Why Heartbreak Hurts So Bad It Breaks a Woman

Why Heartbreak Hurts So Bad It Breaks a Woman

Girlfriend, did you know that getting heartbroken can be so harrowing and hard that some scientists say it feels as bad as severe physical pain?

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Twin Flame Heart Chakra Pain | From Heartbreak to Healed

Greetings Twin Flame Lover, Hi, I’m Dr Amanda Noelle the Twin Flame Matchmaker….

Has your heart been splattered, like TOTALLY shattered!? There is nothing worse than letting a past heartbreak haunt your life, and negatively impacting your dating game.

A traumatized heart chakra can not only sabotage a woman’s love life, it can infect her health, wealth, and all areas of life as well.

But the good news is that you can always heal the past, and a healed heart chakra is what magnetizes love in all of its divine forms!

So let me ask you the following.

Does your heart desire one or more of the following:

  • Your Twin Flame or sacred union with your ultimate beloved?
  • Deep, nourishing Soul Family connections?
  • Your fully expressed soul purpose, one that contributes to the greater good of our planet?
  • More abundance and financial prosperity?
  • A blissful business (what I call a “bli$$ness”) or work you love?
  • And perhaps most of all: a deep connection to your Divine Creator?

My darling friend, you deserve an abundance of love in all of these avenues…

And guess what: You can have it all.

All it takes is an upgraded, healed, and whole heart chakra. No more bullet holes!

I love helping smart conscious women heal and reveal the hurts in their hearts, and turn them back into Twin Flame Love.

And I can SO relate! I myself suffered from chronic broken-heart pain for several decades… That’s why healing the heart is now my #1 soul purpose and one of my strongest soul medicines!

Being heartbroken can be just as bad as Japanese water torture… 

Why? Because the anterior cingulate cortex, an area of your brain that lights up when you’re physically in pain, is the exact same area that lights up when you suffer from heartbreak.

Research from Purdue University, Macquarie University, and the University of New South Wales found that people experience emotional pain as worse or even stronger than physical pain!

Heartbreak isn’t to be glossed over… If you’ve been through one, it serves you to deal with it and heal it now. The energy can manifest as breast lumps, cysts, cancer, and heart disease. For both men and women, cardiovascular disease is the leading cause of death.

While men can just as easily go through heartbreak and suffer, I have witnessed from my own experience and that of my clients that women often struggle with this area more than men do. According to Harvard University Heart attacks strike men at younger ages than women. But survival rates are worse in women.

I believe that heart, lung, and breast issues are a reflection of the 4th chakra blocks caused by heartbreak that are rampant in our society.

On top of this, women are programmed to energetically take on pain from men. We do this instinctively with our children, absorbing grief into our heart chakra area. In Chinese medicine the organ associated with the emotion grief is the lungs. I see this as a gray energy in the 4th chakra of so many of my clients.  This energy needs to be cleared in order for your Twin Flame to discover, feel, and help you fully heal your heart.

***Learn more about how my Twin Flame Game Changing training, “From Heartbreak to Heart BREAKTHROUGH!” can help you cut through the heart chakra fog by clicking here. ***

But it gets even gloomier.

Unfortunately, if you’ve been through a bad heartbreak, you’re at high risk for another one… Research from Brown University has shown that if you experience a breakup, the likeliness of a second breakup increases by 75%!

According to Erica Slotter, a psychology Ph.D. candidate at Northwestern University:

“We know that relationships change the way we think about ourselves. When a relationship ends, that sense of self ends.”

Heartbreaks can only stop when we do the work it takes to prevent them from happening again.

So sister, if you’re doing things to distract yourself from the heart pain, hoping it will go away in time, I am here to remind you to jump on the healing bus so you can return your heart to a 4th chakra aligned vibration.

I am here to help you to STOP attracting unnecessary heartbreaks, and start attracting an abundance of fulfilling relationships in all areas of your life that reflect your beauty, bliss, and love.

But I get how painful and tricky it can be.

My name Amanda literally means “Beloved,” and I have fought to learn how to be loved! I used to be a love addict, getting heartbroken all the time by all the wrong people…

Not just by men either! Even friendships would suddenly blow up in my face--I’ve been stood up in every way imaginable.

