Using the Law of Attraction to Get the Whole Package: A Twin Flame Relationship

Using the Law of Attraction to Get the Whole Package: A Twin Flame Relationship

by | Nov 2, 2013 | Twin Flame Priestess Lifestyle | 0 comments

He’s kind, healthy, hot, spiritual, self-employed, good with kids, open to having children, likes to travel, loves intimacy, even knows some tantra, he eats a plant-based diet, donates to charity, is in touch with the Feminine… The list goes on. And on. And on… Is this you?

Ha ha ha, I know we Twin Flame seeking women are some of the pickiest creatures on earth. Not a bad thing though, as long as we find a balance and realize that everyone – even us – has flaws.  The likelihood of anyone completely fitting our list down to the last detail is pretty low. However, the Twin Flame List can help with the attraction process.

Write down everything you want in your Twin Flame relationship. That’s step one.

But let’s be honest: sometimes getting the whole package feels impossible. And so I see so many of my clients, fans, and friends manifesting men who are missing some key items from the list. Yet using the Law of Attraction in combination with a little elbow grease, you can go after and get nearly the whole list. Or something even better!

Why is it that we can get so blocked by our own stories, resistances, and self-esteem issues, especially when it comes to attraction the “who package” in a relationship? The classic case I see as a Twin Flame Matchmaker in women who are new to working with the Law of Attraction to manifest a Twin Flame is that they will pick a man who is only half or part of what is on their desires list.  Are you vegetarian and you meet amazing men, except for that one tiny detail: you can’t see yourself marrying a carnivore, and they are meat-lovin’ men? Or perhaps you are a spiritual woman, super into healing, energy work, consciousness, yoga, green juice, etc and everything is perfect, except for the fact that he totally doesn’t accept or nurture your spiritual path?

“Wassup with this!?” you wonder, “Why do I keep attracting that one little thing that is a BIG deal breaker every time I date someone new!?” I’d hate to see you give up and throw away all of your love, beauty, and bliss potential because you are attracting the wrong men (at least in part!) because the Law of Attraction is only half-working for you…

We gotta first ask: Why do you keep attracting these love-limits?  In the Big Leap by Gay Hendricks, Hendricks talks about the “upper limit problem,” ULPs, that are sorta like a metabolic set-point of how much we can love.  So when you’re manifesting that 98% perfect soulmate except for the 2% which is a total deal-breaker, it’s like “Fuuuuuu%ck, why me!?” Right? But really that 2% issue is the thing you’re manifesting to keep you safely away from love. What?! Why would you ever want to block yourself from love? Because to be honest, we humans are all freaked by love, it’s our nature. We ARE love, we deserve love, and God loves us much. But ironically this is the scariest thing to our human nature – to accept this gift. We create all kinds of crazy ways to block love, including finding people who are 98% there, but who eat several pounds of meat when we’re wanting a vegetarian, or someone who is perfect in all ways but who can’t afford to pay his bills let alone be your future baby daddy.  Help!

Twin Flame LoveYou can have what you want, you just gotta be willing to receive it, my love. Be willing to receive the love that you are! As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I specialize in helping women dissolve their subconscious love limits and turn them into love magnets.  It really friggin’ works. I’ve done my healing and coaching work on women and in some cases, within hours they’ve  manifested their Twin Flame.  That’s hot!  And it’s delightful to watch every time (especially when I get invited to the wedding, like I’m going to next month!).

I have a sad-to-succsexy story to share! It’ll melt your heart:

I once worked with a client named Laura who thought she’d found her Twin Flame. Everything was perfect… except for one tiny detail: her soulmate was a total vegan and wanted to raise his future children vegan, and he judged her for her eating choices.  While she liked living healthy, she’d always enjoyed the occasional piece of fish, organic cheese, or free-range chicken, and she wasn’t wanting to give it up. Plus she’d always wanted to share her favorite family recipes with her future offspring.  Initially, it was like everything was perfect for Laura, except that one tiny not-so-cheesy detail, until…

Mr. Vegan Boy suddenly went back to the East Coast for a visit and reconnected with his ex girlfriend. He then dumped Laura, this beautiful woman, shortly after returning but not before sleeping with her one last time. Classy, right?  Together, Laura and I did some deep healing work and counseling over the heartache.  In our healing work, we realized that God/dess had given her the sign early on so that she could see that he was her perfect Twin Flame stepping stone, the TFC (Counterfeit) to lead her to her true Twin. He’d opened her heart (and smashed it a bit, but it took that to tenderize it!), and she realized how badly she wanted love. Further, she realized that she absolutely needed it from someone who shared her healthy lifestyle with a little bit of fun, cheese, and white meat… It was her style.

