Twin Flame Love Attraction Comes From Self-Love
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Twin Soul Self-Love Secret: The Twin Flame Self-Marriage Meditation
What is the fastest way to your Twin Flame, the ultimate beloved?
I’m a Twin Flame Matchmaker, and I have seen it all. Many women I have worked with have attracted a Twin Flame runner, or even a Twin Flame Counterfeit–someone who looks like the part in every way, but who runs and who cannot sustain a long-term healthy relationship. Some of these ladies obsess over the lost love, but it brings them no where and Prince (or Princess) Charming doesn’t come back until they take this one action:
To choose self-love.
We must never abandon ourselves. We must crave our own love. We must heal our own hurts and tears and tears in our auras.
It’s simply falling in love with yourself, and aligning all your 7 chakras with YOU, singing at your own soul frequency. Here is a Twin Flame meditation video I hope will help you:
Enjoy, and marry yourself, knowing that you are always pure love and deserve the very best from your beloved, and most of all, from yourself.
XO!
Amanda
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker and the Founder of Aphrodite University.
(Lovingly) Fuck Twin Flame Runners
I say this with love and compassion. But I also say it with some mama bear passion with my sacred Hell NO!
I have the right to say this, to express my opinion. Especially after watching thousands of women come to me in tears because their supposed “Twin Flame” has run. I heard the same flipping the story over and over again, like a broken record! It makes you think that there’s probably something wrong with our society, not something wrong with these Twin Flame Runners and Chasers.
Women are constantly blaming themselves for making their Twin Flames run (sometimes without much explanation or even compassion) and she is left to pick up the pieces. In the process, she blames herself, and is often absolutely still sure that this man is her twin.
Here is what I have to say to this scenario: Fuck Twin fLame Runners!
A true man has balls… And he holds the moon for you! I had one of those Lame Flames that would blow out if I breathed too strong. I call him a Twin Flame Counterfeit, the TFC. It taste good, but it’s about as healthy for you as KFC. Killing Friendly Chickens.
For a really long time I believed that the other half of my soul just needed to wake up and that he would possibly come back someday. Just like they tell you in the fairytales… The handsome prince comes back to kiss the sleeping beauty. Though prince charming was distant, focused on his own goals and life without caring about me, I stuck around energetically anyways. Asleep at the wheel for thousands of years waiting for my prince.
Because society told me that this was Twin Flame Love, and I also think I was under some sort of witchy she spell, to be honest.
And so I stayed around for five fucking years holding my breath hoping that Prince Charming would somehow wake up and come back and make me feel loved again, as I had felt the moment we met.
While I send this flame of my past lots of love, I realize that it was a total counterfeit flame that was not serving my light for the long-term. Instead, it was sort of a shadow flame, a dark flame that stoked my passion for love and light. But it was not the love and light itself!
We have to lovingly forgive ourselves for being such freaking idiots in counterfeit love! How did I actually believe that someone who could abandon me in the middle of my deepest opening, activating my ancient wounds, and not stick around and hold me with unconditional love could be my Twin Flame?
I don’t know about you, but the other half of my soul would never abandon me. That’s not my style! I can safely say that the other half of my soul would never leave me high and dry during the most dramatic moment of my life. He would come towards me to resolve the situation the best he could, even if it was messy. My twin flame would never run, at least not for more than a few moments. And that’s how he would treat his children, his family, and his tribe.
My Twin Flame counterpart is a king who loves you and his people and who never leaves you or his people.
That’s why my current partner Jack and I are loving each other up so much. We’re very committed people – to the New Earth, and to Twin Flame Love…and so we don’t abandon. We don’t shut down our emotions and run. We communicate, we look into each others eyes, we work things out. Even when it’s dramatic and traumatic and scary.
Abandonment is not the sacred act of a Twin Flame, it’s not an act of true love. Abandonment is a sin, as sin simply means “to go without.” I never want to “Twin Flame sin” again, to go without my own self-love–to leave and abandon myself by hanging around waiting for some guy to come back. Staying stuck in the pain for thousands of life times while truelove could have been right there at my fingertips. Waiting for someone to come back who has abandon you is the worst thing for the inner child and for children. It touches upon the great father wound that has scarred each of us on the deepest level. In order to heal those heart tissues, we must commit to finding those who do not abandon. And to work on our abandonment issues ourselves.
