7 Twin Flame Connection Sabotages (Avoid These to KEEP True Love)

7 Twin Flame Connection Sabotages (Avoid These to KEEP True Love)

by | May 15, 2018 | False Twin Flame, Twin Flame Runner and Chaser, Twin Flame Spirituality | 0 comments

7 Twin Flame Connection Sabotages (Avoid These to KEEP True Love)

Are you seeking your ultimate soulmate? So many people are finding the Twin Flame Connection, but many will not be able to keep it. Here are the 7 most common Twin Flame sabotages that keep us in separation and missing out on true love.

Learn to avoid them so you can call in and keep your Twin Soul with greater ease and grounding.

By Dr. Amanda Noelle, the Twin Flame Matchmaker.

What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul: 5 Symptoms and 3 Healing Secrets for Twin Flames

Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul: 5 Symptoms and 3 Healing Secrets for Twin Flames

by | Mar 24, 2017 | Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Runner and Chaser, Twin Flame Signs | 0 comments

What Is a “Dark Night of the Soul?”

A Dark Night of the Soul is one of the most intensive and challenging awakening experiences one could ask for.
The experience of a Dark Night feels like a death that will never end, and may be considered just as significant and difficult as going through a death–for though the body does not die, a part of the soul is indeed dying.
Though harrowing, the Dark Night is an opportunity for accelerated learning and growth at the soul level.

What Is a Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul?

The Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul is inspired by a severance of a powerful soul bond, a connection with either a Karmic Soulmate, a Twin Flame Counterfeit, or a Twin Flame Runner.
There are 5 symptoms of the Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul that I mention in more detail in this video:
I have noticed these very specific 5 symptoms in nearly single soul I have seen go through this harrowing experience, including in all of my clients, fans, and in myself…
I’ll list the 5 symptoms here for your convenience, so you can follow along as you watch the video,

5 Symptoms of a Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul

  1. You feel like you’re gonna die… But worse.
  2. It feels like you’re trapped, and there’s no getting out. 
  3. You are obsessed – there’s a sense of urgency, anxiety, like your whole life is going to be ruined, forever.
  4. You might have childhood memories coming up, in dreams, latent memories, or manifesting experiences similar to childhood traumas.
  5. There’s a feeling of pain or trauma in your nervous system. You may be hit by panic attacks, depression, and hopelessness, even if you don’t have a history of it.
The experience, as with any type of Dark Night of the Soul, feels like a death, a very painful loss of (a) a real part of your own soul, or annihilation of the ego, and (b) it feels like the ultimate grievance of a soulmate.
A Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul is one of the most painful types of losses, and it can last varying amounts of time, and can take some years to recover from the loss.
The experience of losing a Karmic Soulmate, a Twin Flame Counterfeit, or Twin Flame Runner can feel more painful than losing a loved one. For it’s as if they have died and will never come back, but they are right there, maybe even living near you or on social media, and it’s a reminder that your bond has been broken!
If you are going through a Twin Flame Dark Night of the Soul, you will feel it and know it. I commend you for the courage–your soul has chosen to take this path and it is not easy. Yet with the right support, healing energy, and the proper next steps, your soul may be about to flourish in ways it never has before in any of its incarnations!
It means that you are ready to take a big leap into a new paradigm where you are operating on all cylinders, on all of your 11 Twin Flame Chakras, where you are ready to attract true Twin Flame Love.
However, I know that the journey can seem like a steep uphill climb, which is why I recommend not going through it alone, and not ignoring the process.
That’s why I am gathering a tribe of Twin Flames for a 3 day retreat in sunny San Diego, California, where my Beloved and I will not only share some of our best Twin Flame Attraction tips and exercises, we’ll be creating a thriving sisterhood of support.
If you feel called to step into your full soul’s calling and power, and you want a fun and supportive community of Twin Flame sisters, join us at Twin Flames Live: A Retreat to Bring in the Beloved.
Have you ever gone through, or are you going through a Dark Night of the Soul? Please share in the comments below what your symptoms were/are, and what you has helped you get through it.
 
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker, helping smart conscious women call in their ultimate soulmate in 6 months or less.
Healing Twin Flame Abandonment Issues

Healing Twin Flame Abandonment Issues

by | Dec 17, 2016 | Uncategorized | 0 comments

Dearly Beloved,

Does it ever feel like everyone around you eventually leaves you? 

Do you sometimes wonder if anyone will ever want you for you?

I’m not just talking about your Twin Flame…I’m talking about real love enfolding you, and never leaving you.

I have spent many years of my life single, longing for deeper connections, and downright lonely.

Sometimes I’ve been invited to fun parties with Soul Family and friends, and yet still felt alone in my world. 

Other years I was just plain alone.  

Social gatherings can even stimulate thoughts like:

“Am I loveable?”

“Why aren’t they connecting with me?”

“Will anyone ever want me/get me/marry me?”

And sometimes we don’t get invited to the parties or asked out on dates by anyone of quality, or at times even anyone.

