3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets

3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets

Hi there Twin Flame Lover,

It’s Dr Amanda Noelle, here the Twin Flame Matchmaker, and today I am going to share with  you my 3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets for Light Speed Twin Soul Attraction.

Don’t you hate playing the waiting game while you’re in the dating game? Days, months, or even decades pass  you by and you find yourself single and disconnected from true love?

Maybe you’ve tried every online dating site or app under the sun, but all you’ve attracted are sagas, sad stories, and several heartbreaks…

Or, maybe you’ve gone the other way because you know about the Law of Attraction, where thoughts create things, so you’ve decided to give up searching, and start meditating on what you want, so you fly off to Bali to explore your bliss, journal about your envisioned life partner, hoping that Prince or Princess Charming might literally fall in your lap…

But then all that happened in Bali was a few sexy lap dances at the Yoga Barn during an Ecstatic Dance, and you flew back home empty-handed and empty-lapped too!

SIGH!

Perhaps lately, you’ve come to the conclusion that neither of these approaches work! It’s NOT about having the perfect dating strategy or algorithms; nor is it just about using esoteric spiritual concepts while floating on a cloud of your own shaky slowly awakening consciousness.

Yes, let’s admit, none of us here are enlightened masters yet, and if you say you are you probably know that you have a way to go to reach Nirvana and align it with a partner who doesn’t freak out and run away from your blinding light.

We’re all just kindergarteners on Earth when it comes to love. Maybe some of us are 3rd graders or 6th graders, but al of us are healing our broken hearts scarred by millennia of heartbreaks, and heart shut down, that has kept the Twin Flames apart.

I know you are probably a very wise and loving person if you’re here on a Twin Flame path, doing your best to reunite with your “other half” but if you’re still single or stuck in the Twin Flame Runner Phase, you probably don’t have a solid idea around what actually will pull in your Twin Flame fast.

And I know you don’t have forever, don’t want to wait years to caress and co-create with your True Love, and that you simply cannot afford another artery-rupturing heartbreak! That’s why these 3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets are arriving you at perfect timing. You deserve them, and you deserve your Twin Flame, a mirror to your soul.

Yet I also know there’s a lot of misinformation out there on the internet, and it’s hard to tell what approach to take when it comes to attracting a divine partner, or what is just for the sell.

You need information that is tried and true, easy enough to apply, and that gets real results.

What you don’t need is just another theory taught by someone who either (a) never broke a nail (or heart) seeking their Twin Flame because they were born with golden karma that makes it look SO easy, or (b) those who are teaching and preaching but who are just as single as the clients they’re attempting to help find their mate.

Now I don’t want to shame anyone or finger point–I myself was a little hopeless in my love search 5 years ago and I still made a killer matchmaker, for what I lacked in ability to apply my advice to my own life, I was able to support giving service to others….

I also know that there are people here on the planet who have it easy when it comes to finding a Twin Flame or soulmate, they were just born lucky, or it’s not their karma or dharma (soul purpose) to untangle shitty Twin Flame codes of ancestral entanglement. These people didn’t have to work on themselves for years or decades getting stuck in what I call “Shitty Love Codes” – where the karma is as thick as molasses and you keep spinning your wheels the harder you try!

I have to admit I am envious of these types of people, and I honestly think I will choose an easier Twin Flame path my next lifetime. But at least I have good karma now to serve myself and my Twin Flame clients and friends who are equally blocked in the love department!

So this is Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #1: Release Envy of Other Twin Flame Couples and Teachers, and replace it with Love and Gratitude.

So I had to learn to laugh at my Twin Flame envy problem, and learn to send love to those happy cover issue couples, and not point fingers at anyone who meets their Twin Flame on like the 3rd try (gosh DARN them, I think mine was the 3,000th attempt!) as finger pointing never helps, especially because through the Twin Flame Mirror finger pointing means that you’re just pointing that pretty little pointer at yourself! And we don’t want to do that either, because basically it sets us up for failure, envy, and single-DOOM!