We, especially women, need to be brave enough to ask for partners who stay.
Who work on the issues. And stop calling those runners our true Twin Flame. Find true sustainable flame he love. That’s 1 million times better than a sexy ungrounded affair that leads to years of pain and wounds… Twin Flame runners will drop the ball on you almost every time. But Twin Flame Stayers will love you and show up to do the work.
Love,
Dr. Amanda Noelle, The Twin Flame Matchmaker
Twin Flame DNA Upgrades, Activation, and Clearing
Goodness Goddess Gracious! I am so happy you’re reading this blog so you can learn about the DNA codes needing to be upgraded inside of you, me, and our sisters too who are Twin Flame seekers on Earth.
OK, so I had the fattest, craziest, juiciest awakening journey here on a little island called Gili Air, which is right next to Bali, and it’s a gorgeous tropical paradise. My life is now full of tropical flowers, daily snorkeling trips where we visit sea flowers and coral coves and love-making fish that have so much passion it’s off the hook. I’m also eating numiness in large doses – like ripe coconuts fresh off the tree, and the inner treasure-treat of coconut flesh. Plus, the beautiful European men that visit the island are always fun for eye candy and Twin Flame potential material as well…not that I noticed!
But before I get too distracted about my own bliss, I wanted to talk about fast and furious Twin Flame DNA UPGRADING! So I did this awakening shamanic journey here less than 48-hours ago; let me just briefly mention that magic mushrooms are legal here, unlike in the US where I was arrested for seeking my spiritual truth through a shamanic journey, ahem!
First, have you seen the Twin Flame DNA Upgrades video yet?:
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I would love to share some potent downloads I was given with you on Twin Flame DNA activation. I went up to the Light where I became and merged with the the original seed of Light where I was born. Which was way awesome and I highly recommend doing that! It was a little scary at first but my friend Katie’s spirit was there with me and I could joke and share and giggle about being afraid with her (even though she was half the world away) so it wasn’t that bad or frightening.
But back to the Light…I was hanging out with God, or I guess I could say I became the God energy myself which was actually just this very simple pure Light. It was just consciousness itself. Hard to explain but it was way less complicated than I had thought! Here, I figured out what was blocking our soul family from Twin Flame Love, myself included. Are you blocked with your Twin Flame DNA?
Girl, this is nothing to be ashamed about. It’s fixable too! So if you are an incredible High-Healed Priestess and you resonate with me as a soul sister, please know that we sisters (aka sea-stars) from the Pleiades have been blocked by something very very immense and dark for a long time. In fact Twin Flame Love hasn’t really fully ever been awakened on this earth because of the dark code written within the index of our earthly DNA.
If you don’t know who the Pleiadians are, basically just note that you are one, that everything is recycled and even earth is made of recycled stardust. Pretty much everything on earth came from different exploded stars. Earth humans are a mixture of many different star consciousness and DNA that got mixed through intention, Galactic Federation agreement, and Divine creation. If you are just waking up, don’t worry if this doesn’t make sense to you, just keep reading and let it absorb slowly. Or you can do more research about Pleiadian starseeds and our Pleiadian origins on the internet. No worries if I confused you a bit.
In a nutshell, know that it’s time to clear this dark energy that is blocking the DNA from activating with Twin Flame Love and Light Codes.
During my medicine journey, I accessed a high state of consciousness where things were much easier to see, know, and feel than normal. Even more so than my deepest sleep state or meditative state, which is already pretty awesome since I have been meditating for a while and am able in my dream state to access the Higher Dimensions pretty regularly.
This medicine journey was potent, and enabled me to see where the earth is being blocked from receiving awakened Twin Flame Love fully into the Christ Consciousness. It was terrifying to see which is why I had to keep comforting my inner child and asking for help, which was granted. I was able to see that darkness up close and center, and I made a promise to unlock it and turn the codes to Light to heal the earth, the Divine Feminine and Masculine alignment, and to heal the Twin Flame energies within myself.