Before I dealt with my heart chakra abandonment issues, I even got stood up by money BIG TIME. I stagnated at a 4-figure salary for around a decade.

Deep down, my heart was encoded with “I am unlovable” and “I am not good enough,” which I too commonly see within my clients and fans.

Still, my heartbreak syndrome was intense, isolating, embarrassing, and I was starting to feel hopeless.

Why did love deceive me so often, when all I wanted to do was love and be loved?!

That’s why I devoted myself to cracking the code to true love.

My angels and guides started sharing Aphrodite’s magic with me… Higher councils taught me how to clear the heart chakra, open up the feminine gateways, and download the Money Codes of Isis…

I was also taught how to awaken my sacred sexuality, and that my Sacred Chalice is meant to be a Divine portal of Twin Flame Love.


How do you know when love is real?

It hurts when we invest our love in all the wrong places.

There’s nothing worse than being disappointed by those we love, and whom we think love us back…

These types of heartbreaks can also break our love bank accounts.

But is there some type of litmus test we can take to tell if someone is real love vs a Twin Flame Counterfeit?

The reason I have been successful in calling in my Twin Flame, someone I love and adore who feel the same way about me (most of the time), is that I learned to get smart with my heart.

I am so happy to say that, today I have the MOST AMAZING TWIN FLAME UNION, a partner who honors, adores, and even worships the goddess in me.

Are you ready for deep love reflected back through the Ultimate Divine Mirror?

Click the link here to check out my heart-healing course to help you transform your broken heart into a bustling “bank account of love”…

Women hire my help because they are tired of suffering from the intense, harrowing, perhaps even ancient heart breaks.

They let me help them clear out the endless pain, devastation, and sense of hopelessness so they can move on into Twin Flame Love.

The heartbreaks have been inside them for lifetimes, through ancestral lineage held through the epigenetics, and perhaps even heartbreaks from ancient past lives, such as times in Greece, floods in Atlantis, and dark histories in Egypt.

Usually when women are holding onto energy from past lives and ancestry, these heartbreaks are deep, and can corrupt the energy field. They create a disruption of the Law of Attraction, making it hard to attract what your heart truly desires and deserves. Meaning that if she’s attempting to attract money or her beloved, or anything that truly matters, it’s going to call in the wrong thing until the wounds are released or healed.

If you have weird stuck heartbreak patterns, they’ll repel true love coming to you in the form of: dating, relationships, money, your soul purpose, or truly anything that matters… Don’t delay

Click the link here for “From Heartbreak to Heart BREAKTHROUGH trainings!” to create lasting relationships with the right partner that you can grow and nurture for life, or at least for years.

How do you know if your love is the right investment?  

You simply feel it in your heart!

****My extensive home learning program gives you all the tools you need to heal and align your heart chakra so that you can magnetize your Soulmate Clients and Twin Flame beloved.

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It turns out that a healed heart attracts quality love. An unhealed heartbreak calls in distortion and disappointment, misleading our soul to believe that we’re unworthy of love, one of life’s biggest potential lies.

You are worthy of love, and you can become the lover of all loves, and attract a Twin Flame Mirror. You can heal your heart, but it takes work. If you have experienced slight or even sever heartbreak in your past, it’s time to free your soul and heal yourself so you can call in all the love you want.

A Radiant Heart Always Calls in More Love

Remember, your happy and vibrant green, pink, and gold-colored heart chakra energy is what calls in yummy, whole, and nurturing love relationships. And if you’re an entrepreneur it’s what calls in raving Soulmate Clients, fans, friends, and opportunities… For you lovers out there, it’s the #1 place you’ll need to unblock in order to call in your Twin Flame.

Don’t be ashamed if you have been single and struggling, and if you have  been magnetizing partners who manipulate, mislead, or misalign with your brilliance.  Do not settle for less! Your love life can explode once you realign a heart chakra that’s been broken or shut off. A clogged heart only attracts persecution, those who mistrust us, and those with cold-hearted love. I know you don’t want that!

A woman’s broken heart blueprint can quickly be shifted, but it takes some work.

When you shift your heart break, when it comes to finding love, it’s always easy to tell if it’s the real deal or not!

