by Dr Amanda Noelle | Feb 25, 2014 | Uncategorized |
Goodness Goddess Gracious! I am so happy you’re reading this blog so you can learn about the DNA codes needing to be upgraded inside of you, me, and our sisters too who are Twin Flame seekers on Earth.
OK, so I had the fattest, craziest, juiciest awakening journey here on a little island called Gili Air, which is right next to Bali, and it’s a gorgeous tropical paradise. My life is now full of tropical flowers, daily snorkeling trips where we visit sea flowers and coral coves and love-making fish that have so much passion it’s off the hook. I’m also eating numiness in large doses – like ripe coconuts fresh off the tree, and the inner treasure-treat of coconut flesh. Plus, the beautiful European men that visit the island are always fun for eye candy and Twin Flame potential material as well…not that I noticed!
But before I get too distracted about my own bliss, I wanted to talk about fast and furious Twin Flame DNA UPGRADING! So I did this awakening shamanic journey here less than 48-hours ago; let me just briefly mention that magic mushrooms are legal here, unlike in the US where I was arrested for seeking my spiritual truth through a shamanic journey, ahem!
First, have you seen the Twin Flame DNA Upgrades video yet?:
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I would love to share some potent downloads I was given with you on Twin Flame DNA activation. I went up to the Light where I became and merged with the the original seed of Light where I was born. Which was way awesome and I highly recommend doing that! It was a little scary at first but my friend Katie’s spirit was there with me and I could joke and share and giggle about being afraid with her (even though she was half the world away) so it wasn’t that bad or frightening.
But back to the Light…I was hanging out with God, or I guess I could say I became the God energy myself which was actually just this very simple pure Light. It was just consciousness itself. Hard to explain but it was way less complicated than I had thought! Here, I figured out what was blocking our soul family from Twin Flame Love, myself included. Are you blocked with your Twin Flame DNA?
Girl, this is nothing to be ashamed about. It’s fixable too! So if you are an incredible High-Healed Priestess and you resonate with me as a soul sister, please know that we sisters (aka sea-stars) from the Pleiades have been blocked by something very very immense and dark for a long time. In fact Twin Flame Love hasn’t really fully ever been awakened on this earth because of the dark code written within the index of our earthly DNA.
If you don’t know who the Pleiadians are, basically just note that you are one, that everything is recycled and even earth is made of recycled stardust. Pretty much everything on earth came from different exploded stars. Earth humans are a mixture of many different star consciousness and DNA that got mixed through intention, Galactic Federation agreement, and Divine creation. If you are just waking up, don’t worry if this doesn’t make sense to you, just keep reading and let it absorb slowly. Or you can do more research about Pleiadian starseeds and our Pleiadian origins on the internet. No worries if I confused you a bit.
In a nutshell, know that it’s time to clear this dark energy that is blocking the DNA from activating with Twin Flame Love and Light Codes.
During my medicine journey, I accessed a high state of consciousness where things were much easier to see, know, and feel than normal. Even more so than my deepest sleep state or meditative state, which is already pretty awesome since I have been meditating for a while and am able in my dream state to access the Higher Dimensions pretty regularly.
This medicine journey was potent, and enabled me to see where the earth is being blocked from receiving awakened Twin Flame Love fully into the Christ Consciousness. It was terrifying to see which is why I had to keep comforting my inner child and asking for help, which was granted. I was able to see that darkness up close and center, and I made a promise to unlock it and turn the codes to Light to heal the earth, the Divine Feminine and Masculine alignment, and to heal the Twin Flame energies within myself.
Do not be afraid of the dark, because fear breeds more darkness, and we need your Light!
It’s the same blockage that killed Jesus, that keeps the same military energies in rule. It’s the same darkness that abuses humans, animals, and the sea, and that chooses war over love, and murder over bliss. It’s just dumb! Seriously, the energy was unconscious, a dumb energy that needs The Light to awaken in back into it’s Light Self Origin. We are gathering the Light together, to break the codes, and to activate the Twin Flame DNA. <3
When I saw the dark force energy with my own psychic eyes.