Do not be afraid of the dark, because fear breeds more darkness, and we need your Light!
It’s the same blockage that killed Jesus, that keeps the same military energies in rule. It’s the same darkness that abuses humans, animals, and the sea, and that chooses war over love, and murder over bliss. It’s just dumb! Seriously, the energy was unconscious, a dumb energy that needs The Light to awaken in back into it’s Light Self Origin. We are gathering the Light together, to break the codes, and to activate the Twin Flame DNA. <3
When I saw the dark force energy with my own psychic eyes.
It appeared as some seriously scary $h&t to my human self. It’s hard to explain or describe what I saw, but I’ll try, not to freak you out but to let you now what you’re up against. It was a moving energy or grid of darkness that had some colors and patterns in it that resembled spiders, ticks, dark magic, and I’d say it was a sort of demonic monster with no soul that was merged with the digital world. So it literally is like a computer codex or program that has infiltrated into the earth’s water (a memory storage device), into our government officials and structures, and anywhere it can that vibrates without Light.
What is blocking Twin Flame Love from coming fully to earth?
Here’s what I channeled:
It is simply an unconscious codex of information that came here a long time ago based on a grid of unconscious fear. It dates back to the creation of the universe that has not been resolved. When the universe was created, it had a Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine self that realized itself into being and then into separation, and when these energies split they became a little wary of one another, sort of like a baby being born who realizes she’s a person with toes and it freaks her out that she has a self and she has to become responsible for this body. The universe became aware of His/Her creation and was like “Oh shit, I gotta take care of all that!?” Especially the Divine Mother was/is (as there is no time or space) like, “Oh man, how am I going to mother all those planets, energies, plants, species, and humans!?”
She doubted herself, and thus so did the Divine Father, who left and ran off to think things out on his own in his Man Cave. Then the Divine Feminine was like, “Honey, where did you go?” She freaked out, and when he didn’t come back before supper that night, she panicked and thought he’d abandoned her. He actually hadn’t, at that point. But then, when he got back and they returned to Oneness, she scolded him for being a bad guy, for leaving her, and so he created this complex or codex about doing what masculine energy does when it ‘thinks’ or computes, which is to run away and come back (like computer runs in order to compute, and yang energy heads outwards, then becomes yin and returns).
A new codex of separation was born. This is reflecting in the Twin Flame DNA codes still to this day.
Then, the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine not only had doubts about their ability to create and raise their cosmic family, they also had issues about each other and began to trust each other less and less. That was the beginning of the divide, or so-called Divorce of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine. And all creatures of creation have been harvested and raised by two parents who have been doubting their ownabilities to be God and Goddess! Ooops.
This universe fell for the oldest trick in the book. The loophole of creation that every universe falls into, and every woman and man falls into. Self-doubt, which turns into doubt of others, especially the Twin Flame reflection of ourselves. Earth was created under this grid of consciousness and the cycle has been recreated over generations of time through the cosmos, patterns created and repeated and repeated over and over, until the dark force of subconscious energy has grown big. Into Fukushima disaster energy, and military control, and corporate welfare, and body image self-hatred in women, and prescription drugs and drug abuse….the list goes on and on, all that human and universal shame and self-hatred! Silly stuff.
All kinds of stuff repeats through patterns of the original Divorce of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine, and the trauma of the Divine Children. As adult women, we reflect both the Divine Mother an Divine Child, and we have to start figuring out and computing these codes with massive amounts of unconditional love, Light, and awakened consciousness. We ned to clear our emotions, our fear, abandonment issues, and pray into our DNA for this healing.
Prayer for the remarriage of the two (Father/Mother God) is what is going to put them back together, and what is going to align us with our Twin Flames! It’s what is going to create a Golden Era or New Earth, and it will upgrade all levels of creation including the Pleiades, Sirius, galaxies, and ALL of the universes will upgrade.
We just need to do one thing: change our mind. Now. Tune into your Divine Mind. And to Love.
