This year, I’ve been reclaiming my passion for writing again, despite the fact that I have a slight learning disability that makes it really easy to make typos, get distracted, and become incredibly self-critical.
I used to struggle with low self-esteem, feeling stupid, not good enough, and it petrified me from sharing my voice through writing. When I did write, it was like pulling teeth, and I had to edit my work like a million times. It was no walk in the park.
It didn’t help that I am now writing about esoteric ‘woo woo’ topics (part of the job as a Twin Flame Matchmaker) that often brings up a lot of my insecurities (like Will they think I’m crazy?!)
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker with a successful private practice, writing has been a key way to access new clients while expressing my heart and soul with the world.
Yet just a few years ago I was blocked in my writing, in my career, in my finances, and in my power. I drove myself so crazy with my blocks, that I nearly wanted to leave the planet because I knew how far away I was from living my talents, dreams, and soul-purpose.
Wahooo….I broke free!
This year’s writing breakthrough helped me heal myself, and my writing has really made an impact on my BLI$$ness (business + bliss + big buck$) which recently hit 6-figures. I am still in shock after making 4-figures all through my 20s! The key secrets to my writing and BLI$$ness success is speaking from my heart, not caring what people think, and being in service while loving myself as a High-Healed Priestess. Bet you didn’t see that coming, did ya?
Writing was love-hate for me before this year. I hated deadlines, feared critics, and knew that I’d be making loads of ‘mistakes,’ typos, and grammatical errors. Unless I hired a professional editor (which cramps my style and just didn’t appeal), I knew I’d be baring my ass out to the world, which was just embarrassing! Yet I was called to spread Light, share my message, and teach others that they too could be Lightworkers changing the world without having to be perfect. Oh, and get paid in the process!
Me writing in my ‘office with a view’ in Crete, Greece
I just love getting paid to write while helping people, like I used to do in my early 20s when I was an expat nutrition and fitness writer in Shanghai (which never made me much money, but it was a start and I was less self-conscious because there was so little competition there as most writers wrote in Chinese!).
Though I am not yet technically a ‘paid writer’ directly through articles or books, I am paying myself with the income I gain from clients who find me via search engines using words like “twin flame soulmate” and “goddess of abundance!” So my writing dreams have come alive again in the most unexpected way!
How to make money off your blog (a few tips):
There is no one right way to make blogs pay off. I know my way has been fast and effective, and it doesn’t include making money directly from the blog, but comes from people finding me through my blog. Blogs can make you good money if you know how to convert readers into paying clients or customers. I highly recommend selling high-end services or products if you’re brand-spakingin’ new in your biz. I would have starved to death if I started selling products at $5-50/pop. I see most spiritual people writing blogs and doing services by donation (e-begging) and it makes me so sad to see those PayPal icons when I know they could be helping people while making good money from their high-end services or products.
Selling is also a big piece of the picture, but I will talk about that in other blogs. Mainly I wanted to reiterate how beneficial it has been for me to gain readers via the blog, gain their trust, and then convert them into paying clients whom I love! These Soulmate Clients burst my heart open with joy, and they feel like they know me before even meeting me because of my blogs (and YouTube/social media posts as well). My clients almost always tell me they hire me because they appreciate my rawness, my weirdness, and my unique flavor. It’s almost as if they can recognize that we are soul family before even meeting me, simply by reading my blog or viewing my YouTube channel. And what a marketing time-saver, instead of marketing to individuals over and over – blogs make you money while speaking to a vast number of peeps! Love the spiritual leverage.
Selling through your spiritual blog is really awesome!
Luckily, I have a magical gift in selling to my Soulmate Clients (soul family members who receive your soul-purpose based services in exchange for financial currency). I am super psyched to be teaching my students at Aphrodite University how to use my Seductive Selling tips to their Soulmate Clients who visit their sites! Because I have converted my blog readers, Facebook followers, and YouTube viewers into paying clients, my 6-figure BLI$$ness has taken me to magical and exotic travel destinations this year, which has unleashed a creative beast in me. I highly recommend trying to make money as a spiritual healer, teacher, writer, Lightworker – your bliss saves your own life as it saves the world!
My perfectionism got converted into my pleasurerrectionism!
What’s more, is that I’ve learned to accept my typos as ‘quirks’ and have really let go of perfectionism! This yielded way more readers, better blogs (if you ask me), and wayyyyyy more pleasure on my part. Because of this, I have successfully been able to write a blog a week (and sometimes several per day because I get so excited!). Blog writers’ block GONE….Cheers to having overcome a diagnosed learning ‘BLI$$ability,’ healing shame about the way I learn and express myself. Anyone can do this, because if I can do it, so can you sister!
