Four Hot Tips to Boost the Law of Attraction to Attract Your Soulmate

Four Hot Tips to Boost the Law of Attraction to Attract Your Soulmate

Applying Twin Flame Law of Attraction to attract your Twin Flame or soulmate is great, but you can’t do it using Twin Flame affirmations, visualization and energy work alone. Mr. or Ms. Right won’t show up up on your doorstep unless you put in a little effort in the ‘real world’ too. Here are four sizzling hot tips to help you meet your Twin Flame fast by playing big, bold, and fearlessly in your Twin Flame dating world!

Tip Number One: Just get the F$%k out There!twin flame coach

I know you might not want to face it, but you’ve gotta start taking action and get moving, shaking, and dating if you haven’t been lately. The molecules should be dancing and spinning at an ‘I am dating and ready!’ frequency in order for  your Twin Flame to arrive in your world. We High-Healed Priestesses can often get lazy when it comes to dating because we get stuck in the spiritual world and often hide there. We make vision boards, write our Twin Flame affirmations, and never get around to actually dating…

Who cares if you’re pretty, popular, or perfect? You deserve love now because you are a Divine creation of the Creator!

Take bold little steps every day. For instance, when you’re in line at the grocery store and like someone, casually chat with him/her. Or even ask him out! Flirt with people by asking them where they got their clothes. Men often like really dumb questions, so don’t get hung up on the words. A simple smile often will do to get things started.

One of my favorite pick up lines that really works is saying this word with a smile: “Hi!”

twin flame reincarnationMy friend Rhea needed to snag her crush before he walked out of the door on the night we did her Twin Flame activation ritual (we were in a pub and it seemed as if her crush was going to leave soon). I told her to run up to him fast and talk to him, and suggested she ask him something random. So she asked him if he was from Texas. He said No, he was from Sweden! Flattered by her bravery, it was love at first sight, they moved in together within a few weeks, and it made one of my favorite Twin Flame success stories success stories!

What do you have to lose? Be bold and playful. Ask him/her to ask you out. Joke and use physical touch to get his attention, even just a little pat on the back or graze of your hand on his. Men love being lightly showered with touch and attention, as do women!

Approach your fears online if it calls you

Ain’t no shame in going cyber-lovin’! Go Twin Flame online dating if you haven’t tried it lately and you feel open to it. A lot of women resist online dating, but a whopping one third of U.S. married couples met online!  This third may not be you just because you decide to hit up the internet for a few dates. If you totally don’t resonate with online dating, just go onto one of the websites and “shop” for men as an exercise, women always get a giggle from this at least, and it puts us in a dating energy. You may browse OK Cupid and not even have to go on an actual date there to meet your soulmate, but the cyber dating energy can be good. It’ll help you get out there, out of your head, possibly out of your house, and back in the dating pool again if it’s been a while.  I’ve heard of some women signing up on spiritual dating sites and then randomly meeting their spiritual partner offline a few days later because they put the energy out there!

Resistance to Success: Online Dating Success Storytwin flame love

My client Jenna hadn’t been on a date in over 6 years. Though she was an amazing goddess--smart, bright, successful, beautiful, and loved to travel, she’d hit a bad heartbreak and then a rut. Before that, she’d dated a slew of bad boyz who didn’t honor the amazingness that she is. She was so super resistant to going online dating, but I told her to get over it and just try it out. So, we worked together on getting her on *a date* to get her back into “dating shape.” So she posted her profile on OKcupid.com, and within a week she’d dated two really great guys!  Her skin glowed, her confidence started coming back, and she felt sexy again. Guess what happened? Within only a few short weeks, she met handsome Seth, her awesome soulmate/Twin Flame partner and they lived pretty darn happily ever after, and have two gorgeous Starchildren.

Moral of the story: get online asap, even using Facebook as your safe playground. Especially if you haven’t tried online dating, or if you have been dateless for more than a year. Try out a new site if you have been glued to the same one and haven’t been getting results. Start taking action, it’ll get the energy moving.