Change your mind, and your world changes. Change your Higher Mind and the Universechanges. We must change our mind into Twin Flame Love and Christ Consciousness. Then the Light IS! We all know that the dark energy doesn’t belong on earth anymore. Whether you call it Illuminati energy, Hell, or simply the Shadow of the Universe, it’s time to collaborate to make enough consciousness to change the Divine Mind and heal the earth. Twin Flame Love time! To release the Old Paradigm we must shed light on this this dark goober, this destructive cycling computer codex.
All we gotta do is building large light constellational structures, such as the sacred temples, Atlantean grids, and conscious movements, high vibrational music events, galactic gateways, divine based universities and organizations, etc. We need to pray our Twin Flame prayers together, en masse, so we can outshine the darkness. So what if there has been a lot of darkness? Yes, for sure there is in this moment still a lot of wrongdoing on earth (i.e. like Fukushima, don’t make me go there or I’ll talk your ear off), but 1% Light can totally obliterate 99% darkness. Like a tiny candle can illuminate an entire pitch black room to some degree. Still, we must band together and co-create with our consciousness, creating Light Portals of prayer, Twin Flame blessings, sacred action, clear any fear, and begin a massive celebration of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine coming together. As a woman, it’s your job to heal the abused Feminine within yourself, and as a man it’s your job to support women in the process and also heal your own Feminine through the little boy in you who was hurt and abandoned by your Divine Father/earth dad.
You gotta start healing your abandonment issues girls, and forgive forgive forgive theDivine Father. He made some mistakes, but he’s here and wants you to love him and wants to help you. He is you! Of course he wants to help. You must trust him and pray and trust yourself.
We have to cooperate and create the constellational light grids, not do it alone. That’s why I brought together 6 sacred sisters (and a 7th food goddess) on this 8-day retreat in Bali and Lombok – because we needed to create a light grid around ME so I could feel safe to journey out and see what way blocking me and my Twin Flame seeking soul sisters.
I have had many clients and friends find their Twin Flames already, yet there are many of the Christ Conscious individuals who will not be able to manifest their Twin Flame in the physical unless we clear these codes out!
Many old soul individuals are stuck either (a) unable to find their Twin because of the dark codex, or (b) are able to find him/her, but are unable to fully activate the Twin Flame Frequencies.
One example is a client I have who found her Twin Flame just 3 days after meeting me.However, she is totally blocked in her root chakra and career space, because she’s an ancient Atlantean High Priestess and future Pleiadian Lightworker who accesses high levels of information and codes. So she’s afraid to death of opening her 5th chakra, aligning the 7 chakras to the Twin Flame Frequency (7 aligned chakras is what it takes to activate Twin Flame Love). So she is blocked in sharing her amazing channeled information publicly because at her core she can feel the persecution fear of the dark codex that has gotten her killed in past lives. Thus she is unable to fully unlock and tune into her Twin Flame DNA. Until she clears her fear of the dark codex, she will not be able to fully activate the Twin Flame Love. Until then, she cannot birth her Starchildren from the purest conscious Light, and that’s what we need for the New Earth.
How to activate your Twin Flame DNA First step: clear all of your fear through prayer and Love. Ask the Divine Father for help, and ask to be grounded through the Divine Mother on Earth. Pray for the Divine Father and Divine Mother to align within you, through you, and for you to align with your Twin Flame.
Also ask for the Twin Flame codes to be cleared in your DNA. Here’s an awesome channeled prayer:
“I ask the DNA Committee to unblock and unlock my Twin Flame Light Codes to the highest potential of Divine Love. I clear out any blocks of the dark codex and cancel out any fear based limitation. I am the Love, I am the Light, and I AM I AM I AM! I also forgive the Divine Father for any harm, abandonment, and shame he has held in his creation and love for me. I also forgive my Divine Mother for being unable to express her love for me or for being able to support me in the way I needed in any lifetime, space, or dimension. I alight my DNA with my Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies as I forgive myself for any misalignment. Twin Flame Love ACTIVATE!”
You can repeat the prayer as many times as you can to become gridded in your subconscious and conscious mind. You will notice shifts in your energy immediately, and within your life within three days.
