“Help! I don’t know how to find my Twin Flame!”
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I get this a lot.
I want to be able to say, “Just use the Law of Attraction, and your Twin Flame will come!”
But it’s really not that simple. We can use the Twin Flame Law of Attraction, but we do have to evolve and grow on the spiritual, mental, and emotional levels before calling in our Beloved.
That’s why I highly suggest using this tip before calling in your man or woman, as it’s a powerful tool for self and soul development that will prepare you for the real deal.
Find your Twin Flame fast with Soul Family
Calling in a Twin Flame is quite a journey for many of us–it certainly was for me! I used this very powerful key to call in my Beloved who fits me like a glove, and I discovered it on accident. I have shown my clients how to call in their partner using this tool as well, and it seems to be an important step for those stuck in a dating rut.
There are many ways to call in your Twin Flame, and everyone will walk a slightly different path. However, one real simple way to ‘practice’ calling in your Twin Flame is to call in Soul Family first.
Soul Family connections activate Twin Flame Love
Soul Family are people in your ‘soul group’ with whom you reincarnate (don’t worry if you don’t believe in reincarnation though, just think of them as people you instantly feel connected to). They’re those special people with which you easily resonate.
With Soul Family, you literally resonate at a similar vibrational frequency in many aspects, and it feels really really good.
Soul Family Reunions prepare you for your Twin Flame Union because you learn how to match frequencies, form bonds, work through difficulties, and navigate intimacy.
Soul Family is an alternate form of Twin Flame Love
Here is an example of my Soul Family Reunion success story! My soul sister Chiara and I met in Florence, Italy years ago in 2003, and it felt immediately as if we were old friends. Past life perhaps?
After moving back from Italy, Chiara and I were mostly out of touch for a decade because it was way before Facebook and even email was rather rare in Italy.
Then, two years ago, in 2013, I reunited with Chiara and we had an incredible summer friendship in Greece/Italy, followed by another 2 month visit in Tuscany because we had so much to connect on, catch up on, and create together!
As it happened, I could feel there was lots of soul growth and evolution happening through our connection. I’d been going through a stuck patch for several years regarding my own Twin Flame process (very annoying when you’re a Twin Flame Matchmaker helping others get what they want!).
Chiara and I would sit at cafes laughing and talking about what our Twin Flames looked like, fantasizing about the cute business men walking in or the hot Greek waiters (who did turn into brief love affairs for both of us!). The energy was playful and I felt like my Soul Sister and I could create anything together.
I felt way less stuck in the Twin Flame department after spending time with Chiara, and I don’t think it was a coincidence that the last time I saw her in person was during the same timeframe in which I met my Beloved.
There is much healing, and magic that happens in Soul Family Partnerships.
To this day, I have Chiara to thank for helping her meet my Twin Flame, Jack. I met Jack for the second time at Ecstatic Dance Oakland the night that I brought Chiara in for a visit! I love both of my Soul Family Members and know that Chiara was an important gateway to my reunion with Jack.
My message to you is to spend time with people who really fill your cup, who melt your heart, and who even push your buttons at times because they help you grow so swiftly!
I am indebted to Chiara especially for the difficult fight we got in at the end of her last visit–it pushed me to grow and face my worst fears. We worked through it together and stepped into a new level of love and surrender. It was not easy.
It wasn’t easy…But neither are Twin Flame relationships!
Have you called in your Soul Family–people who:
- really get you
- who have a similar frequency
- share a similar set of spiritual tools
- are on the same path of growth and soul evolution
- fill your cup fully
- feel like brothers/sisters
- have that instant soul bond ‘recognition’
I hope that you are able to call in your Twin Flame fast by activating some powerful Soul Family relationships. I also hope that you can use these sacred connections to experience the first levels of Twin Flame Love. Twin Flame Love goes way beyond two people; it is an energy inside you and is of God. It is truly everywhere.
How does Twin Flame energy presence itself in your life RIGHT NOW? And how can you call in support from your Soul Family to prepare for your Twin Flame Union?