It appeared as some seriously scary $h&t to my human self. It’s hard to explain or describe what I saw, but I’ll try, not to freak you out but to let you now what you’re up against. It was a moving energy or grid of darkness that had some colors and patterns in it that resembled spiders, ticks, dark magic, and I’d say it was a sort of demonic monster with no soul that was merged with the digital world. So it literally is like a computer codex or program that has infiltrated into the earth’s water (a memory storage device), into our government officials and structures, and anywhere it can that vibrates without Light.
What is blocking Twin Flame Love from coming fully to earth?
Here’s what I channeled:
It is simply an unconscious codex of information that came here a long time ago based on a grid of unconscious fear. It dates back to the creation of the universe that has not been resolved. When the universe was created, it had a Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine self that realized itself into being and then into separation, and when these energies split they became a little wary of one another, sort of like a baby being born who realizes she’s a person with toes and it freaks her out that she has a self and she has to become responsible for this body. The universe became aware of His/Her creation and was like “Oh shit, I gotta take care of all that!?” Especially the Divine Mother was/is (as there is no time or space) like, “Oh man, how am I going to mother all those planets, energies, plants, species, and humans!?”
She doubted herself, and thus so did the Divine Father, who left and ran off to think things out on his own in his Man Cave. Then the Divine Feminine was like, “Honey, where did you go?” She freaked out, and when he didn’t come back before supper that night, she panicked and thought he’d abandoned her. He actually hadn’t, at that point. But then, when he got back and they returned to Oneness, she scolded him for being a bad guy, for leaving her, and so he created this complex or codex about doing what masculine energy does when it ‘thinks’ or computes, which is to run away and come back (like computer runs in order to compute, and yang energy heads outwards, then becomes yin and returns).
A new codex of separation was born. This is reflecting in the Twin Flame DNA codes still to this day.
Then, the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine not only had doubts about their ability to create and raise their cosmic family, they also had issues about each other and began to trust each other less and less. That was the beginning of the divide, or so-called Divorce of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine. And all creatures of creation have been harvested and raised by two parents who have been doubting their ownabilities to be God and Goddess! Ooops.
This universe fell for the oldest trick in the book. The loophole of creation that every universe falls into, and every woman and man falls into. Self-doubt, which turns into doubt of others, especially the Twin Flame reflection of ourselves. Earth was created under this grid of consciousness and the cycle has been recreated over generations of time through the cosmos, patterns created and repeated and repeated over and over, until the dark force of subconscious energy has grown big. Into Fukushima disaster energy, and military control, and corporate welfare, and body image self-hatred in women, and prescription drugs and drug abuse….the list goes on and on, all that human and universal shame and self-hatred! Silly stuff.
All kinds of stuff repeats through patterns of the original Divorce of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine, and the trauma of the Divine Children. As adult women, we reflect both the Divine Mother an Divine Child, and we have to start figuring out and computing these codes with massive amounts of unconditional love, Light, and awakened consciousness. We ned to clear our emotions, our fear, abandonment issues, and pray into our DNA for this healing.
Prayer for the remarriage of the two (Father/Mother God) is what is going to put them back together, and what is going to align us with our Twin Flames! It’s what is going to create a Golden Era or New Earth, and it will upgrade all levels of creation including the Pleiades, Sirius, galaxies, and ALL of the universes will upgrade.
We just need to do one thing: change our mind. Now. Tune into your Divine Mind. And to Love.
Change your mind, and your world changes. Change your Higher Mind and the Universechanges. We must change our mind into Twin Flame Love and Christ Consciousness. Then the Light IS! We all know that the dark energy doesn’t belong on earth anymore. Whether you call it Illuminati energy, Hell, or simply the Shadow of the Universe, it’s time to collaborate to make enough consciousness to change the Divine Mind and heal the earth. Twin Flame Love time! To release the Old Paradigm we must shed light on this this dark goober, this destructive cycling computer codex.
