In my YouTube video, What the Heck Is a Twin Flame? I define a Twin Flame as the other half of your soul incarnate. It’s living breathing you in the carnage (physical human form) of another. Same soul, different meat-suit.
According to Greek mythology, we were all once attached to our Twin Flame. If we had a male or female other half attached directly to us. But our powers were too strong, we became so godlike that Zeus got jealous and
had humans sliced in half. ‘Til this day, we’re still suffering looking for our Divine Match, according to this metaphorical (I think!?) legend. In another blog article, What Is a Twin Flame? Twin Flame Q & A by A Twin Flame Expert, I talked about the difference between a Twin Flame Love and a soulmate love.
A soulmate in essence is a soul who comes in to teach you a lesson (and vice versa) and it can be romantic or not. If a Twin Flame being the other half of your soul can be a very exciting concept for those of us new to waking up, or those of us who have been awake but not yet totally aligned in relationship. Twin Flame seeking then becomes a very beautiful path of self-discovery then.
Not many people have known about our ability to attract a Twin Flame up until recently.
Many spiritual schools taught that a Twin Flame is something not worth seeking or of importance; some schools teach that it’s outright impossible for most. But it’s 2016, and the matrix energetics are realigning. New perspectives are allowing us to seek the answers within, and often times the answers say “I don’t choose to believe that,” and it is so. We are what we think. Beliefs shift reality. Once indoctrinated to believe we simply couldn’t have what we wanted, now we can indoctrinate ourselves with whatever we choose.
In 2012, we became our own doctors. Our own teachers, masters, gurus, shrinks, and lovers. That doesn’t mean that we can’t get external guidance and motivation along the way and that all external mentors are ineffective. Contrarily, teachers are simply mirrors of ourselves showing us what we believe or deep down know inside of us. When we have false teachings show up, it’s ourselves giving ourselves a test with a trick question on it. Do you (a) Write it off that you can’t have your Twin Flame because someone told you or it hasn’t happened, (b) Believe in Twin Flames but choose that it’s not likely for you, (c) Stay openminded and open-hearted to the idea as you deeply seek deep self-soul love, or (d) Decide that you definitely have to have a Twin Flame or else (you’ll die perhaps!?)? The best answer I suggest is (c). Why not give love a try, with the parachute on your back being the deepest sense of self-love and self care?
How do I know if my partner is my Twin Flame? First, ask yourself, do you even really want a Twin Flame? Here is what is required of being in a Twin Flame relationship:
- Deep soul evolution, being on an Ascension path
- Self-awareness at all times, on all levels
- Being conscious from a Higher Self perspective
- Being grounded in the earth plane and facing your insecurities
- Going through a Dark Night of the Soul, if needed, to get to the Higher Self aspect
- Healing your root chakra and learning to make friends with money, survival, and wealth consciousness
- Being willing to surrender everything you currently “know” as love
- Being willing to leave a bad marriage or even a pretty decent one that is not your Twin Flame relationship
- To learn and know the difference between karmic soulmate love and Twin Flame Love vibrations
- Letting go of the way things look
- Being willing to fall in love with someone who might not fit into the box of traditional relationships
- Being open to your Twin Flame being on another side of the globe or of a different culture
- Tons of clearing, healing cleaning, de-cluttering of your aura, home, finances, and all aspects of your life so they align with the truth
- Finally, and most importantly: deep unconditional self-soul love and gratitude
Darn! That’s a long list, I know you’re saying. It is. Yet think about all the soul growth you’ve already done in your life and even over the past few years. That’s a long list too.
Even if you have just a few things on the list above, you’re already getting Twin Flame set if you so desire. Now back to the question, how do you know if you’re in a Twin Flame relationship? Simply study yourself and how you are showing up in your current relationship.
Twin Flame Examination Starts at the Self.
First focus on YOU, and not the relationship (an external Twin Flame Mirror of you)…
Staring at you allows you to empower yourself and go to the source of the Twin Flame relationship, since you’re the only one you’ll be with 24-hours a day for the rest of your life! And you are the one who decides if someone is your Twin Flame. I have been told by several men that they were likely my Twin Flame and with pressure and persuasion behind it for not so Light reasons…it seems “Hey baby, I think you’re my Twin Flame” could be the latest New Age pickup line!