Twin Flame and Soul Fam Love, Light & Blessings!
Dr. Amanda Noelle,
The Twin Flame Matchmaker
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have found that there are so many women and men who get stuck in gloom and doom when it comes to attracting their soulmate or Twin Flame, and they stay stuck and single when they don’t have to! We are more powerful than we know, as we are reflections of our Creator (whatever you call this powerful force), so we can create what our heart desires!
This article will help you manifest your Twin Flame as fast as humanly possible, because I know when you want it you want it now…or yesterday! But trust me, Twin Flame manifestation can be ridiculously fast if you tune into the Field of Universal Creation and surrender to the forces that be! I have helped clients, fans, and friends manifest their Twin Flames in as little has a few days, and in one instance, within a few hours! It’s a pretty magical energy to witness and to see physicalized, especially when I get invited to the wedding and get to sip champagne smugly thinking about how great a matchmaker I am 🙂 I just love love and am proud to be a holder of the Aphrodite Touch!
What not to do? Get stuck in a pit of despair
Don’t despair if you’re feeling single and stuck today, as you really can’t predict what is going to happen tomorrow (or you can if you stay positive and make it happen!). Sometimes even the most desperate and despairing women come to me with only one last tiny shred of hope, and I get them to surrender to their ultimate Divine Love, a well within them, and we bust some blockages and POOF! It’s truly delightful to watch them U-turn around into their heart’s desires and manifest that magical partner they’ve been waiting for for…forever!
This article, How to Manifest Your Twin Flame Quickly will help you immensely if:
- You have been working on yourself for a long time to be the best you can be, and feel that you’re truly ready to attract your beloved
- You’re healthy, on an emotional, physical, financial, and spiritual level
- You’re certain that you’re on a Twin Flame path, not just a Karmic Soulmate path; you are here to meet the soulmate of soulmates, the one true Twin Flame
- Meeting and marrying your Twin Flame has been a huge calling for a long time, and it’s frustrating not to have him/her yet!
- You are fully devoted to self-improvement and spiritual growth, and your Twin Flame will be a partner who supports you to grow further and faster
- You have a big heart, and it’s overflowing – your love needs somewhere to go!
- You have a huge soul purpose and you want your Twin Flame to join you for the ride to enjoy co-creating your most magnificent life to make this world a better place
- You’re willing to throw your skepticism out the window for just a moment and will just shut up and listen to what this Twin Flame Matchmaker has to say!
Alright darling, let’s get down to BLI$$ness, and share the top secrets to helping you ring in the Twin Flame partner and fast. Disclaimer: some of these tips aren’t for the weak, so buckle up and hunker down and be strong… whatever you do, don’t give up on love! Now let’s get your Twin Flame groove on.
Tip #1: Get Happy Being YOU as a Single Gal or Guy
You complete yourself. Your Twin Flame partner will be able to smell you from a mile away, as we’re all energetically sensitive beings and we have fantastic instincts. The question to ask is: Would you want to be with you? If you’re unhappy in your life, he or she is going to sense that gloom, and it’s not going to be a turn on. Men are attracted to happy and fulfilled goddesses flowing with nectar, just like bees are attracted to the sweet perfumed nectar of a flower.
To avoid: the Single Woman’s Vicious Cycle
What I see commonly in my clients is what I call the ‘Single Woman’s Vicious Cycle’ where you start getting lonely, and loneliness breeds depression, gloom, and hopelessness. Then you start dating the wrong people, lowering the bar and feeling desperate, feeling sorry for yourself, and doing silly things like staying in on Friday night with Ben and Jerry’s instead of following your heart’s deepest desires! You might even gain a a few pounds in the process and use that as an excuse not to be dating at the moment. Girl, you gotta get off the couch, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and do whatever you can to get happy and excited, there is a great guy or gal waiting out there and s/he’s reserved for YOU!
