by Dr Amanda Noelle | Aug 26, 2015 | Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Signs |
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Are you a single woman who is ready to call in her Twin Flame? Is this you:Beware beloved, lol!
The Twin Flame energies WILL align your life with your heart and soul and it’s NOT always easy because you can no longer stay in fear, misalignment or procrastinate on your soul’s purpose. In this video, learn several surprising results of a Twin Flame relationship shared by Dr. Amanda Noelle, Twin Flame Matchmaker and Founder of Aphrodite. Learn how to prepare for these so you’re all Twin Flame set and on your soul purpose too.
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Jul 23, 2015 | Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Runner and Chaser |
No Twin Flame psychic can tell you the truth about your Twin Flame, unless she is reflecting the truth of your own Inner Knowing.
You hold the key to your Inner Truth.
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I have never given women readings like “He’s totally your Twin Flame! I see a future with you two.” I have seen potential outcomes but I always put it like “I can see this possibly happening, but proceed with caution.” When I was newer to the intuitive reading world, I made all the mistakes that other healers make at first: we take what is metaphysically showing up on our radar and say it is the absolute truth. But no one can know, only the person who is creating their reality.
Twin Flame practitioners must learn to empower their clients to help them find their own answers
I have learned to never disempower my clients, to instead focus on healing their past pain and getting them clear on their pleasure and creating a pathway to their dream lives. It’s not about being a future reader, as the future depends on how clear, blissful, and strong you are.
I have attracted many young women followers to me (probably because I have a magical little child) and I have to coach them to be empowered and to trust THEMSELVES as a guru.
Some of ‘the best’ psychics told me that I was not a fit for my Twin Flame Jack. They said he wasn’t my Twin Flame because he was too young or too this, too that; there was someone else they saw for me. Other psychics said he was the one, and there were many pre-encounter predictions including my own readings on myself. Needless to say, it was very confusing when we first met because I had been expecting massive love at first sight Twin Flame Recognition. But of course since my heart was so bruised and guarded because I’d been heartbroken by my Twin Flame Counterfeit Mark, I had a wall up and wasn’t ready to decide right away with anyone.
If you haven’t seen the Twin Flame Recognition video with Jack and I, check it out here:
In the end, I chose Jack as my truth. I witnessed him as my truest Twin Flame because he is my biggest expression of bliss, fun, play, joy, heart, future, and Twin Flame Love. And for so many more reasons that I will continue to share with you.
Though it took me time to decide if he was the real deal (and I suggest that you take your time as well, because the 3D world can play tricks on you and I have seen SO many clients say “I know he’s my Twin Flame” and it fizzles, and that was me once). After facing so many of our fears and questions together, I felt destiny was in the cards. I even felt it in my body (specifically in my yoni, which I will talk about later).
After nine months of dating Jack, I finally surrendered to our love. I let go and fell in love fully, trusting this man was not going to run or hurt me, and I allowed to build trust in our future
Who cared if several psychics said yes, and several were telling me no!
The answer to “Is he my Twin Flame?” is always within. When you start seeking answers that are outside yourself, you will create chaos and confusion.
A good Twin Flame Matchmaker can support you in neutrality. She’ll guide you to your YES, point out where you’re settling for less, help you discern True Love from love addiction, and help prevent you from running from love because you’re afraid.
I have done it all, and I am so grateful I have had some great mentors, therapists, coaches, and friends who have guided me along the way. But at the end, I made my choice and I am forever grateful for ME.
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Jul 15, 2015 | Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love |
“Where is he? Where is he? Where is he!?” I would ask myself over and over again, like a broken record.
I looked far and wide for my Twin Flame, and it took me 35 years to hunt him down–but I finally did it!
I have written this article to help you expedite your Twin Flame attraction process so you can step into
Twin Flame Union way faster than I did.
Your Twin Begins Within
In order to unite with your Twin Flame, you must not only go out and look for a partner, you must first look within. You must love yourself before you can be loved. You’ve got to hit a decent level of emotional, financial, physical, and spiritual stability/strength to align with your Twin. The Twin Flame preparation process is essential work to be done before even asking the question “Where do I meet him?” Click here to watch this video meditation to attract your Twin Flame about self-love:
Without self-love–even if you were to go to all the right places at the right time–you wouldn’t recognize him/her. You could be in the same room and practically bump into each other, then continue complaining about how your Twin Flame will never come. I have seen it many times! Self-love is the true Twin Flame magnet. Even Twin Flame telepathy doesn’t solve the issue: you must become a beacon of love for it to stick.
