3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets

3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets

Hi there Twin Flame Lover,

It’s Dr Amanda Noelle, here the Twin Flame Matchmaker, and today I am going to share with  you my 3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets for Light Speed Twin Soul Attraction.

Don’t you hate playing the waiting game while you’re in the dating game? Days, months, or even decades pass  you by and you find yourself single and disconnected from true love?

Maybe you’ve tried every online dating site or app under the sun, but all you’ve attracted are sagas, sad stories, and several heartbreaks…

Or, maybe you’ve gone the other way because you know about the Law of Attraction, where thoughts create things, so you’ve decided to give up searching, and start meditating on what you want, so you fly off to Bali to explore your bliss, journal about your envisioned life partner, hoping that Prince or Princess Charming might literally fall in your lap…

But then all that happened in Bali was a few sexy lap dances at the Yoga Barn during an Ecstatic Dance, and you flew back home empty-handed and empty-lapped too!

SIGH!

Perhaps lately, you’ve come to the conclusion that neither of these approaches work! It’s NOT about having the perfect dating strategy or algorithms; nor is it just about using esoteric spiritual concepts while floating on a cloud of your own shaky slowly awakening consciousness.

Yes, let’s admit, none of us here are enlightened masters yet, and if you say you are you probably know that you have a way to go to reach Nirvana and align it with a partner who doesn’t freak out and run away from your blinding light.

We’re all just kindergarteners on Earth when it comes to love. Maybe some of us are 3rd graders or 6th graders, but al of us are healing our broken hearts scarred by millennia of heartbreaks, and heart shut down, that has kept the Twin Flames apart.

I know you are probably a very wise and loving person if you’re here on a Twin Flame path, doing your best to reunite with your “other half” but if you’re still single or stuck in the Twin Flame Runner Phase, you probably don’t have a solid idea around what actually will pull in your Twin Flame fast.

And I know you don’t have forever, don’t want to wait years to caress and co-create with your True Love, and that you simply cannot afford another artery-rupturing heartbreak! That’s why these 3 Twin Flame Manifestation Secrets are arriving you at perfect timing. You deserve them, and you deserve your Twin Flame, a mirror to your soul.

Yet I also know there’s a lot of misinformation out there on the internet, and it’s hard to tell what approach to take when it comes to attracting a divine partner, or what is just for the sell.

You need information that is tried and true, easy enough to apply, and that gets real results.

What you don’t need is just another theory taught by someone who either (a) never broke a nail (or heart) seeking their Twin Flame because they were born with golden karma that makes it look SO easy, or (b) those who are teaching and preaching but who are just as single as the clients they’re attempting to help find their mate.

Now I don’t want to shame anyone or finger point–I myself was a little hopeless in my love search 5 years ago and I still made a killer matchmaker, for what I lacked in ability to apply my advice to my own life, I was able to support giving service to others….

I also know that there are people here on the planet who have it easy when it comes to finding a Twin Flame or soulmate, they were just born lucky, or it’s not their karma or dharma (soul purpose) to untangle shitty Twin Flame codes of ancestral entanglement. These people didn’t have to work on themselves for years or decades getting stuck in what I call “Shitty Love Codes” – where the karma is as thick as molasses and you keep spinning your wheels the harder you try!

I have to admit I am envious of these types of people, and I honestly think I will choose an easier Twin Flame path my next lifetime. But at least I have good karma now to serve myself and my Twin Flame clients and friends who are equally blocked in the love department!

So this is Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #1: Release Envy of Other Twin Flame Couples and Teachers, and replace it with Love and Gratitude.

So I had to learn to laugh at my Twin Flame envy problem, and learn to send love to those happy cover issue couples, and not point fingers at anyone who meets their Twin Flame on like the 3rd try (gosh DARN them, I think mine was the 3,000th attempt!) as finger pointing never helps, especially because through the Twin Flame Mirror finger pointing means that you’re just pointing that pretty little pointer at yourself! And we don’t want to do that either, because basically it sets us up for failure, envy, and single-DOOM!

This brings up Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #2: It’s Shame-Shedding.

What are you ashamed most ashamed of?

How is pushing your Twin Flame away from you protecting you from facing your shame?

What experience in your past remains unhealed that is keeping you stuck playing the stuck-in-shame single-game?

I was a High-Healed Priestess wobbling through MOUNDS of shame; for years I went to weddings a lonely single girl pretending that I was cool with it, but I was truly ashamed of my insecurities that were keeping me single. I watched all of my childhood, high school, and college friends ride off into their fairytale on a white horse into the sunset while I stewed in my single shame and some slight rage about it to boot!