If you don’t know how to read the difference between a real soul connection and just plain karma, and it’s hard to run your bli$$ness and life with pleasure, try out the home study program for just $33 for a limited time only.

Twin Flame Love resides in all things. It’s the harmonized love between the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine aspects.

We all have wounding which is why we need our mentors and teachers for support, and I got you girl!

You deserve the REAL DEAL.

It can be tricky to rewire your heart/brain/pussy on your own, which is why I am honored to offer my support to you.

While I know this or any program won’t instantly or totally fix your love life, or business, or soul sister connections, it will absolutely help you tune into your own unique heart chakra vibration of TRUE Twin Flame Love to create miracles...

By learning the signs of healthy love, you can call in a tribe of like-hearted, kindred spirits who do want to support you. Love you. And deeply connect…

Thanks for healing your gorgeous heart and soul.

I look forward to seeing you soon!

Namaste, Amanda

PS: A woman may quite possibly die of a broken heart, so don’t delay on the healing process…find out what you can do to heal your heart here.

What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

Healing Twin Flame Abandonment Issues

Healing Twin Flame Abandonment Issues

Dearly Beloved,

Does it ever feel like everyone around you eventually leaves you? 

Do you sometimes wonder if anyone will ever want you for you?

I’m not just talking about your Twin Flame…I’m talking about real love enfolding you, and never leaving you.

have spent many years of my life single, longing for deeper connections, and downright lonely.

Sometimes I’ve been invited to fun parties with Soul Family and friends, and yet still felt alone in my world. 

Other years I was just plain alone.  

Social gatherings can even stimulate thoughts like:

“Am I loveable?”

“Why aren’t they connecting with me?”

“Will anyone ever want me/get me/marry me?”

And sometimes we don’t get invited to the parties or asked out on dates by anyone of quality, or at times even anyone.

Beloved, do you struggle with the following abandonment issues?

  • Feeling sad that your truest love lied to you, cheated on you, or left you down in a ditch (what a effing b*tch!)…or it just didn’t work out and you miss them
  • Fearing that friends will eventually leave you or lose their loyalty
  • Thank God your family loves you…or do they even really know you?
  • Finding yourself wondering if relationships are real at all, or just based on neediness

Until not that long ago, I often found myself being abadnoned or betrayed–often by the people I loved and trusted most. I called in Twin Flame Runner energy and Twin Flame Counterfeits.

I’ve decided that fear of abandonment is a normal human experience–especially for women.

The Sacred Wound of the Divine Feminine is fear of abandonment by her Divine Masculine Counterpart.

I want to help you help feel more connected to others than ever, so you can say goodbye to the loneliness of heartbreak forever.

#1 Tip to Heal Abandonment: Go dig into the pain. 

Dig into your abandonment fears.

Face them. 

Stay in alone tonight, and close all the shades. Turn off your distractions, and feel the pain arise.

Wallowing in it, and breathing in your loneliness is the greatest gift you can give yourself at this time… 

Because if we don’t face our isolation, we’d be running from our issues!

No one will love you if you don’t feel your pain and love yourself in it. 

When a woman runs from her abaonment issues, guess what will happen to her?  

Abandonment comes to hunt her down.

Her sadness, her pain, her abandonment stuff will only grow louder and louder in all of her relationships.

Maybe this has already happened to you?

Have you ever found yourself in a partnership or social group where you were running from your loneliness together?

The bonds of sex, intimacy, and conversations served as a noise to distract you from your pain.

Perhaps if we just listened to our lone internal howling wolf crying her song of loneliness, we’d actually be able to shut the f*ck up and actually connect with each other…

Loneliness is deep medicine…

To be honest, I have struggled with dark feelings of isolation, loneliness, and “I don’t belong” since…well as long as I can remember.  

I was born a different type of soul with a specific vibrational field and purpose. My different rhythm made me feel like an outsider. 

As a child, my loneliness kept me feeling like i didn’t belong on the group, or on the planet at all. Most of high school and college I spent pretending to fit in but I felt alien there too…

I slept with my first boyfriend hoping sex and intimacy would bandage my pain, but when he left and the bandage was ripped off, I was ripped in two!

I think my biggest problem during my younger years wasn’t my actual loneliness—it was my fear that if anyone found out that I was lonely, I’d be seen as a freak. 

