How to Manifest Your Twin Flame Quickly! Three Flaming Hot Tips to Ignite Twin Flame Love

How to Manifest Your Twin Flame Quickly! Three Flaming Hot Tips to Ignite Twin Flame Love

As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have found that there are so many women and men who get stuck in gloom and doom when it comes to attracting their soulmate or Twin Flame, and they stay stuck and single when they don’t have to! We are more powerful than we know, as we are reflections of our Creator (whatever you call this powerful force), so we can create what our heart desires!

twin flame loversThis article will help you manifest your Twin Flame as fast as humanly possible, because I know when you want it you want it now…or yesterday! But trust me, Twin Flame manifestation can be ridiculously fast if you tune into the Field of Universal Creation and surrender to the forces that be! I have helped clients, fans, and friends manifest their Twin Flames in as little has a few days, and in one instance, within a few hours!  It’s a pretty magical energy to witness and to see physicalized, especially when I get invited to the wedding and get to sip champagne smugly thinking about how great a matchmaker I am 🙂 I just love love and am proud to be a holder of the Aphrodite Touch!

What not to do? Get stuck in a pit of despair

Don’t despair if you’re feeling single and stuck today, as you really can’t predict what is going to happen tomorrow (or you can if you stay positive and make it happen!).  Sometimes even the most desperate and despairing women come to me with only one last tiny shred of hope, and I get them to surrender to their ultimate Divine Love, a well within them, and we bust some blockages and POOF! It’s truly delightful to watch them U-turn around into their heart’s desires and manifest that magical partner they’ve been waiting for for…forever!

twin flame manifestationThis article, How to Manifest Your Twin Flame Quickly will help you immensely if:

  • You have been working on yourself for a long time to be the best you can be, and feel that you’re truly ready to attract your beloved
  • You’re healthy, on an emotional, physical, financial, and spiritual level
  • You’re certain that you’re on a Twin Flame path, not just a Karmic Soulmate path; you are here to meet the soulmate of soulmates, the one true Twin Flame
  • Meeting and marrying your Twin Flame has been a huge calling for a long time, and it’s frustrating not to have him/her yet!
  • You are fully devoted to self-improvement and spiritual growth, and your Twin Flame will be a partner who supports you to grow further and faster
  • You have a big heart, and it’s overflowing – your love needs somewhere to go!
  • You have a huge soul purpose and you want your Twin Flame to join you for the ride to enjoy co-creating your most magnificent life to make this world a better place
  • You’re willing to throw your skepticism out the window for just a moment and will just shut up and listen to what this Twin Flame Matchmaker has to say!

Alright darling, let’s get down to BLI$$ness, and share the top secrets to helping you ring in the Twin Flame partner and fast.  Disclaimer: some of these tips aren’t for the weak, so buckle up and hunker down and be strong… whatever you do, don’t give up on love! Now let’s get your Twin Flame groove on.

twin flame attractionTip #1: Get Happy Being YOU as a Single Gal or Guy

You complete yourself. Your Twin Flame partner will be able to smell you from a mile away, as we’re all energetically sensitive beings and we have fantastic instincts. The question to ask is: Would you want to be with you? If you’re unhappy in your life, he or she is going to sense that gloom, and it’s not going to be a turn on. Men are attracted to happy and fulfilled goddesses flowing with nectar, just like bees are attracted to the sweet perfumed nectar of a flower.

To avoid: the Single Woman’s Vicious Cycle

What I see commonly in my clients is what I call the ‘Single Woman’s Vicious Cycle’ where you start getting lonely, and loneliness breeds depression, gloom, and hopelessness. Then you start dating the wrong people, lowering the bar and feeling desperate, feeling sorry for yourself, and doing silly things like staying in on Friday night with Ben and Jerry’s instead of following your heart’s deepest desires! You might even gain a a few pounds in the process and use that as an excuse not to be dating at the moment. Girl, you gotta get off the couch, stop feeling sorry for yourself, and do whatever you can to get happy and excited, there is a great guy or gal waiting out there and s/he’s reserved for YOU!