YES, I had serious shame issues, especially in my 20s, because I was so stuck in the un-mastery of Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #1 – I was so envious and compared myself to everyone else, which beat my ego down to the point where I was a mockery of myself.

I went from being an A-playing Ivy League overachiever sorority girl with guys asking her out on dates, and a sexy body,, and at least a sense of FAKE confidence, to being lost, broke, full of candida/fatigue, and I was heartbroken to the point that I was making on average 5,000 dollars a year and dating men with whom I had absolutely NO future. It was sad, and I was so ashamed!

Was I a victim of this? Or was I creating my own reality based on unresolved shame…

It turns out that I had experienced several things during my childhood, wounds and traumas that left me feeling safe, scared, and scared in the world and I concluded I was on some level a shame to be seen and just a shame period!

Developmental Psychologist Bruce Lipton says that 95% of our thoughts are tucked away in our subconscious mind.

So in my subconscious shame state, I decided to do what every spiritual girl with any self-respect does: I found a way to sabotage myself and my shot at finding my Twin Flame for over a decade.

I found really advanced ways of hiding and bypassing my shame from the world.

I used advanced techniques like, “I’m spiritual so I don’t care about anything ego related, money, dating etc” and I went counter-culture alternative and cut myself off from society and immersed myself in the alternative Burning Man and yoga, and tantra and ecstatic dance communities that I didn’t have to face myself anymore and the eyes of my competitors.

Shame is never the way to get your ultimate true love, or get anything you want, at least not in the long term.

Sure, shame is a sure fire impetus to get you out there and dating–since no one wants to be that old maid or perpetually single gal who feels like she has an infectious disease that might rubs off on society.

But instead of shame we must create deep compassion to call in a life long partnership, a lasting marriage, or a Twin Flame Union. When we convert our shame (a negative energy) into self-acceptance and compassion (a positive energy) we neutralize the energy that repels a Twin Flame into one that attracts a Twin Flame.

It’s not about hiding your shame, it’s about showing up in your shame and loving yourself. Even laughing at yourself!

Can you go on dates and see the hilariousness of it all? You want to be in a sacred union more than anything, you try so hard at it, and it’s the one thing that you have absolutely sucked at? When you can love this and laugh at this, I guarantee you the energy will lighten up and you’ll get closer to your Beloved.

While I know it’s hard not to get swept up in the story, “Well everyone else seems to be getting happily hitched,” or “Why does she have her Twin Flame and all I have is heartbreakers!”  But that will only lay you down into a spiral of shame and you’ll come from fear, envy, and competition and your lovers will thus be fearful, envious, and competitive and that’s NOT sexy! Change the thought patterns to: “Thank you Universe for showing me these happy Twin Flame Couples!” They are showing you what you desire, and also parts of what you may not desire so you can manifest accordingly.

This brings up Twin Flame Manifestation Secret #3 Heal your ancestral stories

Is your Twin Flame not coming into your reality because you have Shitty Love Codes stuck in your DNA?

Where are your parents, family members and ancestors happy or unhappy in their relationships?

Epic genetics are real. genes and DNA can be manipulated by a person’s beliefs. Examples….

Signs that you have epigenetics funking up your Twin Flame Attraction process is:

  1. No matter what you do you’re still stuck
  2. You know of ancestors who never got into a healthy relationship
  3. Everyone in your family is worried about your dating habits and  you can’t figure out why you’re so effed up! That’s when it skips a generation usually

Do you have epigenetic glitches in your Twin Flame DNA?

This may take some digging around either asking family members, doing genealogical research to fully understand how your genes and DNA have be thrown off track by your ancestors’ negative experiences and beliefs.

Oftentimes, children of Holocaust survivors have terrible nightmares where they are being chased, persecuted, tortured or killed, as if they were re-living the Second World War. Some even suffer from debilitating anxiety and depression disorders that block their ability to cope with stress. This can even prevent them from functioning at work and within society. These individuals exemplify how humans can absorb repressed emotions and energy such as those experienced during their ancestors’ Holocaust trauma. We can and do inherit the unconscious minds of our parents and ancestors, yet we can also un-inherit by becoming conscious of the patterns and finding solutions to heal them back into healthy “codes” in the DNA.

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Everyone--both men and women--have masculine or feminine energy, and that these energies must be balanced. Many people, even women, are lacking feminine energy (or are hiding their feminine side) in the overly-masculine world.

