Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.
Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...
Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.
In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.
I pretty much experience earthly orgasmic ecstasy daily now, without drugs, shamanic medicine, medication, or even meditation really… But trust me, it wasn’t always that way…
Only two years ago, I was forced to heal myself from some pretty severe depression stuff that was going on for two and a half years, due to a bad breakup which triggered my Dark Night of the Soul. All my childhood and past life issues came up at once, flooding into my consciousness for purging, leaving me feeling traumatized, out of control, and terrified of whether or not it would ever end.
But I healed it all! I received help along the way from family, friends, a shrink, some shamans, acupuncture, and various healing modalities; all of it helped a little, bit by bit, but none of it really did the trick and the pain kept with me into year three, which was scary. It felt like nothing was fully working to soothe my pain and grief, until I discovered a incredible secret I am about to share (and two other good healthy suggestions as well).
Funny thing is that I only figured out yesterday exactly how I healed my Dark Night depression and doom and gloom. I mean I knew I felt better, but I didn’t realize exactly where the healing event occurred! So I have a huge revelation and secret trick to share…Wanna know how to clear depression permanently and naturally? Here’s the biggest secret ever, so you can live magically, feel in love with yourself and life, and live soulfully once again too!
Here’s me after I healed my Dark Night of the Soul
First of all, a brief disclaimer that depression should be treated by a pro doctor or shrink blah blah blah, and that the info contained here is just one gal’s opinion and we don’t hold me accountable for sharing my brilliant words. But yep, I do consider myself to be a pretty bright shining shaman who can help you only because I have treated my own issues myself with divine love and success, so here goes.
Oh, and second of all, if you are going through a killer bad ass painful heartbreak with a beloved, a death, or a death-like end of a relationship, keep reading, ‘cuz this blog’s for you! I send you so much unconditional love, empathy, and cheerleading, because I know you can do it, I did!
These are my three steps to recovering from a severe heartache and Dark Night depression, naturally.
The first step is to reawakening the God/dess Self. Girl, you gotta reconnect to your God/dess Self, or Higher Self, or whatever you call it. You have to surrender and trust to the highest place in your divinity. You’re probably in pain because your soul wants you to wake up to the Light, so she’s brining you over to the Dark Side to force you to turn your Light on. Do it! Connect to the God Light within you.
No matter what religion or spiritual school you grew up with or still believe in, let it go for a moment. Just connect to pure divinity. Connect to the force of Light in you that has carried through every situation in your life, and in every past life. Tune into your original spark. Align with the Divine Love inside of you.
You must awaken to your Higher Self now, and surrender the pain to your God Self.
How do you do it exactly? It’s hard to explain, but you have to keep playing with it until it clicks. You can pay shamans to help heal you, but ultimately you can only do it for yourself. It takes courage, but you will figure it out.
Devote your soul to your soul: ask your soul questions, start trusting her, honor her needs, start feeling your pain and emotions, and begin soothing it with your own soul’s love. Your soul is an ancient teacher and healer here to help.
Reconnecting the disconnects from your God Self requires tender and constant nurturing. It also requires reparenting the inner child, as there is a parallel between your inner child’s relationship with her mom and pop, and your soul’s trust in the Divine Mother and Divine Father. You will project whatever you experienced from good ol’ mom and dad during childhood onto God/Goddess; so until you fix and figure out those patterns, you’ll be repeating the damage and limits. It’s not fun to be living a life in a lie, in a perspective that there is no God, or that God betrayed you simply because your parents did, or at least perceived that they did. God never would betray you! It’s legally impossible (based on Divine Law) – though it’s easy to set up subconscious beliefs like “God betrays me,” so you keep attracting experiences that reflect this belief. Try repeating affirmations like “God never betrays me and never has,” and see how that feels instead.
Ask to be reconnected to Father Mother God and your Higher Self now in a prayer. Rituals help. Comfort and soothe yourself. You are a great inner mama and contain the Divine Mother within you!
The next step is pretty bold, but if you live to be happy, I really do suggest you follow this one.
The second step is to connect to your solar and stellar origins via spending time in sun and starlight. Which bridges Divine Light into your physical structures (aka the body) consciousness, happy mood, and spirit.
