by Dr Amanda Noelle | Jul 23, 2015 | Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Runner and Chaser |
No Twin Flame psychic can tell you the truth about your Twin Flame, unless she is reflecting the truth of your own Inner Knowing.
You hold the key to your Inner Truth.
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have never given women readings like “He’s totally your Twin Flame! I see a future with you two.” I have seen potential outcomes but I always put it like “I can see this possibly happening, but proceed with caution.” When I was newer to the intuitive reading world, I made all the mistakes that other healers make at first: we take what is metaphysically showing up on our radar and say it is the absolute truth. But no one can know, only the person who is creating their reality.
Twin Flame practitioners must learn to empower their clients to help them find their own answers
I have learned to never disempower my clients, to instead focus on healing their past pain and getting them clear on their pleasure and creating a pathway to their dream lives. It’s not about being a future reader, as the future depends on how clear, blissful, and strong you are.
I have attracted many young women followers to me (probably because I have a magical little child) and I have to coach them to be empowered and to trust THEMSELVES as a guru.
Some of ‘the best’ psychics told me that I was not a fit for my Twin Flame Jack. They said he wasn’t my Twin Flame because he was too young or too this, too that; there was someone else they saw for me. Other psychics said he was the one, and there were many pre-encounter predictions including my own readings on myself. Needless to say, it was very confusing when we first met because I had been expecting massive love at first sight Twin Flame Recognition. But of course since my heart was so bruised and guarded because I’d been heartbroken by my Twin Flame Counterfeit Mark, I had a wall up and wasn’t ready to decide right away with anyone.
If you haven’t seen the Twin Flame Recognition video with Jack and I, check it out here:
In the end, I chose Jack as my truth. I witnessed him as my truest Twin Flame because he is my biggest expression of bliss, fun, play, joy, heart, future, and Twin Flame Love. And for so many more reasons that I will continue to share with you.
Though it took me time to decide if he was the real deal (and I suggest that you take your time as well, because the 3D world can play tricks on you and I have seen SO many clients say “I know he’s my Twin Flame” and it fizzles, and that was me once). After facing so many of our fears and questions together, I felt destiny was in the cards. I even felt it in my body (specifically in my yoni, which I will talk about later).
After nine months of dating Jack, I finally surrendered to our love. I let go and fell in love fully, trusting this man was not going to run or hurt me, and I allowed to build trust in our future
Who cared if several psychics said yes, and several were telling me no!
The answer to “Is he my Twin Flame?” is always within. When you start seeking answers that are outside yourself, you will create chaos and confusion.
A good Twin Flame Matchmaker can support you in neutrality. She’ll guide you to your YES, point out where you’re settling for less, help you discern True Love from love addiction, and help prevent you from running from love because you’re afraid.
I have done it all, and I am so grateful I have had some great mentors, therapists, coaches, and friends who have guided me along the way. But at the end, I made my choice and I am forever grateful for ME.
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by Dr Amanda Noelle | Apr 4, 2014 | Uncategorized |
He loves me, he loves me not…. Is that your question? Wanna tell for sure if your crush likes you and save us all some time (especially your girl friends who hear you nagging all the time about your crush!?). This article contains some sound spiritual and practical advice that will help you tell if a guy is into you, or if you’re just wasting your time.
While there are no cookie-cutter rules, as a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have seen some patterns in my clients and friends that did or should have saved my girls a bunch of time! So let me break it down for you. The main rule is that you gotta think of yourself first, and focus less on attracting him or pleasing him. If he likes you, he’ll like you as you are, not because you’re trying to impress him.
Note that men like a hunt, and the more you try to strut your stuff or prove it to him that you’re fabulous, the more he’ll want to pull away. Don’t do the work for him! Let men do the hunting. Don’t make it easy for them either. Gently and subtly flirt and let them know you’re available. Then use these tools to see if he likes you.
But first, this heart-warming story about Sarah, a dear soul sister of mine who found out if her crush wanted her back. She was madly attracted to her crush Joe, but wasn’t sure if Joe actually liked her back. Her attraction was driving her mad and yet she didn’t know how to tell if he was into her. It was killing her!
I gave her some advice and she said it would be OK to share our written experience here (FB messages) so you can save some time and find your soulmate/Twin Flame too!