In the modern world, women are expected to be more nurturing, soft, and beautiful while being successful and sexy. We’re expected to be mothers and CEO, romantics and leaders. The past history where women were once suppressed is crumbling as women quickly break the chains. We are calling out old behaviors, creating #metoomovements, and are stepping away from the patriarchy.

Truly, the feminine is rising.

Four Hot Tips to Boost the Law of Attraction to Attract Your Soulmate

Four Hot Tips to Boost the Law of Attraction to Attract Your Soulmate

Applying Twin Flame Law of Attraction to attract your Twin Flame or soulmate is great, but you can’t do it using Twin Flame affirmations, visualization and energy work alone. Mr. or Ms. Right won’t show up up on your doorstep unless you put in a little effort in the ‘real world’ too. Here are four sizzling hot tips to help you meet your Twin Flame fast by playing big, bold, and fearlessly in your Twin Flame dating world!

Tip Number One: Just get the F$%k out There!twin flame coach

I know you might not want to face it, but you’ve gotta start taking action and get moving, shaking, and dating if you haven’t been lately. The molecules should be dancing and spinning at an ‘I am dating and ready!’ frequency in order for  your Twin Flame to arrive in your world. We High-Healed Priestesses can often get lazy when it comes to dating because we get stuck in the spiritual world and often hide there. We make vision boards, write our Twin Flame affirmations, and never get around to actually dating…

Who cares if you’re pretty, popular, or perfect? You deserve love now because you are a Divine creation of the Creator!

Take bold little steps every day. For instance, when you’re in line at the grocery store and like someone, casually chat with him/her. Or even ask him out! Flirt with people by asking them where they got their clothes. Men often like really dumb questions, so don’t get hung up on the words. A simple smile often will do to get things started.

One of my favorite pick up lines that really works is saying this word with a smile: “Hi!”

twin flame reincarnationMy friend Rhea needed to snag her crush before he walked out of the door on the night we did her Twin Flame activation ritual (we were in a pub and it seemed as if her crush was going to leave soon). I told her to run up to him fast and talk to him, and suggested she ask him something random. So she asked him if he was from Texas. He said No, he was from Sweden! Flattered by her bravery, it was love at first sight, they moved in together within a few weeks, and it made one of my favorite Twin Flame success stories success stories!

What do you have to lose? Be bold and playful. Ask him/her to ask you out. Joke and use physical touch to get his attention, even just a little pat on the back or graze of your hand on his. Men love being lightly showered with touch and attention, as do women!

Approach your fears online if it calls you

Ain’t no shame in going cyber-lovin’! Go Twin Flame online dating if you haven’t tried it lately and you feel open to it. A lot of women resist online dating, but a whopping one third of U.S. married couples met online!  This third may not be you just because you decide to hit up the internet for a few dates. If you totally don’t resonate with online dating, just go onto one of the websites and “shop” for men as an exercise, women always get a giggle from this at least, and it puts us in a dating energy. You may browse OK Cupid and not even have to go on an actual date there to meet your soulmate, but the cyber dating energy can be good. It’ll help you get out there, out of your head, possibly out of your house, and back in the dating pool again if it’s been a while.  I’ve heard of some women signing up on spiritual dating sites and then randomly meeting their spiritual partner offline a few days later because they put the energy out there!

Resistance to Success: Online Dating Success Storytwin flame love

My client Jenna hadn’t been on a date in over 6 years. Though she was an amazing goddess--smart, bright, successful, beautiful, and loved to travel, she’d hit a bad heartbreak and then a rut. Before that, she’d dated a slew of bad boyz who didn’t honor the amazingness that she is. She was so super resistant to going online dating, but I told her to get over it and just try it out. So, we worked together on getting her on *a date* to get her back into “dating shape.” So she posted her profile on OKcupid.com, and within a week she’d dated two really great guys!  Her skin glowed, her confidence started coming back, and she felt sexy again. Guess what happened? Within only a few short weeks, she met handsome Seth, her awesome soulmate/Twin Flame partner and they lived pretty darn happily ever after, and have two gorgeous Starchildren.

Moral of the story: get online asap, even using Facebook as your safe playground. Especially if you haven’t tried online dating, or if you have been dateless for more than a year. Try out a new site if you have been glued to the same one and haven’t been getting results. Start taking action, it’ll get the energy moving.

