matchmaker are in a sense always karmic soulmates to each other but in a healthy, wholesome, and supportive way. Regardless of whether or not the Twin Flame is real or false, it feels like Twin Flame Love, which is your own Twin Flame Love! Twin Flame separation and Twin Flame anxiety can be downright painful! To heal from a karmic soulmate, you need to end the attachment and contract agreement, which can be done either as a conscious and empowered decision, in meditation, or with a Twin Flame expert/intuitive.
Dr. Amanda Noelle, Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps stellar spiritual women swiftly manifest their Twin Flame.
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Nov 6, 2013 | Divine Feminine Awakening, Law of Attraction, Twin Flame Signs, Twin Flame Spirituality |
There is an ancient secret power that resides deep inside every woman…
And meow Priestess, is it sexxxxxy, powerful, and priceless!
Pussy Power is an eternal Sacred Feminine energy. In this article, I’ll do my best define the term “Pussy Power,” which goes way beyond modern history…
We’ll look at the etymology of the word to understand its ancient and deeper meanings. I’ll also share a few secrets and exercises to get your Pussy Power revved up!
The Ancient Origin of the Word Pussy
Did you know that the origin of the word ‘pussy’ goes way back before Donald Trump’s use of the word “Pussy?”
Unknown to most, the word pussy likely comes from Ancient Egypt.
The Egyptians revered and honored cats, and considered them divine.
Pussy comes from the the name Pasht, who was the ancient Egyptian cat goddess. Some say that Pasht was Isis’ spirit guide. Isis was the Great Goddess of fertility, love, and sensuality.
Therefore, Pussy is derivation of “spirit guide to the Great Goddess.”
Here are some fun facts about Pasht:
- Pasht is also referred to by other names such as: Pacht, Past, Pasch, Bast, Basstet, Bubastis, Ubast, Ubasti, and Ailuros.
- Pasht aka Bast is identified as “the soul of Isis,” or as Ba-en-Aset.
- Pasht/Bast is considered a patron of both the sun and the moon, a patron Goddess of women like the Mother Goddess Isis.
- She is the guardian of that which is hidden as well as secrets.
- Depictions of Pasht/Bast include a black cat or white cat, and cat-headed woman. Meow!
- She is also considered the daughter of the Sun God Ra.
What if we were to think of Isis as not just a deity, but as a symbol of the Divine Feminine that is meant to be awakened within every woman?
In that case, pussy in a sense means “Spirit guide of each woman.”
Perhaps you are looking for Pussy Powered spirit guidance that comes from your yoni?
That’s why I teach women how to listen to the inherent wisdom stored within their pussies so they can think, act, relate, love, and speak from their pleasure centers.
What Is PU$$Y Power?
Pussy Power, which I often spell “PU$$Y Power” to emphasize Isis (ISIS = $$ if you put it together), includes not only your vagina in her mechanics, spirit, and orgasmic glory, but also includes the:
- vulva
- labia (inner and outer lips)
- cervix
- fallopian tubes
- ovaries
- womb
- and the procreative matrix, what I call the “Pussy Portal” or 7th Gate.
Pussy Power is the essence of your passion, purpose, and your pleasure, and when you tap into it, you can attract your heart’s (and pussy’s) desires.
This includes birthing a child, or birthing anything into being–such as artwork, your Sacred Union (what I call Twin Flame Union), money, a home, a business (what I call “bli$$ness” if you do it the Feminine way), etc.
Pussy Power is the essence of the Divine Feminine Vortex of Creation.
Within your womb lies a wisdom and force that is a primal and eternal. Your PU$$Y Power is made up of the pure pleasure of the Goddess…
When you’re turned on in your PU$$Y Power, it’s like petting a purring cat–she will not lie about her pleasure! She purrs with authenticity, and if you touch her in a way she doesn’t like, she’ll run away, or even give you a swat!