Another major major MAJOR ways to clear the Twin Flame DNA is through gathering with a group of High Priestesses, Twin Flame-bound women who embody the Magdalene Consciousness (Divine Feminine Christ Consciousness); conglomerating in groups of 5 to 7 women at a time for a ritual, especially by the sea, is incredibly helpful to lead a prayer.
In your prayer, always set a specific intention to clear the DNA codes. We did our group formations in a pods of 6 sisters, sistars, or “sea stars” by the ocean. At one point we stood in a with 5-pointed star formation which represents the Goddess of Love, Aphrodite and human DNA creation.
I like having 6 sisters in a circle with a central point in the middle for the heart-based High-Priestess, and the number 7 represents the Seven Seas and the Seven Sisters (Pleiades) and the six-pointed star of life or Star of Da-Vida or the Star of David is a sacred geometry that is found in water molecules, the ocean, our bodies, and memory storage devices (i.e. the silicon chip and water itself as a memory storage device). The ocean stores information, and the Twin Flame DNA secrets are still embedded there as the ocean was too massive for the dark code to pollute everywhere.
Find the purest ocean you can find, like this haven in Indonesia on Gili Air, where the Twin Flame Love codes are still active in the water. And pray for the water’s healing worldwide, and envision Mama Ocean as healed. Activating our Twin Flame DNA is the fastest way to Twin Flame Attraction and it takes a conscious decision of changing your mind not only in your conscious mind, but in your Divine Mind. Meditation, hypnosis, and sacred journeys under the supervision of an expert shaman can help.
Namaste, Love, and Light,
Amanda
Dr. Amanda Noelle is an ancient Starbeing, Atlantean High Priestess, and Founder of Aphrodite University. To learn more about her, click here.
Twin Flame Runner and Chaser: How to End the Twin Flame Runner Dynamics
What if a Twin Flame runner, or a Twin Flame Counterfeit, as I call it, keeps running in and out of your life or just your mind, and it drives you crazy? How can we avoid such intense Twin Flame runner and chaser dynamics, so that we can ground true Twin Flame Love?
You know if you’ve got a Twin Flame Counterfeit/runner if:
- He/she brings up all of your wounding – from your childhood, past lives, and deep unconscious blueprints
- You start to awaken to unconditional love, and then when the person leaves, it feels like it’s gone (but it’s really not! I promise…)
- You have suicidal thoughts after they leave you, and you feel like your soul purpose is to be with them always and NOW (which it’s not, I promise! If it were, you’d be with them…)
- You feel like you’re off your orbit and you’ll never get it back
- You feel like you’re holding the pain of the entire universe inside of you; particularly, the abandonment of the Divine Feminine by the Divine Masculine at the beginning of this universe’s timeline
- Your runner abandoning you triggers you to feel a deep longing to go back to the past, like the future will never be the same, because something terrible has happened, a loss so deep it’s unrepairable
A Twin Flame Counterfeit comes into your life with all of the signs of the true Twin Flame, but there is something not quite right. A trauma occurs, and there is a blending of deep true divine love and an ancient heartache. A Twin Flame runner and chaser dynamic is an emotionally enervating and dysfunctional relationship dynamic that comes out of an unhealed trauma or wound in both partners.
What is Twin Flame Love?
People often misunderstand Twin Flame Love. They think that when they experience it for the first time, that it has to be the source that mattered. That that Joe or Jane was their Twin Flame because it was the first person to help her/him active the Twin Flame frequencies within. This is not the case.
Twin Flame Love energies are within all of us, and most of us have a lot of clearing to do to activate, reclaim, and heal our self-love and Twin Flame Love in order to attract the other half of our soul, our Twin Flame reincarnation.
Twin Flame runners and chasers serve a soul purpose
To end Twin Flame runner pain, we have to understand the purpose for them coming into our lives. We have to own that we are not victims, but we are healing an ancient pain that needs clearing pronto for our soul purpose mission and true Twin Flame to come in.