When you are ready, this person seems to come out of nowhere
Just postulate for now that your Twin Flame was already in your neighborhood, crossing your path every day. He is even in your aura hearing these words in your head. Now it’s simply a matter of preparing your soul.
OK… So I think you get the point. Let’s saved in the preparation work and now you are ready to find your Twin Flame!
These are the top five places to meet your Twin Flame:
1) Twin Flacebook
You guessed it! In the modern-day world we live in, you cannot discount the biggest social media platform where people in your age-range and interest level hang out. It is kind of obvious when you think about it, but what is not obvious is the following – to use Facebook as a dating site (or twin flame sacred space, in our case) you have to reach out to people and hunt for what you want. My clients, fans, and friends have met their beloveds because one of the twins approached the other and ask for a Skype date. Are you going to judge yourself because this sounds nerdy, or are you willing to find your beloved who may be on the other side of the planet, happy to first connect with you on cyberspace? Don’t question your happiness… Just follow your intuition! Be creative! We are in a dating drought, but there is an epic amount of love around, so approach people for conversation and see where it goes.
2) Hey Yoga Girl…
Want to meet a hot, hunky fit guy while sculpting your sexy body as well? Why not hit the gym and tag two birds with one stone? It’ll be great to have a workout buddy and partner for life! Sometimes this takes compromise. You may like a women’s gym, for example. This doesn’t mean that you have to join a muscle-head gym, but try something like CrossFit or a yoga class where both sexes in your age group hang out.
3) Retreat Pray Love
Retreats are a great place to meet because we tend to have our hearts very open when we go on vacation. Whether you meet somebody on the actual retreat itself, or you expand your energy and meet someone when you come home, retreats will activate
Twin Flame Energy. We tend to be less focused on habits and home, and more on growth, expansion, and we are detached from human day-to-day needs. In fact, my parents met on a
spiritual retreat at Asilomar in Pacific Grove, California taking a class on Divine Feminine Divine Masculine polarity in the 70s. I appreciate that they were opening themselves to conscious spirituality when they met!
4) Spiritual Tribe
Despite the myth that it’s easy to meet someone at a bar or club, I have found it to be rare, unless you’re looking for simply a hot fleshy evening. If you’re looking for a committed spiritual partnership, you’ll want to tap into a spiritual or conscious community that suits you. You won’t be wasting time here either–even if you don’t meet someone right away, you’ll be blissing out with loved ones, which sets the stage for your Twin Flame. Soul Family and conscious connection is part of the Twin Flame Union tapestry.
5) Stop! Hobby Time!
Do what you love, and your love will follow. Hiking. Camping. Tango dancing…. I have heard it so many times. “I always wanted to learn to fly fish, and I met my guy there!” Try something new; it could be salsa dance, or acting improv, or cooking classes. Doesn’t matter what it is as long as it blisses you out.
It helps if you can attend activities where the available singles hang out. But even if you don’t meet your partner there, I have seen it where someone gets set up on a date though a sisterhood circle. So don’t focus on meeting someone, focus on following what pleases YOU. And someone who pleases you will be certain to arrive.
I met my beloved while dancing at Ecstatic Dance Oakland. Ecstatic Dance is one of my favorite hobbies, and some of my best friends and Soul Family surrounded me there. I was in full body, mind, and spiritual bliss and was dancing in my feminine power.
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by Dr Amanda Noelle | Jun 24, 2015 | Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Runner and Chaser |
In order to call in your Twin Flame and truly live an abundant life, you have to heal every part of yourself, including your past. You can’t hold on to the anger from a past relationship. You cannot send hate to your ex and send love to your current partner and be in soul-alignment: Oneness doesn’t work that way! If you don’t heal your energetic relationships with exes, you will be holding on to heavy weight energy blocks. This will attract Twin Flame Counterfeits, Twin Flame Runners, Karmic Soulmates, etc, and it’s not pretty! In order to attract your one true Twin Flame you must heal all relationships, even the most painful and hurtful past relationship that you thought you’d moved on from.
It’s time to heal all ex relationships (and even past crushes!)
Exes are like previous seasons who have helped you cultivate your crop. Some are like spring: blooming you into blossom. Others are like winter–giving you a rest and testing your survival. But all the seasons are important to you, as they make you the well-rounded goddess you are!
Above is a photo I recently re-discovered of me and my first long-term relationship. Enrico was the Italian who Shanghaied me, literally to Shanghai China, where we lived for 1.5 years. These were the hardest and most growth-filled years of my 20s, but I don’t regret them. I didn’t speak the language. The weather was harsh in 2 of the four seasons, and the other two were very short. I was constantly on my last few bit of Yuan–so financially broke that I rode a bike in the streets of Shanghai with 1000s of others where I was the only white girl! A sea of black hair, then me. The blond… It was the most painful relationship to let go of in my 20s, but I did it because I new that there was something bigger for me. But it took me a long time to heal from it, and the way I finally healed was through gratitude.