The pleasure from your Pussy Power is generated, received, and transmitted in the entire female body, and it’s not only related to sexual energy, it’s related to anything having to do with creation from the etheric world into the physical world that we live in, from Heaven to Earth.
SECRET # 1: YOUR PUSSY POWER MANIFESTS AND ATTRACTS
PU$$Y Power is a priceless life-force that can help you attract anything you want: a romantic partner, more money, an improved living situation, and anything your heart or your favorite body part desires.
Anatomically, PU$$Y Power is generated from the access points such as the clit, the G-spot, and the center of the womb (the Pussy Portal) and is moved upward through the chakras and Kundalini pathways, as well as downward into the earth.
Your PU$$Y Power Is What Bridges Heaven AND Earth.
It is energetically an attractive energy, as well as a nurturing one. Imagine a bee flying to the nectar of the flower.
That’s why Pussy Power is a force that can attract what you want if you’re focusing on that with intention…
However, when not properly open or empowered, your Pussy Power can attract psychic attacks, dark energy, unwanted energy, or even rape and abuse…
A healthy flower exudes am attractive nectar to attract the bees. Her attractive energy is balanced by her own sources of natural pesticides to keep her safe from the wrong critters. Your PU$$Y Power works the same way.
SECRET #2: SHAME BLOCKS YOUR PUSSY POWER, SELF-LOVE FREES IT
Get Over Your Shame and Fear of Your PU$$Y!
Shame and fear is the #1 thing that blocks Your Pussy Power.
Why be afraid of this deep and beautiful wisdom within you? Say “OMGoddess, I have a perfect pussy, and I have PU$$Y Power!”
Why don’t they teach women this in sex-ed?!
Unfortunately, women have been taught to fear the Divine Feminine; religious followers have been indoctrinated with patriarchal values. Further, I’d argue that the majority of religions today teach women to see themselves as sinners if they awaken their PU$$Y Power.
How can a woman relinquish the fears instilled in her from birth around her PU$$Y Power? Oh, and a hundred past lives too! Yes, all women have been programed to fear our Divine birthright as women.
SECRET #3: PUSSY POWER IS CONNECTED TO THE DIVINE DAUGHTER
Everything in the universe is comprised of the same energy… there is only The One.
The pussy represents the most feminine and childlike aspect of oneness. She is: tender, pink, vulnerable, high-vibrational, and absorbent.
When in balance, the pussy represents bliss that is akin to the magical inner child.
Ironically, we think of having a pussy and Pussy Power as being mature and adult, which it can be… But Pussy power sits upon a foundation that is tender and sweet like a little girl.
Your Pussy Power is not only powerful, but connected to the element water, to the emotions, and to sacred vulnerability. That’s why as a woman it’s important to tend to your emotions, your intimate relationships with self and others, and to maintain a deep intimate connection with the Earth, the Feminine, and The Creator.
For more Pussy Power secrets, click the video 6 Pussy Power Secrets to Discovering and Recovering Your Yoni Power! HERE:
Yet so often women are taught to be and act like men who run a more masculine energy. We are supposed to ignore our emotions and suppress them to fit into work situations, and even into romantic ones.
Perhaps this is because women had to fight for so long–to gain the vote, gain equal rights, and be protected from violence.
So many of my clients and readers tell me they often feel unsafe. This is why I teach women how to clear out their Pussy Power from past incidents and beliefs that caused them to shut down their emotions, and why my work often involves reawakening the inner child.
Right away, you can start taking action to awaken your Pussy Power through the magical inner child. Painting, singing, playing, dancing, or a trip to the amusement park all support this initiative!
Post in the comments below which of the 3 secrets you liked most, and what you’re committed to doing with your Pussy Power Awakening process!
Good luck girls, go to it, get your P-Power on, and enjoy every molecule and moment… It’s an important part of your mission in becoming a Twin Flame, a healer, a leader, and High-Healed Priestess.
Dr. Amanda Noelle is the Twin Flame Matchmaker helping single spiritual women attract their Twin Flames to create stellar families and Starchildren.