twin flame brideLet me clarify that I am not saying that you have to be happy with being single forever; I am just saying that a happy girl will attract more happiness and at the divinely perfect moment, a happy partnership.  So do whatever it takes to be happy: join activities, social groups, exciting organizations that get your energy running fast. Choose to stay positive! Get your life moving in the fast lane….Work that body and get a good sweat on with daily workouts with a few breaks a week.  Listen to music that pumps you up – you know, those sexy songs that make you wanna go look in the mirror and dance and check yourself out. You gotta start to feel like the bell of the ball in your own universe, and this will make the others’ heads turn and hearts beat in your rhythm.

To manifest your Twin Flame, really dive deep into celebrating life! It’s short anyways, and the sooner you  get into the positive vibration, you will bring in a partner who reflects this love for life! Do you want to attract someone who is stuck and lonely? So don’t be stuck and lonely, get out there, have fun doing whatever weird hobbies suit you and be in a bliss vibration. You might not attract a partner at your 80s night girls night, but you will be covered in rainbow bliss vibes that he’ll pick up on the next day in the cafe.

You will always attract the perfect reflection of you or what you need to work on – why not magnetize a happy reflection!

TAKE ACTION: BLI$$ HOMEWORK ASSIGNMENT

To get happy and excited, I really recommend becoming a manifestations collaging nerd. Go gather magazines and play music that gets you juicy and ready to birth your dream.  Then start collaging the relationship and life that you’re ready to be leading, and feel yourself manifesting it into 3D as you put together your creation down. Think of it as a BLI$$ness plan for your love life!  Vivid pictures will implant subconscious messages in your mind. Don’t worry if this sounds abstract or weird, I have lots of clients who question the assignment but swear by it afterward when what they’ve collaged shows up in their life.

Tip # 2 Declutter Your Past

twin flame kundaliniThe past is what holds our icky relationship limitation stuff. You gotta take out the trash! Though the past serves us as a teacher, teaching us what we want and what we don’t, the past is also where I see people holding onto old blockages that slow down the Twin Flame manifestation. Remember that there is nothing but the now, and you want to get a high vibrating happy life now! It’s time to create a new canvas by letting go of old childhood pain, things that represent awkward times in your life, sad times, and past relationships. Keep the gems of these experiences, but let go of anything that does not serve you now.

Decluttering time! Why keep around all those old FB pics of exes, or the scarf from the Amalfi Coast he gifted you on your birthday (I know it’s cute but get rid of it already!) when it just reminds you of the sad breakup afterward? Go and release anything that represents struggle, relationship strife, or any old attachment to someone that will compete or inhibit your Twin Flame relationship from coming in. Think of everything…you might even want to let go of that expired last name from your ex husband!

Go through all aspects of your life: declutter each of the rooms in your home, let go of anything not working for you in your current friendships, reevaluate your career, upgrade your lingerie collection, and go through all your clothes. Release anything that’s not an 7 out of 10 or more in your life! Let go of anything that doesn’t fit you like a glove for the absolutely joyful and magnificent Twin Flame relationship you’re calling in.  It’s time to create your life your way, a portal of bliss. Lots of women prepare for their Twin Flames by becoming man-pleasers, but they only end up in men who expect them to do one thing: please them! Design a life of pleasure surrounding you that pleases you first, and you will have a very happy man like a bee buzzing around your flower in BLI$$!

Tip #3 Radical Self-Acceptance

radical self acceptanceI know that this tip seems like it’s going to contradict the ones above, but that’s the beauty of radical self-acceptance!  You are perfect the way you are!  This one is such a fun paradox. The reality is, when you meet and marry your Twin Flame, you will be married to each others’ imperfections for life (we hope!) and this means that you’re going to have to learn how to accept yourself first. Sure it’s nice to try to be a happy superhuman all the time, and it’s a fun game to see how much you can grow and become a super goddess. Yet you are simply a human! And we get things like bad breath, bad credit, and bad kinky thoughts. So what!? So does every other living breathing thing, and the sooner we accept this, the sooner we can move forward and celebrate.