All we gotta do is building large light constellational structures, such as the sacred temples, Atlantean grids, and conscious movements, high vibrational music events, galactic gateways, divine based universities and organizations, etc. We need to pray our Twin Flame prayers together, en masse, so we can outshine the darkness. So what if there has been a lot of darkness? Yes, for sure there is in this moment still a lot of wrongdoing on earth (i.e. like Fukushima, don’t make me go there or I’ll talk your ear off), but 1% Light can totally obliterate 99% darkness. Like a tiny candle can illuminate an entire pitch black room to some degree. Still, we must band together and co-create with our consciousness, creating Light Portals of prayer, Twin Flame blessings, sacred action, clear any fear, and begin a massive celebration of the Divine Feminine and the Divine Masculine coming together. As a woman, it’s your job to heal the abused Feminine within yourself, and as a man it’s your job to support women in the process and also heal your own Feminine through the little boy in you who was hurt and abandoned by your Divine Father/earth dad.
You gotta start healing your abandonment issues girls, and forgive forgive forgive theDivine Father. He made some mistakes, but he’s here and wants you to love him and wants to help you. He is you! Of course he wants to help. You must trust him and pray and trust yourself.
We have to cooperate and create the constellational light grids, not do it alone. That’s why I brought together 6 sacred sisters (and a 7th food goddess) on this 8-day retreat in Bali and Lombok – because we needed to create a light grid around ME so I could feel safe to journey out and see what way blocking me and my Twin Flame seeking soul sisters.
I have had many clients and friends find their Twin Flames already, yet there are many of the Christ Conscious individuals who will not be able to manifest their Twin Flame in the physical unless we clear these codes out!
Many old soul individuals are stuck either (a) unable to find their Twin because of the dark codex, or (b) are able to find him/her, but are unable to fully activate the Twin Flame Frequencies.
One example is a client I have who found her Twin Flame just 3 days after meeting me.However, she is totally blocked in her root chakra and career space, because she’s an ancient Atlantean High Priestess and future Pleiadian Lightworker who accesses high levels of information and codes. So she’s afraid to death of opening her 5th chakra, aligning the 7 chakras to the Twin Flame Frequency (7 aligned chakras is what it takes to activate Twin Flame Love). So she is blocked in sharing her amazing channeled information publicly because at her core she can feel the persecution fear of the dark codex that has gotten her killed in past lives. Thus she is unable to fully unlock and tune into her Twin Flame DNA. Until she clears her fear of the dark codex, she will not be able to fully activate the Twin Flame Love. Until then, she cannot birth her Starchildren from the purest conscious Light, and that’s what we need for the New Earth.
How to activate your Twin Flame DNA First step: clear all of your fear through prayer and Love. Ask the Divine Father for help, and ask to be grounded through the Divine Mother on Earth. Pray for the Divine Father and Divine Mother to align within you, through you, and for you to align with your Twin Flame.
Also ask for the Twin Flame codes to be cleared in your DNA. Here’s an awesome channeled prayer:
“I ask the DNA Committee to unblock and unlock my Twin Flame Light Codes to the highest potential of Divine Love. I clear out any blocks of the dark codex and cancel out any fear based limitation. I am the Love, I am the Light, and I AM I AM I AM! I also forgive the Divine Father for any harm, abandonment, and shame he has held in his creation and love for me. I also forgive my Divine Mother for being unable to express her love for me or for being able to support me in the way I needed in any lifetime, space, or dimension. I alight my DNA with my Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies as I forgive myself for any misalignment. Twin Flame Love ACTIVATE!”
You can repeat the prayer as many times as you can to become gridded in your subconscious and conscious mind. You will notice shifts in your energy immediately, and within your life within three days.
Another major major MAJOR ways to clear the Twin Flame DNA is through gathering with a group of High Priestesses, Twin Flame-bound women who embody the Magdalene Consciousness (Divine Feminine Christ Consciousness); conglomerating in groups of 5 to 7 women at a time for a ritual, especially by the sea, is incredibly helpful to lead a prayer.