So, I pretended to fit in as the overachiever blond volleyball player. I wanted to be well-liked and popular, and while I had my moments, I felt like I would die if anyone found out my big bad secret… 

I Love My Loneliness (and alone time)!

Claiming this piece and allowing myself to face my shadow within loneliness and isolation is how I met Jack and how to call in your Twin Flame. 

Are you afraid that if your Beloved knew about your fears of abandonment that you’d just shrink over in horror and humiliation?  

It’s time to emancipate yourself from your loneliness now

It’s not always healing your abandonment and isolation issues. I’ve been there, and that’s why I am here for you! 

I have put together super special  Twin Flame Love Combo Package for my blog readers.

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What Is Feminine Energy?

Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.

Without the feminine, we’re in trouble...

Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

How to Attract an Attractive Soulmate: Flaming HOT Twin Flame Attraction

How to Attract an Attractive Soulmate: Flaming HOT Twin Flame Attraction

Mild, medium, or HOT? Sometimes salsa just isn’t salsa without the spice–just like your soulmate isn’t attractive without the hot physical package!  We are human and have a taste for beautiful things.  We have evolved from looks oriented creatures: birds, then goats, then gorillas. These animals appreciate beauty and so do we.

twin flame loversLike ducks who choose the pretty mallard feathers, or the she-goats who select the winning mountain goat for his large horns, or the lucky gorilla gal who gets the coveted silverback, we humans can go gaga for good looking guys or gals. In this post, I will talk about how to bag a babe that you actually find attractive–on both physical and spiritual levels! Have I attracted your attention yet?

Attractiveness doesn’t have to be generic

Despite the fact that the soul doesn’t care about physical form, our humanness does. It needs physical beauty and attraction (however you define that) for a healthy soulmate/Twin Flame relationship. Without the spice and attraction, you got yourself a best friend and nothing more.  Nothing wrong with a best friend, but don’t kid yourself.

how do i find my twin flameYou are probably saying, “Amanda, isn’t it superficial to say that attractive people are better than less attractive people on a soul level?” And I’m saying No, it’s not. Because attractiveness is spiritual.  And its not the Hollywood kinda pretty or hot I am talking about, as attractiveness does not have to be generic. True beauty is all in the eye of the beholder. In fact, true attractiveness is simply a spiritual vibration based on high levels of sacred geometry.

The beholder interprets the geometry however he or she “likes” beauty.  True spiritual beauty emanates from our physical form and it resonates with the beloved onlooker–on an eyes, ears, nose, and especially an energetic level. This is the alchemy of seeing your Twin Flame’s true beauty–beauty can only be seen by those who understand the secrets of sacred beauty.

Alchemical attractiveness lesson one: Beauty is unique.

Everyone’s attractiveness taste buds are unique, just as everyone looks unique. So there’s someone for you – there’s someone for everyone!  A perfect mach on all the levels, beauty included.  Throw it out NOW, the old paradigm of everyone wants Brad Pitt. That’s so boring!  Stop trying to look act and be the same as the same old boring plastic model. Be you beautiful one. And stop lusting after generic plastic beauty that lacks substance.

Remember those those generically hot guys or bombshell gals that everyone wanted to date or be in high school (and sometimes they manage to stay ladies men or it girls for many years)? Where are they now?  Most likely they either abused or ran away from or hopefully came to terms with the superficiality of their so-called physical perfection that got them in the door (or nether-region).  A lot of the Hollywood hot people are actually suffocated or suffering with their beauty because no one can see the real them.

twin flameYes beautiful: true beauty is on a much deeper level.  We are all here by Divine Design; we are created by our creator with a perfect divine plan.  We are gifted with the perfect package.  We are all incredibly attractive to our Twin Flame, and vice versa.  We are even granted a certain number of soulmates who find us stunning and make us feel our own attractiveness.  Sometimes it can be annoying when you’re not attracted back to these people (a soulmate whose lesson/gift is to uplift your beauty confidence)! When I was in Italy I got a ton of cat calls and suitors who complimented me to the point where I stopped doing my own beauty affirmations because being told that I was hot all day long by these stallioni burned the message into my subconscious. Ironically, though their compliments helped me get into “I’m hot” instead of “I’m not” thinking, I only ended up being attracted to three men during my 3-year love affair with Italy. More ironically was that none of these men hit on me until later in our dating. Still, I will always be grateful for coming of age in Italy and hope that more American and Anglo men can learn the art of flattery and compliments from their Latin counterparts.