Accept loneliness as part of a Twin Flame path
Loneliness was something I learned to deal with on a deep level–both in China, and in my relationship with Enrico. At age 24, I didn’t know anyone in Shanghai, and my man wasn’t compatible on the spiritual level. I was starting to wake up, and my spiritual gifts and pursuits frightened him. So I went into my own world and opened up alone, and hid my passions from him in our relationship. It was some of the most exciting stuff and I wanted to share it with someone, but I was still new to the shamanic world and didn’t think anyone would relate.
Loneliness gets healed when you realize that you are never alone. I started embracing my loneliness and slowly it became apparent that I wasn’t alone. I became friends with a dear friend of mine from Germany who would give me psychic readings and supported me so much during that time. I also became content with being the only blond on a block of 10,000 people and feeling OK with being different. What a gift, actually!
I tried leaving that relationship many times. But there was a great deal of love and compassion (and co-dependence) for each other, and leaving love is never easy. I tried packing up my bags and coming back to California, but something kept me stuck in Shanghai for what felt like a long time. At least Enrico had a great sense of humor, and taught me a lot about not taking life seriously! There were many good times, between the bad… I got to go visit his family just outside of Venice, Italy a few times and experienced some of the best home cooked food of my life!
The problem is that for many years after the relationship, I didn’t focus on gratitude for my relationship with Enrico. I would subtly bad mouth him in front of people, because I hadn’t fully been in my power in the relationship and hadn’t expressed my feelings when I was in it. I wish I had been able to heal my pain and focus on gratitude sooner; I would have probably not have attracted my Twin Flame Counterfeit, taken so long to meet my Twin Flame, and have gone through so much drama!
Appreciate the spiritual growth
Life has its ups and downs, but you grow so much on a deep spiritual level, even through your pain.
There is no faking it–sometimes it’s just awful! Like the time I finally had the courage to say goodbye to Enrico and leave him in Shanghai, knowing that I would likely never see him again. But I didn’t cry because it felt done, I had cried so much already. I’d been wanting to do it for a long time, it was complete. And then I cried like a baby saying goodbye to our housekeeper Xiao Ping, my ‘big sister’ who had seen me through my loneliness and pain when Enrico was gone at work and I stayed home working hard at my first business (as a personal trainer and wellness coach, and not succeeding). Being in a relationship with the “wrong guy,” a Karmic Soulmate, seems to call in Soul Family–people who are here to teach you and help you grow. Some of the best friends in my life have come through supporting each other around our relationship issues!
Sometimes you gotta leave and it’s hard. You blame yourself. You have to forgive yourself for what you did then. You chose not to stay stuck in your pain. Celebrate your bravery–you got out!
You don’t need to punish yourself and stick around playing the Twin Flame Runner game: where time and time again you are heartbroken and hurt by men you think is your Twin Flame, or by crushes who don’t requite your love. I see my female clients doing this all the time. They hurt someone in the past so they subconsciously decide they deserve to be hurt rather than getting what they want.
You deserve a deep relationship, with true Twin Flame Love.
Gratitude is one of the biggest keys to attract your Twin Flame relationship
Here is the most important key to letting go of exes and moving into a Twin Flame vibration. It is to ask yourself: What did I learn from this relationship? Instead of putting your focus on how bad he hurt you, what it was like when you were so in love, how can you get him back…focus on what you learned. Maybe you learned that you want to not be abandoned, that you want your beloveds to stick around. Maybe you learned that you have more healing to do around being abandoned that came from your childhood. Perhaps you can learn to find partners who are on your spiritual level, versus finding fixer uppers and karmic soulmates. Here are the questions to ask in a mini 20-second exercise:
- Why did you attract this person?
- What did your relationship teach you?
- What will you NEVER do again?
- What did you enjoy about this relationship that you wish to carry on in the next?
- What were you grateful for about this relationship?
And here is a powerful affirmation to read over and repeat out loud or in your mind to help you clear past exes and attract your Twin Flame:
I’m grateful for all the seasons of the past – past-lives, past boyfriends, past hurts, and past loves.
Now that you have healed your heart chakra you are ready for your Flame! So now what!? Now that you have healed the past, what will you be grateful for in your next relationship? Your Twin Flame relationship!? Post in the comments below. And if you’re not sure, come join us for the free New Moon Raw Cacao Ceremony this month to help you set intentions and get clear on your Twin Flame intentions!