My writing adventures have taken me and come with me abroad this year. I have made several blog entries on my pink Macbook Pro Retina from San Francisco, Greece, Italy, Costa Rica, and Los Angeles. My favorite writing local was a remote spot on Crete overlooking the ocean, where I got to access internet via my iPhone’s SIM card. Oh, it was from an ancient cave, a house built right into the cave wall! The views of the ocean, olive groves, and mountains were stunning, and I believe my creativity cracked open on Crete this year (as well as my inner cretan who just doesn’t care what others think about me!).
I highly recommend visiting Crete to rekindle your ties to Ancient Atlantis, if you feel connected and called. Everyone I know who has gone there has come back with the souvenir of more creativity, an Atlantean activation, and a Higher Self soul-alignment. I highly recommend traveling with your writing to wherever your heart and Higher Self guides you, you won’t regret it.
To me, writing has become an indulgence that happens to help some people (or at least that’s what they’re telling me), that helps me express the real me, that gets my ideas and thoughts solidified. Oh, and expressing my inner love and putting it out there into cyberspace brings me a great deal of joy. Finally, the BLI$$ buck$ that naturally seems to be following are a hoot too!
It’s time for you too, baby…
It’s so cool that I’ve used my ‘imperfect brain’ to build a 6-figure BLI$$ness I love! I never would have imagined that my fun goofy side that loves to roll with the punches, channel Pleiadian Light, and be as wild and woo woo and as weird as I want to be could be appreciated, paid, and professional all at the same time! Check out my blog to help you bust blog perfectionism here.
I say YES to loving and living your dream and writing it all out like a giant ongoing love letter to the world. I say go now, no matter how low your self-esteem is, how imperfect you are, or how stupid you believe you are. I say, the weirder, the better. The world has been suffering of boredom for centuries and it’s making us all sick in the head!
You can achieve your dreams, your bliss, your abundance…Because you are a holy friggin’ awesome child of God/dess and the world needs your love and wisdom and woo woo magic! That’s all the recipe takes. Now go bliss, bless, and blog your heart out to the world in 2014.
Lots of BLI$$ings and good blog fortune.
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker and Founder of Aphrodite University.
In this blog, I am pumped to teach you sexy BLI$$preneurs how to create fabulous flowing blogs that attract your high-paying soulmate clients through a more fun and Divinely Feminine way of blogging that breaks the traditional rules. You’ll learn how to:
- Get over your fear of blogging and online marketing
- Ignite your Shakina fire (Divine Feminine fire) that seemingly attracts readers from thin air
- Clear away perfectionism, which kills your ability to attract your soulmate clients
- Attract soulmate clients and money in ease, being more fabulously YOU!
- Be in a vibration of Divine Feminine Attraction, so you can attracting whatever you want, including your Twin Flame soulmate
End perfectionist thinking ASAP:
Shame on you naughty girl! You made a typo on that blog post!? It’s time for your spanking. Typos are for losers, not for 6-figure business women! NO, we don’t do that. We are perfect: we don’t forget to dot our Is, never stumble in our businesses, and and we don’t sweat, fart, or burp either.
It’s way more important to share your message of love and light with the world, with slight flaws in the delivery process, than to be typo-free and restrict your creative process, your voice, or not write at all. The number one key to getting over your fears of online marketing and blogging is to focus on your soul purpose, your mission of making this world a better place.
Focus on them. Not you.
Think of the readers you’ll be helping, versus the readers who will be judging you. Speaking to them will call them in. Imagine making a heart connection to these soulmate clients before writing your blogs. They’ll love you and enjoy your energy! If you make a typo or say something that isn’t 100% brilliant, they won’t care or even notice. Or they’ll love that you’re exposing a raw vulnerable side because it allows them permission for theirs.
When I write my blogs, I try to think of a specific person I want to help in the world, and I write advice to support her. Or, I write the blog to a past version of myself who was stuck, scared, confused, traumatized, etc., and tell her how she can change her life. This is healing and self-loving! The more you focus on love, the more the fear subsides.
How to Blog to Attract Your Soulmate Clients
Your ‘soulmate clients’ are clients who are in your soul-family, and who have a soul-contract to work with you. They want you, not some creepy fake who is focused on perfection and who isn’t really being herself. The more you shine your light as a beacon, the more quickly your soul-family and soulmate clients will come to you in droves. This has happened with me, which is why my business has done so well in such a short amount of time.
Put your love and light into your blogs, and they will cum…I mean come! PU$$Y Power is another tool that you can use to infuse your blogs with sparkly magical powers. Activate your PU$$Y Powers and ask the energy to flow into your blog. Write from your PU$$Y Power, and do the PU$$Y Power meditation here before writing:
Women think that the secret to running a 6-figure business is by being a perfectionist. But that’s not true at all.