When we don’t start at ourselves, we often end up in situations of abandonment and needing to heal a broken heart by a false Twin Flame
Here are the questions to ask yourself as you evaluate your current relationship to see if you are with your Divine Beloved:
- Do I deeply know myself?
- Do I love what I see when I look in the mirror?
- Do I spend lots of time doing things I love?
- Do I have a rock solid relationship with rocks, nature, trees, water, earth, fire and even fairies?
- Do I give myself full credit for being as powerful as I am?
- Do I criticize or hate myself in any way and let myself get away with it?
- Can I financially support myself and do so blissfully or do I have a job I hate that gives me migraines?
- Do I have a relationship to my sensuality and understand my sacred sexuality?
- Have I let go of all of my past relationships fully?
- Does my heart feel so open wide that I love all things?
- Do I have a huge dose of unconditional self-love?
- Do I have a huge doses of unconditional love for every being on the planet?
True Twin Flame Litmus Testing to Be Released Next Fall!
Joking:) So you wanna take a litmus test to know if your guy/gal is the Twin Flame for you?! Pee into this panel and I’ll send it off to the lab and tell ya:) Kidding! While they haven’t come out with a Twin Flame fool proof test, you can try this one to get some good ideas:
- Have I “come out of the closet” as a healer, indigo, crystal child, rainbow, etc, or do I hide myself and my talents to “play it safe” in front of my partner?
- T or F? In a way, I know I could leave this person, because we are so entirely at one that on some level it doesn’t matter if we’re together or apart. I have faced my fears of disappointing him or her and my own fears of abandonment.
- Am I staying with this person for the sake of the children, appearances, or out of insecurity?
- Do I find this person attractive on most all levels?
- Has your partner ever abused you verbally, physically, or psychically?
- Is your relationship of service to the planet in a way that serves people outside of the relationship/family? (This can count even if it’s through deep love energetically releasing to the world).
- Is there one single thing that doesn’t fit that keeps eating away at you or the relationship that you can’t let go for over more than a year? Sorry, I hate to break it to you, but this sounds like a deal-breaker…
- Have you not unlocked some really old childhood fears and behaviors and family programs that are inhibiting your current relationship to a great degree? (this is not a total sign s/he isn’t the one, but it’s a good sign that as you heal, your energy will greatly shift making you more TF eligible).
- Does your partner fully love you and support you and accept you?
- Does your partner reject your ideas frequently, or not understand who you are on the deepest level?
- Do you and your partner not know a lot about each others Higher Self energies?
- Would you give your life for this person? If so, that’s not a good sign! You have to always put yourself first:) That was a trick question BTW!
Truly the best way to know if someone is your Twin Flame is to know yourself. Don’t forget that you are your greatest resource at all moments, and you are the Godchild/Goddesschild of the One. Feel free to check out my video How Do I Know if Someone is My Twin Flame?
Dr Amanda Noelle, the Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps match High-Healed Priestesses with their Twin Flames at light speed while helping them build 6-figure purpose-based BLI$$nesses.
Thanks for stopping by! I’m Dr. Amanda Noelle, the BLI$$ness Coach, helping High-Healed Priestesses turn their bliss into 6-Figure BLI$$nesses that heal the planet. And I’d like to tell you why men and your own Divine Masculine aspect have been fearing your Divine Feminine bliss for the past…oh, several thousand years!
Divine Feminine bliss is the scariest thing on the planet. Boo! Don’t you fear, doubt, and at some times hate your own Divine Feminine bliss? I know I do on some level. I know that’s why High Priestesses got kicked out of Egypt thousands of years ago to create a world and civilizations dominated by men at war, in the most ickiest of ways. Greed, war, financial and political systems that screwed women over completely, and many men too. The raw, robust, alive power of Divine Feminine bliss has gotten us women into trouble in the past, which is why we subconsciously fear death if we follow our bliss. It’s also why we went through many lifetimes of witch burnings and persecution and why we’ve been kicked out of The Temple (in most all religions worldwide, collectively I call this “The Temple” but it also relates to the Temple of Solomon that was once based on a Sacred Feminine site).