Spend as much time as possible connecting with the sun and stars. Get outdoors as much as possible. Quit your burdensome lifestyle indoors. Take breaks more often.
I know this may require a lot of you, and it may seem unrealistic now because you have your whole life centralized around taking care of people and things that require you to stay in doors and away from the natural light. But I say FUKKIT, it’s your job to nourish your soul and your body, and you can’t stay imprisoned forever…
The ‘Illuminati,’ is a reflection of our shadow selves, which is embedded in our subconsciousness, as well as DNA strands, and in the waters of the earth. It needs to be healed and aligned with Light to clear depression.
Don’t freak out about it, but the Illuminati is present within everything until it gets cleared – within our culture, collective consciousness, in our government and work systems, in our food and health, and ultimately in our spirits and psychologies. But it can be cleared and upgraded! Illuminati is basically just another word for ‘energy that eliminates the Light.” Everything is a code written into the Divine Computer of all that is. Illuminati energy shows up in its code form when we choose to limit bliss and follow fear. When we say yes to slavery, say yes to poverty and struggle, when we say yes to staying indoors, boxed in cubicles like chickens in a cage, when we are OK abusing our bodies, limiting our creativity and passions, staying married to jobs and people who don’t suit us our our Divine gifts, we are saying yes to Illuminati energy.
Get Light, get happy. It’s time to move away from the polluted cities for a bit, start stargazing, and I swear it will make all of the difference.
Here’s the big secret that changed me and permanently healed like 99% of my depression. It’s spending time in the sea among coral! Who would have guessed?
There is something soul activating about coral, and I have downloaded that it is where we come from. So it’s like this rebirthing place within the womb, and so we get to reset the codes within our bodies and our own divine computer! Water holds memory and is the most basic storage device that is almost an exact replica on a molecular structure level as a silicon chip in your computer storage device. Gaia’s ocean in pure areas will clear and clean your chakras, your DNA, and activate your Light Body as well as your physical body. You can even follow traditions of clearing the body by drinking salt water (do this under supervision as it will cause diarrhea and a detox reaction!) to purify yourself.
What I can say is that when I came here to this snorkel haven a few years ago in the depth of my pain, I opened myself to the healing energies of the ocean and it felt amazing! I went from crabby and stuck to aligned. I suggest spending time on a tropical island with sand, sun, snorkeling, and clean food. Not much else, and ask to connect to your Higher Self, your God Self and you will heal your soul.
To your bliss and joy!
Dr. Amanda Noelle is the Twin Flame Matchmaker and Founder of Aphrodite University where shamanic high priestesses turn their bliss into monayyyy so they can travel, rise the Goddess temples and create lives to love for!
Applying Twin Flame Law of Attraction to attract your Twin Flame or soulmate is great, but you can’t do it using Twin Flame affirmations, visualization and energy work alone. Mr. or Ms. Right won’t show up up on your doorstep unless you put in a little effort in the ‘real world’ too. Here are four sizzling hot tips to help you meet your Twin Flame fast by playing big, bold, and fearlessly in your Twin Flame dating world!
Tip Number One: Just get the F$%k out There!
I know you might not want to face it, but you’ve gotta start taking action and get moving, shaking, and dating if you haven’t been lately. The molecules should be dancing and spinning at an ‘I am dating and ready!’ frequency in order for your Twin Flame to arrive in your world. We High-Healed Priestesses can often get lazy when it comes to dating because we get stuck in the spiritual world and often hide there. We make vision boards, write our Twin Flame affirmations, and never get around to actually dating…
Who cares if you’re pretty, popular, or perfect? You deserve love now because you are a Divine creation of the Creator!
Take bold little steps every day. For instance, when you’re in line at the grocery store and like someone, casually chat with him/her. Or even ask him out! Flirt with people by asking them where they got their clothes. Men often like really dumb questions, so don’t get hung up on the words. A simple smile often will do to get things started.
One of my favorite pick up lines that really works is saying this word with a smile: “Hi!”
My friend Rhea needed to snag her crush before he walked out of the door on the night we did her Twin Flame activation ritual (we were in a pub and it seemed as if her crush was going to leave soon). I told her to run up to him fast and talk to him, and suggested she ask him something random. So she asked him if he was from Texas. He said No, he was from Sweden! Flattered by her bravery, it was love at first sight, they moved in together within a few weeks, and it made one of my favorite Twin Flame success stories success stories!