Often times Twin Flame runners are here simply to awaken your soul’s ancient love briefly, like a match igniting a candle, and then it blows out. But the candle stays lit, despite the fact that they are gone. It can be like a painful birthing process, where a new life is born, but there’s a descension happening in occurrence with your soul’s ascension, simultaneously. There is much soul growth and sometimes it can be exquisitely painful…Hang in there!
Are you ready to see the divine truth?
Twin Flame runners activate divine truth at the same time they illuminate lies and deception. You must master this dear child of God/dess! You are here to master of decoding the illusion of love so that you can step into the deepest truest unconditional, Divine Love. Be not afraid, you and your tiny human self will lick her wounds; you will heal, and you will be closer to the truth and to God/dess than you have ever been. You will become him/her indeed! This is the Twin Flame initiation, and it is not for the faint of heart.
Twin Flame chasers pine after you or you for them because the wound is so painful that you have unearthed, it’s a sacred wound held in the Divine Feminine within the collective. As the Divine Feminine Rising occurs, we must clear clear clear the old abuse and abandonment wounds within. We restore Her within us as we cleanse the pain. There is no love outside of you. You are love. Yet it is normal to want to run and chase after an illusion of love. This is the core mistake of the Twin Flame runner and chaser dynamic.
How do you know the difference between true Twin Flame Love, and a TFC?
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As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, people are always asking me, Amanda, How do I know if someone is my Twin Flame? And I always answer that you know when you know, and I highly recommend not rushing it. If it’s real and eternal and infinite, there’s nothing you could ever do to destroy it or push them away. Unless part of you wants to!
If you’re consulting psychics, oracles, daisies (he loves me, he loves me not…), then you are not yet living in a Twin Flame relationship. An adult Twin Flame relationship takes two whole balanced adult and committed people who are not living in a fantasy land where daisies predict the future. You and your Twin Flame don’t leave it up to the gods to take care of you, you control your destiny and you’re not waiting around for someone to come save you or be saving someone else.
Twin Flames allow each other to find each other and stay together when they’re ready. If you’re struggling and it’s not working and not in the flow, take time apart and heal yourself. Let go. Surrender the relationship. If it’s the real deal, s/he will come back. But you have to learn to let go and let God/dess and release the relationship that you’re clenching your teeth about.
If you haven’t seen my video about healing from Twin Flame Separation, you can do so HERE:
Twin Flame runners are here to awaken the ancient Twin Flame energies and clear past life karma
There may be bleed-throughs from many past lifetimes in which you and your Twin Flame Counterfeit were together and something painful happened that you still need to resolve. Perhaps it was a death, a betrayal, a judgement, or an abandonment, and you are here to complete that karmic soulmate relationship. Or, maybe you were connected to some gift together in a lifetime that needs healing. For instance, maybe you were a healer, a shaman, an high priestess and your Twin Flame energies got compromised when you were burnt at the stake and traumatized. Often times, I find my clients who have very strong karmic pulls towards so-called Twin Flames later on find out that they were madly in love because of a past life intense energy, and not a good one!
My Twin Flame Counterfeit karma tale
My somewhat embarrassing Twin Flame Counterfeit (TFC) story is that I was killed in a past life in New England for being a metaphysical practitioner, and my TFC and I both died together in that lifetime. In this lifetime, we had a similar karmic bleed-through and attracted a horrid situation which involved persecution, financial loss, and a death-like out of body experience which got me arrested and traumatized.
I was madly in love with my TFC and was certain that he was my Twin Flame, and I couldn’t imagine letting him go. It felt like a real death. Three years passed and through much healing and releasing work, I let him go and could finally move on.
But I was stuck in a crazy loop for nearly three years that I couldn’t get out of and was convinced he was the one for me! This is an example of how your so-called Twin Flame may be a TFC that has a deep karmic tie that you are here to clear and bring to the Light. That’s what Twin Flame runners and chases are for!
PS: Watch the Twin Flame Separation video here!
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker helping single spiritual women swiftly attract their Twin Flames. She is the founder of Aphrodite University, the first online Divine Feminine university for High-Healed Priestesses.
Is He a Real Fox or Just a Big Bad Wolf?
