“Help! I don’t know how to find my Twin Flame!”
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I get this a lot.
I want to be able to say, “Just use the Law of Attraction, and your Twin Flame will come!”
But it’s really not that simple. We can use the Twin Flame Law of Attraction, but we do have to evolve and grow on the spiritual, mental, and emotional levels before calling in our Beloved.
That’s why I highly suggest using this tip before calling in your man or woman, as it’s a powerful tool for self and soul development that will prepare you for the real deal.
Find your Twin Flame fast with Soul Family
Calling in a Twin Flame is quite a journey for many of us–it certainly was for me! I used this very powerful key to call in my Beloved who fits me like a glove, and I discovered it on accident. I have shown my clients how to call in their partner using this tool as well, and it seems to be an important step for those stuck in a dating rut.
There are many ways to call in your Twin Flame, and everyone will walk a slightly different path. However, one real simple way to ‘practice’ calling in your Twin Flame is to call in Soul Family first.
Soul Family connections activate Twin Flame Love
Soul Family are people in your ‘soul group’ with whom you reincarnate (don’t worry if you don’t believe in reincarnation though, just think of them as people you instantly feel connected to). They’re those special people with which you easily resonate.
With Soul Family, you literally resonate at a similar vibrational frequency in many aspects, and it feels really really good.
Soul Family Reunions prepare you for your Twin Flame Union because you learn how to match frequencies, form bonds, work through difficulties, and navigate intimacy.
Soul Family is an alternate form of Twin Flame Love
Here is an example of my Soul Family Reunion success story! My soul sister Chiara and I met in Florence, Italy years ago in 2003, and it felt immediately as if we were old friends. Past life perhaps?
After moving back from Italy, Chiara and I were mostly out of touch for a decade because it was way before Facebook and even email was rather rare in Italy.
Then, two years ago, in 2013, I reunited with Chiara and we had an incredible summer friendship in Greece/Italy, followed by another 2 month visit in Tuscany because we had so much to connect on, catch up on, and create together!
As it happened, I could feel there was lots of soul growth and evolution happening through our connection. I’d been going through a stuck patch for several years regarding my own Twin Flame process (very annoying when you’re a Twin Flame Matchmaker helping others get what they want!).
Chiara and I would sit at cafes laughing and talking about what our Twin Flames looked like, fantasizing about the cute business men walking in or the hot Greek waiters (who did turn into brief love affairs for both of us!). The energy was playful and I felt like my Soul Sister and I could create anything together.
I felt way less stuck in the Twin Flame department after spending time with Chiara, and I don’t think it was a coincidence that the last time I saw her in person was during the same timeframe in which I met my Beloved.
There is much healing, and magic that happens in Soul Family Partnerships.
To this day, I have Chiara to thank for helping her meet my Twin Flame, Jack. I met Jack for the second time at Ecstatic Dance Oakland the night that I brought Chiara in for a visit! I love both of my Soul Family Members and know that Chiara was an important gateway to my reunion with Jack.
My message to you is to spend time with people who really fill your cup, who melt your heart, and who even push your buttons at times because they help you grow so swiftly!
I am indebted to Chiara especially for the difficult fight we got in at the end of her last visit–it pushed me to grow and face my worst fears. We worked through it together and stepped into a new level of love and surrender. It was not easy.
It wasn’t easy…But neither are Twin Flame relationships!
Have you called in your Soul Family–people who:
- really get you
- who have a similar frequency
- share a similar set of spiritual tools
- are on the same path of growth and soul evolution
- fill your cup fully
- feel like brothers/sisters
- have that instant soul bond ‘recognition’
I hope that you are able to call in your Twin Flame fast by activating some powerful Soul Family relationships. I also hope that you can use these sacred connections to experience the first levels of Twin Flame Love. Twin Flame Love goes way beyond two people; it is an energy inside you and is of God. It is truly everywhere.
How does Twin Flame energy presence itself in your life RIGHT NOW? And how can you call in support from your Soul Family to prepare for your Twin Flame Union?
Twin Flame and Soul Fam Love, Light & Blessings!
Dr. Amanda Noelle,
The Twin Flame Matchmaker
“Where is he? Where is he? Where is he!?” I would ask myself over and over again, like a broken record.
