Are you perfectionist? A self-saboteur? A woman who is tip-toeing around her true power?
You are not alone sister…I am noticing a theme in the women in my life, my own life included.
We are way too fucking hard on ourselves.
It’s time to stop.
For in order to call in your Twin Flame, you have to fall in love with yourself.
You can’t be beating up on yourself all the time, as that pushes him away and calls in Twin Flame Counterfeits and runners who (conveniently) reflect our self-hatred.
The problem is that most women are so hung up by perfectionist thought-programs that they can’t let their Divine Feminine energy rise!
Instead of focusing on their pleasure (which DOES call in Twin Flame Love), they obsess about their skin/hair/nails/bikini line, bank account, Facebook profile, job success, and oh so many other things!
But focusing on our pain repels Twin Flame Love.
If you want love, you’ll gotta drop the perfectionist thing.
But first, why do we women constantly obsess over shit that doesn’t truly matter, and we let the things that DO matter pass us by–like pleasure and love?
I’ll tell you….Wanna know the #1 reason why women hate themselves?!
We suffer so much because we got it from our mamas!
Here me out.
I’m not trying to blame your mom… I just want to bring to light the circumstances and energies that need your healing.
Here’s the thing: your mom suffered greatly before you came aronud, because she wasn’t encouraged to shine, particularly in her lower chakras, and particularly in her yoni and around her Sacred Sexuality.
Because for generations, women have have been shamed for being women, and for being sexual beings!
We’ve been lost in the whole Madonna-Whore Complex, where we got trapped between mis-fit paradigms.
So, your mom raised you without a solid foundation in her sacral chakra. She did not know her sexual strength and beauty.
On top of this, she coudln’t even talk about her sexual shame and the horrible things that happened to her as a girl and woman!
Unfortunately you were raised by a woman who felt ashamed of her womanhood and her own sexuality; thus she coudn’t mother you properly like a Divine Mother would.
Likely, your mother could not:
- Encourage your beauty
- Support your Sacred Sexuality
- Set healthy boundaries with men, and teach you to do so with the masculine
- Set healthy boundaries with women, and teach you to do so with the feminine
- Role model to you how GOOD it is to be a goddess!
- Teach you how to express your Sacred Feminine pleasure in a safe, and healthy way
Our moms, they did their best.
Now it is YOUR time to do your best, and do much better.
Twin Flame Affirmation for Mother Healing:
“Thank you Mom, you did your best. I love you. I forgive you. It’s not your fault. It’s only as much your fault for my defects you granted me as a child as it is my fault that I hold deffects from my present.”
When we blame and shame our mothers – either consciously or subconsciously – we end up shooting ourselves in the foot. For on a certain level we ARE our mothers. We hold her within us, in our DNA.
So by healing yourself, your Sacred Sexuality, and by ending perfectionism, you heal your mother and every generation in your lineage, past/present/future.
I want you to feel fully proud of who you are, and that’s why I am whipping up healing rituals that cancel the mother wounds and open up the Sacred Mother Womb.
So is my friend Anaiya Sophia, which is why we talk about creating safe sacred rituals to heal shame and sexuality and nurture the Divine Feminine in our video “Womb Wisdom Temple Awakening,” which you can check out here.
XO, Dr Amanda
PS: Pretty please do post in the comments on the video what you are healing in your womb wisdom! 🙂
Getting your high-paying soulmate clients to sign up for your high-end coaching programs is just like getting your Twin Flame to sign up for the relationship with you. It comes from divine love and using the Law of Attraction, and it starts by being able to attract and recognize your soul family members. Twin Flame energy is reflected in every aspect of your life, not just through your Beloved. The quicker you harness it, the more Twin Flame Activation you’ll receive in all aspects of your life. Here’s a Twin Flame Hypnosis Meditation to help you attract your Twin Flame and ‘soulmate clients’ so that you can start brining your soul-family members into your energy field:
I just enrolled another beautiful soulmate client today for my new VIP 9-month program, and my heart is pouring with joy! I think I’m in love <3. I love how attracting and enrolling clients is becoming an easy, pleasurable process. And even asking for the $$ wasn’t bad! In the past, it wasn’t so… I used to get knots in my tummy when I had to give free consultations and make sales calls. Yick! I just wanted it to be easy and not have to worry about money. I thought business meant busy-ness-in-pain! My inner perfectionist led me. I was always totally freaked about whether or not they’d like me, and I was desperate to receive the money because I had never had much. When I was making the sale, I felt like an awkward dork waiting for someone to ask me to prom, trying to hint at things or even asking and getting rejected. Thank God it’s not like that anymore, as I have figured out something I call ‘Seductive Selling!’
I have mastered getting my clients ‘turned on’ and begging for more. It’s magnetic instead of involving me chasing down clients energetically. Instead of me leaning towards them and bending over backwards, they are honoring my High Priestessesness. They love investing with me because it’s the best way to pamper themselves and honor the Goddess Within :). Seductive Selling is about getting your clients to know, see, feel, and vibe in your value. You get them juicy and excited about the potential for change that you can bring into their lives. It comes from a place of you being just a few steps ahead of them, of bringing this into your own life first, and by helping them traverse the gap. I also love teaching my own clients how to attract their ‘Soulmate Clients’ by getting clear on their soul-purposes, creating an ‘Aphrodisiac Marketing‘ strategy, tuning into their ‘Erotic Brand Equity’ and turning it into Holy MatriMoney! How? Through ‘Secuctive Selling,’ you get your future client excited by the power of your work and your soul-family connection. It’s almost the same as Twin Flame or soulmate love, or is in a sense a certain form of it.
Free client consultations are like speed dating.
During the free consultation, also known as a free strategy session or discovery session, your clients will be in a vibration of Divine Yes, and selling becomes like an easy seduction of someone who is meant to fall in love with you. These sessions are like 30-minutes or so speed dates to see if it’s a soulmate match. The more highly refined your marketing is with your soul-purpose message, the better potential clients you’ll attract to your strategy sessions. It’s all great practice for the Twin Flame, and it’s such a pleasurable way of doing BLI$$ness 🙂
The bottom line:
To harness Twin Flame Love, we have to tune into our soul purposes and learn how to attract our soul family. This takes finding our inner soul light. We must know on a soular and cellular level what our desires are, what our soul-purpose is, and become ecstatic about our lives. You must bubble up with emotion of how you’re going to change people’s lives and impact the world before it happens.
Your desire to spread your own ecstasy will blast your Law of Attraction skills through the roof. This goes for the TF and for your 6-figure BLI$$ness…Lots of love and Light,
Dr. Amanda Noelle, the Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps align women with their Twin Flame, their soul purpose, and their 6-figure BLI$$ so that they can heal the world and be in service to the Goddess.