This brings up Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #2: It’s Shame-Shedding.

What are you ashamed most ashamed of?

How is pushing your Twin Flame away from you protecting you from facing your shame?

What experience in your past remains unhealed that is keeping you stuck playing the stuck-in-shame single-game?

I was a High-Healed Priestess wobbling through MOUNDS of shame; for years I went to weddings a lonely single girl pretending that I was cool with it, but I was truly ashamed of my insecurities that were keeping me single. I watched all of my childhood, high school, and college friends ride off into their fairytale on a white horse into the sunset while I stewed in my single shame and some slight rage about it to boot!

YES, I had serious shame issues, especially in my 20s, because I was so stuck in the un-mastery of Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #1 – I was so envious and compared myself to everyone else, which beat my ego down to the point where I was a mockery of myself.

I went from being an A-playing Ivy League overachiever sorority girl with guys asking her out on dates, and a sexy body,, and at least a sense of FAKE confidence, to being lost, broke, full of candida/fatigue, and I was heartbroken to the point that I was making on average 5,000 dollars a year and dating men with whom I had absolutely NO future. It was sad, and I was so ashamed!

Was I a victim of this? Or was I creating my own reality based on unresolved shame…

It turns out that I had experienced several things during my childhood, wounds and traumas that left me feeling safe, scared, and scared in the world and I concluded I was on some level a shame to be seen and just a shame period!

Developmental Psychologist Bruce Lipton says that 95% of our thoughts are tucked away in our subconscious mind.

So in my subconscious shame state, I decided to do what every spiritual girl with any self-respect does: I found a way to sabotage myself and my shot at finding my Twin Flame for over a decade.

I found really advanced ways of hiding and bypassing my shame from the world.

I used advanced techniques like, “I’m spiritual so I don’t care about anything ego related, money, dating etc” and I went counter-culture alternative and cut myself off from society and immersed myself in the alternative Burning Man and yoga, and tantra and ecstatic dance communities that I didn’t have to face myself anymore and the eyes of my competitors.

Shame is never the way to get your ultimate true love, or get anything you want, at least not in the long term.

Sure, shame is a sure fire impetus to get you out there and dating–since no one wants to be that old maid or perpetually single gal who feels like she has an infectious disease that might rubs off on society.

But instead of shame we must create deep compassion to call in a life long partnership, a lasting marriage, or a Twin Flame Union. When we convert our shame (a negative energy) into self-acceptance and compassion (a positive energy) we neutralize the energy that repels a Twin Flame into one that attracts a Twin Flame.

It’s not about hiding your shame, it’s about showing up in your shame and loving yourself. Even laughing at yourself!

Can you go on dates and see the hilariousness of it all? You want to be in a sacred union more than anything, you try so hard at it, and it’s the one thing that you have absolutely sucked at? When you can love this and laugh at this, I guarantee you the energy will lighten up and you’ll get closer to your Beloved.

While I know it’s hard not to get swept up in the story, “Well everyone else seems to be getting happily hitched,” or “Why does she have her Twin Flame and all I have is heartbreakers!”  But that will only lay you down into a spiral of shame and you’ll come from fear, envy, and competition and your lovers will thus be fearful, envious, and competitive and that’s NOT sexy! Change the thought patterns to: “Thank you Universe for showing me these happy Twin Flame Couples!” They are showing you what you desire, and also parts of what you may not desire so you can manifest accordingly.

This brings up Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #3 Heal your ancestral stories

Is your Twin Flame not coming into your reality because you have Shitty Love Codes stuck in your DNA?

Where are your parents, family members and ancestors happy or unhappy in their relationships?

Epic genetics are real. genes and DNA can be manipulated by a person’s beliefs. Examples….

Signs that you have epigenetics funking up your Twin Flame Attraction process is:

  1. No matter what you do you’re still stuck
  2. You know of ancestors who never got into a healthy relationship
  3. Everyone in your family is worried about your dating habits and  you can’t figure out why you’re so effed up! That’s when it skips a generation usually

Do you have epigenetic glitches in your Twin Flame DNA?