Let me clarify that I am not saying that you have to be happy with being single forever; I am just saying that a happy girl will attract more happiness and at the divinely perfect moment, a happy partnership. So do whatever it takes to be happy: join activities, social groups, exciting organizations that get your energy running fast. Choose to stay positive! Get your life moving in the fast lane….Work that body and get a good sweat on with daily workouts with a few breaks a week. Listen to music that pumps you up – you know, those sexy songs that make you wanna go look in the mirror and dance and check yourself out. You gotta start to feel like the bell of the ball in your own universe, and this will make the others’ heads turn and hearts beat in your rhythm.
To manifest your Twin Flame, really dive deep into celebrating life! It’s short anyways, and the sooner you get into the positive vibration, you will bring in a partner who reflects this love for life! Do you want to attract someone who is stuck and lonely? So don’t be stuck and lonely, get out there, have fun doing whatever weird hobbies suit you and be in a bliss vibration. You might not attract a partner at your 80s night girls night, but you will be covered in rainbow bliss vibes that he’ll pick up on the next day in the cafe.
You will always attract the perfect reflection of you or what you need to work on – why not magnetize a happy reflection!
TAKE ACTION: BLI$$ HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT
To get happy and excited, I really recommend becoming a manifestations collaging nerd. Go gather magazines and play music that gets you juicy and ready to birth your dream. Then start collaging the relationship and life that you’re ready to be leading, and feel yourself manifesting it into 3D as you put together your creation down. Think of it as a BLI$$ness plan for your love life! Vivid pictures will implant subconscious messages in your mind. Don’t worry if this sounds abstract or weird, I have lots of clients who question the assignment but swear by it afterward when what they’ve collaged shows up in their life.
Tip # 2 Declutter Your Past
The past is what holds our icky relationship limitation stuff. You gotta take out the trash! Though the past serves us as a teacher, teaching us what we want and what we don’t, the past is also where I see people holding onto old blockages that slow down the Twin Flame manifestation. Remember that there is nothing but the now, and you want to get a high vibrating happy life now! It’s time to create a new canvas by letting go of old childhood pain, things that represent awkward times in your life, sad times, and past relationships. Keep the gems of these experiences, but let go of anything that does not serve you now.
Decluttering time! Why keep around all those old FB pics of exes, or the scarf from the Amalfi Coast he gifted you on your birthday (I know it’s cute but get rid of it already!) when it just reminds you of the sad breakup afterward? Go and release anything that represents struggle, relationship strife, or any old attachment to someone that will compete or inhibit your Twin Flame relationship from coming in. Think of everything…you might even want to let go of that expired last name from your ex husband!
Go through all aspects of your life: declutter each of the rooms in your home, let go of anything not working for you in your current friendships, reevaluate your career, upgrade your lingerie collection, and go through all your clothes. Release anything that’s not an 7 out of 10 or more in your life! Let go of anything that doesn’t fit you like a glove for the absolutely joyful and magnificent Twin Flame relationship you’re calling in. It’s time to create your life your way, a portal of bliss. Lots of women prepare for their Twin Flames by becoming man-pleasers, but they only end up in men who expect them to do one thing: please them! Design a life of pleasure surrounding you that pleases you first, and you will have a very happy man like a bee buzzing around your flower in BLI$$!
Tip #3 Radical Self-Acceptance
I know that this tip seems like it’s going to contradict the ones above, but that’s the beauty of radical self-acceptance! You are perfect the way you are! This one is such a fun paradox. The reality is, when you meet and marry your Twin Flame, you will be married to each others’ imperfections for life (we hope!) and this means that you’re going to have to learn how to accept yourself first. Sure it’s nice to try to be a happy superhuman all the time, and it’s a fun game to see how much you can grow and become a super goddess. Yet you are simply a human! And we get things like bad breath, bad credit, and bad kinky thoughts. So what!? So does every other living breathing thing, and the sooner we accept this, the sooner we can move forward and celebrate.
Which of the three tips is the most important? I’d say the latter…What do you think? Please post your comments below and let me know what other tips you have to share.