Facebook conversation with Sarah (SS) and me (Dr. N)
SS: “There is this guy that I really like. He and I are in a short film together, and on Thursday we went out for coffee. I’ve liked him for a few months now and I have no idea where to begin when it comes to subtle flirting. Could you give me some advice?”
Dr. N: “Let him ask you out again, but if he doesn’t you can joke with him like, “When are you going to ask me out for another coffee?!” If he’s too shy he’s not the one for you. Men hunt, women get hunted, if he’s not hunting, don’t force it…it just means he’s not ready.”
SS: “Okay. Thank you!! I don’t know, there is just something about him that makes me want to be close to him. It’s interesting, that’s for sure haha.”
Dr. N: “You can even tell him that! If he’s feeling the same thing he’ll be very glad you saved him time!”
SS: I took your advice! It worked in a way I wasn’t expecting it to though. The guy I told you about wasn’t into me the way I thought, so I said alright, I will focus on myself. Since then I have been doing better than ever!! There is this really great guy who wants to take me out sometime, him and I have been nonstop flirting for the past month. It’s been crazy, but thank you for the help you have me a couple months ago!
Dr. N: “Awe, that melts my heart! It’s better to get someone to treat you like a queen than wait around for someone who isn’t in soul alignment. You are fabulous and a perfect gem – glad you found someone who appreciates your spark! What a fun story.”
Women around the world are stepping into their power, their beauty, and their self-worth. We are figuring out our worth – that we are precious jewels and that we are no longer willing to sit around waiting for some guy to come around and make us happy.
We are done staying in fear, stuck, silent, and living behind veils of shame, shyness, insecurity. I myself used to suffer from all of the above, and had major body image issues and low self-esteem issues that would block me like a dark veil from getting what I wanted in relationships and in almost everything (especially money).
It’s important to read the clues to tell if a guy likes you, and if he isn’t into you, you need to back off. Otherwise if you keep pining after a fantasy, you will get trapped in believing this false true love is a Twin Flame Runner, which leads to intense heartache and even feelings of insanity.
This is what they don’t teach you when you’re first learning how to date. No one encourages you to have self-esteem and to date selfishly and to take care of your own needs first. That’s what I do with my clients. And it attracts very high vibrational men! The first step is to own that you want to be loved and liked as much as you love and like him. So you gotta ask the universe for this first – to be loved 50/50% – a step most women skip! Then you have to get real and see if he’s really that into you…Let’s go back to high school and revisit the rules on how to tell if he’s into you!
How to tell if a guy likes you, top 5 ways to tell:
1) Flirt and see if he flirts back. Sarcastic jokes count as flirting to some guys so this might not be the easiest way to tell…
2) Hint for him to take you out or ask you out. If he is ready, he will take the hint and GO FOR IT!
3) Make eye contact with him and see if he can hold it. Does he hold your gaze or look away? That will tell!
4) Make slight physical contact – touch his shoulder, hand, etc., and see how he reacts – does he freeze up or open to your touch?
5) Be friendly. Does he laugh at your jokes, commit to his word, reach out to you energetically?
What if you can’t take any of the above steps you ask? Then you’re not ready for a relationship. A relationship starts by stepping into your fears, taking your veils down, of being intimate and exposed and seeing if someone wants to be the real you. If you are not there yet, don’t worry: simply focus on loving yourself. A good therapist, coach, friend, or counselor will help. Work on boosting your self-esteem and self-love first.
The good news is, if he doesn’t like you – like in Sarah’s case – you won’t be wasting your time and you will open up the doors to actually meeting someone who can deeply care about you. Enough living in a fantasy world trying to make someone like you who isn’t really even good for you. If he likes you, then move forward.
If you have been running after Twin Flame Runners, don’t feel alone, there is no shame in this. You can break the pattern (and it is just a blueprint, and doesn’t reflect your lovability or magnificence!). Many women and clients I have worked with become obsessed with a guy who doesn’t appear to love them back, and I feel that this is part of a blueprint we women must face. The answer resides in loving ourselves and becoming more discerning. Be willing to let go of something or someone you thought was true love and throw it back into the ocean. There are indeed many fish in the sea, and your Twin Flame will be the one that is easy and who sticks around to love and support you through the journey. Throw the ones back who don’t respond with commitment and love, and if they come back running for you, well then, great! You got your Twin Flame soulmate!
Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker to spiritualistas, celebs, and stellar women. She’s also the Founder of Aphrodite University.