This may take some digging around either asking family members, doing genealogical research to fully understand how your genes and DNA have be thrown off track by your ancestors’ negative experiences and beliefs.

Oftentimes, children of Holocaust survivors have terrible nightmares where they are being chased, persecuted, tortured or killed, as if they were re-living the Second World War. Some even suffer from debilitating anxiety and depression disorders that block their ability to cope with stress. This can even prevent them from functioning at work and within society. These individuals exemplify how humans can absorb repressed emotions and energy such as those experienced during their ancestors’ Holocaust trauma. We can and do inherit the unconscious minds of our parents and ancestors, yet we can also un-inherit by becoming conscious of the patterns and finding solutions to heal them back into healthy “codes” in the DNA.

What Is Feminine Energy?

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Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

Touch Yourself to Touch Your Twin: How to Attract Your Twin Flame Through Orgasm

Touch Yourself to Touch Your Twin: How to Attract Your Twin Flame Through Orgasm

So this isn’t a tip your mother would tell you about, but it works. As a Twin Flame Matchmaker with a proven track record of helping single spiritual women swiftly attract their Twin Flames, I swear by this powerful Twin Flame Attraction tool.

I Touch Myself (when I think about you) was a song I really liked at age ten, before I knew what it meant. What I also didn’t know then is that the vocalist Chrissy Amphlett probably increased her psychic connection with the person she was touching herself about, whether it was her Twin Flame, or just the next lover she wanted to bring in. This post, Touch Yourself to Touch Your Twin: How to Attract Your Twin Flame Through Orgasm, I will share how and why orgasm can align you with your one true beloved.

Oh, and if you haven’t seen it already, I made a video that has gone a little viral, called How To Manifest Your Twin Flame With Orgasm. You can watch it here:

How To Manifest Your Twin Flame With Orgasm

Why Become a Twin Flame Sex Magnet?

The truth is that sexual energy is a very potent, attractive, healing and cleansing energy. Orgasmic energy is magnetic, electric, and only exists in the now.  When we are in the state of orgasm, we are in the present moment because the energy is flowing so quickly, it becomes one with the Higher Dimensions; darkness and stuck energy cannot exist there, so we can easily release the past.

Twin Flame masterbation is a phenomenal tool to bring in liquid light to the 7 chakras, to expedite Twin Flame healing, and to clear the blocks and past traumas. Most people who have met and married their Twin Flame will admit that it’s not been an easy road to arrive at the Twin Flame Union. It takes years of growth, lessons, and healing to align your 7 chakras to self-love (Twin Flame Love is self-love). You must heal your past hurts, pain, and inner child trauma. Then, you get to your Twin as a reward (and there is so much more healing work to come – it’s never-ending work, but hopefully more blissful and with bigger perks).

Thus, orgasms are an ideal time to send out your prayers and intentions.

To call in your Twin Flame, you can tell the Universe that you are ready for him or her through a prayer before, during, and after orgasm.

During our orgasmic state, our wishes, desires, and intentions can be sent to the universe at light speed. We are also more consciously connected to our Soul Family, Twin Flame, and our Oversoul during orgasm. We naturally enter a very open channeled state. Have you ever noticed how spiritually lucid you are after an orgasm?

You can experience orgasms with the soul of your Twin Flame before the Twin Flame Reunion happens in the physical world.

Think about Twin Flame masturbation as chakra target practice, fueling up the fire and desire on the spiritual level, so that you can converge in the physical. It is possible that your Twin Flame could be feeling your orgasmic energies too, so that by the time you meet you’re already experienced with one another!