In your prayer, always set a specific intention to clear the DNA codes. We did our group formations in a pods of 6 sisters, sistars, or “sea stars” by the ocean. At one point we stood in a with 5-pointed star formation which represents the Goddess of Love, Aphrodite and human DNA creation.
I like having 6 sisters in a circle with a central point in the middle for the heart-based High-Priestess, and the number 7 represents the Seven Seas and the Seven Sisters (Pleiades) and the six-pointed star of life or Star of Da-Vida or the Star of David is a sacred geometry that is found in water molecules, the ocean, our bodies, and memory storage devices (i.e. the silicon chip and water itself as a memory storage device). The ocean stores information, and the Twin Flame DNA secrets are still embedded there as the ocean was too massive for the dark code to pollute everywhere.
Find the purest ocean you can find, like this haven in Indonesia on Gili Air, where the Twin Flame Love codes are still active in the water. And pray for the water’s healing worldwide, and envision Mama Ocean as healed. Activating our Twin Flame DNA is the fastest way to Twin Flame Attraction and it takes a conscious decision of changing your mind not only in your conscious mind, but in your Divine Mind. Meditation, hypnosis, and sacred journeys under the supervision of an expert shaman can help.
Namaste, Love, and Light,
Amanda
Dr. Amanda Noelle is an ancient Starbeing, Atlantean High Priestess, and Founder of Aphrodite University. To learn more about her, click here.
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Dec 11, 2013 | Uncategorized |
Origin of the Twin Flame Love Theory
In my recent article post, How Do I know if my Partner is my Twin Flame?, I talk about the many signs that your partner is your Twin Flame or symptoms that they’re not. I also mention that the concept of Twin Flames is not a new one, and that in his Symposium, Plato speaks of the ancient concept that Twin Flames are literally the other half of the human soul that has incarnated into a form of another, and the reason why we all have the desire to meet our soulmate (most of us do anyway). Here’s an interesting and at least entertaining read about soulmate love from our favorite Greek philosopher. Click here for my video: What is a Twin Flame? to get a better understanding of the Twin Flame theory:
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Aristophanes’s Speech from Plato’s Symposium
Translated by Benjamin Jowett from Collected Works of Plato, 4th Edition, Oxford U. Press, 1953 (189c-189d) p 520 to (193d-193e) p 525
Aristophanes professed to open another vein of discourse; he had a mind to praise Love in another way, unlike that of either Pausanias or Eryximachus. Mankind, he said, judging by their neglect of him, have never, as I think, at all understood the power of Love. For if they had understood him they would surely have built noble temples and altars, and offered solemn sacrifices in his honour; but this is not done, and most certainly ought to be done: since of all the gods he is the best friend of men, the helper and the healer of the ills which are the great impediment to the happiness of the race. I will try to describe his power to you, and you shall teach the rest of the world what I am teaching you.
In the first place, let me treat of the nature of man and what has happened to it. The original human nature was not like the present, but different. The sexes were not two as they are now, but originally three in number; there was man, woman, and the union of the two, of which the name survives but nothing else. Once it was a distinct kind, with a bodily shape and a name of its own, constituted by the union of the male and the female: but now only the word ‘androgynous’ is preserved, and that as a term of reproach.
In the second place, the primeval man was round, his back and sides forming a circle; and he had four hands and the same number of feet, one head with two faces, looking opposite ways, set on a round neck and precisely alike; also four ears, two privy members, and the remainder to correspond. He could walk upright as men now do, backwards or forwards as he pleased, and he could also roll over and over at a great pace, turning on his four hands and four feet, eight in all, like tumblers going over and over with their legs in the air; this was when he wanted to run fast.
Now the sexes were three, and such as I have described them; because the sun, moon, and earth are three; and the man was originally the child of the sun, the woman of the earth, and the man-woman of the moon, which is made up of sun and earth, and they were all round and moved round and round because they resembled their parents. Terrible was their might and strength, and the thoughts of their hearts were great, and they made an attack upon the gods; of them is told the tale of Otys and Ephialtes who, as Homer says, attempted to scale heaven, and would have laid hands upon the gods.