Various clients and friends of mine who have been through a dating dry spell will initially get online as a tool to get the juices flowing. Then, with boosted confidence, they’ll randomly meet a guy at the coffee shop, or notice someone at work and end up dating offline, thinking “Why haven’t I met him before!?” Boys attract more boys through the Law of Male Competition.  Everyone wants a queen bee. Moral of the story: online dating breeds more dating! Get out there and try it out.

how do i find my soulmate

Bottom line: be bold and do things you don’t normally do.

You don’t have to go online, it’s just an option. What’s more important is to just get out there and spread your love! So also do things just for you that knock your socks off, that are outside of the box. Take a salsa class, or cooking lesson, or hit up a comedy club with a new friend. Try a vegetarian meetup or start your own one. Get out of your boring daily/weekly rhythm to bring in fresh romance energy. Maybe even get far far away… Take a Twin Flame pilgrimage to that country you’ve always wanted to see! It doesn’t hurt to travel to meet your Twin Flame. Dress a little sexier if you’re normally in sweats… Do something that gets you out of the house even on a chilly day. Girl, just take your pick, make your move, and dive into bliss!

It’s also important to nourish yourself within and take time for yourself of course, and here’s a bath I recommend for Twin Flame Love: Twin Flame Love Spell Bath Recipe.

Tip Two: Don’t Worry About Getting Rejectedtwin flame reunion

Although it goes against our natural instincts, getting rejected is the best medicine to attract your Twin Flame.  It means that you’re able to love yourself most of all when it appears that God (or in this case, some man or human specimen) doesn’t love and adore you back.

Who cares if he doesn’t like you back?! Go find someone who will! In truth, you are God’s lovechild, and there’s no reason not to be loved… However, you do have to realize the somewhat harsh fact that you simply won’t be loved in that soulmate way by all beings because that’s just how it works – and it would be really complicated. Would you want three million karmic soulmates knocking on your door? I think not!  It’s funny how obsessed we become about not being rejected, when truly the main goal should be to get accepted by our one true perfect match.

Finally, I work with many women who have suffered from body image/self-esteem issues, like I have myself. We beat ourselves up for not being perfect and convince ourselves that we have to change in order to get an attractive guy to love us. Don’t fall for it! It was all a misinterpretation from a shampoo ad campaign you watched in the 80s. Real men want real women; humans like honest and real organic beauty more than sliced and diced makeup perfection. Despite what the cosmetic sales people or plastic surgeons may tell you (it’s probably for their children’s college tuition, so don’t take it personally).

Just a little beauty accenting and color highlights for fun and play is OK. Don’t go overboard. Allow your own true beauty to shine through to attract your Twin Flame with your authentic self. If he rejects you because you have a zit or some larger pores or a cellulite butt like I have, move on; that’s not true love! Your Twin Flame will love all of you and find you absolutely sexy.

Tip Three: Activate Your PU$$Y Power

What!? What’s PU$$Y Power? Click here to get a fuller definition. PU$$Y Power is the Divine Feminine fertile almost feline-like energy that can attract anything to through an ancient magic secrets. It is based in your womb and yoni (vagina) area, and it’s also known as the Holy Grail, Sangraal, and is the essence of Divine Feminine creation. To activate your PU$$Y Power, you have to connect with the Divine Feminine aspect of your root chakra and sacral chakra. You have to fall in love with your sacred sexuality, your body, and love your yoni (pussy!).  Watching this video will help activate your precious PU$$Y:

 

Tip Four: Be yourselftwin flame love

As tempting as it is to play the “perfect girl” to win love by someone who thinks you’re the cat’s PJs and best actress in town, pretending to be someone you’re not is going to get old real fast. Real fast.

Start the date/relationship by just being yourself. This will pay off BIG! Let your true colors fly. It doesn’t mean that you cannot impress your potential mate, or even shine a bit from the start, but do so with authenticity.  Show some imperfections. While wearing the perfect outfit on the first date can be fun, are you able to dress it down after dinner with some walking shoes and a windbreaker to go on that beach hike?  I hope so, because no one wants to be his Royal Prince Charming’s b*tch.  No darling, you are a queen and queen bees get to set their own rules!

It’s so darn simple: it’s super important to find your soulmate from a place of passion and taking inspired action.  It’s all about playing BIG in the outer game, while nurturing your inner game too.

Go go go, girl, you go this one. Here’s to your implementation of these three hot tips to help you meet your divine match by playing a big outer game. Go have a great week and treat yourself with great care while getting out there in a BIG way!  Thanks for reading, see you on the flip side, and please post your comments below and share with your social groups.

In Love,

Dr Amanda Noelle

 

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Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker to stellar spiritual women who feel called to birthing big life-purposes and possibly a Starchild or two.