Ultimately, it’s about having both mutual physical attraction and mutual soul attraction for the right soulmate. Guess where it starts? It starts within…

Use the Law of Attraction!

twin flame theoryThe Law of Attraction states that “like attracts like.” Therefore, if you want to attract someone that you find attractive, you must first find yourself attractive. Hopefully you like what you see in the mirror!  It’s no easy feat in this culture, where we limit the ideas of beauty.  Especially for women, right!? I myself suffered from Barbie complex (and I still catch myself in moments sometimes) where I thought unless I looked like the perfect skinny toned perky Californian blondie, I couldn’t be loved or beautiful.  It sucks when you live in fear of cellulite, water retention, wrinkles, pimples, and all the other stuff that comes with being woman/human! That’s not pretty. True beauty is confidence. Self-acceptance. Joy. Trust. Good posture.  Open-heartedness. A smile is beautiful.  In a nutshell, when you are radiant, glowing yourself, your own true Divine frequency out to the Universe, that is beautiful. Then you are a real bite of bait for the right soulmate.

Fall in love with yourself

That’s it. That’s what it takes–become a narcissist!  Kidding. That’s so not the right word…Self-adoring, that’s a better fit! You don’t have to be self-absorbed in a selfish or narcissistic way to love yourself.  True self-love is the kind where you are so in love with yourself that you see God/Goddess in yourself.  Then, you see that God/Goddess and you are one. You feel the oneness of your soul with all souls, with divinity.  You look in the mirror and see love and light that comes from your being a child of God/Goddess. And that you are not separate from God/Goddess.  This becomes very exciting! Then you realize that all beings are little fractions of God, or more like microcosms of the macrocosm through which you can explore Oneness.

There are many potential soulmates out there for you to test out

Some are zany, insane, sexy, scary, goofy, interesting, boring, annoying, beautiful, and highly unattractive reflections of God/Goddess.  Your job: to love everything and everyone in an unconditionally loving and twin flame attraction compassionate way while discerning what is best for you as a human.  It is not wrong to be attracted to certain types and not others.  It is not wrong if you grew up around a certain type of person and feel comfortable marrying only that type of person.  Never date (in the long term, one date is OK!) or marry someone you’re not attracted to.  I do suggest trying to date outside of your race, class, spirituality, social group etc., so that you can understand Oneness through diversity.  You will learn a lot as you seek out your Twin Flame.  Moreover, it is possible that your Twin Flame is not a part of your inner circle/race etc. Many Twin Flames have reported to be living in different parts of the globe yet attract each other through divine guidance (plus online connecting or crossing during travels). They seem to often know that despite the differences of culture/race etc., there is an instant feeling Twin Flame recognition that is quite strong.

Your soul knows what you need, and your human self will be guided and follow the path perfectly to the perfect mate.  It’s OK to kiss a few frogs on the journey too, but do keep in mind that you must be happy, blissful, satisfied!  It all starts with gratitude for where you’re at, which is what I discussed in my article Harnessing Gratitude to Harness  your Twin Flame!

Fall in love with the mirror to attract an attractive partner

Self-Love & Beauty Mirror Ritual:

Twin Flame Love

Look in the mirror and repeat the following prayer/affirmation:

“I am beautiful. I love the soul that I see appearing in the mirror. The soul in the mirror loves me back. She (or he) is me.  I love the home–the temple body of my soul.  My body, skin, face, hair and every nuance of me is perfect.  By Divine Design, I am pure and perfect love. I love myself. I am attractive. I am sexy. I am beauty. I am joy coming into human incarnation.  My lashes are luscious. My skin is soft. Every corner, curve, wrinkle and nerve of me is placed perfectly so that I can attract the right person/people into my life.  My body serves me for my highest purpose and I love her.  My body is pretty sexy! My curves are gorgeous.  My imperfections are totally perfect. I love the things I complain about, and I complain about them less and less.  I love me, for all of me! Thank God/dess for the body I have, and the soul mates with which I share my body are damn lucky!”

AMEN