What do you have to lose? Be bold and playful. Ask him/her to ask you out. Joke and use physical touch to get his attention, even just a little pat on the back or graze of your hand on his. Men love being lightly showered with touch and attention, as do women!
Approach your fears online if it calls you
Ain’t no shame in going cyber-lovin’! Go Twin Flame online dating if you haven’t tried it lately and you feel open to it. A lot of women resist online dating, but a whopping one third of U.S. married couples met online! This third may not be you just because you decide to hit up the internet for a few dates. If you totally don’t resonate with online dating, just go onto one of the websites and “shop” for men as an exercise, women always get a giggle from this at least, and it puts us in a dating energy. You may browse OK Cupid and not even have to go on an actual date there to meet your soulmate, but the cyber dating energy can be good. It’ll help you get out there, out of your head, possibly out of your house, and back in the dating pool again if it’s been a while. I’ve heard of some women signing up on spiritual dating sites and then randomly meeting their spiritual partner offline a few days later because they put the energy out there!
Resistance to Success: Online Dating Success Story
My client Jenna hadn’t been on a date in over 6 years. Though she was an amazing goddess--smart, bright, successful, beautiful, and loved to travel, she’d hit a bad heartbreak and then a rut. Before that, she’d dated a slew of bad boyz who didn’t honor the amazingness that she is. She was so super resistant to going online dating, but I told her to get over it and just try it out. So, we worked together on getting her on *a date* to get her back into “dating shape.” So she posted her profile on OKcupid.com, and within a week she’d dated two really great guys! Her skin glowed, her confidence started coming back, and she felt sexy again. Guess what happened? Within only a few short weeks, she met handsome Seth, her awesome soulmate/Twin Flame partner and they lived pretty darn happily ever after, and have two gorgeous Starchildren.
Moral of the story: get online asap, even using Facebook as your safe playground. Especially if you haven’t tried online dating, or if you have been dateless for more than a year. Try out a new site if you have been glued to the same one and haven’t been getting results. Start taking action, it’ll get the energy moving.
Various clients and friends of mine who have been through a dating dry spell will initially get online as a tool to get the juices flowing. Then, with boosted confidence, they’ll randomly meet a guy at the coffee shop, or notice someone at work and end up dating offline, thinking “Why haven’t I met him before!?” Boys attract more boys through the Law of Male Competition. Everyone wants a queen bee. Moral of the story: online dating breeds more dating! Get out there and try it out.
Bottom line: be bold and do things you don’t normally do.
You don’t have to go online, it’s just an option. What’s more important is to just get out there and spread your love! So also do things just for you that knock your socks off, that are outside of the box. Take a salsa class, or cooking lesson, or hit up a comedy club with a new friend. Try a vegetarian meetup or start your own one. Get out of your boring daily/weekly rhythm to bring in fresh romance energy. Maybe even get far far away… Take a Twin Flame pilgrimage to that country you’ve always wanted to see! It doesn’t hurt to travel to meet your Twin Flame. Dress a little sexier if you’re normally in sweats… Do something that gets you out of the house even on a chilly day. Girl, just take your pick, make your move, and dive into bliss!
It’s also important to nourish yourself within and take time for yourself of course, and here’s a bath I recommend for Twin Flame Love: Twin Flame Love Spell Bath Recipe.
Tip Two: Don’t Worry About Getting Rejected
Although it goes against our natural instincts, getting rejected is the best medicine to attract your Twin Flame. It means that you’re able to love yourself most of all when it appears that God (or in this case, some man or human specimen) doesn’t love and adore you back.
Who cares if he doesn’t like you back?! Go find someone who will! In truth, you are God’s lovechild, and there’s no reason not to be loved… However, you do have to realize the somewhat harsh fact that you simply won’t be loved in that soulmate way by all beings because that’s just how it works – and it would be really complicated. Would you want three million karmic soulmates knocking on your door? I think not! It’s funny how obsessed we become about not being rejected, when truly the main goal should be to get accepted by our one true perfect match.