Right now, women need role-models that they can relate to more than ever; we want imperfect role-models that we can never aspire to be like. Look at me, I’m not perfect, but used to try to be, and I was poor and couldn’t get clients to hire me. I only made around $4,000 a year in my 20s! Then, I fell apart, had a Dark Night of the Soul, got arrested for doing mushrooms and my partner left me. I also had a lot of bills to pay and got kicked out of my housing situation.
It was then realized I couldn’t ever be perfect, and so I said F$ck it, let me spread my messages of love and light and forget the rest. That’s what’s made me rich – not trying to be perfect, and just spreading my Shakina light. I am now I am making great money as the Twin Flame Matchmaker, like this month I made a record for myself of $15,000 (shocking even for me!). When I speak authentically in my marketing, blogs, etc., I know that my clients are finding and hiring me out of love, and not out of needing me to be someone I’m not. I’m real, and I make a ton of mistakes. Making mistakes hasn’t affected my business income at all, it doesn’t affect my self-esteem, and it doesn’t stop the fun! So every time I see a typo, I tell myself how awesome I am and that it’s A-OK.
Women bloggers and business women have been brainwashed by the whole perfectionist thing, and it blocks their feminine flow and their currency flow
We women healers often get stuck. We don’t write our blogs, do our marketing, get our YouTube videos done, and it cuts off our income. I was verbally abused as a child by a teacher, and I had major writers block in college, and it got so bad that I’d stay up the night before writing a procrastinated 25-page paper because I feared writing so much! I thought I was a bad writer, and on some level thought I actually was stupid. Which is funny now that I realized that they don’t let stupid people into an Ivy League caliber college (I went to Duke)! But wasn’t until I had a soul-family professor named Dr. Naomi Quinn who took me under her wing
So start writing those blogs, sprinkle in some juicy typos to see if people are paying attention. I have seen so many women stop writing at all, and stay paralyzed with fear believing that they can’t become 6-figure successful until they somehow magically become perfect (like me, ha ha ha, NOT!). All of us were taught to be good girls, that we had to be quiet, neat, small, adorable, pretty, the list goes on… And that there was something inherently wrong with us. That we weren’t smart enough or pretty enough or enough enough. That our pussies were gross and basically that being a female is just lame. Unless you are perfect, then you can release your shame!
You are allowed to be you, in your wild free Shakina ways. So just blog it.
Fuck blogging and business perfection, or perfection of any sort. The Shakina is like ocean waves, not like lines connecting on a graph. We’re curvy, flowy, erotic, magical, intangible, but it works. We create life, take a seed, mix it with stardust, and new babies are born. Women are magical, and we’re perfect because we were made perfect, not because we can contort ourself into pretty little boxes. It’s time to ignite the Shakina energies in you. There are so many ways to do this. Infinite ways. Start giving yourself permission to fuck up, to play, to use magic, and to open new doorways. Do this in your business. Or as I call it, a BLI$$ness (business + bliss + big buck$ the Divine Feminine way).
You are a reflection of the Great Shakina, and the Divine Feminine energies are flowing, passionate, and furious. You don’t have time for perfection. Sure, edit your blogs, but it’s more important to spread your messages, share the love, than it is to stay stuck in fear of being judged. People who judge you heavily shouldn’t be working with you anyway.
Life is short and you have a lot of saving the world to do before you die.
The planet needs you, and they don’t need you to dot your Is. So what if you spelled their instead of there while in the middle of your channeling fit? The words spilled out from your fingertips onto your Macbook Pro keyboard straight from the Higher Dimensions, because that’s how you roll as a High-Healed Priestess (modern day high priestess with O-balls). Quit editing yourself so much, for you are a goddess and everything you say is gold! Or at least the vibration is, and the words aren’t really even the thing that matters. It’s just showing up.
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have become clear that women who are seeking their Twin Flame soulmate absolutely must master all 7 chakras before they attract and soul-marry their beloved. Therefore, writing from the heart will help you open your 5th chakra, which tends to be blocked in most healers, and will get you in touch with the 4th chakra, which needs to be high-vibrating to attract your Twin Flame. When you learn to attract your soulmate clients, you are learning the exact same energetics of attracting your Twin Flame, which are all soul-family, or people who have reincarnated on the earth from the same soul group. Letting go of perfectionism, letting your flaws flow, and letting the light shine brighter through the flaws are all things that also must be mastered before you can be ready for your Twin Flame partner. Otherwise, you’ll attract a Twin Flame Counterfeit who is attracted to your perfect facade, and it will blow up in your face. And trust me, you don’t want that!
Sending you all my love and light and a few friggin’ awesome typos in this and future blogs I’m sure! BLI$$ings,
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a BLI$$ness fairy and Twin Flame Matchmaker, helping single spiritual women create stellar 6-figure BLI$$nesses and attract their Twin Flames.