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Jun 3, 2015 | Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Signs |
Twin Flames Are Our Mirrors
The parts of ourselves that we love and hate are mirrored onto our Twin Flame.
Dang it! I thought when we found our Twin Flames we were going to live in a magic bubble and never have to deal with problems again.
In this post I want to underline how important it is to accept ourselves, and how the way I have rejected myself showed up in my Twin Flame relationship. I almost became the Twin Flame Runner that I so despised because I nearly rejected myself. I don’t want this for you!
Self-Rejection Shows up as Those Annoying Things About Your Twin Flame
I used to have body image issues. Still do. Which is why I projected that I needed a Twin Flame to be as hot as a conscious Ashton Kusher.
I thought I had to have a man like that to be happy in life. My Twin Flame, as it turned out, has reddish hair and a very red beard, which I was NOT expecting and it took me time to get used to. I’m picky! He’s not dark and tan like the man I always fantasized about. He gets sunburnt on Sundays at brunch. Before I met him, I was sure I had to have a tan muscle-man in order to feel satisfied.
Hogwash!
Believe me, my Twin Flame has a sexy body. Great arms, broad shoulders I can grab onto and sink my teeth in. But he’s real. He is man and God, but boy is there no escaping that he (like me) is a raw and real human.
I have never felt comfortable with my human body, and my Twin Flame often reflects my discomfort
He’s sexy and yet he’s human. Along with the orange beard, he’s got occasional breakouts on his back (sorry babe, hope I can share!). I’m like, “Babe, it’s time to do a back facial to get rid of that bacne! Boys are so lazy. How can you tolerate bacne?!” and he’s like “Woman, men don’t care about that $hit, leave me alone my back is fine.” Then I attack him with a back brush or yummy salt scrub–and he likes it because it reminds him of being groomed by his mother. We play-fight and it’s fun.
He’s teaching me to chill about my female primping and preening perfectionist tendencies!
What you thought you wanted wasn’t always real. The key pieces that were soul aligned came true:
- He’s beautiful inside and out
- He’s spiritually awake
- He has a heart of gold
- Our soul purposes align
- We love each other as God/Goddess
- Our desire for birthing star children aligns
Is it important that I look like Barbie or that he’ll be my Ken? Nahhhh.
Will Jack look like a GQ model always and forever? Sometimes he does actually, but as we turn gray some day together, I won’t care about the fact that he doesn’t always scrub his back. Plus, I am starting to get more cellulite and I have to love myself there.
What I am most excited about is the way that he makes me feel, and how I get to make him feel. I am an empath, and so is he; so it pays of to bliss each other out. We adore and love each other. We stick each other out in the hard ugly hairy scary moments.
What’s more is that I am so ready to collaborate deeply with our soul purposes in business, with the new earth eco village dreams I have had, and in raising children. What can I say is more sacred than these pieces? I am lucky, and proud that my Twin Flame is a perfect reflection of me and I will continue to do my very best to live myself and of course thus love him too!
by Dr Amanda Noelle | Jun 2, 2015 | Twin Flame Attraction, Twin Flame Love, Twin Flame Signs |
| Hi Beloved, I have an announcement… It feels exciting and scary to share with you here, but here goes: I finally unionized with my Twin Flame! It took me many long, harrowing, exciting, sad, scary, adventuresome years and lifetimes. But I finally let down my guard and was able to see the truth: Jack is my other half (well, more accurately, my Divine Mirror) and we’re diving into our Twin Flame Union! And I used this one simple secret over and over, and I know it’s what has paid off. It’s also what has worked for all of my Twin Flame clients, and was the only thing that kept my sanity when I was practically left at the altar by the man I thought was my Twin Flame. It’s called self-love. 
Seriously, I cannot over-emphasize this enough ladies: Twin Flame Love is merely a mirror of self-love. So self-love is the conduit for Twin Flame Love and Divine Love to flow. I want to share my video Self-Love Healing Hypnosis Meditation HERE!(You may have seen it before but it’s great to replay it). It will help you: - Clear away those gnarly self-hatred demons
- Establish a deep sense of self-love and Twin Flame Love
- Connect with your Higher Self so that you can empower yourself and others
- Heal out the past energies of violence, trauma, root chakra damage, and hatred of the feminine
It’s time to step into the most powerful energy that can hold you forever young, ’till death do us part, and for all eternity: self-love. 
XO, Dr. Amanda Noelle Founder of Aphrodite University 
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