Finally, I work with many women who have suffered from body image/self-esteem issues, like I have myself. We beat ourselves up for not being perfect and convince ourselves that we have to change in order to get an attractive guy to love us. Don’t fall for it! It was all a misinterpretation from a shampoo ad campaign you watched in the 80s. Real men want real women; humans like honest and real organic beauty more than sliced and diced makeup perfection. Despite what the cosmetic sales people or plastic surgeons may tell you (it’s probably for their children’s college tuition, so don’t take it personally).
Just a little beauty accenting and color highlights for fun and play is OK. Don’t go overboard. Allow your own true beauty to shine through to attract your Twin Flame with your authentic self. If he rejects you because you have a zit or some larger pores or a cellulite butt like I have, move on; that’s not true love! Your Twin Flame will love all of you and find you absolutely sexy.
Tip Three: Activate Your PU$$Y Power
What!? What’s PU$$Y Power? Click here to get a fuller definition. PU$$Y Power is the Divine Feminine fertile almost feline-like energy that can attract anything to through an ancient magic secrets. It is based in your womb and yoni (vagina) area, and it’s also known as the Holy Grail, Sangraal, and is the essence of Divine Feminine creation. To activate your PU$$Y Power, you have to connect with the Divine Feminine aspect of your root chakra and sacral chakra. You have to fall in love with your sacred sexuality, your body, and love your yoni (pussy!). Watching this video will help activate your precious PU$$Y:
Tip Four: Be yourself
As tempting as it is to play the “perfect girl” to win love by someone who thinks you’re the cat’s PJs and best actress in town, pretending to be someone you’re not is going to get old real fast. Real fast.
Start the date/relationship by just being yourself. This will pay off BIG! Let your true colors fly. It doesn’t mean that you cannot impress your potential mate, or even shine a bit from the start, but do so with authenticity. Show some imperfections. While wearing the perfect outfit on the first date can be fun, are you able to dress it down after dinner with some walking shoes and a windbreaker to go on that beach hike? I hope so, because no one wants to be his Royal Prince Charming’s b*tch. No darling, you are a queen and queen bees get to set their own rules!
It’s so darn simple: it’s super important to find your soulmate from a place of passion and taking inspired action. It’s all about playing BIG in the outer game, while nurturing your inner game too.
Go go go, girl, you go this one. Here’s to your implementation of these three hot tips to help you meet your divine match by playing a big outer game. Go have a great week and treat yourself with great care while getting out there in a BIG way! Thanks for reading, see you on the flip side, and please post your comments below and share with your social groups.
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker to stellar spiritual women who feel called to birthing big life-purposes and possibly a Starchild or two.
He’s kind, healthy, hot, spiritual, self-employed, good with kids, open to having children, likes to travel, loves intimacy, even knows some tantra, he eats a plant-based diet, donates to charity, is in touch with the Feminine… The list goes on. And on. And on… Is this you?
Ha ha ha, I know we Twin Flame seeking women are some of the pickiest creatures on earth. Not a bad thing though, as long as we find a balance and realize that everyone – even us – has flaws. The likelihood of anyone completely fitting our list down to the last detail is pretty low. However, the Twin Flame List can help with the attraction process.
Write down everything you want in your Twin Flame relationship. That’s step one.
But let’s be honest: sometimes getting the whole package feels impossible. And so I see so many of my clients, fans, and friends manifesting men who are missing some key items from the list. Yet using the Law of Attraction in combination with a little elbow grease, you can go after and get nearly the whole list. Or something even better!
Why is it that we can get so blocked by our own stories, resistances, and self-esteem issues, especially when it comes to attraction the “who package” in a relationship? The classic case I see as a Twin Flame Matchmaker in women who are new to working with the Law of Attraction to manifest a Twin Flame is that they will pick a man who is only half or part of what is on their desires list. Are you vegetarian and you meet amazing men, except for that one tiny detail: you can’t see yourself marrying a carnivore, and they are meat-lovin’ men? Or perhaps you are a spiritual woman, super into healing, energy work, consciousness, yoga, green juice, etc and everything is perfect, except for the fact that he totally doesn’t accept or nurture your spiritual path?