You met a guy, a crush, and you’re feeling it. He melts your heart and maybe your panties too. But is it safe to proceed? You’ve been badly hurt before and don’t want to ride that roller coaster again. So is he a real Twin Flame Fox, or just a Big Bad Wolf? Here’s how to tell…
Ignite your intuition!
ATTENTION: This guy could be a hippie big bad wolf in disguise and might be a player playing flower-child!Let your intuition decide!
The first thing is that you have to trust your intuition. From the outside, Twin Flame Foxes and Big Bad Wolves can appear the same, which is why you need a more spiritually refined gage, a metaphysical-man-thermometer of sorts.
There is nothing worse than getting stunned by the surprise bite of a wolf. The bite-and-run…I have seen it repeatedly. Really great-seeming guys who turn into wolves overnight when they get triggered by something that opens them to their insecurities.
Especially things like early childhood traumas, hidden subconscious energies, and financial issues. From one day to the next, they can go from sweet and soft healer-types, to cold and heartless Twin Flame runners. Ouch! That’s why it’s important to go slow so that you have time to see if you’re building your trust with the right partner. We are manifesting these bite-and-runs because they are simply reflecting our subconscious childhood wounds that need healing. Heal it, and move onto the next with better intuition next time!
Intuition is key. However, as women, we have all kinds of codependence issues and we fall in love too easily, lose our psychic space, so intuition can get overridden by our $h*t. That’s why I suggest going slow and read the signs better until you become a metaphysical-man-thermometer pro!
Slow down and shop for sustainable sexiness
A real fox is more than sexy on the outside. He’s more than just talk about spirituality, intimacy, and relationships. He has a sustainable sexiness. He’s there for you, and sticks with you through the dark periods. Doesn’t leave you for bust, and definitely doesn’t drop you for other ladies when you ‘get too complicated.’ Nope. He adores your complexity, adores your brilliance, and enjoys the depth of your Divine Feminine Love.
A True Twin Flame Fox can offer you the 3Cs, he can: communicate, connect, and commit. Otherwise Mr. Fox is going to turn you on, get your kundalini motor running, open your heart, and leave you hot, hurt, and dry, and burning for more when you can’t get it. For most women (there are exceptions), this isn’t the most pleasurable experience. We get attached and want to bond, and a runner is painful to our Divine Feminine loving energies.
Some Big Bad Wolves keep you in the relationship to feed off of your spirit, and enjoy your codependent tendencies. Beware! If you don’t see the 3Cs present in the relationship and he’s still around, think about whether or not you’re trapped in a love-illusion. When you’re trapped in codependence, there’s no room for growth, leadership, true connection or intimacy, because the relationship is based on fear, jealousy, and limitation.
A real True Twin Fox is only truly sexy when he’s really there for you, cares, and shows up fully. Even if it’s for a short-term relationship, he’s there with good communication and is 100%. He honors you as a goddess, communicates, loves who you are, and can speak with you about the future. He can tell you his fears, his desires, and you can decide like an adult if they align with your goals.
For instance, if you are looking for your Twin Flame and you’re dating someone who tells you he’s not looking for long term and just wants to “see where it goes,” get out. Get out now! You are not looking for self-esteem S&M, are you? You deserve the best. If you’re looking for a LTR (long term relationship), you deserve Twin Flame Love as a High-Healed Priestess. Here’s What Is a Twin Flame, video to help you understand more about the Twin Flame Therory:
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Beware the Big Bad Wolf
A big bad wolf is just bad for you; he opens old wounds, tears up your tender parts, doesn’t empathize with you, and he usually leaves you in the dust. You find his abandonment atrocious and attractive at the same time, because it feels like your familiar childhood pain.
Familiarity=love in our subconsciousness.
Maybe does it over and over again. Big Bad Wolfs are karmic soulmates and Twin Flame Counterfeits. While he’s not necessarily bad to the bone, he’s a part of your shadow showing you where you need healing. Twin Flame Runners are big bad wolves and I see that most of them are usually Twin Flame Counterfeits and never come back. I’ve worked with LOTS of women who have had TF runners; 95% don’t come back and aren’t the real deal.