Guess what happened next? Only a month later, she fell into the arms of her Twin Flame Aaron at the farmers market, and there was no looking back! Aaron’s a healthy “pescetarian” as he calls it – he eats fish and dairy in small amounts – so they have a ball cooking together! They are now happily married, pregnant, and Laura enjoys their healthy lifestyle without feeling judged for eating her way.

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Don’t settle for less Goddess, you are worth the WHOLE package!  It’s easy to follow the wrongful thinking that settling for less gets us ahead. Wrong. Settling for less is the harder road. Because your soul knows that you’re worth more, and so you’ll align with potential partners who aren’t really cut out for you in the long-term.  You’d best decide what you’re truly worth and what you truly want, and the Universe will bring it to you if you step forth to receive it!

When you let go of what’s not working, the Universe hears your commitment to self and rewards you with a true energy match. You can’t stay in a settling-for-less energy with a karmic soulmate trying to force it.  If it’s not an easy fit in the first few dates, let it go, grow, and try again with the right partner. Screen dates before going on them to save you time and heartache. Unless you’re able to control your attraction to people, what’s the point of getting your heart set on someone you know isn’t a fit?

Remember:

  • Don’t settle for less because you don’t have to! It won’t serve you, your beloved, or the world
  • You can manifest that whole picture by honoring your desires
  • Don’t date men who aren’t a fit unless you’re dating for dating’s sake
  • Write down your list and stick to it
  • Circle your must-haves on the list that are deal-breakers (I don’t think having brown hair would be a deal breaker, but being spiritually awake and financially grounded is, for example)
  • Know that you’re worth it!

Good luck lady, you are the Twin Flame, now go find your match…

Six Reasons Men (and You) Fear Your Divine Feminine Bliss

Six Reasons Men (and You) Fear Your Divine Feminine Bliss

by | Jul 3, 2013 | Uncategorized | 0 comments

Thanks for stopping by!  I’m Dr. Amanda Noelle, the BLI$$ness Coach, helping High-Healed Priestesses turn their bliss into 6-Figure BLI$$nesses that heal the planet. And I’d like to tell you why men and your own Divine Masculine aspect have been fearing your Divine Feminine bliss for the past…oh, several thousand years!

Divine Feminine bliss is the scariest thing on the planet. Boo!  Don’t you fear, doubt, and at some times hate your own Divine Feminine bliss?  I know I do on some level.  I know that’s why High Priestesses got kicked out of Egypt thousands of years ago to create a world and civilizations dominated by men at war, in the most ickiest of ways. Greed, war, financial and political systems that screwed women over completely, and many men too.  The raw, robust, alive power of Divine Feminine bliss has gotten us women into trouble in the past, which is why we subconsciously fear death if we follow our bliss. It’s also why we went through many lifetimes of witch burnings and persecution and why we’ve been kicked out of The Temple (in most all religions worldwide, collectively I call this “The Temple” but it also relates to the Temple of Solomon that was once based on a Sacred Feminine site).

Divine Feminine BlissThe Divine Feminine is bad, the Patriarchy is good, it is God. What!? That’s what we were programmed with for the past 5,000ish years, and it’s only now that we’re really waking up to the BS (belief systems/bullshit) that we’ve been living by.