Beloved, do you struggle with the following abandonment issues?

  • Feeling sad that your truest love lied to you, cheated on you, or left you down in a ditch (what a effing b*tch!)…or it just didn’t work out and you miss them
  • Fearing that friends will eventually leave you or lose their loyalty
  • Thank God your family loves you…or do they even really know you?
  • Finding yourself wondering if relationships are real at all, or just based on neediness

Until not that long ago, I often found myself being abadnoned or betrayed–often by the people I loved and trusted most. I called in Twin Flame Runner energy and Twin Flame Counterfeits.

I’ve decided that fear of abandonment is a normal human experience–especially for women.

The Sacred Wound of the Divine Feminine is fear of abandonment by her Divine Masculine Counterpart.

I want to help you help feel more connected to others than ever, so you can say goodbye to the loneliness of heartbreak forever.

#1 Tip to Heal Abandonment: Go dig into the pain. 

Dig into your abandonment fears.

Face them. 

Stay in alone tonight, and close all the shades. Turn off your distractions, and feel the pain arise.

Wallowing in it, and breathing in your loneliness is the greatest gift you can give yourself at this time… 

Because if we don’t face our isolation, we’d be running from our issues!

No one will love you if you don’t feel your pain and love yourself in it. 

When a woman runs from her abaonment issues, guess what will happen to her?  

Abandonment comes to hunt her down.

Her sadness, her pain, her abandonment stuff will only grow louder and louder in all of her relationships.

Maybe this has already happened to you?

Have you ever found yourself in a partnership or social group where you were running from your loneliness together?

The bonds of sex, intimacy, and conversations served as a noise to distract you from your pain.

Perhaps if we just listened to our lone internal howling wolf crying her song of loneliness, we’d actually be able to shut the f*ck up and actually connect with each other…

Loneliness is deep medicine…

To be honest, I have struggled with dark feelings of isolation, loneliness, and “I don’t belong” since…well as long as I can remember.  

I was born a different type of soul with a specific vibrational field and purpose. My different rhythm made me feel like an outsider. 

As a child, my loneliness kept me feeling like i didn’t belong on the group, or on the planet at all. Most of high school and college I spent pretending to fit in but I felt alien there too…

I slept with my first boyfriend hoping sex and intimacy would bandage my pain, but when he left and the bandage was ripped off, I was ripped in two!

I think my biggest problem during my younger years wasn’t my actual loneliness—it was my fear that if anyone found out that I was lonely, I’d be seen as a freak. 

So, I pretended to fit in as the overachiever blond volleyball player. I wanted to be well-liked and popular, and while I had my moments, I felt like I would die if anyone found out my big bad secret… 

I Love My Loneliness (and alone time)!

Claiming this piece and allowing myself to face my shadow within loneliness and isolation is how I met Jack and how to call in your Twin Flame. 

Are you afraid that if your Beloved knew about your fears of abandonment that you’d just shrink over in horror and humiliation?  

It’s time to emancipate yourself from your loneliness now. 

It’s not always healing your abandonment and isolation issues. I’ve been there, and that’s why I am here for you! 

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What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

Twin Flame Runner and Chaser: How to End the Twin Flame Runner Dynamics

Twin Flame Runner and Chaser: How to End the Twin Flame Runner Dynamics

by | Jan 14, 2014 | Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Runner and Chaser | 0 comments

TWIN FLAME RUNNER, OR JUST A KARMIC SOULMATE?! Ending The Twin Flame Runner Chaser Chaos

What if a Twin Flame runner, or a Twin Flame Counterfeit, as I call it, keeps running in and out of your life or just your mind, and it drives you crazy? How can we avoid such intense Twin Flame runner and chaser dynamics, so that we can ground true Twin Flame Love?

You know if you’ve got a Twin Flame Counterfeit/runner if:

  • He/she brings up all of your wounding – from your childhood, past lives, and deep unconscious blueprints
  • You start to awaken to unconditional love, and then when the person leaves, it feels like it’s gone (but it’s really not! I promise…)
  • You have suicidal thoughts after they leave you, and you feel like your soul purpose is to be with them always and NOW (which it’s not, I promise! If it were, you’d be with them…)
  • You feel like you’re off your orbit and you’ll never get it back
  • You feel like you’re holding the pain of the entire universe inside of you; particularly, the abandonment of the Divine Feminine by the Divine Masculine at the beginning of this universe’s timeline
  • Your runner abandoning you triggers you to feel a deep longing to go back to the past, like the future will never be the same, because something terrible has happened, a loss so deep it’s unrepairable

A Twin Flame Counterfeit comes into your life with all of the signs of the true Twin Flame, but there is something not quite right. A trauma occurs, and there is a blending of deep true divine love and an ancient heartache. A Twin Flame runner and chaser dynamic is an emotionally enervating and dysfunctional relationship dynamic that comes out of an unhealed trauma or wound in both partners.

What is Twin Flame Love?

