What was once a man’s world…
Even feminist women feel feel like they can’t escape the subconscious programs running in their minds telling them they can’t achieve anything in life they don’t go into agreement with the values and expectations of the old “masculine world.”
Even the most sensitive men are expected to be strong and taught to ignore their emotional sides. They don’t know how to approach women without seeming sleazy, and gender roles are blurry.
In order to create healthy, happy communities and relationships (especially the highest vibrational “Twin Flame relationship”), feminine and masculine energy must work together as a whole.
Stating that one energy is stronger or better than the other is wrong; both male and female energy are necessary for balance. It’s important to understand what feminine energy is, so we can build it and balance it with the masculine.
Ten Ways to Boost Your Feminine Energy
Feminine energy is a powerful healing energy that allows us to open to receiving. Feminine, referred to as yin energy in Traditional Chinese Medicine, is an energy that tends to be more calm, compassionate, and caring.
Without the feminine, we’re in trouble…
Everyone–both men and women–have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.
In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.
Truly, the feminine is rising.
Feminine Energy Attributes
Though it’s honestly impossible to ‘boil down’ this sacred energy in its infinite form, in order to assist you in its understanding, we have put together a list of key aspects of feminine energy below.
Because the feminine cannot exist without the masculine, it’s important to learn about both energies. There is only harmony when polarity comes into agreement. Thus, it helps to study masculine energy to know the feminine side. They are two sides of the same coin after all!
Where do I find feminine energy?
We can find feminine energy in the Earth, especially in water sources such as lakes, springs, oceans, rivers, wells, and streams. Drinking crystalline water or meditating by bodies of water instantly boosts our feminine energy.
Feminine energy is an internal “yin” energy, thus we can find it in stillness. During deep thought and meditation we can embrace, boost our feminine energy to radiate confidence.
Feminine energy is the love that the Universe has blessed you with, and as a daughter (or son) of Mama Gaia (Mother Earth), we are all abundant in Her medicine. Mother Earth is very loving, nourishing, and yet powerful, as is feminine energy.
Feminine energy is healing
With our own individual and unique feminine energy intact, we can heal from insecurity, self-doubt, low self-worth, and past traumas.
Many girls and women are being called to enhance their feminine energy at this time because the majority of females have struggled with self-worth issues at some point in their lives.
Clinical psychologist Robin F. Goodman of New York University states:
“A girl’s self-esteem peaks when she is 9 years old, and then takes a nosedive afterwards.”
We can more quickly heal from self-esteem issues by boosting our feminine energy. The feminine energy can heal internal and generational wounds so we can embody the goddess within.
Tips to Boost Your Feminine Energy
ONE: Build your feminine confidence with affirmations
Write positive notes and put them where you can see them every day. Your mind is powerful and when you see the note regularly, it programs your mind and benefits your spirit. When we write these affirmations, it helps us feel more beautiful in our own skin–you’ll likely feel more radiant and confident within two weeks.
TWO: Get creative!
Channel your creative energy into doing something productive that you love. Take out your paint set and turn on some music, really go for it and have fun. Don’t worry about “getting it right.” Instead, just BE creative, and be free; take time every day to be present to your creativity and share it with those you love when it feels good.
THREE: Do what you love
Don’t do things to please…do it to please yourself. That boost your feminine essence! You’ll only understand true happiness when you’re doing what you love, regardless of what others think. Divine Love is an empowering energy that is emitted from our heart chakras when we’re doing what we love.
You can boost your feminine energy simply by spending time with your female friends, women who understand you through and through, who will listen to you without judgment.
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FIVE: Be open to acceptance
Being hostile can block your feminine energy which means you’re blocking the supplement that you need to blossom. Open yourself up, accept gifts and appreciate people more.
SIX: Look and feel feminine and beautiful
Dress beautifully, style your hair or even have a pamper session to make you feel beautiful. Attract the positivity that you are beautiful and worth it, that increases your feminine energy.
SEVEN: Negate the negativity
If you feel inferior about someone or something, stop your mind immediately. Breathe in and out then focus your mind on what blessings you have. Don’t attract negative energy; instead focus all your strengths in the positive ones. “Wherever I am, I choose love!” is an affirmation we love.
EIGHT: Uplift your female friends
Women are naturally meant to be caretakers, especially to and from other women. Women are only prone to bringing other women down when they’re taught to be competitive, but that’s not our nature! When women stick together we can uplift one another and instantly raise our feminine energy.
Let go of female competition battles doing this. If you feel envy, don’t hate on her. Instead admire her and say, “I want that for me too!” and feel how the envy shifts to an abundance of “high-havingness” energy.
NINE: Take a “Me Day”
Do what makes you happy for a day…or even for a couple of hours. Relax at the spa, go out on your bike and exercise, or just meditate in your favorite nook if that’s what you want. Like Nike says, JUST DO IT! Don’t think about distractions during “me time” –instead just focus on you.
TEN: Nourish yourself
Understand what your body and soul needs. Eat healthy organic plant-based foods that feed your soul. Read positive books, fill your home with colorful artwork, and absorb it and live by it. What you feed yourself and your senses shows up in your life and influences others too.
In summary, embracing your feminine energy is not only important for balance in your life, but also in creating balance in the world. Take your time with it, enjoy it, indulge a little. Finding your Yin Yang is an art, definitely worth finding and once you’ve started understanding that you are on your way to transition, you’ll love the feeling of self-confidence and beauty from within.