Various clients and friends of mine who have been through a dating dry spell will initially get online as a tool to get the juices flowing. Then, with boosted confidence, they’ll randomly meet a guy at the coffee shop, or notice someone at work and end up dating offline, thinking “Why haven’t I met him before!?” Boys attract more boys through the Law of Male Competition.  Everyone wants a queen bee. Moral of the story: online dating breeds more dating! Get out there and try it out.

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Bottom line: be bold and do things you don’t normally do.

You don’t have to go online, it’s just an option. What’s more important is to just get out there and spread your love! So also do things just for you that knock your socks off, that are outside of the box. Take a salsa class, or cooking lesson, or hit up a comedy club with a new friend. Try a vegetarian meetup or start your own one. Get out of your boring daily/weekly rhythm to bring in fresh romance energy. Maybe even get far far away… Take a Twin Flame pilgrimage to that country you’ve always wanted to see! It doesn’t hurt to travel to meet your Twin Flame. Dress a little sexier if you’re normally in sweats… Do something that gets you out of the house even on a chilly day. Girl, just take your pick, make your move, and dive into bliss!

It’s also important to nourish yourself within and take time for yourself of course, and here’s a bath I recommend for Twin Flame Love: Twin Flame Love Spell Bath Recipe.

Tip Two: Don’t Worry About Getting Rejectedtwin flame reunion

Although it goes against our natural instincts, getting rejected is the best medicine to attract your Twin Flame.  It means that you’re able to love yourself most of all when it appears that God (or in this case, some man or human specimen) doesn’t love and adore you back.

Who cares if he doesn’t like you back?! Go find someone who will! In truth, you are God’s lovechild, and there’s no reason not to be loved… However, you do have to realize the somewhat harsh fact that you simply won’t be loved in that soulmate way by all beings because that’s just how it works – and it would be really complicated. Would you want three million karmic soulmates knocking on your door? I think not!  It’s funny how obsessed we become about not being rejected, when truly the main goal should be to get accepted by our one true perfect match.

Finally, I work with many women who have suffered from body image/self-esteem issues, like I have myself. We beat ourselves up for not being perfect and convince ourselves that we have to change in order to get an attractive guy to love us. Don’t fall for it! It was all a misinterpretation from a shampoo ad campaign you watched in the 80s. Real men want real women; humans like honest and real organic beauty more than sliced and diced makeup perfection. Despite what the cosmetic sales people or plastic surgeons may tell you (it’s probably for their children’s college tuition, so don’t take it personally).

Just a little beauty accenting and color highlights for fun and play is OK. Don’t go overboard. Allow your own true beauty to shine through to attract your Twin Flame with your authentic self. If he rejects you because you have a zit or some larger pores or a cellulite butt like I have, move on; that’s not true love! Your Twin Flame will love all of you and find you absolutely sexy.

Tip Three: Activate Your PU$$Y Power

What!? What’s PU$$Y Power? Click here to get a fuller definition. PU$$Y Power is the Divine Feminine fertile almost feline-like energy that can attract anything to through an ancient magic secrets. It is based in your womb and yoni (vagina) area, and it’s also known as the Holy Grail, Sangraal, and is the essence of Divine Feminine creation. To activate your PU$$Y Power, you have to connect with the Divine Feminine aspect of your root chakra and sacral chakra. You have to fall in love with your sacred sexuality, your body, and love your yoni (pussy!).  Watching this video will help activate your precious PU$$Y:

 

Tip Four: Be yourselftwin flame love

As tempting as it is to play the “perfect girl” to win love by someone who thinks you’re the cat’s PJs and best actress in town, pretending to be someone you’re not is going to get old real fast. Real fast.