I looked far and wide for my Twin Flame, and it took me 35 years to hunt him down--but I finally did it!
I have written this article to help you expedite your Twin Flame attraction process so you can step into Twin Flame Union
way faster than I did.
Your Twin Begins Within
In order to unite with your Twin Flame, you must not only go out and look for a partner, you must first look within. You must love yourself before you can be loved. You’ve got to hit a decent level of emotional, financial, physical, and spiritual stability/strength to align with your Twin. The Twin Flame preparation process is essential work to be done before even asking the question “Where do I meet him?” Click here to watch this video meditation to attract your Twin Flame about self-love:
Without self-love--even if you were to go to all the right places at the right time--you wouldn’t recognize him/her. You could be in the same room and practically bump into each other, then continue complaining about how your Twin Flame will never come. I have seen it many times! Self-love is the true Twin Flame magnet. Even Twin Flame telepathy doesn’t solve the issue: you must become a beacon of love for it to stick.
When you are ready, this person seems to come out of nowhere
Just postulate for now that your Twin Flame was already in your neighborhood, crossing your path every day. He is even in your aura hearing these words in your head. Now it’s simply a matter of preparing your soul.
OK… So I think you get the point. Let’s saved in the preparation work and now you are ready to find your Twin Flame!
These are the top five places to meet your Twin Flame:
1) Twin Flacebook
You guessed it! In the modern-day world we live in, you cannot discount the biggest social media platform where people in your age-range and interest level hang out. It is kind of obvious when you think about it, but what is not obvious is the following – to use Facebook as a dating site (or twin flame sacred space, in our case) you have to reach out to people and hunt for what you want. My clients, fans, and friends have met their beloveds because one of the twins approached the other and ask for a Skype date. Are you going to judge yourself because this sounds nerdy, or are you willing to find your beloved who may be on the other side of the planet, happy to first connect with you on cyberspace? Don’t question your happiness… Just follow your intuition! Be creative! We are in a dating drought, but there is an epic amount of love around, so approach people for conversation and see where it goes.
2) Hey Yoga Girl…
Want to meet a hot, hunky fit guy while sculpting your sexy body as well? Why not hit the gym and tag two birds with one stone? It’ll be great to have a workout buddy and partner for life! Sometimes this takes compromise. You may like a women’s gym, for example. This doesn’t mean that you have to join a muscle-head gym, but try something like CrossFit or a yoga class where both sexes in your age group hang out.
3) Retreat Pray Love
Retreats are a great place to meet because we tend to have our hearts very open when we go on vacation. Whether you meet somebody on the actual retreat itself, or you expand your energy and meet someone when you come home, retreats will activate Twin Flame Energy
. We tend to be less focused on habits and home, and more on growth, expansion, and we are detached from human day-to-day needs. In fact, my parents met on a spiritual retreat at Asilomar
in Pacific Grove, California taking a class on Divine Feminine Divine Masculine polarity in the 70s. I appreciate that they were opening themselves to conscious spirituality when they met!
4) Spiritual Tribe
Despite the myth that it’s easy to meet someone at a bar or club, I have found it to be rare, unless you’re looking for simply a hot fleshy evening. If you’re looking for a committed spiritual partnership, you’ll want to tap into a spiritual or conscious community that suits you. You won’t be wasting time here either--even if you don’t meet someone right away, you’ll be blissing out with loved ones, which sets the stage for your Twin Flame. Soul Family and conscious connection is part of the Twin Flame Union tapestry.
5) Stop! Hobby Time!
Do what you love, and your love will follow. Hiking. Camping. Tango dancing…. I have heard it so many times. “I always wanted to learn to fly fish, and I met my guy there!” Try something new; it could be salsa dance, or acting improv, or cooking classes. Doesn’t matter what it is as long as it blisses you out.
It helps if you can attend activities where the available singles hang out. But even if you don’t meet your partner there, I have seen it where someone gets set up on a date though a sisterhood circle. So don’t focus on meeting someone, focus on following what pleases YOU. And someone who pleases you will be certain to arrive.
I met my beloved while dancing at Ecstatic Dance Oakland. Ecstatic Dance is one of my favorite hobbies, and some of my best friends and Soul Family surrounded me there. I was in full body, mind, and spiritual bliss and was dancing in my feminine power.
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