Doubt reigned in the celestial councils. Should they kill them and annihilate the race with thunderbolts, as they had done the giants, then there would be an end of the sacrifices and worship which men offered to them; but, on the other hand, the gods could not suffer their insolence to be unrestrained. At last, after a good deal of reflection, Zeus discovered a way.
He said: ‘Methinks I have a plan which will enfeeble their strength and so extinguish their turbulence; men shall continue to exist, but I will cut them in two and then they will be diminished in strength and increased in numbers; this will have the advantage of making them more profitable to us. They shall walk upright on two legs, and if they continue insolent and will not be quiet, I will split them again and they shall hop about on a single leg.’
He spoke and cut men in two, like a sorb-apple which is halved for pickling, or as you might divide an egg with a hair; and as he cut them one after another, he bade Apollo give the face and the half of the neck a turn in order that man might contemplate the section of himself: he would thus learn a lesson of humility. Apollo was also bidden to heal their wounds and compose their forms. So he gave a turn to the face and pulled the skin from the sides all over that which in our language is called the belly, like the purses which draw tight, and he made one mouth at the centre, which he fastened in a knot (the same which is called the navel); he also moulded the breast and took out most of the wrinkles, much as a shoemaker might smooth leather upon a last; he left a few, however, in the region of the belly and navel, as a memorial of the primeval state.
After the division the two parts of man, each desiring his other half, came together, and throwing their arms about one another, entwined in mutual embraces, longing to grow into one, they began to die from hunger and self-neglect, because they did not like to do anything apart; and when one of the halves died and the other survived, the survivor sought another mate, man or woman as we call them,–being the sections of entire men or women,–and clung to that.
Thus they were being destroyed, when Zeus in pity invented a new plan: he turned the parts of generation round to the front, for this had not been always their position, and they sowed the seed no longer as hitherto like grasshoppers in the ground, but in one another; and after the transposition the male generated in the female in order that by the mutual embraces of man and woman they might breed, and the race might continue; or if man came to man they might be satisfied, and rest, and go their ways to the business of life. So ancient is the desire of one another which is implanted in us, reuniting our original nature, seeking to make one of two, and to heal the state of man.
Each of us when separated, having one side only, like a flat fish, is but the tally-half of a man, and he is always looking for his other half. Men who are a section of that double nature which was once called androgynous are lovers of women; adulterers are generally of this breed, and also adulterous women who lust after men. The women who are a section of the woman do not care for men, but have female attachments; the female companions are of this sort. But they who are a section of the male follow the male, and while they are young, being slices of the original man, they have affection for men and embrace them, and these are the best of boys and youths, because they have the most manly nature.
Some indeed assert that they are shameless, but this is not true; for they do not act thus from any want of shame, but because they are valiant and manly, and have a manly countenance, and they embrace that which is like them. And these when they grow up become our statesmen, and these only, which is a great proof of the truth of what I am saying. When they reach manhood they are lovers of youth, and are not naturally inclined to marry or beget children,–if at all, they do so only in obedience to custom; but they are satisfied if they may be allowed to live with one another unwedded;
Is Leo showing us a clue here of Plato’s Twin Flame concept?
And such a nature is prone to love and ready to return love, always embracing that which is akin to him. And when one of them meets with his other half, the actual half of himself, whether he be a lover of youth or a lover of another sort, the pair are lost in an amazement of love and friendship and intimacy, and one will not be out of the other’s sight, as I may say, even for a moment: these are the people who pass their whole lives together, and yet they could not explain what they desire of one another. For the intense yearning which each of them has towards the other does not appear to be the desire of lover’s intercourse, but of something else which the soul of either evidently desires and cannot tell, and of which she has only a dark and doubtful presentiment.
Suppose Hephaestus, with his instruments, to come to the pair who are lying side by side and to say to them, ‘What do you mortals want of one another?’