Start the date/relationship by just being yourself. This will pay off BIG! Let your true colors fly. It doesn’t mean that you cannot impress your potential mate, or even shine a bit from the start, but do so with authenticity.  Show some imperfections. While wearing the perfect outfit on the first date can be fun, are you able to dress it down after dinner with some walking shoes and a windbreaker to go on that beach hike?  I hope so, because no one wants to be his Royal Prince Charming’s b*tch.  No darling, you are a queen and queen bees get to set their own rules!

It’s so darn simple: it’s super important to find your soulmate from a place of passion and taking inspired action.  It’s all about playing BIG in the outer game, while nurturing your inner game too.

Go go go, girl, you go this one. Here’s to your implementation of these three hot tips to help you meet your divine match by playing a big outer game. Go have a great week and treat yourself with great care while getting out there in a BIG way!  Thanks for reading, see you on the flip side, and please post your comments below and share with your social groups.

In Love,

Dr Amanda Noelle

 

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Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker to stellar spiritual women who feel called to birthing big life-purposes and possibly a Starchild or two.
Why Is 1111 or 11:11 a Twin Flame Number?

Why Is 1111 or 11:11 a Twin Flame Number?

You keep turning your eyes towards the clock (or more likely cell phone) when it’s 11:11 yet again, just as you were thinking of your Twin Flame or a special crush….

Whoa!

Coincidence, or is it really a sign?

What is 11:11 about, and why is 1111 a Twin Flame number?

I know I see 11s all the time, and it’s an a wonderful feeling to synchronize with the spiritual alignment.

But what is the whole 11/11 phenomenon–is it real, or just spiritual rubbish?

Read on to find out…!

Twin Flame 1111 History

Twin Flames and Twin Flame seekers around the world became aware of the 11/11 phenomenon en masse in the years preceding the The 2012 Shift.

There was a rise in consciousness around Twin Flames at this point. Many Beloveds began seeking any signs, information, and energy they could get their heads and hearts on regarding Twin Flame Love.

Many spiritual new age seekers were awaiting the great moment of 11/11/11 at 11:11:11. Some said it was a number representing Oneness, while others thought it was a time for a massive Twin Flame shift and awakening.

Some said that the numbers are only a symbol of Twin Flame Love, while others thought it was nothing but total mashugana!

I believe that 11/11 is one of the many sacred signs of Twin Flame Love, yet it isn’t a means to Twin Flame Love.

Obviously, it keeps coming back every day at 11:11 am/pm, and we are quite likely to see it show up every few days, especially if you’re like me and you have to constantly clock watch!

So let’s not get obsessed, jump into crazy bandwagons, and let’s keep our feet on the ground.

Yet, the 1111 phenomenon is pretty interesting…

11 11 Numerology Symbology

The number eleven is commonly thought represent the two lovers coming together as the sole-soul energy of Twin Flame Love.

It is a symbol of duality (separation of the two one-digits), and of Oneness (eleven as a single number), aligned in harmony.

I believe that 11/11/11  was indeed an important milestone for some significant energetic shifts on earth, and that it brought the Twin Flame consciousness to the masses.

11/11/11 was the start of a new Twin Flame paradigm, where Twin Flame relationships are replacing Karmic Soulmate relationships, so that that more Twin Flame Unions can occur naturally within the collective.

It is no coincidence also that number eleven looks like an equals sign sideways: 11 = equal!

Eleven represents two lovers as equal whole ones (beings) who come together as two individual beings converged as a singular unit.

11/11 represents two individual souls, or ‘flames’ coming together to create a Holy Twin Flame Union.twin flame dna

As eleven is a single number made of two separate digits, it mirrors the two strands of DNA.

Twin Flame experts assert that in order to attract your Twin Flame, you must upgrade your DNA strands to a ‘Twin Flame Vibration‘ where your DNA is healed and activated with deep self-love and Divine Love (and thus Twin Flame Love).

For a Twin Flame DNA upgrade article I wrote, click here.