We’ve been taught to fear our Divine Femininity: our bliss, our beauty, female intuition, and even our own bodies, especially our vaginas. Our own gorgeous vaginas! What the f#c&!  Why in heaven’s name have we been raised with this mashugana, this total distorted brainwashing (and even PU$$Y washing, which is why Summer’s Eve Douche tries to tell you your sacred temple needs some chemicals up there), this dis-ease that has disempowered us from our own sacred feminine treasures and bliss? It’s so unsexy, and it’s caused a lot of healers, high priestesses, and spiritual men – and really all of us – unnecessary pain by this raping and abuse of the Divine Feminine.  Thank Goddess this backwards era is coming to an end and we Vaginas can take over again (or at least share the planet with our Twin Flame/equal men!)

Men (and you) are afraid of Divine Feminine bliss for the following 6 reasons. I am not saying they don’t love it and adore it and even go crazy over it. They do! But there’s a lot of healing we have to do in our businesses and with our own masculine and around being seen with men. So I share this list with you:

  • Power is scary The Divine Feminine is a very powerful force, and power is powerful, which makes the parts of us that don’t feel powerful want to run and hide.
  • Men are envious of our procreative power Men have been envious of the Divine Feminine gifts that we women hold, and that’s natural because we are indeed amazing, but we haven’t set a boundary being like “Yo men, we’re awesome, and you are jealous about that, but it’s not our fault so go deal with it and create something awesome with your Divine Masculine amazingness.”
  • Your goddess energy makes him crazy Divine Feminine energies can make men go crazy; their lust and desires for it can make them feel out of control, so to some men this arousing property in women is very intimidating, scary.
  • He’s angry at his mama The Divine Feminine power has made men very angry at their mothers for creating life (their life) and then for the separation from that life; whereas girls can create life at some point and are always in a womb vibration because we have wombs.  That is why birthing has been so painful instead of ecstatic, when birthing should be and can be ecstatic.  The guilt carried by women in our wombs for being so magical and powerful needs to stop, and we need to start being proud of our magic again.
  • His vibration is slower than yours Females have an energetic vibration of 140 beats/second, while men have a vibration of only 40 beats; when in utero we all have a vibration of 240 beats through our pregnant mothers’ high vibrations.  The separation process from mother can be more traumatic for boys for this reason. The boys grow up and become men but they haven’t resolved this inner conflict and are often holding subconscious anger towards the Feminine for abandoning him. This is why many men abandon women over and over again, and why many women fear abandonment with men.

Men, you are awesome, we need you.  But/and we cannot sit around feeling guilty all the time for the fact that you can’t birth life and that your energy runs differently from ours. We do need you, we are lonely without you and you do so many things for us.  Your energy is very grounding and we’d love your support. But we are no longer willing to pay the price by subduing ourselves, numbing out our Feminine Energy, blocking our sacred sexuality, or trying to become like you.  Finally, we’re not sorry that we’re hot mamas, sexy tantrickas, spiritual-intuitives, and part of the sacred mystery of creation (and so are you, we need your seed)!  We honor your gifts and your abilities, and now it’s our time that you honor ours.  We hope you understand.  We love you, we hold you, and we’re not doing it as martyrs but as enlightened High-Heal Priestesses who expect the best and who are willing to wait until you can join us for this amazing Twin Flame dance party of Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine bliss on the sacred Gaian dance floor.

Women, we gotta own our bliss! Grab onto our PU$$Y Power! Hold your O-balls (ovaries)!! Let’s start rebuilding The Divine Feminine Temple again so there’s a space for men and women to co-create together. We must start with rebuilding the Divine Feminine Temple without men as the center and it may take focusing on women at first to ground and stabilize the Feminine frequency.

With our Divine Feminine bliss, we must tap into our wealth consciousness, and our financial power. Honestly, how blissful can a woman be if she’s traveling in hostels or Motel 6s while on her bliss mission? I’m leaving on a jet plane for Italy next month to follow my bliss, and it was the scariest decision I had to make because there was so much energy saying that if I followed my bliss something bad would happen, my business would fail, I would lose money, I would be stuck in a bad situation… But I chose to go anyway to show my HHPs (High-Healed Priestesses) that they absolutely must start owning their Divine Feminine bliss and there are no excuses anymore!

Be a beacon of bliss, be the bliss temple, the ecstasy, and in doing so you will heal all the past generations of persecution and pain in all of your past ancestors and soulmates, and future ancestors and future soul mates. And of course of your Beloved Twin Flame.