Isn’t it time you started loving your breasts? Breasts frame the heart-chakra and are the symbol of Divine Feminine nurturing, giving, and receiving of pleasure.
Boobs: you only get two of them in each lifetime.
Might as well love the pair you got. They are sacred life-giving, nurturing, and soft. Here are the three top tips to turn breast-shame into breast love and enlightenment so that your heart chakra and your breasts can realign at the Divine Feminine Love Twin Flame frequencies.
Goddesses, you have been brainwashed by a patriarchal fear-mongering media that thrived on your self-hatred, but you are free now to love yourself and to forgive. The breasts hold onto memory, emotion, and toxins, but once cleared are free and happy girls! These are three tips to help you fall in love with your terrific tatas once again:
1) The breast massage ever!
Massage your breasts with this or another loving elixir:
1 tablespoon coconut oil 3 drops each: rose, grapefruit, frankincense, and cypress
Massage benefits you by:
-celebrating your body brings your breasts joy
-moving lymph and toxins reduces cancer risk
-tissues will become stimulated to produce collagen, making your girls perkier, longer
-your breasts will be fuller and firmer, so it’s a light natural breast-lift over time
You can watch this breast massage wellness video for instruction on how to massage your lovely lady lumps:
2) Talk to your tatas!
I know it sounds strange, but talking to your breasts will give you answers. Ask your tatas questions, and they will respond. If you have had body image issues, ask your breasts what that’s about, and how they can assist you. Ask them what they need. Dialoguing with your body will bring you profound answers that no doctor can tell you!
3) Celebrate your boobs through breast voyeurism.
Look at (and maybe even feel?) other women’s breasts in a celebratory way. Look at yours too, and toast to them with a cup of red wine, or better yet, green tea, which is a cancer-reducer.
Women can get arrested for going topless. It must mean that women’s breasts are a threat to society, right? Are they really that dangerous if they gave us life early on? So bad that they should be kept indoors and covered up besides in the changing room and in front of our husbands? Oh boy, if only women made the laws, we’d have International Titty Day at least twice a year (one for each boob!). Every woman loves to look at other women’s breasts, it’s a little known fact because no one talks about it. But the bottom line is that everyone loves breasts, they’re awesome! Newsflash, breasts aren’t evil, they’re amazing!
Perhaps if we rewrote the laws and started celebrating the way we looked, we wouldn’t be tempted to chop open our nipples, pack in silly-cone or other materials to fake it like we’re Barbie Dolls?
Start complimenting yourself and other women’s breasts of people you know will ‘get it.’ My childhood friend Tasha and I used to play dress up and I was embarrassed because I didn’t have boobs yet. 20 years later, we had a moment of body image confession and tears, and she told me that I had fabulous breasts. I swear that I have healed my breast shame since then, and have stopped fantasizing about getting implants or a breast lift. Yes, body image issues affected me too, especially as a teen. I hated the way my girls looked, and I have struggled with body dysmorphic disorder. People think it’s funny because I have ‘normal breasts’ and they are 32Ds, but I still have my moment where I want to trade them in for perkier perfect Barbie Boobs too! I still have the American brainwashed girl inside who read too many 17 Magazines once upon a time.
Noticing that every woman is beautiful, unique, asymmetrical, different than you in many ways. We have been told to shut up and put our shirts on, and cover up our amazing mammary glands – our Mama Mary glands of the Divine Mother. What’s up with this? I am sure Jesus would have loved to see his mother and his lovely lady Mary Magdalene’s sacred bosom displayed on temple/church walls worldwide. Don’t you?
Let’s release the Playboy Bunny pressure to be perky double DDs…It’s impossible to be that without the help of a surgeon and that’s a lot of money, risky, and even has killed some women in the process or gotten many sick from infection and silicone poisoning. What if we did plastic surgery on the culture instead and went back to au-natural breasts with a new mindset of celebrating the Divine Feminine?
Lots of love and light.
Good boob job ladies!
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker and founder of Aphrodite University, helping High-Healed Priestesses step into their power so they can create new paradigms of love and light!