“Wassup with this!?” you wonder, “Why do I keep attracting that one little thing that is a BIG deal breaker every time I date someone new!?” I’d hate to see you give up and throw away all of your love, beauty, and bliss potential because you are attracting the wrong men (at least in part!) because the Law of Attraction is only half-working for you…
We gotta first ask: Why do you keep attracting these love-limits? In the Big Leap by Gay Hendricks, Hendricks talks about the “upper limit problem,” ULPs, that are sorta like a metabolic set-point of how much we can love. So when you’re manifesting that 98% perfect soulmate except for the 2% which is a total deal-breaker, it’s like “Fuuuuuu%ck, why me!?” Right? But really that 2% issue is the thing you’re manifesting to keep you safely away from love. What?! Why would you ever want to block yourself from love? Because to be honest, we humans are all freaked by love, it’s our nature. We ARE love, we deserve love, and God loves us much. But ironically this is the scariest thing to our human nature – to accept this gift. We create all kinds of crazy ways to block love, including finding people who are 98% there, but who eat several pounds of meat when we’re wanting a vegetarian, or someone who is perfect in all ways but who can’t afford to pay his bills let alone be your future baby daddy. Help!
You can have what you want, you just gotta be willing to receive it, my love. Be willing to receive the love that you are! As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I specialize in helping women dissolve their subconscious love limits and turn them into love magnets. It really friggin’ works. I’ve done my healing and coaching work on women and in some cases, within hours they’ve manifested their Twin Flame. That’s hot! And it’s delightful to watch every time (especially when I get invited to the wedding, like I’m going to next month!).
I have a sad-to-succsexy story to share! It’ll melt your heart:
I once worked with a client named Laura who thought she’d found her Twin Flame. Everything was perfect… except for one tiny detail: her soulmate was a total vegan and wanted to raise his future children vegan, and he judged her for her eating choices. While she liked living healthy, she’d always enjoyed the occasional piece of fish, organic cheese, or free-range chicken, and she wasn’t wanting to give it up. Plus she’d always wanted to share her favorite family recipes with her future offspring. Initially, it was like everything was perfect for Laura, except that one tiny not-so-cheesy detail, until…
Mr. Vegan Boy suddenly went back to the East Coast for a visit and reconnected with his ex girlfriend. He then dumped Laura, this beautiful woman, shortly after returning but not before sleeping with her one last time. Classy, right? Together, Laura and I did some deep healing work and counseling over the heartache. In our healing work, we realized that God/dess had given her the sign early on so that she could see that he was her perfect Twin Flame stepping stone, the TFC (Counterfeit) to lead her to her true Twin. He’d opened her heart (and smashed it a bit, but it took that to tenderize it!), and she realized how badly she wanted love. Further, she realized that she absolutely needed it from someone who shared her healthy lifestyle with a little bit of fun, cheese, and white meat… It was her style.
Guess what happened next? Only a month later, she fell into the arms of her Twin Flame Aaron at the farmers market, and there was no looking back! Aaron’s a healthy “pescetarian” as he calls it – he eats fish and dairy in small amounts – so they have a ball cooking together! They are now happily married, pregnant, and Laura enjoys their healthy lifestyle without feeling judged for eating her way.
Don’t settle for less Goddess, you are worth the WHOLE package! It’s easy to follow the wrongful thinking that settling for less gets us ahead. Wrong. Settling for less is the harder road. Because your soul knows that you’re worth more, and so you’ll align with potential partners who aren’t really cut out for you in the long-term. You’d best decide what you’re truly worth and what you truly want, and the Universe will bring it to you if you step forth to receive it!
When you let go of what’s not working, the Universe hears your commitment to self and rewards you with a true energy match. You can’t stay in a settling-for-less energy with a karmic soulmate trying to force it. If it’s not an easy fit in the first few dates, let it go, grow, and try again with the right partner. Screen dates before going on them to save you time and heartache. Unless you’re able to control your attraction to people, what’s the point of getting your heart set on someone you know isn’t a fit?
Don’t settle for less because you don’t have to! It won’t serve you, your beloved, or the world
You can manifest that whole picture by honoring your desires
Don’t date men who aren’t a fit unless you’re dating for dating’s sake
Write down your list and stick to it
Circle your must-haves on the list that are deal-breakers (I don’t think having brown hair would be a deal breaker, but being spiritually awake and financially grounded is, for example)
Know that you’re worth it!
Good luck lady, you are the Twin Flame, now go find your match…
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