They would be unable to explain. And suppose further, that when he saw their perplexity he said: ‘Do you desire to be wholly one; always day and night in one another’s company? for if this is what you desire, I am ready to melt and fuse you together, so that being two you shall become one, and while you live live a common life as if you were a single man, and after your death in the world below still be one departed soul, instead of two–I ask whether this is what you lovingly desire and whether you are satisfied to attain this?’–
There is not a man of them who when he heard the proposal would deny or would not acknowledge that this meeting and melting into one another, this becoming one instead of two, was the very expression of his ancient need.
And the reason is that human nature was originally one and we were a whole, and the desire and pursuit of the whole is called love. There was a time, I say, when we were one, but now because of the wickedness of mankind God has dispersed us, as the Arcadians were dispersed into villages by the Lacedaemonians. And if we are not obedient to the gods, there is a danger that we shall be split up again and go about in basso-relievo, like the profile figures showing only one half the nose which are sculptured on monuments, and that we shall be like tallies.
Wherefore let us exhort all men to piety in all things, that we may avoid evil and obtain the good, taking Love for our leader and commander.
Let no one oppose him–he is the enemy of the gods who opposes him. For if we are friends of God and at peace with him we shall find our own true loves, which rarely happens in this world at present. I am serious, and therefore I must beg Eryximachus not to make fun or to find any allusion in what I am saying to Pausanias and Agathon, who, as I suspect, are both of the manly nature, and belong to the class which I have been describing. But my words have a wider application–they include men and women everywhere; and I believe that if our loves were perfectly accomplished, and each one returning to his primeval nature had his original true love, then our race would be happy. And if this would be best of all, the best in the next degree must in present circumstances be the nearest approach to such a union; and that will be the attainment of a congenial love.
Wherefore, if we would praise him who has given to us the benefit, we must praise the god Love, who is our greatest benefactor, both leading us in this life back to our own nature, and giving us high hopes for the future, for he promises that if we are pious, he will restore us to our original state, and heal us and make us happy and blessed.
This, Eryximachus, is my discourse of love, which, although different to yours, I must beg you to leave unassailed by the shafts of your ridicule, in order that each may have his turn; each, or rather either, for Agathon and Socrates are the only ones left.
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Nov 2, 2013 | Twin Flame Priestess Lifestyle |
He’s kind, healthy, hot, spiritual, self-employed, good with kids, open to having children, likes to travel, loves intimacy, even knows some tantra, he eats a plant-based diet, donates to charity, is in touch with the Feminine… The list goes on. And on. And on… Is this you?
Ha ha ha, I know we Twin Flame seeking women are some of the pickiest creatures on earth. Not a bad thing though, as long as we find a balance and realize that everyone – even us – has flaws. The likelihood of anyone completely fitting our list down to the last detail is pretty low. However, the Twin Flame List can help with the attraction process.
Write down everything you want in your Twin Flame relationship. That’s step one.
But let’s be honest: sometimes getting the whole package feels impossible. And so I see so many of my clients, fans, and friends manifesting men who are missing some key items from the list. Yet using the Law of Attraction in combination with a little elbow grease, you can go after and get nearly the whole list. Or something even better!
Why is it that we can get so blocked by our own stories, resistances, and self-esteem issues, especially when it comes to attraction the “who package” in a relationship? The classic case I see as a Twin Flame Matchmaker in women who are new to working with the Law of Attraction to manifest a Twin Flame is that they will pick a man who is only half or part of what is on their desires list. Are you vegetarian and you meet amazing men, except for that one tiny detail: you can’t see yourself marrying a carnivore, and they are meat-lovin’ men? Or perhaps you are a spiritual woman, super into healing, energy work, consciousness, yoga, green juice, etc and everything is perfect, except for the fact that he totally doesn’t accept or nurture your spiritual path?