30 Steps: How to do a Twin Flame Masturtation (Masturbation + Meditation)

  1. Set sacred space (light candles, play music, etc) in your silky sheets or wherever you may be
  2. Never assume you know who your Twin Flame is unless they’re in 100% agreement to committing to you (I meet hundreds of people who think they know who their Twin Flame is but it’s often a Karmic Soulmate coming in from a trauma/past wound or karma). Be open to the mystery in this meditation
  3. You might want to give yourself a gentle full body massage with coconut oil, rose essential oils, sandalwood, frankincense or any other sacred oils that call you
  4. I take a bite of raw chocolate to activate my physical energy centers (Edible Goddess is the highest vibration I can find)
  5. Call in your angels for psychic protection, or use your favorite psychic protection tools
  6. As you begin to touch yourself, start to feel your 7 chakras flowing and flooding with light
  7. Anchor your root chakra to the center of the earth (Mother Earth) with intentions of grounding
  8. Anchor your crown chakra to the cosmos (Father Sky) with intentions of expanding
  9. Bring in a golden thread of light from your cosmic energy to your earth energy, going back and forth, Divine Feminine Earth to Divine Masculine cosmos
  10. Feel your heart “pedals” unfolding, where the earth and sky merge within your body
  11. Envision your sacred sexual centers activating, water and fire coming together
  12. If you are female, contract your yoni and begin to call in your Twin Flame with pulsations and contractions
  13. The job of the feminine is to call in the masculine energy. So if your Twin Flame is the more masculine side of your soul, then call his/her energy in with the energy of the void
  14. Feel the sexiness of your body, mind, and soul. Validate yourself “I am worthy of my Twin Flame”
  15. See or imagine his or her aura coming into the room to meet you, 7 light chakras in the room
  16. As he or she enters your field of light, feel it, study it, savor it. Welcome him or her and see where you connect first
  17. Some Twin Flames connect at the heart first, others may connect at the crown, and others may connect with their 2nd chakras if they are passionate lovers first and foremost. We all have our archetypes!
  18. Adore him or her, and receive the same. Let her or him see you. Drink each other up
  19. Then, this is the fun part. Let your imagination run wild, and experience and play with as many fantasies as you wish!
  20. At some point, call him/her into your g-spot. You will be guided when to do this
  21. Always keep in mind that you are a healer bringing darkness into light, and you’re healing the past into a blissful now. Avoid staying in dark fantasies or engaging with entities

    I highly recommend you don’t judge yourself for anything you see or desire. You may have past lives that need clearing or to be remembered. You may have fantasies that seem strange or unhealthy.

  22. Just hold space from the Higher Self and ask for a clearing of all dark energies or anything that no longer serves
  23. Allow your Twin Flame to support you in healing past wounds, clearing traumas, and releasing the past by envisioning him or her with you as a witness at your side, holding your hand or hugging you
  24. If you were heartbroken, abused, or raped in the past in any way, ask for the loving energy that you need to receive in order to heal. Your Twin Flame is your reflection, so he/she will want this healing for you if you want it for you
  25. During orgasm, allow your Twin Flame’s male seed energy to come into the center of your womb, entering the sacred void space
  26. When hitting the end of your peak orgasmic state, send out a wave or really a grid of light and see it being wrapped around the earth. Ask your Higher Self to find and activate your Twin Flame with this love activation!
  27. Allow for your Divine Feminine energies to receive his/her Divine Masculine energies.
  28. Allow the orgasm to filter into your whole body – don’t hold back no matter how scary it feels. Women, you may have a female ejaculation or not
  29. After orgasm, you may want to take journal, as you want to remember any downloads you may need. You can ask any questions you have, like: “Where will I meet you?” or, “What do I need to do to prepare for you?” or, “What is in the way of our Twin Flame Reunion?”

Wow, I see you cumming right along into the path of your Twin Flame. Enjoy the healing, the play, and know that Twin Flame Love is the eternal medicine we are simply remembering. It’s awakening Divine Love, and resurrecting a Heaven on Earth.

Namaste! Amanda

PS – What’s really a pleasure is supporting women who are smart, successful, and single like you to call in their Twin Flames fast. If you are ready and you want my support, apply for a complimentary Twin Flame Activation Session here (a $697 value!).