People often misunderstand Twin Flame Love. They think that when they experience it for the first time, that it has to be the source that mattered. That that Joe or Jane was their Twin Flame because it was the first person to help her/him active the Twin Flame frequencies within. This is not the case.

Twin Flame Love energies are within all of us, and most of us have a lot of clearing to do to activate, reclaim, and heal our self-love and Twin Flame Love in order to attract the other half of our soul, our Twin Flame reincarnation.

Twin Flame runners and chasers serve a soul purpose

To end Twin Flame runner pain, we have to understand the purpose for them coming into our lives. We have to own that we are not victims, but we are healing an ancient pain that needs clearing pronto for our soul purpose mission and true Twin Flame to come in.

Often times Twin Flame runners are here simply to awaken your soul’s ancient love briefly, like a match igniting a candle, and then it blows out. But the candle stays lit, despite the fact that they are gone. It can be like a painful birthing process, where a new life is born, but there’s a descension happening in occurrence with your soul’s ascension, simultaneously. There is much soul growth and sometimes it can be exquisitely painful…Hang in there!

Are you ready to see the divine truth?

Twin Flame runners activate divine truth at the same time they illuminate lies and deception. You must master this dear child of God/dess! You are here to master of decoding the illusion of love so that you can step into the deepest truest unconditional, Divine Love. Be not afraid, you and your tiny human self will lick her wounds; you will heal, and you will be closer to the truth and to God/dess than you have ever been. You will become him/her indeed! This is the Twin Flame initiation, and it is not for the faint of heart.

Twin Flame chasers pine after you or you for them because the wound is so painful that you have unearthed, it’s a sacred wound held in the Divine Feminine within the collective. As the Divine Feminine Rising occurs, we must clear clear clear the old abuse and abandonment wounds within.  We restore Her within us as we cleanse the pain. There is no love outside of you. You are love. Yet it is normal to want to run and chase after an illusion of love.  This is the core mistake of the Twin Flame runner and chaser dynamic.

How do you know the difference between true Twin Flame Love, and a TFC?

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As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, people are always asking me, Amanda, How do I know if someone is my Twin Flame? And I always answer that you know when you know, and I highly recommend not rushing it. If it’s real and eternal and infinite, there’s nothing you could ever do to destroy it or push them away. Unless part of you wants to!

If you’re consulting psychics, oracles, daisies (he loves me, he loves me not…), then you are not yet living in a Twin Flame relationship. An adult Twin Flame relationship takes two whole balanced adult and committed people who are not living in a fantasy land where daisies predict the future. You and your Twin Flame don’t leave it up to the gods to take care of you, you control your destiny and you’re not waiting around for someone to come save you or be saving someone else.

Twin Flames allow each other to find each other and stay together when they’re ready.  If you’re struggling and it’s not working and not in the flow, take time apart and heal yourself. Let go. Surrender the relationship. If it’s the real deal, s/he will come back.  But you have to learn to let go and let God/dess and release the relationship that you’re clenching your teeth about.

If you haven’t seen my video about healing from Twin Flame Separation, you can do so HERE:

Healing Twin Flame Separation

Twin Flame runners are here to awaken the ancient Twin Flame energies and clear past life karma

what to do if your twin flame runs

There may be bleed-throughs from many past lifetimes in which you and your Twin Flame Counterfeit were together and something painful happened that you still need to resolve. Perhaps it was a death, a betrayal, a judgement, or an abandonment, and you are here to complete that karmic soulmate relationship. Or, maybe you were connected to some gift together in a lifetime that needs healing. For instance, maybe you were a healer, a shaman, an high priestess and your Twin Flame energies got compromised when you were burnt at the stake and traumatized. Often times, I find my clients who have very strong karmic pulls towards so-called Twin Flames later on find out that they were madly in love because of a past life intense energy, and not a good one!

My Twin Flame Counterfeit karma tale

My somewhat embarrassing Twin Flame Counterfeit (TFC) story is that I was killed in a past life in New England for being a metaphysical practitioner, and my TFC and I both died together in that lifetime. In this lifetime, we had a similar karmic bleed-through and attracted a horrid situation which involved persecution, financial loss, and a death-like out of body experience which got me arrested and traumatized.

I was madly in love with my TFC and was certain that he was my Twin Flame, and I couldn’t imagine letting him go. It felt like a real death. Three years passed and through much healing and releasing work, I let him go and could finally move on.

But I was stuck in a crazy loop for nearly three years that I couldn’t get out of and was convinced he was the one for me! This is an example of how your so-called Twin Flame may be a TFC that has a deep karmic tie that you are here to clear and bring to the Light.  That’s what Twin Flame runners and chases are for!

Dr Amanda Noelle

 

 

PS: Watch the Twin Flame Separation video here!

Healing Twin Flame Separation

Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker helping single spiritual women swiftly attract their Twin Flames. She is the founder of Aphrodite University, the first online Divine Feminine university for High-Healed Priestesses.