The Divine Feminine is bad, the Patriarchy is good, it is God. What!? That’s what we were programmed with for the past 5,000ish years, and it’s only now that we’re really waking up to the BS (belief systems/bullshit) that we’ve been living by.
We’ve been taught to fear our Divine Femininity: our bliss, our beauty, female intuition, and even our own bodies, especially our vaginas. Our own gorgeous vaginas! What the f#c&! Why in heaven’s name have we been raised with this mashugana, this total distorted brainwashing (and even PU$$Y washing, which is why Summer’s Eve Douche tries to tell you your sacred temple needs some chemicals up there), this dis-ease that has disempowered us from our own sacred feminine treasures and bliss? It’s so unsexy, and it’s caused a lot of healers, high priestesses, and spiritual men – and really all of us – unnecessary pain by this raping and abuse of the Divine Feminine. Thank Goddess this backwards era is coming to an end and we Vaginas can take over again (or at least share the planet with our Twin Flame/equal men!)
Men (and you) are afraid of Divine Feminine bliss for the following 6 reasons. I am not saying they don’t love it and adore it and even go crazy over it. They do! But there’s a lot of healing we have to do in our businesses and with our own masculine and around being seen with men. So I share this list with you:
- Power is scary The Divine Feminine is a very powerful force, and power is powerful, which makes the parts of us that don’t feel powerful want to run and hide.
- Men are envious of our procreative power Men have been envious of the Divine Feminine gifts that we women hold, and that’s natural because we are indeed amazing, but we haven’t set a boundary being like “Yo men, we’re awesome, and you are jealous about that, but it’s not our fault so go deal with it and create something awesome with your Divine Masculine amazingness.”
- Your goddess energy makes him crazy Divine Feminine energies can make men go crazy; their lust and desires for it can make them feel out of control, so to some men this arousing property in women is very intimidating, scary.
- He’s angry at his mama The Divine Feminine power has made men very angry at their mothers for creating life (their life) and then for the separation from that life; whereas girls can create life at some point and are always in a womb vibration because we have wombs. That is why birthing has been so painful instead of ecstatic, when birthing should be and can be ecstatic. The guilt carried by women in our wombs for being so magical and powerful needs to stop, and we need to start being proud of our magic again.
- His vibration is slower than yours Females have an energetic vibration of 140 beats/second, while men have a vibration of only 40 beats; when in utero we all have a vibration of 240 beats through our pregnant mothers’ high vibrations. The separation process from mother can be more traumatic for boys for this reason. The boys grow up and become men but they haven’t resolved this inner conflict and are often holding subconscious anger towards the Feminine for abandoning him. This is why many men abandon women over and over again, and why many women fear abandonment with men.
Men, you are awesome, we need you. But/and we cannot sit around feeling guilty all the time for the fact that you can’t birth life and that your energy runs differently from ours. We do need you, we are lonely without you and you do so many things for us. Your energy is very grounding and we’d love your support. But we are no longer willing to pay the price by subduing ourselves, numbing out our Feminine Energy, blocking our sacred sexuality, or trying to become like you. Finally, we’re not sorry that we’re hot mamas, sexy tantrickas, spiritual-intuitives, and part of the sacred mystery of creation (and so are you, we need your seed)! We honor your gifts and your abilities, and now it’s our time that you honor ours. We hope you understand. We love you, we hold you, and we’re not doing it as martyrs but as enlightened High-Heal Priestesses who expect the best and who are willing to wait until you can join us for this amazing Twin Flame dance party of Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine bliss on the sacred Gaian dance floor.
Women, we gotta own our bliss! Grab onto our PU$$Y Power! Hold your O-balls (ovaries)!! Let’s start rebuilding The Divine Feminine Temple again so there’s a space for men and women to co-create together. We must start with rebuilding the Divine Feminine Temple without men as the center and it may take focusing on women at first to ground and stabilize the Feminine frequency.