How to Manifest Your Twin Flame Quickly! Three Flaming Hot Tips to Ignite Twin Flame Love

How to Manifest Your Twin Flame Quickly! Three Flaming Hot Tips to Ignite Twin Flame Love

As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have found that there are so many women and men who get stuck in gloom and doom when it comes to attracting their soulmate or Twin Flame, and they stay stuck and single when they don’t have to! We are more powerful than we know, as we are reflections of our Creator (whatever you call this powerful force), so we can create what our heart desires!

twin flame loversThis article will help you manifest your Twin Flame as fast as humanly possible, because I know when you want it you want it now…or yesterday! But trust me, Twin Flame manifestation can be ridiculously fast if you tune into the Field of Universal Creation and surrender to the forces that be! I have helped clients, fans, and friends manifest their Twin Flames in as little has a few days, and in one instance, within a few hours!  It’s a pretty magical energy to witness and to see physicalized, especially when I get invited to the wedding and get to sip champagne smugly thinking about how great a matchmaker I am 🙂 I just love love and am proud to be a holder of the Aphrodite Touch!

What not to do? Get stuck in a pit of despair

Don’t despair if you’re feeling single and stuck today, as you really can’t predict what is going to happen tomorrow (or you can if you stay positive and make it happen!).  Sometimes even the most desperate and despairing women come to me with only one last tiny shred of hope, and I get them to surrender to their ultimate Divine Love, a well within them, and we bust some blockages and POOF! It’s truly delightful to watch them U-turn around into their heart’s desires and manifest that magical partner they’ve been waiting for for…forever!

twin flame manifestationThis article, How to Manifest Your Twin Flame Quickly will help you immensely if:

  • You have been working on yourself for a long time to be the best you can be, and feel that you’re truly ready to attract your beloved
  • You’re healthy, on an emotional, physical, financial, and spiritual level
  • You’re certain that you’re on a Twin Flame path, not just a Karmic Soulmate path; you are here to meet the soulmate of soulmates, the one true Twin Flame
  • Meeting and marrying your Twin Flame has been a huge calling for a long time, and it’s frustrating not to have him/her yet!
  • You are fully devoted to self-improvement and spiritual growth, and your Twin Flame will be a partner who supports you to grow further and faster
  • You have a big heart, and it’s overflowing – your love needs somewhere to go!
  • You have a huge soul purpose and you want your Twin Flame to join you for the ride to enjoy co-creating your most magnificent life to make this world a better place
  • You’re willing to throw your skepticism out the window for just a moment and will just shut up and listen to what this Twin Flame Matchmaker has to say!

Alright darling, let’s get down to BLI$$ness, and share the top secrets to helping you ring in the Twin Flame partner and fast.  Disclaimer: some of these tips aren’t for the weak, so buckle up and hunker down and be strong… whatever you do, don’t give up on love! Now let’s get your Twin Flame groove on.

twin flame attractionTip #1: Get Happy Being YOU as a Single Gal or Guy

You complete yourself. Your Twin Flame partner will be able to smell you from a mile away, as we’re all energetically sensitive beings and we have fantastic instincts. The question to ask is: Would you want to be with you? If you’re unhappy in your life, he or she is going to sense that gloom, and it’s not going to be a turn on. Men are attracted to happy and fulfilled goddesses flowing with nectar, just like bees are attracted to the sweet perfumed nectar of a flower.

To avoid: the Single Woman’s Vicious Cycle

What I see commonly in my clients is what I call the ‘Single Woman’s Vicious Cycle’ where you start getting lonely, and loneliness breeds depression, gloom, and hopelessness. Then you start dating the wrong people, lowering the bar and feeling desperate, feeling sorry for yourself, and doing silly things like staying in on Friday night with Ben and Jerry’s instead of following your heart’s deepest desires! You might even gain a a few pounds in the process and use that as an excuse not to be dating at the moment. Girl, you gotta get off the couch, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and do whatever you can to get happy and excited, there is a great guy or gal waiting out there and s/he’s reserved for YOU!

twin flame brideLet me clarify that I am not saying that you have to be happy with being single forever; I am just saying that a happy girl will attract more happiness and at the divinely perfect moment, a happy partnership.  So do whatever it takes to be happy: join activities, social groups, exciting organizations that get your energy running fast. Choose to stay positive! Get your life moving in the fast lane….Work that body and get a good sweat on with daily workouts with a few breaks a week.  Listen to music that pumps you up – you know, those sexy songs that make you wanna go look in the mirror and dance and check yourself out. You gotta start to feel like the bell of the ball in your own universe, and this will make the others’ heads turn and hearts beat in your rhythm.