Which of the three tips is the most important? I’d say the latter…What do you think?  Please post your comments below and let me know what other tips you have to share.

 

How Do you Know if Someone Is Your Twin Flame?

How Do you Know if Someone Is Your Twin Flame?

In my YouTube video, What the Heck Is a Twin Flame?  I define a Twin Flame as the other half of your soul incarnate. It’s living breathing you in the carnage (physical human form) of another.  Same soul, different meat-suit.

According to Greek mythology, we were all once attached to our Twin Flame. If we had a male or female other half attached directly to us.  But our powers were too strong, we became so godlike that Zeus got jealous and
had humans sliced in half.  ‘Til this day, we’re still suffering looking for our Divine Match, according to this metaphorical (I think!?) legend.  In another blog article, What Is a Twin Flame? Twin Flame Q & A by A Twin Flame ExpertI talked about the difference between a Twin Flame Love and a soulmate love.

A soulmate in essence is a soul who comes in to teach you a lesson (and vice versa) and it can be romantic or not.  If a Twin Flame being the other half of your soul can be a very exciting concept for those of us new to waking up, or those of us who have been awake but not yet totally aligned in relationship.  Twin Flame seeking then becomes a very beautiful path of self-discovery then.

twin flame power couple

Not many people have known about our ability to attract a Twin Flame up until recently.

Many spiritual schools taught that a Twin Flame is something not worth seeking or of importance; some schools teach that it’s outright impossible for most.  But it’s 2016, and the matrix energetics are realigning.  New perspectives are allowing us to seek the answers within, and often times the answers say “I don’t choose to believe that,” and it is so.  We are what we think. Beliefs shift reality.  Once indoctrinated to believe we simply couldn’t have what we wanted, now we can indoctrinate ourselves with whatever we choose.

In 2012, we became our own doctors. Our own teachers, masters, gurus, shrinks, and lovers.  That doesn’t mean that we can’t get external guidance and motivation along the way and that all external mentors are ineffective. Contrarily, teachers are simply mirrors of ourselves showing us what we believe or deep down know inside of us. When we have false teachings show up, it’s ourselves giving ourselves a test with a trick question on it.  Do you (a) Write it off that you can’t have your Twin Flame because someone told you or it hasn’t happened, (b) Believe in Twin Flames but choose that it’s not likely for you, (c) Stay openminded and open-hearted to the idea as you deeply seek deep self-soul love, or (d) Decide that you definitely have to have a Twin Flame or else (you’ll die perhaps!?)?  The best answer I suggest is (c).  Why not give love a try, with the parachute on your back being the deepest sense of self-love and self care?

How do I know if my partner is my Twin Flame?  First, ask yourself, do you even really want a Twin Flame?  Here is what is required of being in a Twin Flame relationship:

  • Deep soul evolution, being on an Ascension pathHow to tell if he's your Twin Flame
  • Self-awareness at all times, on all levels
  • Being conscious from a Higher Self perspective
  • Being grounded in the earth plane and facing your insecurities
  • Going through a Dark Night of the Soul, if needed, to get to the Higher Self aspect
  • Healing your root chakra and learning to make friends with money, survival, and wealth consciousness
  • Being willing to surrender everything you currently “know” as love
  • Being willing to leave a bad marriage or even a pretty decent one that is not your Twin Flame relationship
  • To learn and know the difference between karmic soulmate love and Twin Flame Love vibrations
  • Letting go of the way things look
  • Being willing to fall in love with someone who might not fit into the box of traditional relationships
  • Being open to your Twin Flame being on another side of the globe or of a different culture
  • Tons of clearing, healing cleaning, de-cluttering of your aura, home, finances, and all aspects of your life so they align with the truth
  • Finally, and most importantly: deep unconditional self-soul love and gratitude

Darn! That’s a long list, I know you’re saying.  It is. Yet think about all the soul growth you’ve already done in your life and even over the past few years. That’s a long list too.