With our Divine Feminine bliss, we must tap into our wealth consciousness, and our financial power. Honestly, how blissful can a woman be if she’s traveling in hostels or Motel 6s while on her bliss mission? I’m leaving on a jet plane for Italy next month to follow my bliss, and it was the scariest decision I had to make because there was so much energy saying that if I followed my bliss something bad would happen, my business would fail, I would lose money, I would be stuck in a bad situation… But I chose to go anyway to show my HHPs (High-Healed Priestesses) that they absolutely must start owning their Divine Feminine bliss and there are no excuses anymore!
Be a beacon of bliss, be the bliss temple, the ecstasy, and in doing so you will heal all the past generations of persecution and pain in all of your past ancestors and soulmates, and future ancestors and future soul mates. And of course of your Beloved Twin Flame.
There is an ancient secret power that resides deep inside every woman. I am unlocking this BIG time right now, and I wanted to remind you that you have it too…
I call this feline-like Feminine power “Pussy Power,” and I often spell it with two dollar signs, “PU$$Y Power!”
This eternal Sacred Feminine energy is the stuff of life, of passion, purpose, and pleasure, and when tapped into can attract all things your heart desires; this includes attracting your high-paying soulmate clients in your bli$$ness, business opportunities, speaking gigs, cash flowing, etc.
What is PU$$Y Power? It is a primal life-force of erotic power that is generated in the female body. It’s not only related to sexual energy, it’s related to anything having to do with creation from the etheric world into the physical world that we live in, from Heaven to Earth.
PU$$Y Power is a priceless life-force that can help you attract anything you want: from a romantic partner, to more money, a living situation, anything your heart or your favorite body part desires!
Anatomically, PU$$Y Power is generated from the G-spot and the other 6 Yoni Gates: clit, cervix, labia, mouth of the womb, center of the womb, and the “conception area,” as well as all over the body, the other reproductive areas, the brain, and even the entire aura and chakras.
PU$$Y Power is moved through the chakras and Kundalini pathways.
It is energetically an attractive (magnetic) energy, as well as a nurturing one.
Imagine a bee flying toward the nectar of the flower. The flower is exuding her nectar, the physical substance, but the energy behind this sweet perfume is the Pu$$y Power.
In it’s rawest essence, PU$$Y Power is the same as the Female side of your Twin Flame Love, taking form in the female reproductive area, holding the purest form of Divine Feminine essence of your soul.
Get over your Pussy Power Phobias
We are all at least a little afraid of pussy, of our Pussy Power, and that in other women.
OMGoddess, say, “I have a pussy, and she has Pu$$ Power! Hear her roar!”
In the ancient priestess temples, young girls were educated by the other women on how pussies worked, and there was a sacred reverence for pussy, not all this shame!
Why don’t they teach you this sh*t in sex-ed? They really should have had a tantric sex-ed class, right!? Twin Flame Tantra 101…
So now that you know what Pussy Power is, how can you relinquish the fears instilled in you from birth around your PU$$Y Power? Oh, and a hundred past lives too!?
Yes, all women have been programed to fear our Divine birthright as women. We are afraid of the Divine Feminine Herself, which is why religious leaders of the Patriarchal religions have been particularly fearful of women discovering their own Pussy Power.
But I won’t go there because I could rant and rave about that for a lifetime.
Here are six secrets to healing and rediscovering your Pu$$y Power:
1) Pu$$yFirmations instead of writing down assfirmations (affirmations, typo, sorry), write down pussyfirmations – things that remind you of how wonderful having PU$$Y Power is.
Here are my top three today:
“My pussy is powerful and attracts whatever she needs and repels whatever she doesn’t”
“I have a million dollar PU$$Y!”
“My PU$$Y Power attracts 5 clients to me this week”
“My PU$$Y Power attracts my most magical love stud this month!”
2) Rose quartz insemination
So we all know that crystals are powerful healing agents. The science behind crystals is fascinating, and you can research more about this on your own. The molecular structure of silica in crystals brings forth a symmetrical “sacred geometrical” chain lattice.