The 11/11 also represents the two lines of Twin Flame Kundalini that run up the spine: together, the two polarized counterparts create a strong whole, the yin and yang energies together creating the fusion it takes to create new universes.  Indeed, in the case of 11, Aristotle’s famous quote is true:

“The whole is greater than the sum of its parts” -Aristotle

11 represents the parallel universe or flow of energy through which Twin Flame energies coincide.  The Twin Flame couples share the same direction on one level, and on another level they are “apart” or separate energies.  It’s two sides of the same coin. That is why when you feel like you’re a fiercely independent woman with her own ideas, you are able to harmonize with your fiercely independent Twin Flame and still think and live and breathe for yourselves, but together in a unit. Not 24-7, but for whatever timeframe and rhythm that works for you as a team.

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The 11 also is represented by the kundalini energy pathways that run up the spine. The energy runs like a snake – back and forth – but there is also a parallel gridline of magnetics that attracts the energy to move back and forth.  The kundalini is both a line and a circular energy, hence creating a wave.  The feminine spiral/circle meets the masculine line to create the serpent energy that runs along the spine.  For more about kundalini 11 11 energy, do the Kundalini Twin Flame Meditation here.

The 11:11 is a representation of two worlds coming together: of the Higher Self and the Human Self; the Heaven and the Earth.  Twin Flames share the same Higher Self, and thus the Human Self is represented as two separate blood lines of the same Light Line (Divine Whole, God/dess). On the human level, Twin Flames are separate – like the parallel lines within the 11.  And yet they make one whole number, with two separate digits.  As Heaven, and Earth together may seem like two separate worlds, they are yet one.  And they are paralleled, “As above, so below.” So 11:11, or 11/11 are a number holding energy that represents a timeless place, or a placeless time where two worlds (or all worlds) meet.

 

Careful though darlings, just because you’re seeing 11s everywhere, it does not mean that that man or woman is your Twin Flame.  The Twin Flame Counterfeit can bring in 11:11s too because it is Twin Flame energy that attracts the 11s, not your Twin Flame.  However, using the number 11 or 11/11 etc to harness Twin Flame energy to attract your Twin Flame is a great tool!  Just don’t let the signs of the Twin Flame with those 11s make you decide that he is the one… Wait a bit and see and feel and if he/she sticks around for a yummy Twin Flame Union, then congrats! If not, keep moving forward and take that 11:11 energy with you.

Why Notice Synchronicities?

Slight side note, today I looked my number of Facebook photos and I saw a number representing alignment: 234. Then, next to it, I saw oddly enough, another number representing alignment 2,345. I took a screenshot to share it with you:

11-11-13 meaning

I didn’t put it together that it was almost 11/11, and that I’d be concentrating on Twin Flame Numbers!

The true purpose behind the 11/11 symbolism is to align your soul with your Twin Flame Frequencies.

To do so, I suggest that you activate each of your 7 chakras in the body, plus your Gaian Chakra (the earth chakra a bit below your root chakra) as well as the 3 Cosmic Chakras sitting above your crown chakra.

These 11 chakras are meant to be aligned within yourself so that you can call in your Beloved. (Some say we have 12 chakras, others say 7 chakras, while many say there are an infinite number of chakras. I believe that there are an infinite number of energy centers, and as a Twin Flame Matchmaker I focus on the 11 Twin Flame Chakras explained here).

In essence, let the joy of the synchronicity take you by surprise, but never let it be a sign that someone is your Twin Flame.  My Twin Flame Counterfeit called me at 11:11am to say our last goodbye call to break my heart, and my TRUE Twin Flame calls me all the time, at all hours of the day.  So don’t let the sign spook you, woo you, or stop you from believing that someone is your Twin Flame, because only you (and not the clock) knows the truth!

Happy 11/11s everyone! Enjoy the Twin Flame vibes.

Love and blessings!

Dr Amanda Noelle