Even if you have just a few things on the list above, you’re already getting Twin Flame set if you so desire.  Now back to the question, how do you know if you’re in a Twin Flame relationship? Simply study yourself and how you are showing up in your current relationship.

Twin Flame Examination Starts at the Self.

First focus on YOU, and not the relationship (an external Twin Flame Mirror of you)…

Staring at you allows you to empower yourself and go to the source of the Twin Flame relationship, since you’re the only one you’ll be with 24-hours a day for the rest of your life! And you are the one who decides if someone is your Twin Flame. I have been told by several men that they were likely my Twin Flame and with pressure and persuasion behind it for not so Light reasons…it seems “Hey baby, I think you’re my Twin Flame” could be the latest New Age pickup line!

When we don’t start at ourselves, we often end up in situations of abandonment and needing to heal a broken heart by a false Twin Flame

Here are the questions to ask yourself as you evaluate your current relationship to see if you are with your Divine Beloved:

  • Do I deeply know myself?
  • Do I love what I see when I look in the mirror?
  • Do I spend lots of time doing things I love?
  • Do I have a rock solid relationship with rocks, nature, trees, water, earth, fire and even fairies?
  • Do I give myself full credit for being as powerful as I am?
  • Do I criticize or hate myself in any way and let myself get away with it?
  • Can I financially support myself and do so blissfully or do I have a job I hate that gives me migraines?
  • Do I have a relationship to my sensuality and understand my sacred sexuality?
  • Have I let go of all of my past relationships fully?
  • Does my heart feel so open wide that I love all things?
  • Do I have a huge dose of unconditional self-love?
  • Do I have a huge doses of unconditional love for every being on the planet?

True Twin Flame Litmus Testing to Be Released Next Fall!

Joking:) So you wanna take a litmus test to know if your guy/gal is the Twin Flame for you?!  Pee into this panel and I’ll send it off to the lab and tell ya:) Kidding! While they haven’t come out with a Twin Flame fool proof test, you can try this one to get some good ideas:

  • Have I “come out of the closet” as a healer, indigo, crystal child, rainbow, etc, or do I hide myself and my talents to “play it safe” in front of my partner?
  • T or F? In a way, I know I could leave this person, because we are so entirely at one that on some level it doesn’t matter if we’re together or apart. I have faced my fears of disappointing him or her and my own fears of abandonment.
  • Am I staying with this person for the sake of the children, appearances, or out of insecurity?
  • Do I find this person attractive on most all levels?
  • Has your partner ever abused you verbally, physically, or psychically?
  • twin flame angelIs your relationship of service to the planet in a way that serves people outside of the relationship/family? (This can count even if it’s through deep love energetically releasing to the world).
  • Is there one single thing that doesn’t fit that keeps eating away at you or the relationship that you can’t let go for over more than a year?  Sorry, I hate to break it to you, but this sounds like a deal-breaker…
  • Have you not unlocked some really old childhood fears and behaviors and family programs that are inhibiting your current relationship to a great degree?  (this is not a total sign s/he isn’t the one, but it’s a good sign that as you heal, your energy will greatly shift making you more TF eligible).
  • Does your partner fully love you and support you and accept you?
  • Does your partner reject your ideas frequently, or not understand who you are on the deepest level?
  • Do you and your partner not know a lot about each others Higher Self energies?
  • Would you give your life for this person? If so, that’s not a good sign!  You have to always put yourself first:) That was a trick question BTW!

Truly the best way to know if someone is your Twin Flame is to know yourself.  Don’t forget that you are your greatest resource at all moments, and you are the Godchild/Goddesschild of the One.  Feel free to check out my video How Do I Know if Someone is My Twin Flame?

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Namaste!

Dr Amanda Noelle

 

 

Dr Amanda Noelle, the Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps match High-Healed Priestesses with their Twin Flames at light speed while helping them build 6-figure purpose-based BLI$$nesses.