It basically creates and even flow of energy that is healing and balancing. It’s like a reboot to your system. Rose quartz is a great example – it balances the loving frequencies in a very feminine way, and if you are sensitive and open, you can feel it. It’s known as the heart-chakra stone, and it’s energy is very healing. Place this master healing stone inside your vagayjay. Yeah, in your vag.
Seriously girls, it’s an ancient secret that you won’t find in your Cosmopolitan magazine, but it’s been passed down through the lineage of the High-Healed Priestesses and I pass it to you. Insert the smooth rose-quartz stone (obviously no sharp edges in your honeypot!) after you have cleansed, charged and blessed the stone.
3) Look at your vagina regularly
We are all healing from generations of fear of Pu$$y Power. God forbid your mother or grandmother or X female relative or friend was raped.
Unfortunately, many of us are healing from energetic or actual sexual abuse and shame. So we often fear the beauty of what lies between our legs, because there are too many traumas and old wounds to look. But do it woman, get that mirror, get spread-eagle, and stare her in the eye.
She is beautiful! See her soul, her radiance, and say: “I love you, it’s nice to see you again, I honor your power.” And advanced level Pu$$y Powerettes: ask your pussy to respond, and you can even have a conversation with the “soul of your pussy.” The question would be, do you have an ass-soul? Hmmm, I don’t know if I’d wanna meet him in a dark alley! Lol 🙂
4) Look at other pu$$ies!
What?! But how do I look at other pussies if I am not bi/lesbian? It’s easy…
There’s a little creepy fella I met the other day called Google. Just put the words “pink pussy” into Google, and hit enter. Then hit images for Google Images. You’ll see all kinds of pussies of all shapes and sizes.
You can put other key words next to pussies to get an ethnic mix of pussies. Any type of pussy you can imagine is on the web. Wow, thank you for sharing your innermost flower and Pu$$y Power with us!
Although most porn industry models have been struggling from sexual abuse, I would say that many of them are like regular old lightworkers like you or I but who are healing out those lower chakras by expressing their PU$$Y Power openly.
When you see their images, send them love and light and wish them healing as they heal your sexual shyness and shame. I know that staring at women’s naked bodies on the internet has been very healing for me, as I had a lot of PU$$Y Power shame and it wasn’t pretty.
It was only when I could see the variety of other women’s bodies, that I could see how perfect and pretty my pussy was, and it makes it a hell of a lot more fun with my Beloved in bed.
You’ll want to to look at real pussies too, which is why at my Pussy Power Powwows, I gather women together to face their shame and awaken into their Pussy Power with yoni gazing together!
5) Hit up that twat with a 432 hz tuning fork
There is a little tool called a 432 hz tuning fork that is very cleansing of the water in your body, and water holds onto memory and trauma.
To heal out sexual fear, shame, abuse, and stuckness in the lower chakras, banging a 432 hz tuning fork and placing it spread-eagle next to your lovely leg-connector (your crotch area), you can heal out tremendous amounts of fear, grief, anger, etc., and this is important work since you have a big mission and job to do on this planet! No more stuck blocked lower chakras ladies, you are too precious for that. Unblock ’em, get moving, and be brave and bold with that PU$$Y Power!
6) Pleasure. Pleasure pleasure pleasure!
Get it girl, pleasure yourself. You can use your hands, a dildo, someone else’s hands or other body parts, even a penis will do… Kidding! Penises are sacred and that was a bad joke.
Penises connected to a quality loving man will of course more than do! Thank you men for your magic love-wand-appendages.
My point was, you gotta bring bliss and love and passion into your pussy to activate your Pu$$y Power. A stale and stuck yoni (female part in Sanskrit) holds no water, no nourishment, and this ain’t good! Get grounded into your Pussy Power through pleasure.
Now how’s that for some PU$$Y Power 101!? Good luck girls, go to it, get your power on, and enjoy every molecule and every moment. It’s all part of the soul-purposed mission you have as a high-end healer and as a High-Healed Priestess. You’ll be attracting good stuff left and right, clients, money, opportunities, ease, and bliss, so that you can live your life like it’s one big vacation.
-Dr. Amanda Noelle