To manifest your Twin Flame, really dive deep into celebrating life! It’s short anyways, and the sooner you  get into the positive vibration, you will bring in a partner who reflects this love for life! Do you want to attract someone who is stuck and lonely? So don’t be stuck and lonely, get out there, have fun doing whatever weird hobbies suit you and be in a bliss vibration. You might not attract a partner at your 80s night girls night, but you will be covered in rainbow bliss vibes that he’ll pick up on the next day in the cafe.

You will always attract the perfect reflection of you or what you need to work on – why not magnetize a happy reflection!

TAKE ACTION: BLI$$ HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT

To get happy and excited, I really recommend becoming a manifestations collaging nerd. Go gather magazines and play music that gets you juicy and ready to birth your dream.  Then start collaging the relationship and life that you’re ready to be leading, and feel yourself manifesting it into 3D as you put together your creation down. Think of it as a BLI$$ness plan for your love life!  Vivid pictures will implant subconscious messages in your mind. Don’t worry if this sounds abstract or weird, I have lots of clients who question the assignment but swear by it afterward when what they’ve collaged shows up in their life.

Tip # 2 Declutter Your Past

twin flame kundaliniThe past is what holds our icky relationship limitation stuff. You gotta take out the trash! Though the past serves us as a teacher, teaching us what we want and what we don’t, the past is also where I see people holding onto old blockages that slow down the Twin Flame manifestation. Remember that there is nothing but the now, and you want to get a high vibrating happy life now! It’s time to create a new canvas by letting go of old childhood pain, things that represent awkward times in your life, sad times, and past relationships. Keep the gems of these experiences, but let go of anything that does not serve you now.

Decluttering time! Why keep around all those old FB pics of exes, or the scarf from the Amalfi Coast he gifted you on your birthday (I know it’s cute but get rid of it already!) when it just reminds you of the sad breakup afterward? Go and release anything that represents struggle, relationship strife, or any old attachment to someone that will compete or inhibit your Twin Flame relationship from coming in. Think of everything…you might even want to let go of that expired last name from your ex husband!

Go through all aspects of your life: declutter each of the rooms in your home, let go of anything not working for you in your current friendships, reevaluate your career, upgrade your lingerie collection, and go through all your clothes. Release anything that’s not an 7 out of 10 or more in your life! Let go of anything that doesn’t fit you like a glove for the absolutely joyful and magnificent Twin Flame relationship you’re calling in.  It’s time to create your life your way, a portal of bliss. Lots of women prepare for their Twin Flames by becoming man-pleasers, but they only end up in men who expect them to do one thing: please them! Design a life of pleasure surrounding you that pleases you first, and you will have a very happy man like a bee buzzing around your flower in BLI$$!

Tip #3 Radical Self-Acceptance

radical self acceptanceI know that this tip seems like it’s going to contradict the ones above, but that’s the beauty of radical self-acceptance!  You are perfect the way you are!  This one is such a fun paradox. The reality is, when you meet and marry your Twin Flame, you will be married to each others’ imperfections for life (we hope!) and this means that you’re going to have to learn how to accept yourself first. Sure it’s nice to try to be a happy superhuman all the time, and it’s a fun game to see how much you can grow and become a super goddess. Yet you are simply a human! And we get things like bad breath, bad credit, and bad kinky thoughts. So what!? So does every other living breathing thing, and the sooner we accept this, the sooner we can move forward and celebrate.

Which of the three tips is the most important? I’d say the latter…What do you think?  Please post your comments below and let me know what other tips you have to share.