“Wassup with this!?” you wonder, “Why do I keep attracting that one little thing that is a BIG deal breaker every time I date someone new!?” I’d hate to see you give up and throw away all of your love, beauty, and bliss potential because you are attracting the wrong men (at least in part!) because the Law of Attraction is only half-working for you…
We gotta first ask: Why do you keep attracting these love-limits? In the Big Leap by Gay Hendricks, Hendricks talks about the “upper limit problem,” ULPs, that are sorta like a metabolic set-point of how much we can love. So when you’re manifesting that 98% perfect soulmate except for the 2% which is a total deal-breaker, it’s like “Fuuuuuu%ck, why me!?” Right? But really that 2% issue is the thing you’re manifesting to keep you safely away from love. What?! Why would you ever want to block yourself from love? Because to be honest, we humans are all freaked by love, it’s our nature. We ARE love, we deserve love, and God loves us much. But ironically this is the scariest thing to our human nature – to accept this gift. We create all kinds of crazy ways to block love, including finding people who are 98% there, but who eat several pounds of meat when we’re wanting a vegetarian, or someone who is perfect in all ways but who can’t afford to pay his bills let alone be your future baby daddy. Help!
You can have what you want, you just gotta be willing to receive it, my love. Be willing to receive the love that you are! As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I specialize in helping women dissolve their subconscious love limits and turn them into love magnets. It really friggin’ works. I’ve done my healing and coaching work on women and in some cases, within hours they’ve manifested their Twin Flame. That’s hot! And it’s delightful to watch every time (especially when I get invited to the wedding, like I’m going to next month!).
I have a sad-to-succsexy story to share! It’ll melt your heart:
I once worked with a client named Laura who thought she’d found her Twin Flame. Everything was perfect… except for one tiny detail: her soulmate was a total vegan and wanted to raise his future children vegan, and he judged her for her eating choices. While she liked living healthy, she’d always enjoyed the occasional piece of fish, organic cheese, or free-range chicken, and she wasn’t wanting to give it up. Plus she’d always wanted to share her favorite family recipes with her future offspring. Initially, it was like everything was perfect for Laura, except that one tiny not-so-cheesy detail, until…
Mr. Vegan Boy suddenly went back to the East Coast for a visit and reconnected with his ex girlfriend. He then dumped Laura, this beautiful woman, shortly after returning but not before sleeping with her one last time. Classy, right? Together, Laura and I did some deep healing work and counseling over the heartache. In our healing work, we realized that God/dess had given her the sign early on so that she could see that he was her perfect Twin Flame stepping stone, the TFC (Counterfeit) to lead her to her true Twin. He’d opened her heart (and smashed it a bit, but it took that to tenderize it!), and she realized how badly she wanted love. Further, she realized that she absolutely needed it from someone who shared her healthy lifestyle with a little bit of fun, cheese, and white meat… It was her style.
Guess what happened next? Only a month later, she fell into the arms of her Twin Flame Aaron at the farmers market, and there was no looking back! Aaron’s a healthy “pescetarian” as he calls it – he eats fish and dairy in small amounts – so they have a ball cooking together! They are now happily married, pregnant, and Laura enjoys their healthy lifestyle without feeling judged for eating her way.
Don’t settle for less Goddess, you are worth the WHOLE package! It’s easy to follow the wrongful thinking that settling for less gets us ahead. Wrong. Settling for less is the harder road. Because your soul knows that you’re worth more, and so you’ll align with potential partners who aren’t really cut out for you in the long-term. You’d best decide what you’re truly worth and what you truly want, and the Universe will bring it to you if you step forth to receive it!
When you let go of what’s not working, the Universe hears your commitment to self and rewards you with a true energy match. You can’t stay in a settling-for-less energy with a karmic soulmate trying to force it. If it’s not an easy fit in the first few dates, let it go, grow, and try again with the right partner. Screen dates before going on them to save you time and heartache. Unless you’re able to control your attraction to people, what’s the point of getting your heart set on someone you know isn’t a fit?
Remember:
- Don’t settle for less because you don’t have to! It won’t serve you, your beloved, or the world
- You can manifest that whole picture by honoring your desires
- Don’t date men who aren’t a fit unless you’re dating for dating’s sake
- Write down your list and stick to it
- Circle your must-haves on the list that are deal-breakers (I don’t think having brown hair would be a deal breaker, but being spiritually awake and financially grounded is, for example)
- Know that you’re worth it!
Good luck lady, you are the Twin Flame, now go find your match…