We are attracted to Twin Flame Runners because our subconscious Divine Feminine energies resonate with the vibration of abandonment by the Divine Masculine. It’s an ancient memory and trauma held in our collective. We as Little Shakinas (daughters of the Divine Feminine) keep replaying the traumas in our lives and blaming ourselves, but it’s simply an old trauma-pattern that needs to be looked at, loved, and released. You are ready to heal. Your relationship failures, men leaving you, abandoning you for other women is not you. It’s not even a failure! It’s just a pattern revealing itself for healing. It’s a stuck pattern. Why else would you want to date “bad boys” when there are really great eligible men out there for you? Don’t let your Divine Feminine abandonment baggage get in the way! It’s over 5,000 years old and doesn’t have to exist anymore! Let’s unstick the pattern…
Let’s create a new Twin Flame relationship paradigm. It starts with us women, us Little Shakinas. It starts at the Divine Feminine by worshipping Her within us. We need to prepare ourselves for the Real Deal. The real deal real sexy foxes – they are good guys (or gals) who are available, emotionally stable, financially stead, ready, supportive, and ready to create a revolution with you. They are knights who defend the Divine Feminine and cannot wait to be close to you, support you, and connect! I am so psyched for you to reunite with them. Let go of the Big Bad Wolves, there is something much bigger out there for you.
Love and Light,
Dr. Amanda Noelle, The Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps High-Healed Priestesses turn their bliss into 6-figure BLI$$nesses and Twin Flame relationships that heal the world!
What Is a Karmic Soulmate? Five Signs of Karmic Soulmates
A karmic soulmate is a person who shares some sort of karmic attachment, energetic tie, or psychic agreement with you. It may be based on a past life, where you have energetics bleeding through from past lives that need to be resolved in this lifetime. Romantic karmic soulmate encounters can be very intense: very pleasurable, but often very disastrous, and can be confused with a Twin Flame relationship. They indeed often go from hot steamy romance and connection, to heartache and disappointment.
There are all kinds of karmic relationships, and some are romantic and others are Platonic (non-erotic love). There is usually an intensity common to karmic soulmate relationships, regardless of their romantic or Platonic nature. It can be a good feeling of intensity or love, or an unpleasant one. Here are the top five signs of the karmic soulmate, so that you don’t find yourself deep down the karmic soulmate rabbit hole.
Five signs of of a karmic soulmate:
1) He or she feels unusually familiar from the start
2) There is a strong attraction from the start, and perhaps even a confusing one that can be both push-pull, or even a repulsion type of attraction
3) There are huge lessons to be learned with the karmic soulmate
4) You have had a past life or multiple past lives together
5) There are non-romantic elements to the karmic soulmate lessons, such as business, sexuality lessons, finances, self-worth, beauty, etc.
How do you tell if someone is your Twin Flame, or just a karmic soulmate? Not all karmic soulmates are romantic agreements. “Soulmates” are simply people Spirit attracts to you to teach you a lesson to help your soul evolution. This can be a business soulmate, parent, child, friend, etc. Romantic karmic soulmates often hold an intensity brought through from past lives that can bring up a lot of childhood pain, abuse, neglect, fear, abandonment issues. There certainly can often be heartbreak associated with romantic karmic soulmates! The grief brought in by a karmic soulmate is not meant to be punishment or retribution; it’s meant to be healed and cleared. It is helpful to get healing and professional
Dr. Amanda Noelle, Twin Flame Matchmaker
support if you meet a karmic soulmate or Twin Flame Counterfeit if there is deep heartbreak. Twin Flame Runner and Twin Flame Matchmaker are in a sense always karmic soulmates to each other but in a healthy, wholesome, and supportive way. Regardless of whether or not the Twin Flame is real or false, it feels like Twin Flame Love, which is your own Twin Flame Love! Twin Flame separation and Twin Flame anxiety can be downright painful! To heal from a karmic soulmate, you need to end the attachment and contract agreement, which can be done either as a conscious and empowered decision, in meditation, or with a Twin Flame expert/intuitive.
Dr. Amanda Noelle, Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps stellar spiritual women swiftly manifest their Twin Flame.